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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Don’t Be Afraid Of Hiring Someone With ZERO Experience. by YourCoffin: 2:08pm On Jul 25
Until the person crashes your servers you will understand why experience is important.

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Family / Re: My Wife Don't Want To Help My Younger Sister. Is She Being Heartless? by YourCoffin: 5:21pm On Mar 21
If you are the one that funded the business and you are not getting any ROI from it then you shouldn't pay her anything. If she refuses, return the favour by making sure you gain something before helping any of her relatives or friends.


Family / Re: Should He Divorce Her? by YourCoffin: 7:17am On Jan 01
The woman should divorce the man sef. He doesn't have sense.
Family / Re: Am I Overthinking This Or I Really Have A Bad Wife by YourCoffin: 8:40pm On Dec 13, 2021

Well, I believe she can still redeem herself. She made a mistake once and it is not enough to condemn or write her off as a bad person.

Remember that the op typed that she always buys him stuff, so I don’t think she’s stingy. Probably irresponsible.

What she needs to do is to start working and earning money, so that she can start contributing and being responsible for her family, because that is the only way she can earn her husband’s respect.
And if I were her, with a husband like the op, I wouldn’t want his money to establish myself, because he’s the kind of person that will most likely going to always remind me that I owe my success to him.

Well you are also condemning the man. Why can't I do the same to the woman? Ordinary one night feeding money she no gree bring na contribution she go come do? The husband isn't even asking her for money. He was in a bad spot just for a night and she couldn't pick up the slack even when she has. Lord knows I can't be with that kind of person. It is not a mistake. It is the kind of person she is. It doesn't mean there are no other good sides to her, which is why I didn't advise the OP to throw away the baby with the bath water. I only said he should look out for himself.

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Family / Re: Am I Overthinking This Or I Really Have A Bad Wife by YourCoffin: 6:42pm On Dec 13, 2021

You and your cohorts would rather he divorce her right?

I only said he should start saving for his future. If he was dropping 100% of his income for family expenses, he should reduce it to 50. Invest the remaining for his future. Otherwise he will hear wee when he gets old and can't earn as much as he currently does

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Family / Re: Am I Overthinking This Or I Really Have A Bad Wife by YourCoffin: 6:31pm On Dec 13, 2021

I wouldn’t even say she’s stingy because according to the op, she always buys him stuff whenever she goes out.
I think it is a case of her still learning how to be a wife. They are a new couple.
As one of the commenters rightly commented, she still treats her husband like a boyfriend.
She also believes it is his sole responsibility to take care of her as his wife.
What she did was wrong, yes, but it was not enough to condemn and term her a bad person.
She needs to be given the chance to redeem herself.

I blame the op for discussing and allowing all kinds of people type sh!t about his wife. And he was foolishly agreeing with them crucifying his wife.
A woman he should protect. A woman he sleeps and cuddles with. The mother of his child.

Talk about an enemy within! God forbid bad husband!

He should protect someone who would rather he starve than drop money for feeding? Uchu gbakwa.

Op better start saving for your future because you are alone.

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Investment / Re: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by YourCoffin: 6:03pm On Dec 03, 2021
Hello everyone,

Where can someone invest 100k for a year?
And how much return can one get?

My dear use the money and shop nkwobi
Pets / Re: Help!!! My Dog Is Dying by YourCoffin: 5:57pm On Nov 27, 2021
Buy another one na.
Family / Re: Can Your Wife Manage Your Home If You Cease To Exist? by YourCoffin: 9:34pm On Nov 19, 2021
How does that affect the dead man?
Family / Re: Is This A Must?? by YourCoffin: 9:41pm On Oct 14, 2021
I am an advocate of men not taking up burden they can't afford to carry. If he allows his wife he will die of HBP and penniless. He made a mistake by marrying the lady. He can correct it by divorcing her since he is not benefiting anything.

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Business / Re: Mobil Filling Station, ₦10,000 & POS Wahala: How Can I Resolve This Issue? by YourCoffin: 1:28pm On Jun 24, 2021
Normally POS transactions are settled to the merchant's account in T+1 days. They are not settled as the transaction occur. Rather a lump sum representing several transaction can be paid to thier account which is why it is difficult for them trace it on their account statement. However, banks usually share records breaking down the individual transactions with the merchant which is what they can use to trace the transaction.

Now what to do

There are transaction numbers printed on POS receipts. I think about three of them. Most times the numbers are unique for each POS transaction. Compare the two reciepts to ensure that they are bearing the same numbers. If they are not, then you have been scammed. If they are the same then the filling station should be able to trace it on the records their bank shared with them to confirm the true status of the transaction.

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Family / Re: Please Help, My Toddler Always Wants To Pass Through Uncomfortable Places by YourCoffin: 5:02pm On May 27, 2021
Why are you bothered? It is a useful skill in case he finds himself in prison or kidnapper's den. He could wiggle himself out.
Family / Re: Why Don't Men Talk About This With Their Wives? by YourCoffin: 11:57am On May 23, 2021
Where in the world have you seen a woman handle a man's burden? Men would rather discuss it among themselves because that's the only way they can get a solution.

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Family / Re: I Feel Very Guilty Whenever I Have Sex by YourCoffin: 10:40am On May 02, 2021
If you feel guilty after having sex why don't you feel guilty after eating? Both activities are legal responses to natural callings. You are the only one in your head.
Celebrities / Re: Mercy Eke: No Man Is Responsible For My Success by YourCoffin: 5:31pm On Apr 17, 2021
Like sey we no watch BBN wey mumu gangsta wannabe Iyke help you win at his own detriment. That's why it is not good to help a woman at your own detriment. You will be forgotten.

