Richfella:

My brother, in the distant past, I would have agreed with everything you said.

Look at it this way. For a girl to keep her virginity until 27, she is now super invested in it. A massive portion of her self-concept and self-esteem is strongly tied to her status as a virgin.

At her age, to her, disvirgining her and bouncing will probably be higher up on the scale than rape. You will be hurting, no...HARMING that girl on a very deep level. Like blinding someone's remaining eye - just because you could.

You can eventually fvck her if you just do one two things...BUT, there's also a higher-calling. I mean this virginity shít means so much to HER. Just let her keep it...you da boss!

There are plenty other girls you could have if you wanted. If you like her, keep her as a friend and bang other chics.

Just see her as your daughter or little sister who is in a dilemma. She doesn't want to lose you and she also doesn't want to lose her virginity too.

You da man.

Shollypopz: You don't seem to really care for her. It's like you just want some of the forbidden fruit and out...

What do you mean by disservice?? Is she being extra difficult?? It might be your fault you know, you might not be good at fore-play.

Harvard-Grad:
I think its better when the cherry is popped early, babysitting a 27 year old virgin is extremely frustrating. I wan resign abeg.

fratochi: I wonder where this our generation is heading with this celebration of immorality and iniquity! For goodness sakes where's is our sense of decency and chastity? Have we deteriorated to the point that we abhor cherished virtues of our society and even our faith? Instead of us to celebrate a woman of strong virtues and principles, a lady that against a million odds kept her virginity for a record 27 years , we are here trying to crucify her because of one mans evil inclined selfishness and uncontrolled lust. we really need to go back to our creator, because at the end of the day be you christian, muslim or pagan there's still respect for good morals. To the op, I wonder what that girl is still doing with you, cos its obvious you guys are not operating on the same frequency, leave her alone before you corrupt her , her specie is rare ! God help us!

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beebop: I've said it before and I'll say it again.

A woman's selfworth is not tied to her v.agina. Whether she is a virgin or no, her character, intelligence, and person should be far more important criteria than a thin piece of skin located in her private parts. Women should stop selling themselves short, biko, it's very irritating to read the million and one posts on someone's virginity. We're in 2013 not 1950, if you marry a virgin, clap for yourself. If you marry a good person, other people will clap for you.

beebop: I've said it before and I'll say it again.

A woman's selfworth is not tied to her v.agina. Whether she is a virgin or no, her character, intelligence, and person should be far more important criteria than a thin piece of skin located in her private parts. Women should stop selling themselves short, biko, it's very irritating to read the million and one posts on someone's virginity. We're in 2013 not 1950, if you marry a virgin, clap for yourself. If you marry a good person, other people will clap for you.

repogirl: @ poster, if you are frustrated, why not leave already? Why wld she give it up at 27 yrs? The older they keep it, the harder it is to give it up o.

And for the poster that said being a virgin means she'll be faithful is so untrue o. Virgins are most likely to wonder what else is out there aside what she's been having. Whereas someone that has been around will be like, been there, done that, I don belleful.

That's just what me thinks.

Harvard-Grad:
Shollypopz dating a virgin who can't seem to make up her mind is one hell of a job. You can't have it, yet you are not allowed to get it somewhere else.

I understand the point you are trying to make, but she just doesnt seem to be able to make up her mind on whether she wants to keep it or not, yet she no go leave person alone. That is the frustrating part

Elai147: How do you know she is a virgin? Please don't be deceived. I have had this kind of issue in the past. You just cannot ascertain it until you are in there or take her for a test. Besides there are different ways a girl can lost her virginity apart from sex. Dont be fooled by any woman- be sure.

Olowowolex: The annoying thing is that most of these ladies fakes virginity to guys who truely loves them and ready to wait yet they sleep around with other guys.

yusuf01:

Guy, thank God for what you have, it's not that she isn't matured (she's 27 for God's sake) but for the fact that she's saying NO until marriage doesn't mean you have to babbysit her in every issue...