You have been committing fornication with this girl, do you thing God is happy with you? Abeg park well u want her to close her options to only u and u never engage her! No be juju be that? Baba live her alone since u don c say na olosho! Na so men de mumu reach! God go sure u wrong woman u go come de find advice!! Go check your self first weda hiv don de your body!! People mumu for this life!!

You want him to jumb the gun! This is the beginning of frustration for him! He might get his best connection their!! Corruption every where! U want us to encourage his to be corrupt and useless! Get out of here nonsense

Heathrow44:



cos he needs to collect statement of result and original degree certificate

See it is a spirit, only genuine repentance can safe u!! If u get a new girl na double problem, it will be fornication and mastubation! Na die be that! Disease they oo!! Spiritual wife go soon join!! Be wise repent accept Jesus and it will die a natural death!! Avoid watching romantic movies! Watch genuine teaching of righteousness and holiness! I will recommend bride assembly Ijesha-Lagos and Jesus Christ temple ministry Warri I.e temple tv on you tube!! If u watch one samon that spirit will jumb out of your body!!

Failure44:
I'm reaching in a depressive state of mind.
I can't stop masturbating towards pictures of my ex, I had stopped for 4 months but I immediately backslided one day and now am back doing it chronically.
We recently talked and it was 100% obvious she had moved on from me but I still haven't moved on.

I need counseling pls not insults or jokes.

Oga just talk say your spouse reduce her age! Why are you just discovering it?

Movingon5:
Pls sirs and mas am not really in my right frame of mind.......

We cohabited for 7years and have suffered several domestic abuse so I decided to quit this January. So he left the house and took all the amenities the kids are enjoying since February...

So this, easter he called to tell the kids to come do easter with him in his village.. Getting to Kogi state, he sent me house and harrassed me with security officials. So he has apparently taken the kids from me and trying to take them to another state.

He has made attempts to buy the children from me by offering me 400k but I said noooo. He is a Deputy retired commissioner of police and ex director of EFCC and currently working in Dangote as their cso.

The kids here are minors age 3 and 5years.... where can I get justice and the authorities to report to. The kids are supposed to be in school today. He is 66years and am 30years.

Pls elders on family issues help me and how to get the custody of my kids back cos am ready to be taking care of them without his contribution. Am fighting for the kids becos of the motherly love I have for them not because of child support fee etc.

Am not married to him legally or traditionally...... we cohabited for 7years. And am his 4th wife and that is how he has been collecting the kids from his wives. He has a brother he puts in EFCC and they all threaten me to fight me cos they have the money to spend...

you are acting like a foolish woman! Why will u cohabitate b produce a child with a Man U are not married to!! I have no mercy for u! Repent first! God is even protecting u from fornication n u are here talking rubbish! Seven years of sin and defilement! Get out of this place! I am sure young men were interested but u were blind by small cash! Carry your cross and live us alone

Thank God u get wife wey get consence to apologize!! Oga forgive her and tell her not to do it again!! If u Judge and refuse to forgive her she will not be vulnerable to u again! Remember a woman can cheat on a man and he will never know! God bless your family!!

My brother only genius repentance can safe u! U don’t need a girl as some will advise u! Repent genuinely, stop watching useless movies, if it is possible delete Facebook app and YouTube from your phone e get why? Any thing can pop up on those app!! Fast and prayer the spirit of lust has engolf u! Always rebook any spirit of spiritual husband and wife, evil caterer etc when u pray the devil will bring back some memories of u and a lady, don’t stop praying it means the prayers is working he want to distract u!! Some time u will experience errection while praying! Don’t stop that is d son of a bitch the devil!! Pray and ask God for the comforter!! Only the holy spirit can set u free! To serve God without the Holy Spirit is impossible! Cry and Fast for the comforter!! Run from women, if u have the money God will connect u with your wife!! Make sure u don’t drink bear! If not your prayer na wast of time!! If u are in Lagos visit Bride Assembly Church ijesha! They preached the end time gospel of righteousness and holiness or look for Jesus Christ temple ministries Warri aka Temple tv Warri! The pastor is prophet Amos!! Watch this two channel or if u are in Lagos go for their all night every Friday God will set u free!

You are a foolish man! You are playing with sin! You will soon get hiv and die!! You are not foolish but you are acting foolish!! Run for your life, that girl go kill u! Don’t run from her to another girl ooo if not na Hiv u go get next!! If U like don’t go and treat your self in the hospital, be asking us useless question!! Don’t repent u here continue in your foolishness!!

