Apologize to this man for God sake! This is why side chick are flourishing, do u thing a side chick will give him this stress! Y is it that u women once u marry see finish done start! Apologize to this man and never doubt b4 u loose him forever! And make sure u don’t cheat on that hard working man!

Meteoritey:
Due to work, my husband and I live in states, and my husband lives in Canada. 3 months ago we had some serious skirmishes during our phone conversation and in the heat of the argument, I told him that he does not appreciate the fact that I am raising the kids and doing everything alone.

To my disappointment, he told me that he is overworked more than me. This really angered me. This got me angry and I hung up. Although He tried to reach me for 4 days, and also sent me some messages, I cut him off without replying, about 9 weeks later, I sent him just a message on an unrelated issue, he ignored my message, after another month, I sent him another message, he also ignored. It has been 3 months now we have not spoken to each other.

Recently my brother had a baby, and he only called once to congratulate them. Moreover my younger sister got admission to a university to study the same course that my husband studied, so naturally, my sister contacted him. My sister said he advised her on what to do and what she should expect. This was about 2 months ago. I personally did not inform him about my sister’s admission myself.

After about one month, my sister also called him for more information, but he has not been picking my sister’s call.

My sisters fiancee also called him to inform him about their upcoming marriage (my same sister that got the admission) he only spoke with my sister and her fiancee once, he stopped further communication with them on both issues of admission and marriage, and that he only spoke with them the first time about the admission and the marriage out of the respect he has for them.

He gave my sister the excuse that it was not proper, for him to speak with her fiancee' because he said that I have not told him anything about the marriage, therefore he can not relate further with my sister as per the marriage. And that it was out of respect that he even called my sister initially to advice her.

What are you thoughts and opinion please.

It is a spiritual attack! Is possible a Yahoo boy is involved! My kid Sister is a Medical Doctor. She told me the medications they prescribed for mental health patient those not work and it has side effects! No be juju be that? Take her to Bride Assembly Ijesha on Tuesday, Friday or Sunday morning! That nonsense will live her!

HumbleOptimist:
Good Day Dear Nairaland Family,

My Sister started behaving weirdly last few Weeks. She laughs alone, talks alone and is sometimes restless especially at Night.

Though she always responds well and correctly when engaged. I've asked her and she told me she doesn't know when that happens and it's unintentional.

I, on my part have tried talking to my Dad to take her to a Mental Health Expert, my Dad seems to believe it is spiritual attack instead.
Please, I need Medical practitioners in the house to help tell me what she's probably suffering from so I can Confidently convince my Dad.

Can you please help move this to front page?

Her former husband says he still live his wife! I was expecting him to reconcile with his former wife! May God safe and open their eyes!

Righteousness2:
This is a confused man that has confused and deceived so many people, now boldly getting married to someone's wife, with a confused pastor as his best man.
GOD have mercy on all the people he has confused and rescue them from the Broadway before it becomes late.

Some men will still go to ashawo quarters today! Preach on

Righteousness2:
What a pathetic and Unfortunate way to Depart this World.

Listen Folks!
No Form of Funeral Prayers can take you From Hell to Heaven if you Die ontop a Man or woman while in the act of Fornication or Adultery.

Depart from evil. Run to JESUS Christ.
Heaven and Hell are Real.

I am a Christian I don’t see anything wrong in wearing hijab! This feminist are deceiving this ladies! They want to work naked! I wish all Christians women dress like catholic noons! Let them go back home nonsense!

You have one leg and u are still fornicating! I pity your life repent oo! If u want to marry her pay her bride price if not pls let her be abeg!!!

virginprincess:
This are one of the reasons why i can't marry an over religious man,so because you are an apostle i shouldn't dance to worldly songs on my wedding day it not possible.

