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Same thing was happening to my one time neighbour. She was told then that it's the gecko in her room that was crawling on her and giving her the marks while she slept. So if you have geckos in your home, try getting rid of them and then see what happens.

I have a little girl who does same. She'll even say outrightly. "My mummy is my daddy and my daddy is my mummy", whenever she's mad with either parent. And tell the one she wants to annoy, 'you're not my daddy, you're my mummy".

So they say those things deliberately to retaliate so to say.

@Lagosboy

Jazakallah khayran. Thanks a zil.

Muhsin,

Islam teaches us that there's no ailment that's incurable, thus, have faith. Insha Allah, sometime soon, you'll be permanently cured of this one.

Hope you receive medical care from experts.
We'll all pray for you, insha Allah.

muhsin:
Salam,

I really missed you, great Nairalanders. I had been sick for some days, thats why I could not make it up here for a few days ago.

Laa ba'sa. Tahuurun insha Allah

What are the definitions of these:

Hijab
Jilbab
Abaaya
Niqab
Burqa
Khimar

Abuzola

Pls go and ponder on these quranic verses:

Imran 3:134
A'raf 7:200
Fussilat 41: 34-35
Shuura 42: 43

Jairzinho:
1.I'm very sure Im the 'egbon' in this discussion

LOL. I didn't want to reply you but I couldn't help laughing when I saw the above. What do we call this? Claiming egbon on here! You must be a funny fellow.

If u like to be called 'egbon' you'll get a lot of it. However, the essence of what I said wasn't to say one is senior and the other junior, it's only just to show the paradox in your statement.

You don't know me and yet you confidently claim 'egbon'. Internet ma nse nkan o.

No, it's not foolish reasoning. It's differentiantiating your right hand from the left. You need not add 'with due respect' It's just like you saying, 'egbon mi, ode ni yin o'. What I'll really call foolish is throwing and exchanging insults on the net, with people you don't know, on matters that can be discussed sensibly.

You're talking about calendar. I am talking about celebrating festivals. They are two different things.
This new year celebration has no basis in Islam. The islamic celebrations are well defined and Muslims should stay within the limits.

You don't have to wait for a particular date before you pray for blessings. I do that everyday. And if there are occasions or circumstances that i need to make specific prayer, I do so accordingly.

@Abuzola

So you're married.

@Mukina
Asalam alaykum, how are you? It's good you brought this thread up again. There's still much to be said on it.

And by the way, where's ayinba?

Muslims do not partake in the festivals of non-believers - xmas, eyo, egun, Easter, New year etc. It's not right for a Muslim to congratulate or respond to greetings for and on these festivals.

Congrats Muhsin. when and how are we going to 'wash' it?

Others have come before usisky and are now nowhere to be found. you know, truth will always stand but falsehood never does.

I can remember one Nimshi then that came up with all sorts of rubbish too. He/she is nowhere to be found now. And this is the same way he/she was asked several simple questions but couldn't answer. they only resort to insults and been on the defensive.

Islam shouldn't be practised in isolation. encourage the sister to also attend good islamic programmes where she can learn more about the deen and also meet other righteous muslims.

May Allah make her feet firm on the path of Islam and make her and the rst of us die as muslims.

Among fellow muslim sisters, she can expose from her knee downward to her feet and all of her arm, hands, face and head. her chest down to the knees must be covered.

Among nonmuslim ladies, she should dress up completely including the hijab and not expose any part to them except in situations of necessity e.g for medical attention.

Our Alfas in the house will throw more light on it.

Uh-oh. You don't mean it. Do come and visit lagos o. You have to.

Wa alaykum salam

This is just little of what was discussed there. The programme was really loaded. You know it took 4 whole days.

It comes up I think 3-4 times in a year. So perhaps when u're in Lagos sometime, you may be opportuned to attend.

These are few of the things we learnt at KBC

POINTS TO BE NOTED WHEN CORRECTING PEOPLE'S MISTAKES

1. Sincerity towards Allah- Your intention should be to earn the pleasure of Allah, not to demonstrate your superiority or to vent your anger to impress others.

2. Knowledge about the deen- You should have a sound knowledge about the deen and not talk out of ignorance.

3. Know that making mistakes is part of human nature.

4. Understand the personality that you're correcting, if you can't correct the person, look for someone who can do it better. The important thing is that the mistake should be corrected.

5. Saying that someone is wrong should be based on Shariah evidence and proper understanding, not on ignorance and the fact that you happen not to like it.

6.The more serious a mistake is, the more effort should be made to correct it.

7. Make a distinction between one ho errs out of ignorance and one who errs despite his knowledge.

8. Be careful lest correcting one mistake leads to a bigger mistake.

9.Don't think you're the one to do the correction. It's Allah. So alays put it before Allah to make your effort fruitful.