Oga run from fornication if not u will die physically and spiritually!! Even devil de fear women! E get some charm wey dem go say make u no near woman! Run to be safe oo! People will tell u you are missing! Yes u miss hiv, staphylococcus, sypilis, stds etc what a great miss!!

Oga go and work for your money! Don’t be lazy!! If your father was lazy u for get hope to inherit any thing?

Oga thank God he show u before u wife her! Run ooo this one worst pass chidinma! She will kill u if u marry her! U de ask for advise!! Thank God u de alife! Report her to police let her pay for any thing u bought with your money! If na she buy all let her go with her wahala!!

Tell her or even the husband because if the man eventually see the video the marriage go cast!! I don’t believe in divorce so just tell the husband let him run for his life finish

Acme45:
Good day friends, I was checking for another thing online 3days ago. And I saw my very good friend's name boldly written by the sex video only for me to open it to discover that it was her.

She got married few months back. and the date the video was uploaded online was just about two months to her wedding. And I'm very sure she's not even aware of it and if the husband accidentally see this video. Definitely the woman will be sent out.

I have not been able to tell her because of how she will react to it. pls what's your opinion on this matter on ground. I just wonder how will a matured woman will allowed herself to be filmed. Stay one place them go say no, see what going from one dick to the other has landed her. Pls should I tell her or face my front?

You and your partner are Aware!! You are both foolish! Don’t try God! U knew it! And don’t ever try to kill that child! If u try it u will burn in Hell!

If u live that Man U will burn in hell!! What do women want? He don’t cheat! I believe u because women are perfect in investigation! U think dating with kids in Nigeria is easy!! Young men will use and dum u like useless paper!! That is if u have the money oo!! Be careful Kees your ass right their!! I don’t want to call u a mumu woman ooo!

janejjjjj5000:
Please, I don't want to be judged. My husband is a good man. We have been married for 14 years. I am 33 years old. He is 39 years old. We have 4 kids - 3 girls and 1 boy. He has never cheated on me. Right from day 1, he has been very open. He is not the type of husband that locks phone and all of that. But I am tired. He has the habit of flaring up around the children and I don't like it. I don't want my kids to be damaged. I know some will say no marriage is perfect but at this point, I don't even want marriage again. I just want to be free and single and look after my kids. I am tired.

Anytime we have an argument, he always talks about how he did this and that for me. In front of the children. I don't want this kind of life. He hardly gets angry, maybe twice or thrice in a year but when he does, he does not have the sense to know he should not be doing it in front of the kids. He apologizes to them and to me but I am done.

He has no other issue apart from this. He has never beaten me or anything but I am tired. Overall he is a good husband to be fair and honest but I can no longer deal with this. I prefer to be single and free than deal with this rubbish.

I feel like pouring out my heart.

My Sister don’t go ooo ! Joseph ran away from Potiphar's wife! Run oo if not you will fall!!

Islandlady:
Good morning Nairalanders! Have got this pressing issue, I need your advise on.

There is this business friend to my dad, who is in his early forties, he once asked me out for a relationship but I declined because he his married with two lovely children

So I have been on vacation from my job for some weeks now, so I decided to spend time in my family house
so three days ago he brought this job offer to me that I should be his new secretary since his old secretary have relocated abroad, I told him I will get back to him

Pls guys I am just confused and scared, I mean this man once asked me out and me being his secretary means we will be close to each other, I don't want any case of rape or sexual assault from him

Plus his new job salary is almost ×2 of my present job salary!

Could his intentions be pure or could it be that I am overreacting or reading too much meaning to this

Should I accept the job offer from him or not!
Pls I need your critical advise

Even after high school I was not allow to get a phone till I enter higher institution! No child should be allow to have a phone if not your daughter will deliver like Christ island student

If u like don’t stop!! Continue to ask us useless questions! Till today I have like 1500 in my bet naija account!! I dash them and I will not give any body the account!! I have win more from them but I naturally hate gambling!! That is why I stop!!!!

Hahahahaha he has not marry her for the past three years and he want to control her like winch! No be juju be that!! Truly may krishna guide him!! Jesus hand no de here!!

Magnoliaa:
Hmmm.

Op, I didn't you read your story but your topic has told me all I need to know. How? A woman cheating. I am neither shocked nor surprised nor anything. That is a normal thing and the sun shines everywhere.

What will not be normal is you thinking of ever leaving her. Leaving your place so another man can come and take it. Who does that?

