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Nigerians are gullible. They went to the seller to sample his watches and probably place an order, if they can afford it. That he titled it new baby, doesn't mean he bought it.
He also tagged it, waiting list, meaning there is always a list for buying such customized watches.

God bless my wife, the most uncomplicated woman in the world. Handled her pregnancies like a champ.

Sometimes God really chooses for people. He knows I'm not cut out for drama.

This simple topic reflects who we are as a people. Most people can't come up with intelligent things to even discuss.
Where is the nation headed? From leaders to subjects, everyone is clueless and occupied with mundane things.

Most times I keep to myself and people think I'm proud. I'm not proud, I just keep away from useless chatter. 80% of the words most people in Nigeria speak daily is meaningless and irrelevant chatter.

How will a jobless man think of marriage.
Leave him if you want. Some people have left people they considered as 'unseriois' and later regretted it. Some have left and are thankful for it.

No one here can predict another person's future. Only you can decide for yourself and hope for the best.

I'm disappointed at this banker's reasoning. You can't buy anything reasonable with a dollar in New York? This man is a dunce. What is the average earnings of an American? And a Nigerian?
That's how you determine purchasing power. If I spend N500 to feed per meal and I earn just N5000 a month, that means I'll feed for just 10 days in a month, if I decide to eat once a day . What of my other bills? What a dummy.

I don't feel sorry for such men. I feel ashamed for men who think money is the only thing they can offer a woman.
You keep hearing them say 'make money. When the only thing you have is money, the only thing you will attract are whôŕés.

Whilst it's OK to help a woman out occasionally with money or take her to nice places, you should also never forget that real women want a man that can take charge and be a man. A man that can lead, protect, motivate, advice and guide.

Women even respect a man that can take charge of his finances. Those of you throwing money at women recklessly, be rest assured she laughs at you and calls you a fool. Most of these women usually have more money than you because they are smarter with their finances.

REALretep:
Why do you say so?

Apapa is a cash cow for the uniformed men, unions and other related parties. The cow can only be milked in the midst of chaos.

pocohantas:
Sister, nothing dey outside there again. Na only redpillers, yahoo boys and ritualists . So if this is his only complain, I would advise you talk it out.

Nairaland? Most men would complain of (heavy) social media usage. Especially when they can’t keep track of what you are doing there.

Work and books? Maybe you always do it even when he wants to spend time with you. A little balance here and there is necessary.

If you are still getting turned on by him, then I believe there is still something left. When the sexual attraction leaves, na to throw way am for dustbin remain.

Words from a wise and experienced one, someone who has rocked the town.

@Op,
I don't even know. Sometimes I wonder what women have seen in me. I believe I'm just a regular dude but I've experienced some intense emotional attachment from women in the past. Some have said I'm handsome. Some of their affection have seemed like an obsession.

The question I ask myself is, will I be attracted to me if I was a woman? Guess I'll never know the answer to that.

That place is a disaster. The cabal will never allow sanity come to Apapa. I feel for the helpless governor. Apapa is a disaster.

Heartbeat. The people are living up to it, I mean, we have a large and brave heart, see what we did to APC.

They never give up. How some people decide that illegal business is all they are capable of doing baffles me.
Low self esteem is what makes people chase easy, illegal money.

Very nice comments here from those condemning cheating. I only hope it's a reflection of people's reality.

Cheating is bad, but then, people have wrong partners, cheated and found out the person they cheated with was perfect for them and so, they found their soul mate by cheating.

If you don't want disappointment, keep your sacrifices for your family. Humans are generally unreliable and ungrateful, both men and women.
If you want to preach a message, preach it properly. Limit sacrifices for those who truly deserve it.

Some people are so messed up mentally. Like my friend will say, their head nor correct.
For someone to allow another person to mess up with his mind and thought process, then I will say that person should go see a shrink.
You and your friend, spiritual mentor are all deluded and need mental healthcare.

kushme:
I was truly disgusted with the sycophant and stupid fvck experience.

You see why we detest when men give women power just for sake of they are women and should be included in leadership, cos people like "focusmind" do betray and rubbish the system licking pussy just to find favour.

Naturally, in his heart he never saw her as a leader but one the men at the top had placed for him to suck their pricks through..

Would he have done all that if it were to be a male boss? We see through those bullsh***ts.

Let us be truthful here. In the hearts of many men, they don't see women as leaders. They just accept it cos they can't do nothing about it due to societal arrangee. If you doubt just see how more men would react to his story after reading it.

However, we have some very useless SIMPs who would tell you to control your emotions, do this and that when around female bosses. So I ask, one( a man) needs to have some specific skills when dealing with them? Mumu boys everywhere.

Cos, arguably, the op' is asking only men how they feel working under a woman.
It is a subconscious thang. By default Many men don't wanna work under no woman.

That guy is worse than the lowest of animals. Imagine spewing the nonsense with pride.

