₦airaland Forum

It doesn't usually end well. Be advised.

I don't see any crime in pleasuring yourself with toys.
Then again, being celibate never killed anyone. You wouldn't die from lack of sex.

This country needs to be destroyed by fire. I'm sure Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed for less.
This baby is draped in Burberry and probably born in a foreign hospital.

Meanwhile I just watched a video of drivers stuck in traffic for days, drinking dirty water and bathing with detergent in a dirty stream. Another one claims he is being paid 5k a month to drive a haulage truck.

A special place in hell await our leaders.

Men bankroll women every minute. A woman who is even a wife has bankrolled her husband and it has become news. Women need to start doing more.

Insult upon injury. You not only cheat, you bring your lover to live rent free in the house your husband paid for.
Sometimes, I'm tempted to agree that most women just use men to have kids and get someone to inherit their financial burden, they hardly give a damn about their husbands.

Festus30:
did you say just 21k? I've done lots of things for that girl. 21k is nothing compared to the things I've been doing for her since we started dating.

That's the problem with you people. Why exactly have you been doing alot for her? You never learn. Doing a lot for anyone will never make them fulfilled. They'll still think you haven't done enough.

We never learn in this country. Even in the West, kids are pampered till they are 18, then parents reduce the way they provide and the kids start learning to struggle for themselves.

The highest you owe a girlfriend is occasional gifts. It's not your duty to turn provider. The only people you are obligated to provide everything for are little children. Get some sense.

At the end a good and decent life is the best as instructed by the good books.
At the end, the things we call pleasure are all destructive.

Maysdevices:
Lol. I strongly doubt you’re a man too. You know too much.



Thank you for your compliment, all I was trying to do was educate. I always say it. As a man, you are already attractive to women even without money.

The thing is when you approach a stranger repeatedly for love, they will take you granted

. It’s the same principle that makes guys run away from women that are too clingy or in love. Women instinctively know now that if you show MOST guys too much love, he will end up taking you granted.


All you have to do ignore women and they will come after you. But it seems so hard for men.

Hmmmmmmm! What man admits your last few lines. Maybe you’re not Nigerian.

Not every Nigerian man would see the truth and tell a lie.
Men created these crop of women they're complaining about today.

Maysdevices:
Begging is begging no matter how you twist it.


As for women feeling entitled, it still the fault of your fellow men.

•You sing about them all the time.
•You gawk at them openly.
•There is this desperation in most men eyes women can identify and leverage.
•A multitude of you are ready to spend your last dime just to slide in.
•Most marry us and believe they are to completely take care of them like they’re children.
•Most women with money are lonely because they have the same characteristics as men, they do what they want and most men would prefer a girl that is less smart and more needy so they can feel like a protector.


I’m smart, beautiful, self made. Most guys that approach me have nothing to offer me unless they work on themselves. I see these guys going after airheads all the time and ignoring me because I DO WHAT I WANT. Not what you feel is best for me.

Men love broke women because they can control them and you know it. Any other thing contrary to that is a huge lie. So you see why these women feel entitled?


African Men should build self respect and stop drooling at every ass and breast they see and women will sit up. White men are busy with their brains and not their dicks, that’s why their women had to sit up.

Lol, smart and articulate even if I strongly suspect this is a man.

Truth be told, the boys on this forum whine a lot. Women bill you because you have no game.
I never dropped shishi as a single man, because women saw me as a catch and believed a future with me is much better than any temporary billing.

Women will bill you if you have nothing to offer. Women only billed married men because they knew it was strictly business.
These days, even single guys have nothing to offer, no packaging, no self confidence, lack the ability to even make a woman attracted to them, thereby making women see them as only good for a fling. Collect the money and go!

This is a disgrace to the male gender. I can imagine how his kids will feel reading this when they grow up.
When I see irresponsible and shameful folks, I feel the most pity for their partners and children more than I feel for them.

I can't imagine someone having sexual urge when broke. Lol, these are the 'i cannot kill my self' kind of people we see in this country.

AutoRedux:
See your dumb logic. Some Yorubas are in Benin republic due to the creation of colonies by France and Great Britain. Are they no longer Yoruba cos they found themselves in Benin republic.?