I see she has cheated on you before and that led me to believing that that is a weakness on her part. Some women are like that. I'm sure she loves you, women can detach their emotions from sex, so what I will advise you to do is just for you to continue helping her. This is a trying time for your family, or soon-to-be family rather, and I can see the Dev*l is already trying to attack a marriage that has not happened! Please, give no room to the devil in your lives, I beg you.

Don't let him push you in sending a good thing away. Because if that lady old now, na you go come dey enjoy am oooooo. Young boys these days are not smiling. Na from where dem go dey chop dem dey find now.

But all in all, in whatever you do, if you find that she is not changing, don't stop praying for her, but make sure to be putting packets of cond.oms in her Balenciaga and LV purses. As a safety precaution. Infact, when you keep doing that, I'm sure her conscience will be pricking her anytime she wants to do the do with another nigga.

Keep being a good man. Your reward is in heaven. A good wife and marriage is a favour from the loord. Don't throw all that away because of a small stumbling block.

My 5 kobo.

May Krishna be with you.

My brother that is your cross!! If u divorce her u will burn in Hell!! Love her even as Christ love the church!! The church is not perfect and Christ has not divorce us!! Pray for her it will soon be over!! Talk to her at night in a very calm manner!! Watch and see the results!! God bless u

Oga run ooo! God done open your eye ooo!!!

Richsteemit:
Good evening. Have been praying for God to give me a good wife and job. God answered my prayer I got a job last month. But I'm in love with d boss of my work place. She posses everything a woman suppose to have. Guys should I shoot my shot? I know it is very risky. Money is not everything. May be God wants to answer the two prayers at a time

They will sack u!! Received sense for heaven sake!! Your Boss is just been nice, don’t be fool!! If she love you she will give you over green light!! Be wise oooo

That is good for u!! If u love her go and pay her bride price!! Nonsense men! U will be defiling some body daughter in the name of useless love!! Good for u!! If u are serious carry your people to go and meet her people!! If u are not ready to do that, live her alone!!!

kenzysmith:
I started masturbation late 2011
I quit masturbation late 2021

I started virtual bet late 2016
I quit virtual late bet 2019



I started brothel late 2010 till date

oga continue when u get hiv or hpv your eyes go clear!!

If u spoil this marriage u will burn hell!! Mind your business aproko

Oga go and marry her and stop fornicating!! No shame for head “ my girlfriend is dash dash….” U no de shame!! Some women no even get sense at all!!! You just give your London away and when he is tire and he dump u ow u go de swear useless swear!! Can a sinner course a sinner?

Oga come and force it on us let us see!! He kill people in toll get when he was a lord in Lagos!! If he becomes president u think say u fit protest? Oga park well

thebosstrevor1:
I don't support tinubu but he will be Nigeria president in 2023.

Anyway, Most Nigerians online should wake up to that reality, there is nothing they can do about it. Online polls aren't counted as votes by INEC, the real voters are in different cities and towns doing their petty trading.

Just to add, One of the funniest stuff is that Tinubu said that He knows how to generate revenue, he means, he will tax everything you own and then give alphabeta 20% from your tax money.

All na sin, the spirit of mastubation will engolf you!! Why not get married and rest! God will connect u with the man of your dream!! But if he does don’t take him to Bangladesh if not he will dump u again! I wish women will learn but once they fall in love they keep given it out like a cheer full giver!! God will help u

MadamVanessa:




Sleeping with the corpse for 4days? this type of weird behavior I often heard it in western countries.

Justice for Precious Okeke.

The idiotic boyfriend should be kill immediately.

Since I discovered the joy in dildos, I have never wish or consider having a boyfriend again.

Make this smart move delete all the safe messages and clear your chat with him in his phone!! Let him come an ask you!! Go on your knees and plead with him!!

Some time you women once u marry anyone
Body!! You will start to behave as if u are his mother!! U are not but his wife!!! Always use your good character to beat your husband!! You are giving him emotional abuse is not fair!! Some of you are the reason most men die of hypertension! Why will a man be faithful if his wife will use her mouth to tear him down? Only a strong chinekes man will take the suffering for Christ sake!! That is why some men that are genuine born again are suffering, some the wife will deliberately sex staff him because she knows he will not cheat on her!! But if your husband na player anytime u make him angry he will look for a side chick to calm him down!!

AntiMen:

When I say I'm Antimen, I'm only against the bossy attitude of men, nothing more nothing less..and that doesn't stop me from loving or crushing on anyone....
It's just a feeling, im only Looking for ways to making it stop ,nothing more....

this woman flee!! Run away from that church if not you go defile your self ooo!! That is a strong spirit of lost!!