DailyNews: So there is no justification to a girl being materialistic, wayward or gold-digger! If u don't like a guy, there is no two ways about it, tell him no and stand by your NO and don't commit yourself and emotion to him by accepting a dime or gift from him!

If I don't like a girl, even if she likes, let her go to heaven and bring angel Gabriel down for me or buy me diamonds, the fact remains that I won't date or marry her, and I won't accept anything from her, period! And that's how a reasonable human (man or woman) ought to behave.

sweetestguy: and wen u notice dat de ar nw been too demandin, stop givin dem and see wat wil happen, dats wen ul knw if de truly like u

axion:
Bitter truth here obviously includes encouraging women to engage in dishonesty, betrayal and a slew of societal vices. No wonder the world is the way it is.

The same rationale is why Yahoo boys swindle people and they have ranked Nigeria on Internet blacklists worldwide. They are just being sharp guys, those oyinbos are mugus.

axion:
Bitter truth here obviously includes encouraging women to engage in dishonesty, betrayal and a slew of societal vices. No wonder the world is the way it is.

The same rationale is why Yahoo boys swindle people and they have ranked Nigeria on Internet blacklists worldwide. They are just being sharp guys, those oyinbos are mugus.

sweetestguy:
I'm nt encouragin women to engage in dishonesty, bt since de are(like u stated) d best tin for we guys is to wisen up, dats all I meant , chikena

lorretta u: I don't buy that.

If you wanna talk about nature. I've observed that many animals don't have perpetual partners.they indulge in intimacy at will.both males and females.when in heat. Don't select partners.so don't bring nature into it.

Besides it is kinda unrelated to the topic.

GustavoFring: Most Nigerian girls follow a formula anyway....Spend enough and you WILL nack.

And if money is not an issue to the man, does he really care what the girl really thinks as long as he nacks?

I dont.

Sweetapple007: u re so confused is like u didn't read the thread ad stop quotg me!

axion: Maybe na how you talk am get comma, cos if you read all the female responses most of them are hailing you for being a guy yet supporting such bad behaviour.

It's things like this that are setting feminism back. Why are you collecting his money when you are not interested in him?

It's like stealing, or going to collect a salary at a place where you are not employed. Later you'll complain that men objectify women.

DailyNews: that's just the truth. The poster may not know or accept it, he's indirectly and directly encouraging Nigerian women to continue being swindlers, to continue faking love and to continue being materialistic becos to him, Nigerian men are to blame and are the fools.

This is what Yahoo-Yahoo boys believe while they defraud innocent foreigners: they make up stories of how colonial masters ripped Africa off her treasures and resources to develop their European lands, and see internet scam as a way of paying them back for what their fore-fathers did to Africans.

And when they cook up such stories, gullible-minded people get angry and support their evil ways of scamming innocent foreigners.

A spade should be called a spade! A wayward woman is a wayward woman no matter who made her wayward becos not all women will accept to become wayward cos a man offered her money.

There is no justification for a girl to swindle a guy or pretend to like him just to get his money, and should any girl do, she should not feel bad when she is called: wayward, gold-digger or materialistic cos that's what people with such character are called

life_style:
I think the bolded part is abnormal, the longest i ever did was 1 year +

If i may ask, why didn't you consider him ?

and during these period of time, have you been in any relationship ?

ogugua88:

Because if it was moving forward, you and your colleagues would be supportive.

DailyNews: Lol, yes u are very correct, but then, no matter who made a mad person mad, it doesn't change the name we all call a mad person, which is: MAD PERSON! Lol

So there is no justification to a girl being materialistic, wayward or gold-digger! If u don't like a guy, there is no two ways about it, tell him no and stand by your NO and don't commit yourself and emotion to him by accepting a dime or gift from him!

If I don't like a girl, even if she likes, let her go to heaven and bring angel Gabriel down for me or buy me diamonds, the fact remains that I won't date or marry her, and I won't accept anything from her, period! And that's how a reasonable human (man or woman) ought to behave.

DailyNews: Honestly, there is trouble! And I give up

sweetestguy: and wen u notice dat de ar nw been too demandin, stop givin dem and see wat wil happen, dats wen ul knw if de truly like u

HirstMOG: Fellow nairalanders, babes don chop ds guy tire he com turn gay by force na e mak him de tok rubbish. guy e b lik say ur brain de ur penis oooooo.

IAMBREEZY: guy forget that one,anytime i date a naija girl and the next day she ask for money,omo na blanking i go give her,the last one i dated a was asking me to buy bbz10 for her asif i resemble her father...
I don't have that time again..

axion: I'm a proud feminist, so what's your point?

ogugua88: There's this guy that asked me out 7 times in 24 hours just this weekend. He was literally begging to take me out for dinner, movies, etc., and I kept refusing him [s]because I'm sweet and don't use people[/s]. The writing was all over the wall, and this guy was saying "PLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEASE I LIKE YOU". If I'm lying, may lightning strike me dead.

I certainly don't condone girls taking advantage of such men, but the truth is that some guys need to wise up. I later explained to una colleague, who's got a lucrative job by the way, that that's absolutely no way to approach a stranger. Because I'm nice doesn't mean the next girl he begs won't wipe his account dry.

axion:

Hear him!

IAMBREEZY: Nope i experienced it that's why am spilling it out,not that i ain't fine or i don't have swag,am telling ya even after she told me she love me she was still asking for money that was too bad,i ain't her dad,
i've dated like 5 and all of them posses the same behaviour so i had to find my way.

sweetestguy: We always complain of how greedy naija babes are, and how they love money a lot,but come to think of it, you meet a girl who obviously doesn't even like u,not to think of love,u now use money to impress her. Why won't she play along to dry ur pocket, she's just a smart girl,and there is nothing wrong in being smart.

The signs will be very clear that she doesn't care about you, yet you won't mind spending dough to win her and after you come here to post on how naija babe are bad.

Have you ever noticed that some girls that drains the guys pocket have another guy they don't even ask for anything?

guys grow up, we still have plenty of girls who truly love, just find the one that that suits you.

sweetestguy: We always complain of how greedy naija babes are, and how they love money a lot,but come to think of it, you meet a girl who obviously doesn't even like u,not to think of love,u now use money to impress her. Why won't she play along to dry ur pocket, she's just a smart girl,and there is nothing wrong in being smart.

The signs will be very clear that she doesn't care about you, yet you won't mind spending dough to win her and after you come here to post on how naija babe are bad.

Have you ever noticed that some girls that drains the guys pocket have another guy they don't even ask for anything?

guys grow up, we still have plenty of girls who truly love, just find the one that that suits you.

chidyhels: in a typical Nigerian setting,everyone wants to out smart the other so i dnt see wat u all are whyning about.

Babe,kept being smart,guy,dnt stop. If u win,ur gain,if u lose,move ahead to the nxt victim. The system will nt reward u for being all nice and good. Blv me.

xynerise: @Op. I disagree with you.

Both sexes can be victims of being foolish. Have you not heard of stories where a girl spends her money on the man she loves and at the end, he dumps her?

Yes, some men insist on spending foolishly on a stranger, but remember some girls too engage in one-night stand with a guy she just met without taking a dime from him. Isnt that foolishness?

This idea of being foolish should be generalized to both sexes and not be handled on sentimental view.