That is why it's better to buy a sex doll than to get married...

So? I have the same set of eyes

Baba is just wasting his time.

Does it mean no alimony payments and property sharing incase of dissolution of partnership?

PrincessB1:

How is the combination deadly

When the husband shoots you the wife will refuse to treat you

It will only get better. Similar here though I had an uncle who paid for first year tuition, then I became close to a lecturer who gave me a room in his BQ. Second year I got a scholarship and now I'm paying people's school fees.

So apply for scholarships and make friends and you will get there

Nice voice but wack music

K

EmirAbj:
This is why Islam is the best, let's wait and see if such a gesture will be seen during xmas

It's better not to give at all than to give and then blow them up later

Wetin concern dead man with neat towel. The spirits run away from neat things and I need the spirits...

Just find devil beans and spray it on your bed and sofa. Only that you too go suffer am but it's a small price to pay

Who pays the bills despite both of them working?

I will teach my child how to drive

This is one of the problem. To pass across a message you wrote a bible full of condemnation. Tueh

This is the best time to divorce before somebody kill somebody. The stench of frustration is reeking seriously from both of you...

No stab am later o

It means it's time for hallucinations.....

Chai. Make I go block one lucky babe wey go prepare this one for us.. It sucks not to know how to cook

Sorry I can't do anything for you if you are not in Lagos. I can't send money but I can take you to a restaurant and you eat to your satisfaction...

You sure say no be woman write bible?

Why is it not good for a man to be alone?

The words in the bible are mostly devoid of logical thinking

Do you know which group that passes across a message and expect you not to interpret it logically?

If something looks fishy, it's fishy?

Which of the group can survive alone and which can't?

dmg1:
sharrapdia

E be like say you wan make ur blockos fail you tomorrow?

Wetin this guy talk sef?

pcguru1:


Why ? Just outta curiosity , I've never heard if this that's why am asking

Nothing. No legal obstacles. Just that I don't advocate court marriage for men....

You can marry her but not in court.

The thing don tire me. Na so I just dey pay dstv guys everytime the wind blow to reposition my dish. Now after last night wind no signal again. I go just vex one day remove everything

Pavore9:


The judiciary system do give a man right to have access to his kid, depending on the presenting issue shared custody do come in and in some instance a man can get sole custody if he can prove beyond reasonable doubt that the woman's active presence in the child's life is detrimental to the child's well-being.

You didn't answer my question. You just gave an utopian description of the court process, which is very far from reality especially when aggrieved and vindictive women are abound.

Pavore9:


Forget about the "no man can abandon a good and loving wife" or haven't you seen or heard about some men who have done so to such wives and went on with other women only to come back years later with their exhausted self wanting to reconcile with the "witch" and the children he abandoned because of the hatred he had for their mother?

I don't support pregnancy being the reason for marriage but my issue here is why should a man reject to cater for a child he sired in as much he is not comfortable with the mother?

When a woman is using their child as a weapon against a man and in conjunction with the judiciary system prevents the man from having access to his kid, what should the man do?

I suspect you're jobless cos that's the only reason you are tolerating this.

By the way when you are around, do you guys have sex? How do you guys do it?

oyb:


not necessarily. naija women, especially the older generations can be sexually repressed/ conservative

I don't think his wife is from older generation and you will be amazed what Naija women are willing to partake in behind airtight closed doors. Most don't know if they want it until they experience it

Mindfulness:


Respect! No mentally healthy male would want his partner to sleep with him by force. S.ex is to be enjoyed and not endured. It is not a duty (as our Bible warriors would want us to think) but the physical manifestation of love or at least attraction. Having said that, I do not believe your wife has told you the real reason for why she is no longer interested in the act. I understand you feel offended but I think she did not mean to insult you but rather lied to you in order not to hurt you or it could be that she herself does not know the reason. Maybe! I do not know her and I cannot know what is going on inside her head but the reason she has given is not plausible at all.

There are several reasons why she could experience a decline in her libido:
1. Stress
2. Menopause (some women hit the age very early)
3. Hormonal imbalance (consult a doctor, also check for thyroid dysfunction)
4. Weight gain (she feels unattractive and retreats)
5. No work out (endurance training --> positive effect on blood circulation --> higher supply with blood in the genitals --> increased libido)
6. Circumcision (sex is painful)
7. Atmosphere (women need the right environment to relax and get into the mood)
8. Your personal hygiene (I doubt there is a problem though 'cause you seem to have enjoyed very good home training )
9. Relationship issues (you know best)
10. Medications (Does she take any pills that could lead to a decrease in her libido? Look at the patient information leaflet.)

Discuss the possible reasons with her, in most cases it is a combination of factors. Where there is a problem, there is a solution. Violence is not one of them but you already know that sir! Once again, respect for refusing to follow some nonsensical advice.

Sex is a duty in marriage. Lack of it can be used as legal grounds to grant annulment of marriages, hence it's a duty.

Bros do you engage in cunnilingus? If not try it. One lick will reset your wife's brain.

Thank God you have realized what ugly people do: they write, not seen on screen.