4words:
well since your the initiator, you can also be the executor.

Oahray: It's not my intention to say if it's right or not. I only know that if you love someone, you'd look for ways to make the person happy. Give and take.

But seriously, girls, why una like double standards like this?

If you say NO on the basis of 'no ring yet', you have no right to expect things only a husband is obliged to give either.

kar'ie:

ewww, 7days in a week, u wan de wash, clean house, cook food, washbathroom and wash dirty plate just sign in as house girl nau make we know say na house gal.
in 2013 you wan de do house girl for b/f SMH

Maya2pretty: My ex couldn't even
cook indomie properly, it was my greatest delight to cook for him at every given opportunity while he worshipped me lol but he eventually d basics of cookin cos I insisted dat he learnt somethings so he won't b totally dependent. If dere's love den it'l b ur pleasure to help out, not become a slave

Idowuogbo:
Awww... Maga toh niooce!

Maya2pretty: My ex couldn't even
cook indomie properly, it was my greatest delight to cook for him at every given opportunity while he worshipped me lol but he eventually learnt d basics of cookin cos I insisted dat he learnt somethings so he won't b totally dependent. If dere's love den it'l b ur pleasure to help out, not become a slave

Maya2pretty: My ex couldn't even
cook indomie properly, it was my greatest delight to cook for him at every given opportunity while he worshipped me lol but he eventually learnt d basics of cookin cos I insisted dat he learnt somethings so he won't b totally dependent. If dere's love den it'l b ur pleasure to help out, not become a slave

chikeorji123:

Did u said ur EX?..and u bear such a nice name MAYA2PRETTY why so many ex these days?..

kar'ie:

idowu idowu. now i think some1 hacked your account, kindly go back and read our conversation from page 0

ifihearam:
So performing your duties has transformed into slavery for 2013 babes??
na wa oooo

Oahray: It's not a duty sha.

Oahray: It's not my intention to say if it's right or not. I only know that if you love someone, you'd look for ways to make the person happy. Give and take.

But seriously, girls, why una like double standards like this?

I remember one thread in which the op called her bf (not husband) of four years stingy for not replacing her stolen phones on two occasions, and instead going ahead to buy phones for himself.
Most girls on the thread immediately started the "stingy bfs make stingy husbands" song. Only a few agreed that providing is the duty of a husband, not a bf.

Now it's the turn of the ladies, the roles of bfs/gfs suddenly gets revised. It's suddenly not right this time cos he has not put a ring on her finger yet. Like seriously?

As for the topic, it never mentioned how often. It only asks if it is write right to do them.
If you say NO on the basis of 'no ring yet', you have no right to expect things only a husband is obliged to give either.

Idowuogbo:
U dey mind d akpu head?

Idowuogbo:
U dey mind d akpu head?

dont8: How can someone that cares or shows love be a maga

I know you're joking anyway, but this is one of our problem as a nation, seeing oneself as being smart and the helper as a maga (mugu). We need complete re-orientation as a people.

Oahray: It's not a duty sha.

Oahray: I like the bold part. Nice point. But this is an example of what I am saying... It's a thing of pride for you that he 'worshipped' you. Probably showering you with stuff. I'm sure no girl in this situation would object.
But something as petty as cooking could make the girl a 'slave'. Why? Cos most girls are only after what they can get, not what they can give.

If doing something for her so-called bf makes a girl feel like a slave, it really says alot about the kind of person she is.

ifihearam:

ogoro face wetin?

ifihearam:

So performing your duties has transformed into slavery for 2013 babes??
na wa oooo

ifihearam:

ogoro face wetin?

Oahray: Ifihearam, where that ya e-babe?

ItsModella:
This right here is the reason why many girls refuse to wash and cook for their guys...when there are guys like you who think it's our duty to do those stuffs. Without us, can't you feed yourself and wash your clothes?

ifihearam:

when does it become a duty ni?

Idowuogbo:
Shift>>>>>>>>>>>>Nigerian Hitler!

chikeorji123:

Did u said ur EX?..and u bear such a nice name MAYA2PRETTY why so many ex these days?..

Idowuogbo:
It becomes part of my responsibility wen I take up ya surname.

Maya2pretty:
Eh let's just say we weren't meant to b, we r still very good frienda though

Maya2pretty:
True, my on take on slavery in dis context is wen d guy abuses u and ur good intentions and treats u like his 1500 naira house girl den most idiots would force sex on u as change to d 1500 value they attached to u, we all need to b wise in anythin we do

ifihearam:

nor be only surname,na all this kind things una mama do wey make dem the good and best mothers/wives they are today

ifihearam:

So performing your duties has transformed into slavery for 2013 babes??
na wa oooo