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Nice one...the CEOs deserve the pay because they work very hard and don't forget that you are looking at the bright side of things, when it gets really 'dirty', the 'heads' of the CEOs are what would roll, not that of the assistant manager, so let them enjoy it while it lasts.

My utmost respect goes to her, may God bless her hustle; these are the kind of ladies I love- visionary, articulate, diligent, innovative, bold...just name it.

2special:
Street guys don't commit.... they don't care about people's emotions.... So, you're not a street guy....Pls Let her go, it hurt but let her go, she doesn't deserve all the unnecessary stress.

Lol...OP should confirm from Hush and Woodberry.

@OP: Please let her go, you just dodged a time bomb.

ethicallyright:
"A strong man doesn't have to be dominant toward a woman. He doesn't match his strength against a woman weak with love for him. He matches it against the world." - Marilyn Monroe.




Norma Jean, also Marilyn Monroe , was the Kardashian of the 60s. A sex figure she was - an innocent fine face, endowed with curly blonde hair and the slim figure 8 which were in Vogue few decades past. Many men who we would later define as simps ,fell at her feet and wished they could have just a night with the late thespian.

The quote above suggests that women do not love men who beg them for love. If he walked your flat ass out of his office and saw you as the flirt you are, you'd fall for him. If he didn't convert his job hours at the mall to a honey moon, the title of this thread could have been :

"I love my boss but he doesn't care"

or
" My boss is rich but doesn't love women. How do I make him notice and fall in love with me?"

We've warned these weak men consistently but they care little. Tell him to give you 5 million naira and thereafter tell him that he is " emotionally assaulting" you. Maybe he will learn this precious lesson the hard way.

Lucky lady, I give you my blessings!

Damn! Brilliant!

By just reading your post, I can tell my day has started well...

MummyIMadeIt:
How can a Nation grow when mediocres are been celebrated?

Shame!!

Madam, "Calm down"

13 years is a long time mehn, wish them all the best....thank God he didn't eventually turn her to "Lord of the rings"

J111333:
Lord have mercy.
Inasmuch as a lot of women cheat in marriages just like men too, a good percentage of the blame should also go to the nurses that swap babies by mistake or for monetary gains.

My brother, as a Nigerian, to avoid stories that touch, please give birth abroad and if you cannot afford it for now, please get a sane, competent and classy hospital in Naija with professionals.

Whether it's by mistake, omission or commission, the excuse that the baby might have been swapped is lame and unacceptable to any right thinking man.

Most people don't mind paying their taxes, the only annoying thing is that most of the funds are usually embezzled. That is the problem of black men.

Biofil84:
my friend there is nothing like mummy's boy here, the wife lack respect and I for one will not take it from her. This is me and my woman knows already, the first position of any woman in my life is my mother, my wife takes the 2nd position when my mum passes away at old age my wife takes that position ..I mean what I said.

You see when I was starked broke ladies avoided me like a plague but mum was there for me never left me once, consoled me and always assured me that things will be fine.

God forbid things go sour your wife can just wake up and run away, but mama will never run away, she is always there irrespective of situation..

Your wife can divorce you over a simple matter but mama can never leave she is mama till death.

You can get another wife but you can never get another mama.

Check it even armed robbers who are facing firing squad mama will still be there crying her eyes out but it will take the grace of God for wifey to be on ground.

My Mama remains my number one anyday anytime ...it doesnt diminish the love I have for my woman.

God bless you for this post bro...May God preserve the lives of our mothers till old age.

I love this man and wish to meet him, I don't mind supporting him financially in the pursuit of his dreams. I will find him out.

Passion is a very powerful force, it consumes you totally and like a wild fire, it burns in your soul destroying every obstacle on the way until you achieve that dream.

If you aren't passionate about something in life, you are as good as dead.

Get passionate, spark that fire.

May his soul rest in perfect peace but suicide is never an option, say NO to it.

Sometimes I wonder, "What can even make me commit suicide?", I'm yet to find an answer, let me ask few questions again:

- Is it false accusation of rape from 20 women? 20 is small, they should make themselves 50.

- Could it be debt? I borrowed $2B for business and lost it? $2B small, increase it to $5B, my mind has the capacity to absorb the pressure and tension.

- Could it be detection of cancer in my body? They are free to detect 6 more.

- Could it be the loss of a loved one? 4 more can join them.

- Could it be heartbreak? Vodka & tonic will fix that in the meantime till I get a replacement.

- Could it be an amputated body? The surgeon can come back to amputate more.

- Could it be extreme poverty? I'm ready to shine shoes and hawk on the streets.

- Could it be rejection from Family and Friends? I will make money and channel it towards the less privileged and make them my Family, afterall, not all biological families are meant to be, some can't even stand the presence of one another.

.... thinking......still thinking.....

- Could it be impotence? I will adopt children and give them the best of life, meanwhile I will keep smashing for the pleasure derived from it.

- Could it be long prison sentence? I will go and come back even if it's when I'm 85years old, as long as I don't die there, and even if I do, it's all good.

Just think about it; suicide should not be an option, there is always a way out, please seek help if you need to.

Kontinu Dear Senators and Polithiefcians, one day, one day, bushmeat go catch the hunter, it's only a matter of time.

Norano:
In reality lots of men take back cheating wives, I have seen it happen lots of time. On the internet they will send a cheating wife packing immediately.
So...

