Mumu woman, man wey never pay your bride price done chop u finish so tey see finish done start! Why u mumu like this?

If u like don’t repent! When u will discover your destiny had been destroy and them carry hiv and hpv joinam your eye go clear! U thing sex is normal! None sense

God just safe u from a gold digger! Go and do thanks giving and stope whaling like a SIMP!

May God bless her; Oga go and do something with your life! Are you ready to marry her? Nonsense talk! I feel like flogging you!

I pity you! If u no repent na Hiv go finish u! If you cannot hold body go and marry! A word is enough for the fool and non is required by the wise!

Men think they are wise! That lady is clearly not your league! She will deceive u with s.x when u get her pregnant your eye go clear say na she choose u! U are a Mumu man! Repent or else na hiv go finish u! U no de shame na ur papa house u carry woman go! U are typing it with no shame!

Don’t watch that demonic show! U no say na sponsor Program to distract us! I did not watch Bbnaija 2022! I have stop watching them forever

lifeandjoy:
I don't like this show

If you make that girl to backslide God will so purnish you! Live her alone if u don’t want to repent!

Hahahaha u funny ooo! If e easy get a job earn 200k and let us see if u will not use the money to buy demonic wigs and organic cream! You said u have spent most your time with him; this is y u should not fornicate b4 marriage! I know that is the reason y u made that useless ungodly statement! If u don’t like a drunk husband find your way! What u see b4 marriage expect times 3 in marriage!

He is supposed to pretend now but he feel he has eating everything, if u go na u miss! Foolish modern woman! If u ignore the Bible teaching u will suffer! if he has not slept with u, e for done pay your dowry! You cannot preach to him because u are a sinner in bed! Which is even worst to drinking! Repent right now if not the break fast go loud!

Gambling is a spirit u cannot win your husband by not giving him food! Let him not be violent on u! Pray to God about that spirit! He will be very! Remember how u will treat your stubborn son, do that! May God heal your home!

all4zionlover:
Honestly I'm going through so much here. I'm losing it. I feel depressed, so much fear, unhappy and lonely. My husband's gambling habit has removed love and affection from our home.
He quickly finishes any money that comes to him. Either salary and anything in bet nija and concentrate on asking me for money. I'm have no job, I'm buy little things and resell. My capital is not even stable because all the financial expenses is on me. Yet he doesn't care. He keeps malice with me for not giving him money and not coming home to meet food.
This year, I have decided not to keep food for him so long as he can not bring money for feeding, for the children he claim he love and upkeep.
I've endure for too long and I'm getting fade up.

All my actions and his behaviour really makes me sad.
I have no love, respect for him.
I excessively worry for upkeep, school fees, bills, things we don't have at home. Everything is on me.
I'm so stressed and lonely. I feel I need a shoulder to rest on maybe to cry.
I'm so sad because our two sons are too attached to their father and I'm scared of their feelings if I decided to divorce their father

My first son wouldn't even go to bed until his father return back from work.

Have you been in this kind of situation?
What did you do? How do people survive this kind of situations?

Oga go and thank God! You are safe from hiv, STDs etc work hard forget about woman! Face your huzzle

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Kai! Y better go and do DNA! She knows without belle she cannot marry u so she hook u! Marriage is for ever oo! U better no use Belle marry wrong woman!

TheZeezle:
No stress yourself too much. If she's not ready to stay off her ex's then you should know what to do. She's already a baby mama, add yours and clear!

If you stay single and u are sexually active that will be a sin u know! If u can’t do without women marry and stay faithful in other to avoid sexually transmitted disease.

Oga don’t marry a medical Doctor because u c it lucrative to do so! She will deal with u in uk! When will Nigerian men have sense? Marry a woman that is Godly,a woman that never wear all those demonic outfit like wigs, demonic eye lashes or Mary Kay! They give obanje vibes! If she pass those test and she happen to be a medical doctor or house wife good for u! Oga be wise ooo!

Pls let us tolerate gay people, pray for them to repent, show them love! Before God arrest u Those preaching were patient with u if not u for never repent! If u are straight and fornicating, u are the same with those guy people, u will burn in Hell also !! Repent repent before it is too late!!!

AkpaMgbor:

But they say Igbo culture is highly patriarchal. My aunt was also made a high chief back in 2003 in urualla.

In Igbo land if u have money u are a man If u don’t have money u are a woman!

Madam I hope u are not going back to continue fornication! Women no get sense again oo! You are not entitled to any Christmas money from a man! When men spend money they will demand s.. I know may be your conscience is death that u see fornicating as normal! Repent and set a standard of no sex till wedding night or u will continue to receive breakfast in Jesus name!
Emerging u have not slept with him, will he be angry at every little instance? Noooo! He would have double that money in anticipation that u give in, that makes u special to a man, that makes him want to wife u!