Go and look for club boy and marry! When he start clubbing while u are pregnant, go to your citting room and dance your worldly song! When he finish rocking his club side chick, he will dance with u and give you the hiv gift from his side chick! Good luck

I am a Northern Christian, from Southern Kaduna specifically. We have live with Igbo people even in my village! They have never attacked us, we don’t have problem with Igbo. But your soo call Fulani Northerner has and is still killing my people! We are OBIdient we have no apology!

Which God? The God u disappoint by fornicating? How can a sinner curse a sinner! Repent my Sister if not next them go use your head do yahoo! Ladies keep your self till your wedding night!!!

This is the price u pay for fornicating outside wedlock!! Run oo! U no want still get sense! Keep your self till your wedding night or your regret and carry another belle or hiv!

I suspect the woman is a single mother! If a husband is in that house he will not their to do this nonsense!! But this is the result of strong and independent woman!! Even at my adult age I cannot their to do this to my parents because the discipline they install in me is still strong and on going!!

Reminderz:
the red flags are always there, but chose to ignore ...

the wages of simping is pain and heartbreak

this your comment chok me oo! Go to bride assembly Ijesha, Jesus Christ Temple ministry Warri or deeper life and choose a beautiful damsel that wears no make up, earrings, or bleached skin u say na slay Queen u go marry oya enjoy!!!

[quote author=22o62021 post=116615245][/quote] My brother u will start fornicating with that young girl! God will not be happy with u! What kind of Job will a 19 year old girl get? She is not a graduate! Na plate and olosho that girl fit do oo! Abi na arrangeee marriage! Be wise oo hiv is real!!!!

Oga go to the MD and tell him or the accountant is an opportunity to build trust! Be wise ooo! Y u want reject your promotion?

papiilo:
Morning guys!

So this company where I work paid me twice in error. Do you think they will detect later that they paid me twice?

You are right brother man! Any church they do more than one service is money they are looking for! Some Pentecostal worst pass Catholic

Tunjibalogun:
I'm a Catholic but once in a while I get to attend pentecostal churches when invited by colleagues though. So I went to this very well known pentecostal church. I found out the following:

(1) They've now modelled their church into several services just as it is done in the Catholic Church unlike before when they go to church by 7am and return by 2pm

(2) They have the pictures of their daddy GO inside the church just like the Catholics use those of Jesus

(3)They also had ornaments like holy oil just like in the Catholic church

(4) They have communion service just like in the Catholic church. I took their wine and communion though

It seems to me like the essence of the pentecostalism is now been defeated because the pentecostal churches we knew when growing up never had these aspects that resembled the Catholic Church practices. To add to it some pentecostal churches now ordain bishops too which were never existent to them them except to the orthodox churches.

Repent or you will burn in Hell! You are not even thinking of repenting! What if u get hiv or STDs! Keep your self for your husband or na hiv go finish u!

My Government teacher in secondary school told us that the so call gains of colonialism could happen to any nation without been colonized. What is your take on that?

onez:
For real, let's lower the mic. Colonization though painful but also has it's good side. God bless us all. May the soul of late Queen Elizabeth rest in peace.

Pls live the innocent baby alone! Is she the first to get pregnant? It is just foolishness! Modern women be wise and never behave like her!

slawomir:
Damnnn niggar
They should not take her serious
Pregnant women and thier anyhow behaviour


Na that pregnancy and the whole hormone thing dey do her so

Messi1:
Two ladies rejected me in different occasions simply because I'm naturally dreaded.


I wanted to cut it but people say if I cut it I will die.

Oga cut that thing, you be Naira Marley? That thing makes u to look feminine! And some time men with Dred lock makes it look dirty and smelly! Oga no woman wants to sleep with a smelly man! Cut it off and look great! God bless u.

Oga if u are one of them repent before u die of depression! Their is no repentance after death!

GodsOwnMan:
The teacher must be one of those hate-filled, bitter, disgusting xenophobic South Africans. Still remember how they slaughtered luck dube because they thought he was Nigeria.

RIP Little one. In you next life stay away from such a sick society.

