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She's actually more 'alright' than a lot of them on this forum.

Interesting.
A woman who wants her man to do vasectomy should be talking to a widower who has had all his children and just needs a wife for companionship only.

Do you know the meaning of a vasectomy? If you run off with another man or God forbid you die, what happens?
It's either you do family planning or you guys use condoms. Stop talking nonsense about vasectomy to a young man.

I've been stumbling on this lady's posts occasionally and it's easy to observe that she not so 'alright'.

joeking2222:
Bia, u tink say uk schools b like nigeria higher institution where a computer engineering graduate no fit ON a DESKTOP COMPUTER, talkless of operating d software in it. Uk schools are 100% fit in terms of practicals.

Keep quiet and understand the topic. The dumb ones are always in a rush to comment. Are we talking of fishes here?

The ugly ones always try too hard.

ArticleBeast:
Be deceiving yourself. In Naija a foreign degree is an hot cake

You are deluded. Go and create a thread on how many unemployed foreign degree holders we have in Lagos jostling for 100k jobs and get a response.

It was in the 90s and 2000s employers cared about foreign degrees. What they want now is experience, productivity and results.
Nobody cares about your UK acquired certificate. What are you bringing to the table? Show also what you have been able to do so far.

Early marriage is good if everything is right. Things have changed now and people are marrying much later than before.

Present generation is so immature that for me, ideal age a lady should marry is between 28 to 33. Whilst a man should marry between 32 to 38. Of course, there are no standards and set rules. People can marry when they find the right one.

That's why you guys always create topics here complaining of your marriage.
You need more than lust and even love to marry.

What do young people in relationships even talk about? No talk of how they'll like to manage their finances, no talk of methods they'll use to raise their kids, no talk of goals and dreams, nothing. All they do is sex and hangout.

After a few months, they'll realize they have nothing in common and don't even like themselves. Then they whine and go on social media to start disturbing others.

Kano get water? Being on a boat is so scary, especially with that expired, half dead life vests.

Stunning? Happy married life.

Social media has exposed the fact that lots of people are sick and need mental health treatment.
The things I see and watch on social media is unbelievable.

I left home late too. However, I wasn't idle, I was building myself, doing masters and other things.
Few years later, I was better off than some friends who left a decade earlier.

Bottom line is that, it's not when you leave, as long as you're not idle and wasting away.
As for the OP, you're wasting away and you will regret this in future. Spend the time of your youth wisely.

People think health issues are a joke. Issues like down syndrome, sickle cell, autism, congenital blindness etc are all things you wouldn't want your child to struggle with whilst still struggling with everyday issues.

There is nothing wrong in opting for abortion in cases of medical abnormalities. You will be miserable, your child will blame you and be unhappy. It's not worth the hassle.

Those talking of right to live, the only life that is enjoyable is the one without any avoidable complications. If parents are able to determine any genetic deformity of their foetus, they shouldn't hesitate to abort. Nobody should have to suffer if it can be avoided.

Social media has brought to awareness the number of sick people in this world.

He got back to his senses. No one wants time wasters.

I'm a bit old fashioned. I love to empower my woman whilst still paying almost all the bills. I enjoy handling such responsibilities. If you leave paying of bills to a woman, be prepared for disrespect.

I also believe that a sensible woman who is earning and contributes only little to the upkeep of the house should be saving aggressively and not wasting money on expensive phones, hair and clothes.

If the chips ever gets down, the woman's savings should bail out the family. But by God's grace, we wouldn't even depend on that, we also save and invest for the raining day. One can't totally rely on another, especially a woman.

Nice one man. Happy married life.
Your wife is a black beauty. I don't know how some people don't know black is beautiful. They'll rather bleach and smell. If you're naturally fair, then that's cool.

Swinger60:
Alot.

I can spend all day with my hubby without getting bored, even when we were dating it was still same.

we tease each other. We have pillow fights. we play indoor games like ludo and even play cards betting with money. (when I see he is winning me, I start cheating) .

we also go out too. (I'm married to an oringo/flexing guy).

Ehen, there are some times we have fun on low key too without breaking bank. all we do is take an evening stroll, buy corn, stroll to his snooker place, I sit and munch my corn while watching him play snooker with his friends and listen and laugh to their jokes and jabs at each other.


see ehen.., in choosing a partner, choose a friend who you can be silly, unserious, shameless, witty, crazy and in their presence, e get Maka why..!!

Quite romantic, I guess this is a new couple. Wait till you are married for many years and. have kids Most married people do pass you before.

It eventually gets boring, not that one has fallen out of love but real life sets in. Putting food on the table and raising decent kids becomes number 1. Fun and games take the back seat. It's unfortunate but that's real life.

Famous owner of off white, which the knock off version has littered our streets. RIP. Being alive is a privilege. We all need to be thankful to the creator.

Alot of people seem to like these useless phone brands on this forum.
If you want quality, go for Samsung, HTC, Google, Motorola, Sony. If you have money to waste and want to keep up with the Joneses, you can try Apple.

It as better to use a used brand of a quality phone than a new poor quality phone.

Typical of a hit. The groom to be is a mafia. Life will be so much easier if we can all control our libido.

I'm quite impressed. I wish I had the patience to DIY. I wish more people will learn to DIY. Fix cars, do their plumbing etc.
We have too many inexperienced workmen charging too much even whilst swindling you when buying parts. Kudos!

You're suffering from low self esteem. Your shyness and being quiet is not the issue.
You just have to find a way to build your self confidence. Loads of quiet and shy people have friends.

ivolt:
You should be able to defend your points as a "strong man".
You chose to run instead, an action which belie your strength facade.

Defend my points against a nobody? It's either you comprehend and take notes or you go read something less intellectually demanding.

ivolt:
Feminism was and is embraced by men.
If it isn't, no single law would ever be made to correct imbalance.
Perhaps, you need an history lesson.

Seems you're the one more in need of an English lesson.

Silly talk. He should just pay for what was damaged.

Sex for most men is purely physical and not emotional. So it's quite easy to just want to relieve urge, not caring about the ladies urge, feelings or even caring to know her name.

Datboredberry:
Laws favouring women were created by men who believed they were stronger simply because they were men...

Do you even understand? The reason why women are evacuated with children... Because men massage their own egos, telling women that they are too weak to fight so they should be defended...

Men don't go through half the sh** women go through... Societal expectations... You can never understand...

Feminism is a movement to raise up women whose rights have been violated! You think the feminists on Twitter and Nairaland define the movement?

You have a problem with women saying girls should also be educated? Or that it's wrong to mutilate the body of a girl? Or that sexual abuse is wrong? That women should be paid the same wages as their male counterparts?

How is any of these biased?

And men cry like little emotional bitchẹs when their own system doesn't favour them... Karma.

You're not intelligent. I can't make head or tail of this write up.

I find it funny when people have a manual for dealing with other people. That's the quickest way to fail.
You watch, study and adapt accordingly.

Get rid of him. Nobody is worth the drama and toxicity.
PS:
The whole story is rooster and bull. He's madly infatuated with the new chick.

Get rid of him. Nobody is worth the drama and toxicity.
PS:
The whole story is cock and bull. He's madly infatuated with the new chick.

It's funny that most of the laws favouring women are made by men. Weak men who make laws in the bedroom.

Men go through a lot. If feminism wasn't hypocrisy and was practised right, it would have been embraced by men because it is supposed to ensure equality and fairness.

Unfortunately, women are generally selfish and only use feminism card when it's convenient.