Icentautos:
Ehh Mrs observant

Acknowledge you saw my post and made a correction.
Thank you nor dey kill person.

Focusmind:
Just find a way of "ass licking" them. My first boss when I joined the banking sector was a woman. I would praise her to high heaven. Sometimes she came with food from home and while eating it, I would be like, " Madam, this food smells nice and your husband must be enjoying". She would laugh and always found ways of trying to tell me things so that I would give her the kind of answers she would want.

I would praise her and her kids to high heavens to the extent that I had to come to her house to coach her son that was preparing for Federal government college entrance exam then. She was so impressed that I was favored among the staff under her. She was mean to the core and was dreaded by all, but I found favor with her. Sometimes, she sent me to her house with driver to pick up something and I practically warmed myself to her. It was a game I played very well since I could not change or select my boss. She was the one doing appraisal and a lot of things are taken into consideration. If you have been into corporate world, you would understand.

There was time she did 10 years marriage anniversary and invited everybody, including staff. I was practically serving food, doing every chore. When people left that Sunday evening, I went to the back of the house and started washing plates and coolers with her Nanny. She came to the back of the house to drop some plates and found me and shouted that I should leave the place and stop washing the plates. I said, " madam, don't worry, it was nothing." She stood there and was looking at me.

It was around, 8:30pm and I was about to go. She was staying in a massive duplex in festac, while I was leaving at Ire-Akari estate. She insisted that I should not go, that I should go and sleep at their boys quarter. But I told her that tomorrow was Monday and I needed to go home and prepare for work. She said I should not bother coming to the office in the morning and should take two days off. I did stay in their house, helped her kids with their weekend homework and other things.

In the morning, before leaving, the husband gave me N10k and one new Turkish suite that he has not used before. The man is well to do anyway. Since that day, I was one of the most favored staff, recommending me for promotion. This was someone that everybody saw as "wicked" and feared by staff. She could shout to people anyhow and woe to you if you fail to balance your investment account after close of business.

When an opportunity came for someone to be recommended for a new project, she didn't waste time and put me forward. It was not that I was not good on my job, but I needed to build good relationship with her to help my career. In life and in corporate world, your boss can determine the trajectory of your growth. You must manage the person and play to his/her sentiments and massage ego.

But you must know your job and be dedicated. Adding interpersonal relationship and managing difficult bosses are just the icing on the cake.

I hardly insult people but you are despicable for this act of ass licking. It's people like you that can stab a person in the back. A worm is better than your kind.

People should always be themselves and do their job. What sycophants don't know is that people actually know they are sycophants but they just tolerate them but will never take them serious. In times of trouble, they actually run to those who are real and avoid the sycophants.

Is this a camry? You obviously don't know about cars.

Only a DNA test can solve this issue. What has been done has been done. Dust yourself up and move on. Next time control your libido.

Figment of the writer/ bloggers imagination. Anything to trend.

You're growing into a man. You have learnt valuable life lessons, I congratulate you.
Don't bother going back, it will still end up crashing. You will both end up unhappy because it will be a forced relationship. Keep the beautiful memories you have with her before it becomes overtaken with bad ones.

It's true that some people smoke and drink and seem relatively healthy till old age but we should not test fate as we don't know if we are amongst those with such grace.

Everything in life should be in moderation to avoid damage to one's body.

As for OP, you need to see a medical personnel for advice. Whatever advice you get here may not really help. Go see a professional.

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How much is the corolla?
Which year?

A horrible human. Is it the same God that created these people?
Again, why are people bringing tribalism into this? A bad person is a bad person, irrespectiveof tribe or race.

bukatyne:
@bold:

Well said.

I will not say 'alpha male' because it is vague. I would say 'gentlemanly, well behaved assertive men'.

Alpha male is the new gentleman. Generally, the gentleman is the 'mumu', one that cam easily be walked over by more exposed females.
The alpha male is the man that can be loving, caring but firm and take no nonsense. A man that can differentiate a good girl from a hó.

Some people hit your life differently. They may not be the finest or most brilliant. It is inexplicable.

There is a big problem on the hands of parents. It's not just about raising good daughters, we that have boys need to teach our boys to grow up as alpha male and not be moved by lose, morally bankrupt girls looking for whom to destroy.

The boys of this generation have a lot on their hands. The ability to look for a gem in the pile of rubbish is no small task. If a boy is not well mentored, he will be easy prey for these useless girls we have now.

As for me, I find women more attractive with clothes on. Most women don't have great bodies when nude anyway.

edmaraja:
But did you notice how her followers quickly increase from 6million to 7 million? Nigerians too like gossip.

Isn't it obvious it is an old screenshot. Number of posts also increased drastically.
By the way, do these bloggers screenshot every celebrity's Instagram account waiting patiently for the day there will be some drama?

What exactly do wicked people gain? How can one want to kill 7 family members? I don't think Satan himself is that wicked.