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What if she doesn't want to be reached? Many childhood friendship never Surbiton adulthood. I wish you the best.

Im so sorry for your loss, losing a loved one is the worst feeling in the world. Time heals everything. It eventually gets better, I can assure you.

Be strong for yourself and others. The truth is that he's gone and will never come back. You can only treasure the memories.

Little boy tales.

Good article. Women are fickle amd only reason with their emotions. Give some guys just 1,000 naira or buy them occasional bottles of beer and they are loyal for life.

The bottom line is don't stress too much for women, just do what you can afford to do. Even your wife can leave you tomorrow if the chips are down.

There must be something about you that attracts policemen. I've been in Nigeria for many decades and travelled out quite a bit, not once have I been harassed by policeman, customs or point of entry officers.

People don't know how to handle law enforcement officers. Always be polite, gentle and respectful. Many have been killed even in Europe and USA for running their mouths and trying to challenge a man with a gun, all in the name of knowing their rights.

Sukkyy2010:
so you had to do the search to prove your point....ehyah sorry I did really stress you but yet you're still incorrect(prize not price).

A morôn, I'll pass.

Sukkyy2010:
Its call prize not price.

Lol, if it were in the past, I'd have called you a slowpoke before educating you. Nowadays, I just educate quietly.

Prize is what you win. Price is what you're worth.

In the spirit of education, you should say, IT'S CALLED, not its call.

Pour homme means for men. It's not a top brand perfume, however, ignore the price and appreciate the gift.

Very funny. Our Eastern African brothers are weird.

To be honest, it takes a confident man to date or marry a very beautiful woman. Those women get attention 24/7. You can imagine, even when a woman is feeling depressed , a man still comes to hit on her. It can't be easy being a very beautiful woman.

As it is a burden for the partner, so it is a burden for the beautiful woman also.

Twitter and lies. It's not an impossible story though, the truth is that everyone has a price and these days, the price of a girl in this country is very little.

Some will do hookup for 2k. It's not poverty, its greed, laziness and entitlement.

This is childish, Tinubu has a right to do whatever form of campaign he wants.

The man is a disgrace and obviously disgraced himself at Chatham House, still it's within his rights to go there.

Meanwhile, why are the protesters hiding their faces behind placards?

Marriage does not guarantee endless sex, infact, married people tend to have less sex than single people.

With the worry of bills, stress of work, kids, and even 'see finish' of your partner, you'll find out that you even had more sex when single.

No sensible person should get married because of only sex. Marry for other qualities.

Happy married life, you've got a beautiful bride.
Some are getting married, some are shouting men are scum whilst getting old.

At least they participated, unlike our own. Turning up at the World Cup has it's own prestige.

Women are social climbers, it's in their nature to date up. A woman will leave you for a better man without looking back.

It's from their biological nature to want a man who can best provide for her and her children. In the past, a woman will follow the most fit man, a man who can farm and hunt and can provide for her and her children. Nowadays,men don't farm and hunt, it's the money that does that for them.

Women never regard the past, they are interested in the now amd future. Spending a fortune on a woman has no impact on her decision making. If you can no longer provide, you are irrelevant.

Wise men know these facts, that's why they do what they can for their women. They don't go overboard by borrowing or stealing. They give what they can afford to lose.

The hate Nigerian girls get on this forum, a non Nigerian will actually think Nigerian girls lack men.

The reality is that you men are still paying huge money to these girls everyday. The average Nigerian girl still has like 5 guys asking her out.

The smear campaign ends here. Most of your still run after them like flies.

Our girls are generally spoiled and entitled, but our guys made them so and are still making them entitled. Women now believe they should be paid for dating you, because you guys tell her you will take care of her when 'toasting' her.

Don't start your life carrying a baggage. You should be more focused on building a life for yourself and not complicating it.

Marriage is not a bed of roses o, that love will suddenly turn to hate when you can't provide.

