₦airaland Forum

I can only imagine if the little girl was someone else's daughter living with them, they would have killed her by now. Your aunty and her family have mental health issues.

Be financially stable unless you'll soon learn that love can quickly turn to hate.

Have the mentality of providing. Don't wait for your wife to be sharing bills. Just take charge, let her do her own bit.

Be in your kids life. They will appreciate and reciprocate that love in future.

Don't be a dictator in your home. Allow everyone have their say but put your foot down on important issues.

Lastly, stick to your wife. Last last, you'll realise that there is actually nothing outside. All those side chics don't live you, they are actually only there to take.

Women marry up. They are far more successful men than women, meaning that a successful woman will still meet men that are more successful and easily approach her.

Where the issue lies is that money and power intoxicate people, especially women. A successful woman may become pompous and that attitude is what will put men off.

When will you finally find someone you like? Will that someone like you back?

You're just 23 and don't understand how life works yet. You think everyone that is married now has married their perfect choice?

Look, if we were giving a book to write our stories, nobody will write their story to be exactly the way they are living now. Everyone will want a better story.

The bottom line is that, there is no perfection anywhere, smart people try to make smart decisions all the time and not wait for perfect situations.

Another one bites the dust. The risk people take everyday just for few minutes pleasure is never worth it.

Good mother, but unfortunately, most of the men in town would probably have seen it free, if not tasted it already.

That's why I love fulani/hausa women, covered up but very attractive still.

Women should known that nudity would attract men quite alright, but men who just want to eat and go. It hardly attracts keepers.

Stupid people problems. Leave hóééss and fraudsters alone to settle their problems.

This is hilarious. He has a crush on you. Perhaps he's a closet hómo.
At the end, this story is a figment of your imagination.

Clout everywhere. People chase cheap fame through social media nowadays, unlike those days when you actually had to have a talent to be famous.

A figment of the writers imagination.

She didn't need fake eye lashes and Brazilian wig to catch a successful man. What women don't know is that such artificial and material things only attract men who want sex.
Real men, see beyond the physical and will only wife a woman who is worth it.

I don't understand why marriage has to be used as a poverty alleviation scheme. You are marrying a person and not a community.
Just ignore her and open an account where you will be saving money for your kid. That money will come in handy in future. Also make sure you conduct a DNA test before spending that money for the kid in future.

The West are still exploiting us. They do not need guns now, it's voluntary slave trade.

They should suck it up and work for the sterling. Nothing is given freely.

The way he wrote is a bit unprofessional if you ask me. The person in charge lacks wit. There are better ways to dress a man down.
P.S
The CEO is extremely pretty though. Can't blame a man for asking if she's single.

Somebody's sweet heart...lol

Scam. The crude must have been stolen again before being burnt.

Migrating outside Nigeria is a huge struggle. Nobody owes you anything. Girls will be slept with and ignored the next day by guys, nobody sees sex as a favour.

Getting a spouse is the worst. The best people to migrate are families. Then again, the woman you bring abroad may just become too wise and get you thrown out of the house or even deported.

Nobody should blame men who live abroad and only visit their families in Nigeria once a while. Then again, such men stand the risk of sharing their wives with other men. Wahala everywhere.

DaInferno:
1.6m for drink is modest, asin 1 600,000?!

For a 15m naira wedding, it is modest. Do you know how expensive premium liquor and champagne is?

1.6m for drinks is quite modest in this present economy. They obviously didn't buy premium drinks.
15m for a wedding is quite exorbitant, but again, cost is always relative...

If you can't stand negative comments, stay off social media. Some of us respect ourselves and always stay anonymous.

If she thinks you're worth it for the long term, she wouldnt have a problem taking your last name.

A lot of modern women just want to get married briefly, have kids and then go their own way. After all she'll be able to brag that she once had a husband and she's capable of having kids.

The story is obviously exaggerated

MC is a future Minister of Transport, he's been working so hard for that position recently.
Nigeria will be a Banana Republic if we don't get it right.

Dull and greedy people are the easiest to scam. How can an intelligent person even consider this real? I'm pressing my delete button immediately I see it.

Women think men appreciate these scarecrow paintings? They do not. The man is not impressed because she looks too artificial.

Men are funny beings, they are excited seeing a new woman looking glamorous but are unimpressed when their current woman tries too hard. They've seen her in her natural state and are even slightly irritated to see her trying to package what has fallen apart.

Men marry women without a job, bad manners and still shoulder her family responsibilities all the time, no one complains.

Just thinking aloud o. OP, do what you think is right.

She's beautiful. Boys are stepping up.

He actually took a picture of the breakfast. I see people invited to a restaurant and the first thing they do is to start taking pics. Poverty is a disease.

It looks doctored. Show us videos.

You people do it here also, calling yourselves afonja and flatinôs. Making horrible remarks towards people that are not your tribes.
Blacks are hypocrites, they hate on themselves and then scream when others hate on them.
By the way, if someone calls me nigga, I'll call them white trash. Tit for tat.

Elmojiid:
Resemblance doesn't mean coz your wife still carry the guy dna as at that time they had a lot of raw sex together for so long so she will automatically have the guy dna on her. Don't panic go do DNa

Good God. Is this what they teach in biology classes these days?