No insults but only people who suffer from horrific hallucinations talk this way

postmann:
The simple answer is no. Because men are not wired to accept that. Once there is coital violation on the part of the woman, then the mariage is mentally, psychologically and romantically over. I deliberately left out the spiritual part in order to stay aligned within the scope of this section.

The woman's sexual organ is sacred and should never be violated by another man in marriage. It is taboo.

Gbam!

Well said bro.

What the Academy is doing is clearly wrong and unethical but I see the journalists as having sinister motives, their report has more than meets the eye. I think they've got personal scores to settle with the owner of the school.

jerseyboy:
Rickety bridge for rickety nation.

Is this not the man that caused and is still causing the problems of a country called Nigeria?

How we wish he could resurrect to see the calamity and collosal damage he is causing a country because of his wrong decision....damn.

Sunnymatey:
Why detain him?

He came on his own to report the incident.

Highest would ve been to take his statement and ask him to avail himself whenever he's needed for questioning.

Would you have said the same if the deceased (God forbid) was your sister?

Sometimes I wonder if I was under a spell when I voted for this Buhari, to even remember how vigorously I campaigned for and supported him on some of my social media platforms is saddening.

Anyway, this mistake has been made, next time, we would not be deceived with the hogwash of 'integrity' or any other nonsensical jargon or slogan for that matter.

...and for those still supporting him, I pray the evil he is busy dishing out does not befall you or any of your loved ones before you come to the full realization of the calamity we have as the head of this government...and by the way, I heard Nigeria added 600 'new graduates' to her arsenal of intellectuals today, courtesy 'operation safe corridor' proudly supported by the presidency, I also heard their outfits were all white and shiny, a big congrats to all us.

This is brilliant...may he keep up the good work and get recognized and rewarded at his own time. Kudos to him.

Wizywiz:
She was 19 years older

That wasn't a relationship bro...she was your sugar mummy...lol

@OP: May God bless your union.

baiaon:
When you first met her,she was in the age bracket of 22 to 23years old.She must have had alot of suitors and options.Hence her nasty attitude towards you because you weren't her spec.Fast forward 3 years and the suitors and options have dried up hence her desire to get married as soon as possible to any available option that's why you see her cooking,sweeping and other bullshit that easily impresses Nigerian men
If you eventually marry her,she will change back to her nasty attitude when you first met her.Classic bait and switch

Damn, you are meant to be a Prof.

coputa:
No wealth that crosses the billion naira mark is gotten from a clean source,they all have black spots.

Please erase this mentality, it won't help you go far in life (no insults)

I thought people usually have sense or buy one after going through lots of deprivation in life but in Hush Puppy's case, he became confoundingly stupid, no legit source of income yet you show off so much, dumb-ass. That 20 years is not even enough to reset his brain and mind, I think the number of years should be extended. #saynotocrime#.

I have never been a fan of this show but unfortunately I have now been arm-twisted to kinda pay attention to it this season, not for any reason but because of my love for my no.1 celebrity in Nigeria- Don Jazzy.... he's just a great dude whom I greatly love and respect.... so, let's go there...

Rest in peace brave, innovative, resilient, young, entrepreneurial and brilliant mind & soul. May justice be found in your case.

boye1:
Yes you can get your money back, How easy it would be, depends on when you sent the money though. I know the value might seems so small but it's not about the value but the fact that this scammers are destroying the Nigeria Brand and we're all emboldening criminals that will destroy us all in the nearest future.

There is a CBN policy on this and the process you can use is called funds recall. Send an email to your bank if this was done within the last 14days there will be a hold on the account for the said amount. It is more easier if its within the same banking infrastructure. If it was over 14 days the bank auditors will have to mediate and if you don't like the resolution you can then report it as fraud to your nearest police station then take a copy of the police report to the bank and there would be a hold on the BVN number.

I hope this helps you and many others in future

If you want to educate yourself you can find a link below to the CBN policy for further reference.

https://www.cbn.gov.ng/Out/2018/BPSD/Regulation%20on%20Instant%20Payment.pdf

In my opinion, what the OP experienced cannot be categorized as fraud because there was mutual consent and no force or cajoling was applied.

OP willingly transferred the funds but the recipient had 'an unforseen occurrence' which made her coming impossible, unfortunately, the funds were applied by the beneficiary to 'save a life'; that's the story.

A good example: Can you sue or follow up on a case where someone fleeced you of your hard-earned money by promising you fixed matches? Think about it.

@OP: Like most people mentioned, you have been scammed, just forget about the money and move on.

Some of us have fallen for this scam before, it would only make you wiser.....that was many years ago anyway.

@OP: We hope you are either on that list or aspire to be in the nearest future...

@OP: I unobliviously lost millions of naira to football bets many years ago and sure regretted my actions. I admitted it was a bad habit I had to quit and just like all bad habits, quitting is mostly done gradually.

How did I stop or drastically change? I stopped seeing it as a money-making venture and switched to playing for fun, I stopped using large sums of money to play. I simply starting using 'peanuts' to play and if I lost it, I would not feel bad. Since it was not a do or die affair and I wasn't trying to recover my lost funds, the habit stopped taking my time and interest.

To cut short the long story, please stop seeing it as a profit-generating business and don't try to recover lost funds. If you must play, play with inconsequential amounts and before you realize it, you will have lost interest.

May God heal you.

EngineerBode:
People will not see the .

That means $600k

Over N200m

Cool

'Chicken change', I'm so disappointed, go check out how much Floyd Mayweather earns after each fight.

So not true. It's just a gimmick to make you remove the mask so your face can be captured.