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new2020:
A lot of people don't know what is happening in Japan. I have a Japanese friend few yrs ago told me what's happening in Japan during a visit with my family. The men in Japan are deciding not to have anything to do with their women anymore. They don't chase their women anymore...Japanese women do the chasing now. This guy told that this started when Japanese women started embracing western culture, feeling as though they can replace men natural role as the head of the family with the "strong and independent" mantra ubiquitous in western countries today. Followed by playing hard and difficult to get...wanting their men to be overly financially stable, handsome, tall enough, have a car, a house, a high paying job before he can even get a chance to get a date with the women let alone sleeping. This infuriated the Japanese men, and they began a movement called " Herbivore Men" similar to what is called MGTOW in western countries...meaning, Men Going Their Own Way. In other words, there is more to. life than women; they are no longer interested in women...chikena! They started to boycott women; won't date women nor sleep with them. They refused to even participate in pornography industry...remember there was an article on this l on nairaland in march. Link: https://www.nairaland.com/2308362/japanese-porn-industry-hit-shortage

The Japanese men are vowing not to have anything to do with their women until western gynocentric/feminist culture which they see as a threat to their society is brought down. This MGTOW-style movement is strong in Japan than any country in the world. Even young men as 18 don't have a girlfriend; doesn't care to have one nor is he interested in sex. He prefers being a virgin; worst case he goes home and masturbate. He dresses how he wants to dress; he can wear the same clothes for days, he doesn't shave...I mean they don't acknowledge women validation any more. They are more focused on their careers, school, sports, playing video games, financial independence...save their money and live modest lives. If a woman needs help...like for example her car breaks down on the road, the men will just drive by and pretend they didn't see her. The message they are sending is...since you have embraced western, feminist culture and think you can replace the natural position of men, that's fine, but be prepared to do these traditional men jobs yourself.


What has this done to the Japanese society? Marriage and birth rate are all time low. Which has the government and older generation worried...they have never seen anything like this before. Women now chase men. Women are now begging men to date them. Most women are tired of being alone. Some are even paying to sleep with men. It's crazy in Japan I tell you. The same movement is making gain in US now. Research about MGTOW! Men in general are no longer interested in modern women. Men as old as 40 have no wife or girlfriend. If he wants sex...he masturbates or pay for an escort. That's it...all they are saying is, we want nothing to do with modern women.

Google about Japanese Herbivore men. I did a research on this last yr...that's why I'm very knowledgeable about it. I took my time to put this in context; explain this because someone who reads the OP article will just assume something is wrong with the men especially with the article not providing reason why this is happening; NO Nothing is wrong with them, they have had a enough of today's women and choosing to be celibate by choice!

I thought I was alone in this line of thought of boycotting 'feminist ladies of today'. After a thorough analysis I discovered that it was virtually impossible to do Nigeria. It helped me to identify our basic problem as black people which is lack of a strong communal resolve to stick to a common agreement so as to pass a strong message to our targets.
Now back to the topic. I applaud the Japanese men for their cooperation to correct the evil virus called feminism which will end up destroying their society. It is with a strong sacrifice that they are going about it. Imagine seeing a very beautiful girl of your taste but letting her go just for a communal agreement. This really proves a point that when men stick together in agreement nothing can be impossible. But I must say something here: the elders and government should step in on time before diminishing returns sets in. Japan might be on self destruct mode.

Anything to bring this Nigeria to her knees is welcome

zendy:
Quite true. In the olden days, there were no kings in Igbo land. Villages were autonomous and were run by a council of elders or "Ichies" who made decisions. Even this council had no leader. It was the British that appointed the first warrant Chiefs in Igbo land That culture of having no leaders or kings in Igbo land still lives with Igbos till today and it's one of the reasons Igbos find it hard to conform to authority.

This your response is not entirely true. O yes a greater part of Igboland had no kings nor do we have a general king that oversaw the whole land but some pockets of communities had kings. Example of such communities are: Nri kingdom (can't remb his name), Onitsha kingdom (with Obi Aroli.) Agbor kingdom(can't remb his name), Aboh kingdom(Obi Ossai) and King Jaja of Opobo. These ones you can confirm from research works on the internet. The Europeans met them that was before full colonization.

phlemzy:
If one of them falls off accidentally now,I wonder what he'll be remembered for.

PSquare's 'Super fan' will be played for him. He will be remembered for being a great fan who risked his life just to watch a match than risk his life for the good of his life and future. As some people will say: yeye dey smell.

