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Your wife is lazy, I'm sure you saw that before marriage but ignored it...That's not the issue now,...

The solution is to get a day time housekeeper to help. Fund it by reducing her allowance and using part of it to pay for a housekeeper. There's a lot worse than marrying a lazy woman. Just do what you can to reduce problems in your home.

DAENNINGA:
It should be a guarantee...
I know a school in the UK that guarantees employment within 9 months of graduation. If a graduate is unable to secure a paying job within the period, the graduate is entitled to 50% of the tuition fee as refund.

This school doesn't have a name? You're not talking to fools. Tell us the name, we are interested in attending that school.

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Jovialjune1:
1) When a man knows he doesn't have a car, and you both have a date, you inform her, then both of you can meet up at the place of your date, that is common sense

2) Only empty immature guys with nothing to offer try to shiit test ladies with material things and poverty inducement, and it doesn't automatically means wife material, character traits and personality should be what to look out for in a potential partner, not stupid tests.

1. But it's ok for her to take a bike to anywhere she's going. It's ok for her to share a bike with her friend because she doesn't have enough transport fare.

The most poverty striken girls usually want to set a standard for a guy. A standard she or her family can't afford.

2. 'Testing' a girl is not a bad idea at all. iIt's better to weed the gold diggers out from the beginning then you begin to check for other traits. Coming to America was a hit because of the 'gold digger test'. Many people related to it.

Women test guys all the time, especially from the start. Those who can't meet their demands never get a second look. So why can't men also test them?

Whats wrong in taking a bike to a date? How do you know that the guy who came with a bike wasn't testing the girl and actually has a car?

We are just so materialistic in this part of the world.

TrumpDonald2:
The funny thing is that those that are buying will not complain. It's idiots like you that are not buying that will always complain.

Let's be reasonable also. This is Nigerian used for crying out loud. Why should we always exploit in this country? Don't be greedy.
I sold my 2008 Camry, that is Cleaner than this and has the same type of android screen for 2.2m.
We can't keep complaining about our leaders and yet doing worse.

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Many people die a thousand times before their physical demise. Bro, you ain't living anymore, you're just existing.

I'll advice you get separated. I'm married and I know what the beauty of marriage is. There is no married woman who respects a man who has no control over her.

You are finished. You need to separate for a while, perhaps she'll come to her senses if it isn't too late.

Timekeeper452:
Lol. Let me explain it this way. Money is just a piece of paper, it is literally just a piece of paper. What makes money important is actually what that money can buy itself and not the money at hand. Now imagine if a bag of beans is Valued at 50,000 naira. And you just keep on printing money and handing it over to everyone, what happens when the money in circulation outweighs the beans in circulation? It just becomes useless or the price of that beans will skyrocket up and your money looses its value. If you keep printing more, the beans will either eventually run out or the price of that beans will sky rocket till your money becomes useless in value. So the solution isn’t printing more money because it will just mean something everyone can have, and if everyone can have that, then consumption will outweigh production, and something must fund that production. That being said, don’t be fooled, governments print money steady, that’s how they steal and embezzle and become rich. If you just don’t print, the population of those in existence will outweigh the money in circulation and your country will just collapse. What Nigeria is facing is that we don’t fund the right things in this country to generate production, we rely so much on importation and we have corrupt leaders stealing these money meant to be in circulation.

You should be a teacher. Simple, clear and straight to the point.

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CR7 should have just gone to chill at Qatar or China. The reality of life is that everyone's time eventually passes. Trying to play at top clubs at all costs is leading to him being relegated.

Even our slay queens of yesteryear are now old hags. Harsh reality of life.

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Lol. These were the easiest things to do back in the days. Tell her to hang out with you in a hotel bar. At the bar, start flirting and touching, if she doesn't resist, then suggesst to her that you want to book a room so you'll spend time together. Her answer will tell you if to go ahead. Don't go and foolishly waste money booking a room.