Buhari4sale:
Lol.. You can't get our of this world alive, same as your pvssy can't escape being bleeped numerously or at least multiple times before you found the right glue dick.. It gives you more knowledge about how men are differently programmed & how to deal with them.


My dear if your pussy is sweet with good behaviour, you will stay, if there is no space, a reasonable man will create a space for you.

Just make sure you are giving in for a wise, educated and God fearing man.

My Sister I am a man, even after 39 dates don’t give in, if he is serious he will wife you! A man can pretend to even engage you, he knows some women will foolishly allow them to browse after engagement then he will dump you! If the man like u let marry u first before you give in! From your experience those men you give them after many dates are u now married! Purity is still the best!!

If you catch a thief, he/she will always have a reason for stealing. A cheat will always give a reason for cheating. Her husband clearly said her reasons were not valid. When they can’t find any, they easily blame it on the devil.

Newsflash; there is no justification for cheating! None!!!

when you are genuinely born again or you don’t believe in divorce some useless wives will take u for granted! But if the guy is a nonsense guy by now she will be in her Father’s house! Pls women do better, men hardly forgive cheating like women! It hot men the more! I hope the wife is change for good!

If I slap you eeh! What are you doing with a single mother? Y are u still fornicating in this new year? Your business will go down very soon, then your eye go clear! Nonsense man!

God done safe u from fornication and u are here talking nonsense! You know say na runs Bab and u are here talking nonsense; if she give u hiv U will still come to Nairaland for advice! Oga if u cannot stay celibate go and marry! Sickness full every where! Do u thing now that u are fighting she is not sleeping with another man, If u don’t live that girl she go bless u with Hiv so that u go cry well well

When a woman knows you are a born again and u will not cheat most of them purnish men like that! It is temptation from the devil to make you cheat on her and scatter your family! Their a spirit in her controlling her! Pray for her, and report her to a person you know she respect! Don’t fall for the devil tricks! May God bless your home in Jesus name

Oga run for your life before U go collect slap from me! This is y u should not have sex outside marriage! Run ooo God done open your eyes if u stay longer she go use juju for your eye! U go turn to yul ooo! Tell her you want to travel and you want to do renovations in the house!

G5 is five votes according to Bvas! Only Yoruba tribalist will vote Tinubu we have Sensible yorubas like Obasanjo and adebanjos that will vote for Obi!!

SLAP44:
Pipe dreams of APC

Any woman you see with wigs, demonic eye lashes and Mary Kay and u foolishly Mary her, oga sorry is your case! The demonic spirit in dem will strike any body around! Let her wrought in jail! A stubborn man will work another Jezebel down the aisle this Saturday! Men will not learn! Avoid slay Queen like rat poison

You are not a child, get up and stand for your Father. This is y before you marry any girl check out how they treat their father because that is how the daughter will treat u! Your Sister is a replica of your mother, that was how your mother behave that is y she see nothing wrong in what she is doing! Your Father will die before his time because of over thinking! Rise up and defend your Father before u post his obituary here! If you don’t see the key to the door break it and safe your Father! Stop behaving like a fool! Your mother will just talk she can not do you any thing! Don’t disrespect her but don’t also allow her to kill your Father for you!!

Naijaisshitho:
Women look down at me all the time. I've never successfully dated a girl before. I usually beg my way in to see without success . However, this afternoon, this girl I've been on her case pretty much belittled me and I've been unhappy since. I just need to rant here. Below is our chat.

Note : I've sent her more than #200k within two months of knowing her.

oga focus on your business and make more money so that you will marry and be free of getting hiv! God de safe u! Thank God!

Oga live that desperado alone; that lady na red duvet

Samakus:
Hi guys. It's Christmas morning but let me have your thoughts on this.

Just coming back from early morning Christmas service of my church. I have a friend (a girl] that is just a normal hello/hi kind of friend. Nothing between us.

At the close of service, she met me and suggested that I marry her. Initially I thought she was joking but she reaffirmed her stand saying that she has been given all manner of ģreenlights but it's like I take her for a sister. She bluntly asked that if I like her, I should marry her and that she will provide half of the cost of the wedding. I didn't know what to say cos truly, that's a first time for me.

She knows my woman and I told her so but she's was like, 'your woman can't give you this offer that I'm giving you and it's better you marry who loves you more than you love her.

I don't really like her in a romantic way. I See her more as a friend but this move from her got me thinking.

I love my woman and but I know she's not ready right now either. What will you do if you're in my shoes.

Insults are welcomed too. Based on nairaland way

Oga obey your mother, some mothers are retired olosho, when they see their colleague they know! Obey your mother before that girl use fornication to confuse your life! Oga only your father can tell if your mother is a good wife! Your mom will always be a good mother to you! Listen to her. Don’t be stupid they are saving you from calamity! Respect that woman live her alone, your so call girlfriend want to buy your mothers love, e no work! Shine your eyes mr man and obey your mother! Any woman your mother and Sister dislikes live that girl alone except that your girl friend is a genuine born again but if you and that girl friend are committing fornication run ooo! If that girl insists on no sex till wedding night and na strong born again in character and everything, convinced your mom! But if you guys are fornicating, your mother is vindicated! From your statement it seems your mother na strong born again; obey her pls!