Ubiaja is Igbo. Some deny while the true ones agree that they are Igbos. I do not care anyways. I am only stating the obvious. They are not supposed to be in Edo state if not for the creating of states by the Nigerian government.

Go and talk with their elders and they will tell you who they are.

Ubiaja is Igbo? You are really retarded. Go and tell any Ishan man that he is Igbo.

You have access to Internet and Google and can't even use it.

Your mother found a wife for you and your introduction is coming up, yet you know nothing about her.

This is the kind of thing I heard they used to do in the 60's and 70's. Wonders shall never end. Let's believe you're joking.

AutoRedux:
Oga shut it. She is Igbo. She's from Ubiaja.

Lol. Is Ubiaja not in Edo, Ishan tribe? You guys are amazing.

SeaTrade:
Too much insults makes you sound classless and stupid.
I love how the guy follow you dey argue with logic and not going dirty with you,
Such arrogance!

Shut up. The OP and I had a good banter. If you feel it's an insultt, that's your bloody funeral.

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michlins:
so you are basing your argument on beer parlour analysis. If I ask you for source of your analysis, you will tell me to trust you.

Nigerians are rich but still willing to sell their votes for 2k after standing in the sun for hours.

In case you want to know what I do for a living, check my handle and I also employ people directly under me.

Nigerians are poor. Nigeria as a country is very very poor.

Comprehension is your problem.
1. I'm not saying the average Nigerian has 29m. Nigeria has 200m people and we all know that majority are suffering.

2. 1% of Nigerians will be about 2 million plus people. I'm telling you that more than 2 million people are worth more than 29m. That means the top 1% of Nigerians have more than 29m.

3. Net worth means a person's total financial standing. In Lagos alone, you'll find at least a million people worth 29m and above. Add Kano, Nnewi, Onitsha, Abuja etc...

4. You reside in Anambra where people are poor but go and find out the net worth of those Nnewi and Onitsha traders that have been in business for decades, your jaw would drop.

5. Lastly, the link you pulled up isn't from any reliable site. Stop taking it to heart. The average Nigerian is secretive and wouldn't disclose his earnings.

I'm worth more than your so called income bracket and I would be foolish and deluded to call myself a member of Nigeria's 1%

By the way, how many Nigerians are in paid employment that you keep shouting 100k salary. I'm sure the average igbo businessman or kano businessman who has done business for a decade is far worth more than 29m.

michlins:
you're using your company and your income to average for the whole Nigeria. How many people work in your company and how does it compare with the whole Nigeria. I'm pulling data from verifiable sources but you're responding with with what you think about your company and place of work.

Millions of people in Nigeria don't have #10,000 cash at this moment we're talking. If you find it easy, it's not same for others.

Meanwhile someone who is earning 200k to have assets and properties worth 30ml should be called for investigation. Let's say you don't spend a Kobo from your 200k, it will take you 12.5yrs to raise save up 30ml.

I know you might say he will invest and do stuff like business,then remember he has rent, transport, feeding, family and other expenses to take care of.

So relax, find me a reliable data that says more than 1% of Nigerians are worth 28ml or forever shut up

You call that stupid link you pulled up data?
The problem is that there are no records in Nigeria. Better stop listening to Western propaganda where they always try to paint Nigerians as wretched.

If you're street smart and exposed, you'll know that more than 2 million Nigerians are worth more than 29m.

Nobody said the average Nigerian is worth 29m, what I said is that it's an insult to say 29m represents Nigerians 1%

Stop using your wretched circle as a yardstick to measure peoples earnings. If you continue with this flawed mentality, you wouldn't go far.

Tell us where you reside? That will be a pointer to know if this discussion is worth continuing.

michlins:
this is a flawed way of collecting data. Because few people with access to funds have insane amount of money doesn't mean it's same for everyone else in Nigeria.

I ask you again, what is the average income of an average person in Nigeria?

How many people earn #100,000 a month in Nigeria?

Bear in mind that one person can have ten estates worth billions and millions of people in Nigeria don't also have shelter at all

A man's net worth includes his houses, shares, landed properties etc. A person may not have 500k cash in the bank but may be worth a 100m.

In my organisation, the average worker has a house and its worth more than 30m. It may have taken them years to build but its theirs. Their monthly salary may be 200k but they have property worth over 30m over the years.