Moreover, the divorced woman will tell you anything. People will always claim to be the victim. If you want to be sure, go and interview her ex husband yourself. Be warned.

If she's a Russian millionaire at 26 with 2 kids, she definitely made that money as pay off from a former Russian billionaire who got tired of her excesses and divorced her. Any wise man should avoid such women.

Again, the story may be false, with all these clout chasing blogs, one isn't sure of what is true or false anymore.

Ifakiland:
Fool is anything given free in Nigeria before? Oponu

You're a slave already with your mentality. What you don't realise is that a goat will not become a lion when taken overseas.

phorget:
I am a building contractor and I can tell you that the categories of people that are constructing massive projects includes...
The politicians,
Internet fraudsters/419,
People that involves in some other form of crimes,
And the ones you call slaves i.e those in abroad.

I would rather become a slave in those places than be a glorified freeman here in Nigeria.
Life doesn't come easy anywhere but where ones effort is been tantamount to positive results then I guess that should be applaudable.

You're a slave already with your mentality. What you don't realise is that a goat will not become a lion when taken overseas.

levbigboss:
Certainly very interesting reasoning with which I partly agree. I've run into one problem that's been bothering me a bit. I've started to notice that my girlfriend is spending more and more time on Taimi.com is this a cause for concern? We have no mistrust in our relationship, and she says she's just spending time talking to interesting people there. But I think she's communicating and expecting something more than just socializing.

Don't stress yourself, if your girl finds a better alternative, she'll certainly go amd so will you.
When a woman leaves your house, she's for everyone. However, if you catch her cheating on you red handed, please take a walk. Don't ever forgive a cheater if you're sure that she actually cheated.

In my opinion, a girlfriend talking with other men cannot be considered cheating, shes a free agent and weighing her options. I wouldn't consider it cheating except I know she's having sex with them. On the other hand, a fiancee or wife talking with other men is cheating and there is no excuse for that.

That's my principle and belief, others don't have to agree but it's the reason I've never been heartbroken and have a happy marriage.

Politicians don't have enemies. Any fire thrown in the line of duty is just business, nothing personal.

Some of you will die of hypertension before your time. Women will always be hit on, even the married one.

I've never and will never go about searching or probing a woman. My principle is if I catch you and its glaring, you're gone. I don't forgive and I let them know.

Oga, for now there's nothing concrete. Don't kill yourself with stress. Cheaters always slip, watch out for any concrete slip.

Let it go, some investments are bad investments, not every investment pays off.
By the way, this is money you said you can afford to lose, so what's your problem?

Unfortunately, education doesn't equate enlightenment in third world countries. Many are educated, few have sense.

Pathetic. This man is bringing so much shame to us. He and the Minister of Finance are the reason our economy is in shambles. Incompetent set of people.

Obasanjo got it right by appointing competent people into his cabinet. The reason Nigeria has gone down hill since is because we have not put our best hands in sensitive positions. The president has allowed tribal and political factors to affect his choice of appointment.

Real slay queen. No need to beg for 2k to pay plumber.

I don't know if this humour or real, but know that guys like challenges, that hard to date girl is what they want to conquer.
Don't be deceived, they don't want marriage, they want to fvck.

Men will have an array of women, the good, the bad and the ugly, when it's time to choose a wife, they'll most likely in all cases go for the 'wife material'.

The average man wants a woman who can take care of his home and children, and also give him peace. If you're none of that, you're on a long thing.

How did we get to the stage of recognising nonentities? It's amazing how these irrelevant people have found a way to force themselves and their foolishness down our throat.

The irony is that you wouldn't hear Otedola or Adenuga's daughter say this. It's usually those from poor homes who make ridiculous demands. It's understandable to aspire, but why not achieve it yourself? Why must men always be used to climb the ladder of success or comfort? Shout out to the few women running their own show.

Never go back to your ex, it doesn't end well.

Your husband belongs to the streets. Some people belong to the streets they can't be tamed. I know a guy who is every girl in the neighbourhoods husband. Na so some people be