₦airaland Forum

Why is this news? Everyone has burnt food before. Next...

It's true that religion shouldn't be that serious but it is. Personal belief is very powerful. It guides our thoughts and actions. I never play with people's belief, it's what helps them cope with life.

That being said, instead of trying to change someone or being angry that someone has different belief than you, look for the one who shares same belief as you.
Bottom line, allow her be and don't hold a grudge. You will find the one who shares your own belief.

Kobojunkie:
Is there such a thing as "enough work" where your very own family is involved?

In single-parent homes for instance, you find single mothers/fathers who take care of their kids, and house and also work.... so what in the world do you mean by "that is enough work ...."?

Would you have known if truly she doesn't have then finances to contribute if I hasn't at least inquired about her employment status?

What's with the stupid emoji you keep using, are you in Pry 2?

It's quite unfortunate that you have a randy dad. There is nothing much you can do about it.
My only advice is not to make the same mistake. Ensure you shine your eyes well and not marry a randy man. Let lightening not strike twice.

People should not only study the physical side of their partners, study their emotional and mental sides too. Lot's of emotionally and mentally damaged people are roaming around, looking for whom to bring to their level.

She's unstable. I've seen lot's of beautiful but emotionally damaged, women. You can't save her, she's a liability and will bring nothing but bad energy to you.

InfernoNig:
The way some guys dey rush marriage now ehn, e come be like say the girls done dey finish.

Well he should look at it as a blessing in disguise. Who knows, God might have just saved his future from a terrible woman.

Or saved the girl from a horrible man. It's not every proposal that should be accepted.

New format for confused Nigerians now to relocate.

The reason òkhòkhò sounds familiar to the yoruba and igbo and other tribes is because you are all descendants of the great bini empire. You were all under bini colony.

And this is news?

Man up son. Real men take responsibility for their actions. Nothing wey man never see for life before.

A figment of your imagination.

Story unclear.

Mental health issues is real.

Life is tough for Nigerians. A fairly decent meal is about N500. I wonder how many people survive when most live on less than $1 a day.

What is your business with all these drama? Stay away from toxicity and focus on being a better version of yourself.
What is gone is gone. Send your daughters upkeep and mind your business.

Someone finally got it right, not like those old hags. This girl is beautiful. Black rocks.

I hope dem wipe am 2 by 2. Everything in this country has gone to the dogs. The reason these old politicians don't want to give up power is because they know that the youths are a thousand times worse . No discipline, no ethics.

I've experienced this a couple of times, most times I'm told by a doctor it's usually due to an allergy. I also noticed that it gets better with antibiotics, very annoying cough.
Anyway, go and see a doctor. You may also try honey and bitter kola combo. It's quite effective.

I think women are like black Americans, their marginalisation idea is more in their head than reality.
The world has since moved past these kind of discrimination. Apart from a few misogynistic men and underage nairaland boys, most people have come to reality that women have as much rights and privileges as men.

Our bosses and female colleagues are women. Top company executives and business women are women. Top politicians and head of countries are women.

Women should focus their energy in achieving more and stop worrying over the opinion of a few people.

Klass99:
Hmm....you mean like with Tunnel Bear on the IP thing? Some companies do an IP sweep and somehow are able to detect your exact location. What's your own strategy for making the dream come true?

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1. My strategy is basically to go into services, have a company that provides services, probably haulage or something. I'm still figuring that out. Basically, something that I can have full control over, time and all.

2. There are services like express vpn etc that are very good. Most good vpn services are paid for, the issue of cracking it is non existent, do some research.

This right here is one of the reasons I want to stay child free. This fear of the unknown tends to magnify in ten folds when children are involved, bringing with it paralyzing thoughts of - how will my children feed, how will I continue to pay this school fees, what will my children do, I don't want my children to suffer and more....... So, you stay in a soul sucking job that drains you year in, year out for their sake and security.

As a single and child free person, I only have to worry about my parents and thank God for good/sensible siblings. I know that when I unintentionally drop the ball on their upkeep allowance and general welfare, one of my siblings will pick up the slack until when next I can. Knowing there's that support for our parents minimizes my own fear of the unknown and allows me to take risks with my work life.

You are able to take care of your parents, which is commendable. If you don't have kids, who takes care of you?
I also had that fear, I still do but my kids are the best thing in my life, they keep me motivated and make life worth living. Anyway, I guess you're still young and I expect you'll change that opinion with time.

Klass99:
Lol, funny but true.

It's a burning desire within and a driving force for me, I really want to make it happen.

I recognize I may need to re-skill, it would have been a reality for me already, if not for these stupid yahoo boys who have given us a really bad rep.

I keep losing out on remote work opportunities (I don't even need to re-skill for) because once they see my location is Nigeria or my IP address shows Nigeria that's the end of discussion. I get told these opportunities are not available to my country.

Whilst it looks like an attractive prospect, it's quite difficult. It takes alot of time and hardwork. You may even have less time than you have now.
As for the IP, do some research. There are many options available.

An almost 20 year old car being sold for such an amount, it will not be well with the leadership of this country. A car that was about 2million a year ago.

Klass99:
You just described me , I feel the exact same way you do, you are not alone! Especially on the bit about feeling unfulfilled.

What I want more than anything else is the freedom of time, I want to gain freedom over how I spend my days.

I also want to start working and earning online (legit work) without leaving the comfort of my home, while I determine the number of hours I work each day.

We're many with this dream. Sadly, people hardly get what they want.

Thank God I didn't marry someone like this. I would just alow her relocate to the village and let me be with my kids.

When people are running from the village, this one wants to go and attend parties.

Apart from occasional visits to your family, you have no business in the village anymore.

One of the sweetest thing in life is when someone worries over your matter and you don't even know they exist.
Focus on more Important things in life son. There is so much to worry about than someone who will never know about your existence.

You deserve better, except you feel you don't. Avoid people with baggage and complications, it doesn't end well.

No wonder. I had to connect via hotspot and now I know it isn't just me and my phone isn't faulty.
No wahala, anything can fail even the human system.

Amd they say women don't love. This guy doesn't look rich.
Most men wouldn't touch a woman like this except she's a millionaire.

Banging from morning till night is not compensation for how much was spent.

Sex....enjoyed by both men and women.

Money....enjoyed by only the recipient.(woman).

Men should stop spending money foolishly and think that sex is a compensation, it's not. Agreed that most women will only give sex if you spend on them but please spend with sense.

Very soon.
Please guys, I just got married. I don't know where to insert my penis into my wife. Where should I put it? Should I snap a picture of her vagina so you guys can guide me to the right place?

budaatum:
Did someone tell you wisdom is indicated by the number of people who agree with you? It would explain why you think you are talking sense. Lol.

Why are you arguing with these people? They have a certain mentality, poverty striken mentality. They believe they are entitled to their parents wealth.

For a father to treat a son that way, he probably knows how useless the son is and wants to teach him life lessons.
If you give some kids access to money, they'll end up killing themselves.

Nobodyis entitled to anyone's money. A parent owes a child food, education, clothing and accommodation. Everything else is a privilege. Of course, most kids here are still being fed and can't reason past their entitlement mentality. That's the stage they are in now.