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Family / Re: A Male Child Or Female(which Is More Important) by YourCoffin: 10:07pm On Mar 27, 2021
In terms of cost, male child. So anything that requires you spending less to gain more is always better
Family / Re: Don't Ever Curse Your Country by YourCoffin: 7:54pm On Mar 22, 2021
So I shouldn't curse the country tha produced the person that wrote this nonsense? No allow me curse you join.
Politics / Re: ACF Asks Union To Lift Ban On South-bound Food by YourCoffin: 9:54am On Mar 03, 2021
They learnt it from Awolowo. The war strategy invented by a region is being used on the same region. What an irony.

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Romance / Re: My Pre-wedding Photos by YourCoffin: 2:38pm On Feb 24, 2021
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by YourCoffin: 9:54am On Feb 21, 2021

Well, I don't necessarily have erections but I find them attractive as compared to girls. I have been crushing on a couple of people and they are mostly guys. I am plain tired of this ordeal. I just want a healing. I want to love women and crush on them and marry and have children and leave boys alone.

Healing? You are imposing sickness on yourself. Why force yourself to be attracted to those you don't find attractive? Be true to yourself and you will recieve the healing you crave
Family / Re: How Can I Stop Feeling So Much Attraction To Same Sex. by YourCoffin: 9:41am On Feb 20, 2021
Op clarify if you prefer the company of guys or you have erection when in their company.

Anyway, there nothing wrong with you. If you are attracted to kids or animals then there is a problem


Family / Re: Our Men Are Gradually Becoming Gold Digger by YourCoffin: 5:43pm On Feb 04, 2021
They ask first to know if the lady is a kidnapper, makeup artist or prostitute.

On a second thought what exacrly would a man be doing with a jobless girl?


Family / Re: Christianity Is Anti Modern-feminism And Red Pill by YourCoffin: 10:16am On Jan 31, 2021
The clash of three philosophies. The best option is either to adopt none or that which suits your agenda.

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Family / Re: What's The Most Important Thing A Mother Can Do For Her Children ? by YourCoffin: 9:17am On Jan 09, 2021
Never pass another man as the child's father
Family / Re: How Much Is The Cost Of A DNA Paternity Test In Nigerian Hospitals? by YourCoffin: 12:33pm On Jan 02, 2021

Yes I meant the father's name too. I've corrected it.They don't do DNA tests routinely before issuing birth certificates in the US. Paternity fraud is also something they see over there regularly too.
You can get one done if you want, before you sign/ they put your name as the father on the birth certificate though.

We are saying the same thing na. Over there a father requesting for a DNA test before signing on a birth certificate is an accepted process. Here it is considered an abomination which is what I am against

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Family / Re: How Much Is The Cost Of A DNA Paternity Test In Nigerian Hospitals? by YourCoffin: 12:05pm On Jan 02, 2021

You made it sound like DNA test must be done before the father name can be written on the birth certificate.

You guys got me wrong then. I said normally and not mandatory.

Normal means it is an accepted procedure.
Family / Re: How Much Is The Cost Of A DNA Paternity Test In Nigerian Hospitals? by YourCoffin: 12:01pm On Jan 02, 2021

Which US? grin grin

Are there two US?
Family / Re: How Much Is The Cost Of A DNA Paternity Test In Nigerian Hospitals? by YourCoffin: 12:00pm On Jan 02, 2021

That's not true.
DNA tests are not normally carried out before a child's name is on the birth certificate in the US.
You as a man can insist on paying for one before appending your signature on the form for applying for the birth certificate though, usually if you're unmarried to the mother and you have your doubts.

I didn't say a child's name. I said the father's name. If the father chooses not to do DNA testing it won't be done.
Family / Re: How Much Is The Cost Of A DNA Paternity Test In Nigerian Hospitals? by YourCoffin: 11:58am On Jan 02, 2021

You don't say, and yet we see more cases of paternity fraud mostly from the abroad than any other place, the doctors were probably dumb to forget about DNA testing innit?

The doctors are not the ones to insist on it. The fathers are and they are usually the ones to fund it. Anyone falling a victim of paternity fraud their either could not fund the DNA testing or chose to trust his partner.
Family / Re: How Much Is The Cost Of A DNA Paternity Test In Nigerian Hospitals? by YourCoffin: 11:53am On Jan 02, 2021

A DNA is carried out before a father name written on birth certificate undecided America has the highest amount of Paternity fraud in the world

Yes because the fathers chose not to do the test before appending their names on the certificate
Family / Re: How Much Is The Cost Of A DNA Paternity Test In Nigerian Hospitals? by YourCoffin: 9:17am On Jan 02, 2021
I don't know why Nigerians especially the women see DNA testing as an abomination. It should have been a normal procedure by now. In the US before a father's name is appended on a child's birth certificate, a DNA test is usually carried out. Same thing should be applicable here.

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Family / Re: Baby Mamas: Why Men Will Suffer The Consequences In The End by YourCoffin: 12:29am On Dec 23, 2020
Oga the old men you see were married men that got abandoned by their wives and kids. There was nothing like baby mamas during their younger years or abi you no dey think before you write?


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