You cannot fight a spiritual wife or husband by living a life of fornication!! You must be a genuine born again to win the battle! If u have other girls and still sinning! Hmmh! Your own done finish! Repent truly and see my God in action!!

Robertgreene1:
Interesting...
I had wanted 2 condemn u....till i saw dt d girl in question is from "the water"...ND I'm from "the water" too...so we all kinda in d same boat...cus I've been there...or rather I'm there right now...
And yes..."water people" nd their lovers re always stuck wit bad lucks..cus of d fact dt our "water partners" re very jealous nd possesive beings...hence they gonna do everything in their powers to make sure our lives re hells on Earth out of dt belief dt we gonna abandon them if our lives turn out very peaceful ND happy...
Hence....In her case..her spirit hubby gonna make sure he wrecks her life ND dt of her lovers( u in ds case) out of jealousy ND possessiveness... Exactly what my spirit wife is currently doing to me(but I'm seriously fighting her though ND winning d fight)
So if u really love d girl man....then fight d fight wit her...but make sure she's ready ND willing 2 fight her spirit people as well...cus if she's not willing 2 fight them just yet..then I'm sorry bro...but all ur efforts gonna be in vain...
And lastly.. Always remember dt we "water people" didn't choose 2 belong 2 d water...that d "burden" came 2 us without our consents even b4 we were born...
Shalom...Hope u both win this fight with love..

Can a sinner fight the devil? You will soon learn your lesson again! The bad luck never teach u a lesson! Run ooo! Take care of her and the baby! She is not a wife oo! But men why? She has three kids with the different men, what are u doing their? Repent from fornication, live a righteous life and thank be later!!

Havemercylord:
Hello everyone, I am 34 years old and I am here to get honest advice from experienced people.

My story will be short and precise.

I met a girl in April, 2022 (this year), she already had 3 kids, TWO for a man and ONE for a man another man.

Before I met this girl, I have what I need at least, i can rent a house, buy my basic needs and even have savings.

But since i met her, i was turned down in all the places where i was promised Good jobs and contracts.

When we went to make consultation, we were told she belongs to water spirit that she refused to give sacrifices or relate well with her fellow water mates, that the more she didn't do the right things for them, my own Life Will be affected too.

She is pregnant for me right now and I have not had any child before.

My question is this, is there anyone here who has had similar experience?

We were told to appease her water mates, that afterwards, things will change for good.

And i have also heard from several people that most times after doing all the sacrifices, things might not change much for the man.

And all these sacrifices cost money!!!

WHAT CAN I DO?

SHOULD I LEAVE HER OR FIGHT THE BATTLES WITH HER?

Very good for u! Why don’t u want to be her friend if not for fornication! Oga repent and be safe! If y can’t zip up ga and marry or else sexually transmitted disease will teach u a lesson

Bradford111:
My girlfriend just broke up with me for no reason she was supposed to visit me today but couldn't make it only for me to wake up to this text

It is not ok! The prefrontal cortex of the brain mature fully at 25 years! At that point the woman is through with education, hand work business! She knows what she want! Below 25 five she don’t really know what she want! If u try it, you may regret later! Be wise

Don’t allow the devil to use his agent to stop u from doing good! Your good act will open several doors for you!! God that sees in secret will bless u! Continue to do good!!!

Chimera30:
Yesterday i quit my job.
I heard stories about how former employees before me, stole from the company. Even the last person i met there stole hundreds of thousands and was sacked 3 weeks after i joined.
I was hardworking , honest, punctual, polite and hands on the best worker.

I was made employee of the month , a month after i joined and guess how much i was given as reward? #250!
Lol
After i requested permission to travel to the East for a close Aunt's burial for a week and 2 days, i was permitted yet Half of my salary for last month was still deducted and that's why i quit.
After the way i served and upheld this company and even worked overtime most times and always get home very late at night.
It is well.. i know God and life has better
plans for me. ASUU strike or not.

chatinent:
Wrist watch and cup of tea.

funny people! May God purnish poverty! If Ned Nwoko was poor/average will she marry him?

dsocioemmy:
Imagine...