If it was your house, invite her over. Get a drink, put a good movie and after a while, invite her to come sit with you. If she doesn't agree, you go to her. Cuddle her and start moving your hands around. If she doesn't resist, before you know it she is turned on. If she resist, please leave her. Never force a women.

A woman who isn't feeling you should be left alone. The best relationships with women are with those who dig you.

MrBrownJay1:
i feel sorry for people who think like you do....
- so what you mean is that a man has NO VALUE unless he makes money (and/or a man becomes worthless if he loses his money)?
- so what you mean is that you cannot serve god without money abi?

this is such a failed way to look at life, and also why women think the way they do (if/when men like you think like these failed women)
the value of a person DOES NOT lay upon the money he has (can make), only poor deluded people think like that. we are all great people whether as brokeaaass or as billionaires....your money doesnt dictate whether you are a great person or not, and let me tell you that i have met A LOT OF worthless rich people! i have met a lot of evil good for nothing humans with money.

money is just a tool that we all need for personal survival (food/shelter/clothing etc), but money certainly doesnt change who you are as an individual, and certainly doesnt change your character. if you are a poor miserable person, the day you make money you will just become a rich miserable person, surrounded by oloshoes and begging friends making you believe that you are a great person.....when you will still only be a miserable rich person.

The reason Nigeria is this way is because of the get money at all cost syndrome.

Many marriages are in shambles because the men got the women with money and after a while the men realised the women are nothing but gold diggers while the women realised the men are good for nothing money miss road.

People deceiving people.

It's called minimalism, that's how i lived when single. Even now, i try to avoid cluttering my house with unnecessary things.
My wardrobe still remains decluttered. Get rid of anything not in use. A man's life is truly simple.

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May the good Lord protect all those with risky professions.

Poorly scripted. Since you're asking for advice, shag him.

Still more pretty than 90% of women I've seen. Some people don't need make up, some do. If there are enhancement to help you look your best, always use it but in moderation.

To be honest, the female equivalent of you are now in their late 30's and 40's, frustrated and desperate for any thing with a d**k to look their way.

You should understand that while you are making a list, the ladies are also making their list. The only men who have a wide variety of women for their choosing are the rich and powerful.

Look for a woman who ticks 60% of your list and move on.

Delusions of grandeur. Better read it up.

I already see a very ignorant comment above. It's because we are not technologically advanced yet, we can't grasp basic concepts. We should still be riding on donkeys.

LifestyleTonite:
Yes, same way they told us that Caitlyn Jenner was the world's most beautiful woman or whatever.

Look at the Indomie-looking effeminate fellow they have dubbed as the most handsome man. Some evil people are trying to ruin masculinity. Just imagine the BTS guy beating Henry Cavill(Superman) to the post. Once all the men are made weak like women, the evil people will take over since here won't be masculine men to defend humanity.

Ladies, which do you get wet for and which would you want as your protector?

Like for BTS
Share for Henry Cavill

It's crazy the way the world is trying to bury masculinity. To make matters worse, many men are giving up their God ordained roles and gladly allowing women take over their roles.
This generation of men is the worst in history.

Everyone has the qualities of greatness, they just need the right opportunity to shine.

I stumbled on one woman who sold 2 pear for 150 naira and funny enough, people were buying.
Though she sold it with her roasted corn. Separate cost.

This is what we call trying to survive. Hopefully ,things will improve for you guys.
However, my own issue is that you have to bring in kids when you are already struggling as it is.

Again, how do families survive on 5k a week? Is it not the same market we all go to? Nigerians are really rugged.

Natural order of things always comes through. He has left the older for the younger. Women marry up, men marry down.

I always wanted this car, at a time I was finding it hard to get one and I almost bought a 2014 Corolla instead. The morning I was supposed to go get the Corolla, I found this car. I was elated and paid immediately.
If I had unfortunately bought the Corolla, I would have been miserable and would have obviously sold it after a few months. This Accord is miles ahead of other cars in it's class and year. What a machine.