Nigeria will reap the evil she has sown. Let all brace up for the forthcoming challenge. May God help His people.

discusant:
Because they are not good at using extreme violence.

I don't extreme violence is the problem. The most bloody coup was the Orkar coup so I think another reason is behind it.

An evil contraption where human lives are valueless. Imagine how lives are being wasted carelessly. Is there anything to be proud of from Nigeria? Patients dying like flies because health workers are on strike. Marauders slaughtering scores of people and destroying communities and we move on as though nothing happened. Preventable accidents killing tens of people and nobody pays for it because no one wants to take responsibility for any occurrence. Politicians loot billions and the stupid masses worship them but find it easy to attack a hungry man who stole only a bread for a single meal. A sick and wicked empire whose sin will find it out at the fullness of time. We are watching.

Why is that all the coups planned by 'Christians' didn't succeed? Any well thought out reason?

Emekamex:
The fulanis especially Buhari never forgives.

Its not about any forgiveness. Did the SE do any one wrong? No! He buhari is just displaying what he's made of. We're just watching him. We don't beg.

Mogidi:
You're arguing from the stand point of an anarchist.
You paint other lga as aliens, your perspective is shallow, look at the bigger picture. Are you happy now that the bulk of your resources ends up in the north?

Exactly how I perceive him from his write ups in this thread. His fear is that the Igbo will come and take away the resources from his people so let's just remain the way we are. Managing and managing until That's where his vision ends. He fails to see the bigger picture. I strongly believe that he 'Hopeathand' has not lived in other regions outside southern Nigeria. If he has his mentality would have changed. Its his type that will willingly sabotage our struggles and this we must take care of. I do hope he sees the bigger picture before the time of the reclamation of our freedom comes. I really hope.

dearpreye:
We just change the system and most of our issues will go away. Do we have that courage or will? I very much doubt that.

Its virtually impossible to meet a man that would willingly give up a system that gives him undue advantage over others without a fight. This is the reality about the usurpers of our freedom in our land. This is the situation about our oppressors in Nigeria. They will never accept to a restructuring of the contraption without a fight. Since a fight must be fought then when and how to go about it is what must be critically thought out and planned. We must identify who our real enemies are and gradually weed out those with sabotaging tendencies within our ranks. We must not dwell on assumptions and our strategies should be wholistic. We should identify our enemies allies and send a strong message to them to keep them at bay so as to isolate them. But above all things the timing is very critical to our envisaged success. Let me stop here. One thing is sure: our oppressors and their allies will NEVER reason with us without a forceful demand from us. This I'm very certain of.

And this is the Nigeria some people are proud of. What a shame.

ikelvin:
The former Rivers state governor paid a visit to President Buhari at Aso Rock today July 10th...

http://lindaikeji..com/2015/07/photo-ex-gov-rotimi-amaechi-visits-pres.html?m=1

In time to come Amaechi will see the consequence of his folly. We're watching as you help those who don't want your progress set fire on your homeland. We don't speak of what we don't know. We are watching.

dearpreye:
Seriously, that thread was penned with the highest inspiration and love I've felt in weeks, and it didn't involve name calling or hate words. Nigeria simply Hayes truth but someone's gonna tell them the truth.

I pleaded I be given the opportunity to modify where I broke the rules, but I'm yet to get a reply. What impudence!

And I wrote it on the move; I have no copy of it. Very painful.

When I say death to this Nigeria many fail to understand. What inspires such statements is the fact that Nigerians hate truth. I say again: death to anyone who hates truth. Death to this Nigeria.

I'll come to this thread later.

One thing I know for sure is that God will see the Prophet through this tough situation. All things worketh for God unto they that love God.

There's a need for confirmation. Let those who have contact to wardens of the prison confirm it. We ought not to take any chance. Security is the collective duty of all.

While God is our divine protector what plans do you have on ground to defend yourselves against any sudden attack like the message said? Ignoring messages like this especially with the recent transfer of bh members down south means only one thing daftNess. We are watching.

There's is no need for any panic. Just register your displeasure by organizing a peaceful protest. If the buhari govt refuses to heed to your request then withdraw and engage plan B. Should anything happen to any of the our people in the guise of any jail break then heads will roll. Let some militia monitor the facility from now hence forth and do the needful in the course of any eventuality.
Buhari your plans will never work.

They are gradually revealing their true nature. We are watching.

doublewisdom:
They look similar sha. Is the guy also a negative of Bayelsa state? .

Yes he is a positive of Benue state

While they can they will never understand it. Their minds have been blocked so that when time for recompense comes they will get the full dosage.