Go and ask your elderly relatives how they managed to own properties even with their small income and the worth of such properties.

Go online and see the cost of cars recently, it has skyrocketed but people are still buying. Nigerians are not as wretched as being portrayed for you to say 29m naira net worth makes you the 1%. That's an insult to Nigerians.

Sure, they are extremely poor people who earn less than a $1 a day but your data is extremely false.

michlins:
average middle class in Nigeria is worth more than 29ml?

Jisos!!!

If you have $1000, you're very much rich. Question is, how many people in Nigeria are worth $1000. Shey person being paid #100,000 in Nigeria is considered to be earning well?

How many years will you earn 100,000 to make 29ml?

You folks don't understand the reality of people of Nigeria and how many people are poor

Like someone schooled you, how much is the average house in Lagos? Definitely more than 30m.
Like I schooled you, net worth is different from income. The only way to rescue yourself is to lie that you meant average annual income is 29m naira.
You're either really young or really poor.

michlins:
I'm done. Make I concentrate on the Man UTD match

I keep telling you people, get an education. Your 29m naira net worth does not make you 1% in Nigeria or anywhere in the world.
Like someone pointed out, the average middle class Nigerian is worth more than that in assets, how much more in developed countries..
Stop pulling stats out of your ass.

Focus on your match, critical reasoning is not your forte.

michlins:
you speak English but you don't understand English properly and that's why we have to write IELTS exam to go to UK.

It's one thing to earn $40,000 and it's another thing to be worth $70,000. By the time you deduct your cost of living and everything, how much are you left with in $40,000 annual income in USA

You're still not smart. What is a person's net worth? Money in the bank?
Investment? Assets?
A smart person knows that higher income eventually translates to a person's net worth all things being equal.

Calculated this way, the typical American family has a net worth of $121,700.

https://www.businessinsider.com/personal-finance/average-american-net-worth?r=US&IR=T

If you passed your IELTS, you'll have understood that there is a difference between income and net worth and that a higher income is directly proportional to an overall higher net worth.

ibechris:
Don't ever measure Nigeria with western countries. How can u measure Nigeria with America when we all know that they are far older than us in everything.

See our mates like Uganda,Kenya,Ghana and Ivory Coast.

Oh dear...

Is this some sort of script for a Nigerian movie? Go amd hire a P.I.

Thankfully it ended well. I once witnessed when a woman in an SUV hit an okada rider. He wasn't injured though. The next thing, those urchins gathered and before we could say Robinson, someone smashed the lady's windscreen. She had her little kids in the car.
It was a pathetic scene and from that day, I was convinced that I share a country with animals.

The most successful people are risk takers. If you like your comfort zone, then stick to your job. However, 50% increase in salary is quite a reasonable sum and it's enough to motivate alot of people.

You know your personality and only you can decide. Personally, I love changes and I would gladly take such an offer.

ibechris:
Nigeria and luxurious lifestyles.

Everything una go compare with America or Europe as if we are all earning in dollars.

A country is never in isolation. You measure GDP with global average, you measure a country's population with other countries etc.
If you don't measure in dollars, how then do you go to the market and complain that things have become expensive? Why do we cry that the dollar to naira rate is going up?

There are just too many illiterates on this forum. Get an education!

If you want to change your daughters surname, the new husband has to officially adopt her. What will be the basis though? As your ex is still alive.

As for taking the kid abroad, get your ex consent. He may gladly give you as the burden of responsibility will be transferred to the new man.

This is not the stone age where you can peddle falsehood anyhow.
What is 29m naira? Money that can't buy a luxury car.

To be in the top 1%, you must have an annual wage of at least $823,763, according to the Economic Policy Institute, That excludes sources of unearned income like investment returns.

https://www.investopedia.com/personal-finance/how-much-income-puts-you-top-1-5-10/

Except you're talking about Nigeria only. If that's the case, then being 1% in Nigeria is still worthless in the bigger scheme of things as $40,000 is about the average income of average workers in the West.

If your partner doesn't have genuine love for you, please don't relocate with her abroad. That society ruins men. I've seen it happen over and over again.

Medianna:
My brother I know do Sabi English like that oo

It's spelled vagina.