See wetin artificial and fake things dey cause..

God abeg o. Make these people borrow sense na

their are women who will read this thing and still move ahead to wear wigs, nails etc! Only a fool will marry a fake woman! May God use this infection to teach them a lesson, may be they will repent!!

In this modern world your father no get will? Na poor man no de worry because of will now! Make sure you and your siblings are living a righteous life! If not u will die like chicken! God will not allow it but ensure u are living a righteous life of no fornication, no drinking, no girl friend oo etc engage in mid night prayer every 12 to one am commit every thing in the hands of God!! Watch how God will solve the issue! Hid your father land papers oo!

Repent or u will perish in hell!! If you cannot stay till your wedding night, marry! And for the Lady I will advise her to run from an alcoholic

lonecatt:
Adeyanju should work for tinubu if e sure for him .
there are some things that are not possible, that includes tinubu winning the election
Nigeria no be lagos

He couldn't win edo, he couldn't win his state osun , it is Nigeria he now dreams to rig and win
the ancestor should go and ask buhari and atiku how many times they have contested elections

Are u blind? He is working already, u no get eye

[quote author=Unyimekelvin post=115899838]I need someone to say something about this before I commit suicide please[/quote
Only a genuine born again can be free from mastubation, and gambling. Are u ready to repent genuinely? Go to apple store and download Commec tv! U will see Christian channel, watch Temple television! They preach holiness and righteousness! God will visit! Joint their prayer from 12 mid night, that nonsense will stop! Or go to YouTube and watch Jesus Christ Temple ministry Warri or Bride assembly church Ijesha! If u de Lagos go to their all night right now! God will set u free!

Oga if you have paid for her bride price u are stick forever but if she is just a Baby mama Abeg don’t allow your parents or her parents to pressure u into marriage! She is supposed to at least pretend to get u before she show her real colors after marriage! But now she have show how ungrateful she is! Run ooo! She wanted to use the child to cage u! Take care of the child and run for your life! Close your legs or else you will have another baby mama! Be wise ooo.

djkirkoo2:
hmmmmm. Wonderful. Me I earn 63k as salary and my rent is 210k annually. Below is how I disburse it:

Kitchen stocking - 25k.

Soup for the month (we cook soup 5 times in a month) - 15k.

Baby mama - 5k.

Light bill - 2k.

Purewater - 4k.

Stew, Beans, Moi moi: 5/6k

Gas - 5k.

Fuel: As the Lord leads but I do put on Gen almost everyday as far as there's no light.
Now if you observed you will see that I don't have any money for myself nor my baby, make sure I run other deals to meet up my rent and cater for my son.

Yet my baby mama go out to tarnish my image outside saying that I am treating her as a house girl, saying that she's like a slave, that she's in an abusive relationship this and that all the young ladies around my vicinity are all keeping malice with me because of her stories, they all believed her story.

Even when I try to talk people don't believe me. I got tired of the quarrels and nagging so I had to throw her things out and asked her to leave my house. Neighbors came in and intervened then asked me to consider my son that he's still a baby. I succumbed and left for work only for me to come back home that evening the 22nd of July and found out that she have left with my son that I love so much and yet all her things are still in my house.

Bring my baby sef all to no avail, oya let me be seeing him at least still no way. I've talked to her mom and siblings and all of them are taking her side saying a man is not supposed to throw a woman's things outside (even my family blamed me for throwing her things outside) oya I don agree sef still dey are hiding my baby that will be a year old on the 29th of this August from me.

Honestly her family wants me to settle with their daughter but to me I am no longer interested before I die of BP, so now they are using my son to blackmail me emotionally to accept their daughter back because they know that I love my son. If really I am suffering her and treating her like a slave like she always claim then I wonder why her family would want her to come back to my house to suffer.

Mind you, I don't even beat o, I only have bad mouth to reply her if she pisses me off. Honestly I am confused and don't know what to do because I really miss my son.