₦airaland Forum

Biglittlelois:
But you trust your wife enough to have kids by her, but to will her something or make her a trustee administrator to whatever you give your kids is now a problem? Evil sets of males abound in our society these days.

Like the females up there who is spoiling for women's husbands to die without a will so they can inherit the properties. Maybe even help quicken their death. If these are their thoughts, I shudder to think what will happen if their names are in the will. Evil meets evil I guess or everybody looking out for their interest?

Anyway, I said I trust anybody apart from my kids. I don't understand why you narrowed it down to a wife...

My kids will be the sole beneficiaries of my will with a trustee as the administrator. I don't trust anybody that is not my kid

CHoccolaTE:
Sure. I support.

As long a women have children that bear their own surnames and live with the mothers family. That is very ideal.

Like in Akan cultures where the child bears the surname of the mother. Better for the child to answer the name of the man who raised the woman to be a well rounded and respectable adult than bearing the name of someone than wants his mother to be provider and be obedient slave at the same time.

Well the woman should get her father to impregnant her then...

Nice thread for those who want to get married. Na babymama and babypapa things sure pass...

The only Nigerian footballer that doesn't have football age

chloride6:
Fruit of the poison tree also known as inadmissible evidence..

FYI, your MAC address stops at L2..

Your MAC address can also be spoofed as it is not protected by any cryptographic protocol.

You can get the MAC if you are connected to the same LAN. All you need is the IP and you do a reverse address mapping. There are tools that can do that for you. The person that got the info was connected to the LAN somehow...

Ishilove:
Start what you finished. That is how people nearly used mouth to push me into registering for a PHD.

Thank God I didn't listen.

I don't have an option o. PHD is for inventors. Any PHD holder that didn't invent something is a joker to me... Stubbornness pays atimes.

I feel depressed whenever I'm studying for my CISA certification. The materials are so boring it makes me want to tug angrily at my beards. I don't even know which spirit possessed me to register for the course..

If it's during menstruation, NO. After that maybe...

Nothing...

Would never tell anybody how much I earn

The person that robbed you will take the money

Nice writeup but all these allegations againt R Kelly doesn't hold water until he is actually convicted of committing the crime...

Why not just destroy the car instead of harbouring suicidal thoughts?

Money. Lots of money

Just dont be crazy and she would have to like sex a lot

The day I share my pic here is the day my village people have succeeded in their quest

To my two ex female bosses, I will never forget the positive impact you ladies made in my life. I had a wonderful experience working with you ladies...

To my ex girlfriend, even though we are currently enemies, I wish you well in your endeavours...

To the babe I'm currently eyeing, thanks for the delicious meals. As you continue to have the patience to deal with a queer guy like me, I promise to declare my intention soon...

Mindfulness:
Everything that the doctor can tell him without his wife being there with him is online. SIMPLES.
For specific information, she must come with him. Kapish?

Ok my lady, please point him to the right direction online, while I try to do same offline. That is all he is asking for.

bamirotola:
Thanks to all the advise here....and bro thanks for understanding me well....I just hope most ladies learn to read content with full understanding before being vindictive with their comment.

I love my wife well and can never love her less .. Who knows if she's not personally happy with d breast as most ladies here ain't comfy with dia breast saggy

I asked for solution options and WC surgery being part of it... I even asked for herbal remedy! But vindictive touts here won't see that!

Of course I intend discussing it with her! ..

Thanks y'll once again for the advise I appt ..

They never will. It is in their nature and not necessarily a bad thing. Just that in order to develope a clear thought process, it is advisable to boycott there opinion on certain things. Wish you the best...

Mindfulness:
Of course, he is in the information gathering stage. The decision will not be made without his wife. He can't force new boobies on her without her. BUT all the information available to him is online, for the rest, his wife needs to go with him. The doctor must see the patient to determine which procedure would be the most appropriate for her (there are plenty) and accordingly how much it would cost. So much for do not ask females to give their opinions.

Nairaland men have become boob job experts this 2018.

So what's your grouse with what I wrote? Is it that I mentioned the most suitable avenue to get the information he wants since the women will not and will never assist him? Just as you have an inkling and has refused to assist?

I never claimed to be a boob job expert and never will. I'm sure no nairaland male here did. I'm merely pointing him to the real boob job experts and those who have done it before, who are most likely to be willing to share holistic information on the subject without him having to endure unrelated rantings and guilt trippings

JoannaSedley:
Imagine your wife making enquires and booking appointments for you to enlarge your pen!s behind your back?
All this men giving him this type of advises must be married to dummies.

How is making enquiry about enlarging a man's dick different from other numerous enquiries women make without involving their male partners? Is it because a dick is involved? Men are not that fickle minded about their body.

Mindfulness:
How will a doctor discuss the surgery and the cost of it without seeing the patient? If he wants to do some research without his wife in the beginning, he can visit the clinic's website. I don't think any doctor will take him serious if he shows up without his wife for his wife's boobs job.

You are funny.

Na. If you were thinking like he was you would have known that this is not a decision making stage. This is information gathering stage. It is at this stage he decides if it is something worth giving a shot or not. Information on clinic's website is usually succint, thus not an efficient information gathering tool. Whatever information he gathered will determine how he is going to approach the problem. Ie whether to discuss it with his wife or not. If he decides he wants to, the best way to do that.

As regards to doing research without his wife consent, he is already making his research without discussing with his wife by coming here and the lots commenting here have never seen his wife either. So you have never purchased a product by first doing a market survey? The same scenario applies here.

I won't even advice he notify his wife at this stage. If whatever he finds out is something he thinks both can live with, then he can approach his wife and present it in such a way that it will be beneficial to her and to her alone, without intimating her that he had researched about it.

The comments from the women is the reason men shouldn't seek advice from women. They will never give you a solution. Just rantings and guilt trippings.

OP, this is how you should have approached this issue:
You shouldn't have tabled your case like this here. What you should have asked is simply location to. qualified cosmetic surgeons within your area of coverage. Get sample addresses and proceed to the locations. Meet with the selected surgeons and get every minute details on the treatment. They are the CORRECT source of advisement on the subject matter. Not the people here. You can even request for a list of their clients and speak to them personally before making your decision. Cheers

Was it before or after he sponsored Buhari to power?

This one ugly oh. She get luck sey she fair. But in the spirit of xmas make I know you. Enjoy yourself.

To those peeps complaining up there, na customers they wan retain, them no dey run charity organisation. You go to people you think you can get business from. When you own a business you will understand. For now go dey watch telemundo abeg....

Where e dey vex me be say them no go share am for Dana airline. At least e for reach me...

Bros, how do you want your coffin made?

Marriage is a burden people agree to bear and you have to be a superman to achieve success with a burden on your shoulder.

In light of the above I lend my agreement to the notion that being single is advantageous to success...

One of us has to know how to cook and I don't know how to cook....

My sperm is for sell. No wanking...

Depends on how skillful she was.