Muslims are never brainwashed. A true Muslim will only follow the teachings of the Quran and the ways of the Prophet (PBUH). The leaders are obeyed only when he's in accordance with the Qur'an and sunnah.

Brainwashing can only happen to those who don't know the truth about matters and only dwell on whatever they're been fed by cheap propaganda.

iwaboy:
I think it is wrong for anyone to refer to having many children as "looking for troubles" The Messenger of Allaah(SAW) is wiser than any of us and his advice was relevant during his life time, it's relevant today and will never lose its relevance till the end of time. If one goes into sayings of Prophet Muhammad(SAW), it'll be seen that he actually promised that marriage and having children warranted God's provisions and bounty, and he encouraged people to get married and to have children and raise them well. He also advised us to have many children.
Abu Dawood narrated that Ma’qil ibn Yasaar said: A man came to the Prophet (SAW) and said, “I have found a woman who is of good lineage and is beautiful, but she does not children. Should I marry her?” He said, “No.” Then he came again with the same question and he told him not to marry her. Then he came a third time with the same question and he said: “Marry those who are loving and fertile, for I will be proud of your great numbers before the other nations.” Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Irwa’ al-Ghaleel, 1784. In his explanation, Shaikh Salih ai-Munajid said,"This hadeeth indicates that it is encouraged to marry women who are fertile, so that the numbers of the ummah will increase, and so the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) will feel proud of his ummah before all other nations. This shows that it is encouraged to have a lot of children."
As for it being tough for some ppl, we should view poverty in densely populated nations as a problem of mismanagement of resources and disturbing the natural balance, rather than a result of the number of children born into each family.
Allaah knows best.







Consequently, we should view poverty in densely populated nations as a problem of mismanagement of resources and disturbing the natural balance, rather than a result of the number of children born into each family.

Very sensible talk. Jazakallah khayran

@Realtol

I won't bother trading words with you, it' not my style. Especilly when what you profess and what you seem to truly be aren't consistent.

IbrahimB:
What's the purpose of this thread?

He needs help, and probably assurance that he's sane.

@gombo-s
The line between sanity and insanity is very thin, so watch it!

Perhaps you're always confined or always in your own world.

Try to go out more, take walks, talk to people, make friends etc. You can even go window shopping so u'll engage in conversations.

I thought I was the only one seeing him s been very choosy.

One thing we should always have in our minds especially when seeking partner is that we can never get what we want 100% in one person, no matter how perfect that person seem to be initially, there'll be some things we wish they had or they didn't have. It's when u begin to live together that you'll try nd correct those you can and cope with those you can't.

Always remember too that you're not perfect yourself. If you see a lady that tells you you've got all she wants, I tell you, she's either lying or not being realistic. the truth is, whoever you end up marrying, know that there'll e somethings about you which she'd like to change too.

And Jarus, you saying a sister was too submissive or not beautiful enough and because of those, aren't presentable to your kind of friends is, am sorry to say, a very wrong notion and unbecoming of muslim. Is your wife supposed to be a thing to be paraded before your friends? What has the look of your wife got to do with your friends?
When choosing a wife, you should consider yourself 1st because you're the one who'll live with her, then look at her well to see if she looks like someone who'll be a good mother for your children, all of these, in the islamic context.

N.B.
Let' remeber this thread isn't for Jarus alone o. He opende it for all to bring in their issues.

There are some other interesting and educating Islamic programmes too we can engage in t this period to avoid witnessing the celebrations of the nonbelievers.

IVC
MICA etc.

Realtol:
Kettle calling pot black you are all hell bound. I stay in ilorin G.R.A to be precise and i know what islam look like, ritual,killing, backbiting,oppresion/suppresion, fighting and so on. Islam is fierce(not peace) that's y i can't join you in my life. Oya eyin yin da? E ma sa mo mi ooo, eyin goro! Buhaha.

You talk as if you're hell's gatekeeper.

Don't we have christian leaders and nonleaders alike who kill, backbite, oppress, suppress, fight and so on?
No one can force you nor even beg you to join Islam. Islam is for those favoured by Allah, so if He wills, and you soften your heart, you may receive that favour too.

The poster was not even comparing religions, he's only looking for a way to put a stop to the anomally going on, and all you can do is come up with rants. Do you think the world can get better with people like you?

muhsin:
Salam,

Mukinatu and Jarus. . .what a match!

How do you see bros and sis in the house?

It would have been good but mummy Jarus won't allow it. Remember they're weary of Lagos sisters, not to now talk about going outside the country.

As-Salaam alaykum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh,




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N.B Some hanafi scholars even permit wiping of wig during wudhu of the wig is fixed and not easily removed.

This is very new to me. I'll try to read more, insha Allah.
Jazakallah khayran.