Harvard-Grad:


Only foolish men think virginity is a measure of how faithful a woman is/will be, as for me I really think its all BS.

@Mondi but she has refused to leave me alone naa, make she do she no wan do, free me make I waka go na lie. That is the frustrating part.

"I am not really sure I am ready for this yet" in her own words, after 27 years!!! , when some people like Idowuogbo, Nessafresh and Shollypopz have been doing its since they were 13!

kulyie: hahahaha resentments of not seeing a virgin girl to deflower

kulyie: lmao pot calling kettle black but you are enjoying the Mouth Action abi :p

chikk:

SMH! I didn't even see this before I made my previous post. Maybe the girl will be sure when the next guy comes along(who may not want to marry her still). Then, she will not marry a virgin after keeping herself for 27 years!!!! Na wa o. Women sef. But OP, did she tie you to her apron strings? Bounce nah!!!! Una two dey annoy me sef

Shollypopz: Frustrating in what sense?? You should be happy u HV a jewel, do u know how many men will kill for what you have??

Shollypopz:
LoL, I agree but there are advantages that comes with marrying a virgin if she's a true one.

Amazing self control.
You can be sure she doesn't bend easily to peer pressure.
She is a determined woman.
You have the opportunity to shape and define what sex means and is to her. If she associates sexx just to you, then you can be sure she'll remain faithful. (I might HV to elaborate on this)


In fact, pls leave her. Give way for a man that knows her worth to find her.

onila: are u a virgin?

Shollypopz:
Yes

onila: yaaay

am proud

Shollypopz:
Yay! I'm proud to be a fake virgin like you

Mustay: See what the world has become.

On one hand some preach abstinence, on the other hand others say it's not a measure of faithfulness, more like, opening the can leads to explorations.

On one hand, they tell us the disvirgined have 'been there, done that' so you can always count on them not to wander like Bolton Wanderers. On the other, it's better to have original Dunlop tyres.

Some reading it may even dump their 'holiness' and seek someone else because they doubt if that 'uptight' other party may not also change later on after marriage.

Whatever the case may be, morality varies across individuals but there are always virtues - if you like be hypocritical and don't practise what you preach but for sure, "eni ti o wa IWAKUWA, aa ri IRIKURI".

Harvard-Grad:
Shollypopz dating a virgin who can't seem to make up her mind is one hell of a job. You can't have it, yet you are not allowed to get it somewhere else.

I understand the point you are trying to make, but she just doesnt seem to be able to make up her mind on whether she wants to keep it or not, yet she no go leave person alone. That is the frustrating part

dc555: Our values have gone. she should be celebrated. but @op i don't blame u. too much pornography, BBA, mtv, rihanna, chris brown. i mean your mind had been completely perverted since childhood.

NEROSKY: [size=16pt] Man up bro, your virgin girlfriend could be another man's sex machine.. Don't ever believe that trash! [/size]

onila: yaaay

am proud

Harvard-Grad:
Shollypopz dating a virgin who can't seem to make up her mind is one hell of a job. You can't have it, yet you are not allowed to get it somewhere else.

I understand the point you are trying to make, but she just doesnt seem to be able to make up her mind on whether she wants to keep it or not, yet she no go leave person alone. That is the frustrating part

chikk:



I think you all are overlooking the main issue here. Yes, granted, the lady deserves a thumb up for keeping herself till now, but is that the issue here? Why has everyone refused to see what IS but instead, sees what IS NOT?

This guy is damn frustrated. Virgin or not, a lady at 27 should know what she wants. This guy is well intended if you ask me o, because he NEVER said she is waiting till she gets married. He said she can't seem to make up her mind! This is a damned, confused, mature virgin IMO!

What guarantee do we have that if the guy leaves her, another person will not convince her to do it as she seems not to know what she wants? The guy told her he doesn't want platonic relationship and she agreed from the onset! Now why is she not keeping to her own part of the bargain?

I think this guy is really trying because any other regular guy would have had her one way or another. He keeps his distance when she says NO(respect!). He doesn't sleep with other women because she doesn't like it(respect!). He still waits patiently because she hasn't made up her mind(respect!). What the hell does she want?

If you ask me o, the girl is trapping the guy down with her virginity, hoping he will propose someday cos I can't see why she won't give in or bounce.

@OP, pls, leave the girl alone. Though sex is not the ultimate in any relationship, If she wants to keep herself till she marries, then don't be the one to prevent that.

To all the guys here abusing the poster; how many of you can really maintain sex-free relationships? How many virgins have you helped to preserve themselves till they marry? And to the married ones, how many of you met and married your wives as virgins? Let's face facts here, the guy says he can't endure, free him abeg!

mr.drizzy:
nigerians and thier 1way of thinking

pappythinko: Not really ma'am i would hve preferred to enter Jerusalem but wetin man go do na, na wetin man dey use keep body n soul tgda be that... why u cme dey tackle me na u go be one area mama as u dey yarn. no qualms though.vc we go still jam... na lag u dey??

sunny t: On a slide note, virginity shdnt be a criteria for marriage, d fact dat a gal is still intact dosnt mean she will be faithful, loyal, submissive or committed to a man. It dosnt mean she will make a gud wife. Virginity only means she is unopened yet, and i discovered its nt bcs dos virgin gals are decent most of the times, some are jst scared of the pain or a lack of oppurtunity.

sunny t: On a slide note, virginity shdnt be a criteria for marriage, d fact dat a gal is still intact dosnt mean she will be faithful, loyal, submissive or committed to a man. It dosnt mean she will make a gud wife. Virginity only means she is unopened yet, and i discovered its nt bcs dos virgin gals are decent most of the times, some are jst scared of the pain or a lack of oppurtunity.

Shollypopz: Frustrating in what sense?? You should be happy u HV a jewel, do u know how many men will kill for what you have??

Shollypopz:
LoL, I agree but there are advantages that comes with marrying a virgin if she's a true one.

Amazing self control.
You can be sure she doesn't bend easily to peer pressure.
She is a determined woman.
You have the opportunity to shape and define what sex means and is to her. If she associates sexx just to you, then you can be sure she'll remain faithful. (I might HV to elaborate on this)


In fact, pls leave her. Give way for a man that knows her worth to find her.