My sister if U live him men will chop u like Ghana banku!! Be wise oo! Nothing is outside here

piecuntie:
HI NAIRALANDERS ;
I am about to seperate from husband who sponsored me in school because I am fed up.

I came from a very poor family. I met my husband when I was 19. He wasn't doing well either, he told me he was an engineer in a public hospital but as time went on I got to know he was a level 3 plumber in the civil service.

Well I was young, naive, hungry and blindly in love. He went to trade school and I encouraged him to go back to school for HND or bsc but he said he was going to sponsor me first. I got pregnant for him in my first year in school when I was 20yrs old, my mom was against it. I got to know he was 13years older than me while pregnant. HE TOLD ME HE WAS 26yrs old.

My mom wanted me to abort it, instead i packed my things and stayed with him.
He abused my mom and I defended him. I gave birth while in school and he continued to support me both financially. We fought during those period, series of red flag but I decided to ignore it as long he wasn't beating me. He abused me emotionally. He knew my family was poor and there was no where i could go.

I finished school and my friends told me not to marry a plumber, I declined and told them he promised to go to school.

I finished school and i was scared of depending on him with my child, we were not doing fine at all.

I had no choice than to date a rich guy who helped me with a good job in the year 2017. HE got to know about the guy and i broke up with him. I apologized and we GOT MARRIED LEGALLY and got pregnant with my second child. We spent only 150k.

All the money i made from my salary, I made sure i supported him, i moved out of the family house in the year 2019, we have been there for 8yrs, he couldnt afford to rent a house, I spent 400k, both of us had no friends, we only had each other. I helped my brother and they did well in business. I asked my husband to go back to school, he was still adamant.

We went to a traditional person and they told him there is a curse on his head that i should bathe and do some sacrifice for him, which i did.

By year 2020 he was doing fine, we didn't even go hungry during the lockdown, I supported him with 2million naira and we did our traditional marriage.

IT was his business patners who were notorious cheat and neglected their wife that did his groom men, They introduced him to an association, i have asked him what is the aim of the association, he cant tell me, it is a secret.

3 months after the wedding, he started cheating and even beat me for the first time on our wedding anniversary becaus of the girl,
When he saw i withdrawed all financia assistant like paying half of the rent and paying one of the kids school fees. he called family members to beg me and we settled and i bought a family car for us to use.

Since then i have been walking on eggs around him, he tells me i should respect his age that we are not mate, he beat me again last 3 months saying i am as proud as my mother and i abused his mother back.

This monday i had to run after bus to go to work because i told im i was looking for mOney, and he said i just call him a thief. I had no money on me i had to call my brother to give me money. He wasnt even bothered. He doesn't call me again, WE DONT GO OUT AGAIN


I don't stress him for expensive outing our wigs or phone.
I bought my phone or trip myself out. He would rather hang out with his friends. He tells his friends and the kids i wear cheap outfits.

My mind is now strong. I don't cry again if he offends me nor complain.

I want to divorce him , sell the car and use it for this UK study route and take my children as dependent without him knowing. I am tired of the marriage already. He is 44 while I am 31. i want to move on with my life.

Sorry for the long write up

My brother run ooo! God just show u the demon u were about to engage your self with! Thank God your eyes are clear!!!

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

My Sister I feel your pains! For give him I suspect that u want to pet him enter Uk and deal with! My Sister don’t do that oo! Forgive and forget if u want a revenge you will root in Nigeria oo! He might never fly u abroad! And make sure u are not cheating on him also!!

Salewabeau:
I hope I get the right � reasons here than other channel here since this is the dating thread

My husband and I got married in 2021. He got a job in the UK middle of last year as a skilled worker. He was into tech before he left. Since then I've been the only one in the motherland while he consistently sent something home to cater for myself and rent. Plans are underway to join him as soon as I'm done with NYSC.

Last week, one of my friends in the UK hinted me about something that keeps giving me sleepless nights and terrible unrest. She's a student there and we went to secondary school together. She happened to see my hubby on a dating website. She sent me screenshot of his profile and my husband pictures are all there. Everything. She's on the dating app too.

I confronted my husband after several investigation of the geniuty of what I know. He only yield in after I sent him all evidence that I have. Now he tells me dating app is a norm in the UK and everyone is there. He said he's only there to socialize and meet people, especially Nigerian, but not for dating.

This has caused some issues between us as I wasn't really satisfied with this excuse. I'm tired of constantly thinking my husband is cheating on me.

I love my husband and he's the only man I've ever known.