samdon12: we are living in a "Man's World"

carefreewannabe:

RuuDie: Food for thought. . .maybe its the guys who ain't getting any that are calling women sluts!

carefreewannabe:

rather country

let's keep it up, we have come very far that way we can be so proud of this nation, the best place to live.

Cold faya: I always praise girls to b honest. Though its painful wen u realise someone else is chopping the kpomor with u. Have u ever hung out with ur female friends? See d number of guys (fine n rich) guys that toast a single lady in just a day! Yet some still try to keep One guy!
Some times she even sees all the qualities of her guy n even better qualities in like 3 guys in just one day, yet she still sticks wit her guy.

Buh ladies this is not a write up to encourage promiscuity ooo but to say a big twalley to d real gud ladies.

Richfella: Most of us guys are quick to judge women: "That Ngozi babe is loose, 3 boyfriends in 1 year!". "I still can't believe it, my girlfriend just told me she's slept with 8 guys. Geezuus! She is not wife-material!"

But have we ever stopped to look at the world through their own eyes? The Indians used to say, don't judge a man until you walk a mile in his moccasins (Lol, some funny dude added; so that you'll be a mile away, and have their shoes ).


The average looking girl, in her prime, gets offered sex a million times more than the richest, sexiest dudes ever would. Most good looking girls get chyked and offered sex massively, every single day. It could be very subtle, like when the guy offers to give you a lift in his car, compliments her on her new hair. Or blatant, like when he comes all out and makes his intentions known.

At just 5 chykers a day, that translates to frightening figures like 365 X 5 = 1,825! times in just ONE year. And then, there's the next year, and the next year and the next year...


Lord knows that if girls chyke me like that on a daily basis, that I will become useless, won't ever go to work again . And Rough Rider, Durex and Gold Circle will all give me a combined Platinum VIP Card .

And to add petrol to fire, these marrafokers come bearing gifts. Bribes. Tempting, hard-to-resist, mouth-watering bribes. Money, phones, clothes, travel, jewellery and comfort - in all it's devilishly disarming forms.



Sincerely, I am yet to meet any guy that can withstand the onslaught of temptation, the barrage of inducement that our girls have to deal with EVERY SINGLE DAY. Yet we feel we are on a moral high-ground and have the right to judge them.

Truth be told, If most of us stood to gain even the smallest of material benefits from having sex, we would all line the streets at night in body-hugging micro clothing!


Our society encourages women to dress sexy & feel sexy but at the same time strongly disapproves of them expressing it to the full. It's really unfair the societal pressure we mount on them to conform to our 'ideal' and repress their most natural desires. Our fellow human beings who possess the same powerful drives that we do.

Is it not the height of hypocrisy. You sleeping with any available living thing that moves. And then turning around to judge women for being picky, showing discipline and resisting temptation.

Maybe she once had a one-night stand, so what? Maybe she once slept with someone for money, so what? Maybe she had 10 boyfriends, e he??

If you look at it closely, we guys are actually the real sluts. The hypocritical sluts. The Sadducees and Pharisees .

Now, if you were a girl, from the bottom of your heart, do you think you could ever be half as good?

pleep: Dude, if you want to date sluts be my guest. Who cares? No ones asked you to stop. That girl who slept with 3 men in 1 year actually slept with 10, the girl who claims shes a virgin slept with 3.

Me and the other decent men wont date sluts, no matter what excuses yall make for them.... thats our right too.

pleep: well... as you can imagine its a can of worms. Which is why posters like this annoy me

But i can usually tell how slutty a girl is after knowing her for a while

pleep:
Richfella your post is based in fact, but you reached the wrong conclusions.

First off, male and female sexual phychology is different, this due to evolutionary biology. Women are by nature more selective in their sexual partners, while mens standards are much lower. In an uncontrolled enviornment this would lead to most of the females reproducing with a handfull of males (the alpha males) and thus passing on the best genes to posterity.

This is why humans subconciously consider it deviant when a woman is loose, all it shows is a lack of self control. Yes, it is true that women get more offers for sex than men but you make the mistake of assuming that the temptation is as great as it would be for a man in that same situation. Like i said, females are more selective and will only get turned on by a few of those males.

As for your point about clothing... society doesn't force women to dress provacativly, they do it for themselves or for attention from men. Girls who dress more skanky get more attention and thats why they do it. The backlash comes from modest girls who feel pressured.

All this being said, also keep in mind that most women have had much more sexual partners than you could know, much more than the average man. Many have sex whenever they want, and really have nothing to complain about. Guys have less societal pressure but also far less opportinity for sex, so it balances out. 'Slut shaming' is more or less a way to uplift and add value to the women who have chosen to be chaste, it doesn't make life any more difficult for the ones who aren't unless they subscribe to it themselves.

Chances are if your GF is a not a virgin shes had alot of sex, prolly more than you (unless ur an alpha male)

kandiikane: Lol, please don't get me wrong, there are genuine and honest women and thing Men thing women should be(like myself ofcourse ) but You have to realise that all that glitters is not gold. Women are as promiscuous as men if not more. You have to realise on average women cheats more than men and the reason why we think it's men is because women know how to hide well and act holy than thou.
I'm trying to tell you, women own the game not the other way round.

kandiikane: I definitely will know how to lose them so to not get branded as a slut even if I was sleeping with 10 men.

kandiikane: There is no contradiction pleep, women complain because they don't understand how men can be negative regarding this issue when they are both basically doing the same thing. Hypocrisy and double standards.

The op is basically saying that^.and asking Why are you being a hypocrite?

I'm naturally a relationship first=intimate relations after aka 1 man woman but if I was going to lose my inhibitions like that. I definitely will know how to lose them so to not get branded as a slut even if I was sleeping with 10 men.

pleep: Most men don't expect or want their GFs to be virgins....i am the only one i know . Did you not read the thread on here that was basically bashing virgins? you clearly dont know anything about the average man, if you think we would call that a 'slut'


.... plz don't introduce more bs into this thread.

obi2012: Did you read this entire thread?