Idowu make we read am 2gether,IS IT RIGHT FOR A LADY TO DO ALL THE WIFELY THING.Oya aunty explain.

All the wifely thing,for what now.

Idowuogbo:
Do u give half or everything in a serious relationship?

im not "the case study" here am i?

well do you?

luvmijeje: Idowu make we read am 2gether,IS IT RIGHT FOR A LADY TO DO ALL THE WIFELY THING.Oya aunty explain.

All I do for LOVE!!

Now to u Margret thatchers....

"Love is the art of exceptions"

(Badosky 2013)

gree-die:

im not "the case study" here am i?

well do you?

I asked first, answer me!

haha... Love this.. Grabs chair, calls Ikenna to bring keg of palm wine and bush meat.. Hmmm... Odikwa interesting movie wey i wan watch for hia #with deep Igbo intonation.# Make I dey watch this fightu

If the same girls here get attacked by someone outside, they will expect their boyfriend to come and defend them, potentially risking his life and getting stabbed in the process or worse.

Yet here they are bickering & quarelling with idowu over how many plates they should and shouldn't wash for him....
Selfish things.

Mtcheewww

And even warm his bed? Lailai. I'll pass.

Idowuogbo:
Kini big deal?

u doin same tin right?

odikwa risky for my naija ladies, we are saying this is our criteria for getting married and you are there saying you want the western pattern. Mtcheeeeew. For christ sake, we need you to do these three things love us, feed us, never leave us.

favynikky: u doin same tin right?

Yes! Now wot?

4words: odikwa risky for my naija ladies, we are saying this is our criteria for getting married and you are there saying you want the western pattern. Mtcheeeeew. For christ sake, we need you to do this there things love us, feed us, never leave us.

As in, as if the west dey pay bride price
They want 150% of the west and are seemingly unable to give it right back.

Caracta: And even warm his bed? Lailai. I'll pass.

U don dey warm am b4 na...D kissing, hugging and smooching no b warmth?

Idowuogbo:
Helping out dont mean u obliged into doing it all d time nau.... Hian! Wots ur definition of girlfriend?

she dose it all d tym always at his houz,sleeps dere somtyms

favynikky: she dose it all d tym always at his houz,sleeps dere somtyms

Hen hen? Na teenager? Mind ya business!

favynikky: I hv 1 of ma friend dat dose it and is quite disturbing.pls guyz I need ur comment on dis.

@poster...right not write
Pls stop attending night school..pay no good

xyoung:
@poster...right not write
Pls stop attending night school..pay no good

you no fit commot eye. Mtcheeew

2buff:

So please tell me how you would show love to a man you claim to be in love with.
If I ask you now how should a man show love to a girl he claims to be in love with, 90% of the things you will mention are things, by your logic, "a person should only do when married" (I'm not even talking about sex here).

It is this sort of selfish thinking that destroys relationships. Always taking yet never showing love back.
...and then you people would start wondering why you are pushing 40 and unmarried. Mtcheeww.

she dose it 2 all her men nd she is lik 36 nw

favynikky: she dose it 2 all her men nd she is lik 36 nw

Then it is NOT because she does this, but because they never loved her to begin with.
It could be there are other things about her that prompt them not to commit to her that long.
One incompatibility or another. Or it could be that she started to show love when she had already become old cargo and her shelf life was already nearing expiry date.

A good-headed, young beautiful girl who doesn't CHOOSE to remain with a player will be wifed if she has these characteristics.

A normal girl, gorgeous and all, who cares enough for me to do these things for me out of love and just her being her....
I dey crase if I no ring am commot am for market.

favynikky: she dose it 2 all her men nd she is lik 36 nw

Lmfao! Abeg liv my Aunty alone o! Once bitten twice shy. She was once like u westernised agarachas...thank Gawd for amazing grace, the Aunty don shine eye. Mind ya business oo!!!

2buff:

Then it is NOT because she does this, but because they never loved her to begin with.
It could be there are other things about her that prompt them not to commit to her that long.

But a normal girl, gorgeous and all, who cares enough for me to do these things for me out of love and just her being her....
I dey crase if I no ring am commot am for market.

Touché!

Idowuogbo:
In 2013, y'all still get dis kian mentality? Wots d biggie about sweeping, washing and cooking? I mean for Godsake, dose are d qualities a guy who wants to settle down would probably be on d look out for. All dis shakara dey ruin cv o! U were warned o! Hian! Smh.

babes i don't think that is what they she or they meant. She meant that doing all that 24/7, 365 is ridiculous only a husband is sorta deserving of all that.

The lady can help out, but she shouldn't be doing it alone.

I believe anything u do in a relationship should b because u want to not because its wat d world expects. If u really love d guy den it comes from d hrt, u just want to make him happy and d extent u go is ur bizzz, keepin it real is vital in a relationship

4words:
you no fit commot eye. Mtcheeew

Lol

adabeke12:

babes i don't think that is what they she or they meant. She meant that doing all that 24/7, 365 is ridiculous only a husband is sorta deserving of all that.

And where y'all getting ur stats from? Am going by d title of d thread,and its content. I quote... "she sleeps dere sometimes" dis statement has definitely ruled out d cohabiting assumptions.it's obvious d lady naturally enjoys catering to her man's needs. Na crime?

Idowuogbo:
Now u talking... dats d wifely duties /wifey material babe!

babes oh. make una wait oh... abi u no say even wives now adays dont cook every single day.

4words: odikwa risky for my naija ladies, we are saying this is our criteria for getting married and you are there saying you want the western pattern. Mtcheeeeew. For christ sake, we need you to do these three things love us, feed us, never leave us.

even wit ladies doin all dis some of u men will later go 2 d villa pik a gal 2 marry witout she even doin d wifely tin

@topic, yes it is write!

I hate coming late to parties

xyoung:
@poster...right not write
Pls stop attending night school..pay no good

thnks lecturer

adabeke12:

babes oh. make una wait oh... abi u no say even wives now adays dont cook every single day.

Ur point? Galfriends dey cook everyday? Na every man dey chop home cooked meals 7days a week?