devour129: LMAO,love you too

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
I helped wake her up. When she regained consciousness,she didn't just know what to do or where to start confessing or how to start pleading for forgiveness.
I categorically told her it was over between us. I collected the dubai necklace I gave her(which was a symbol of our engagement). She pleaded with me but I told her it was over btw us. I left.

The following day, she came to my house with Veron my best friend who betrayed me. They said they came to beg for my forgiveness.

She said it was me she loved, and that it was a mistake what happened btw her and Veron. Veron was speechless.
I told them to go and never come back because I don't ever want to see their faces. I left there.
My girl kept coming. I neglected her. She kept calling me. She called me again yesterday which is why I'm writing this.
Should I forgiver her?

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
Wow! I made front page! MODS that very kind of you.

Well, as for the guy that asked if I were bearded like Ojukwu and whether my ex looks like Bianca and my betrayer, like FFK, the answer is Yes and No.

Yes because my ex is a very beautiful and pretty girl. She is very tall and she dresses provocatively at times. Back in school, guys usually disturbed her a lot but she would always ward them off. One reason why everybody knew me in UNN was because of my ex.

I don't look like Ojukwu. I'm not thickly bearded. I'm tall and I have an athletic build, look a little mature. I studied English and as a grammarian, I ought to look smart and sexy too. So, I wonder what she saw in Veron.

IGBO-PRESIDENT:



Nawaoo. That was harsh. Why I'm still relenting is because I don't want to act before thinking. You know it's only a fool that acts before he thinks. Thoughts should precede action. I'm thinking of what to do now, that's why I'm seeking your opinion on this matter.
I don't want to take a rash decision because it's a very delicate matter.

IGBO-PRESIDENT:



Nawaoo. That was harsh. Why I'm still relenting is because I don't want to act before thinking. You know it's only a fool that acts before he thinks. Thoughts should precede action. I'm thinking of what to do now, that's why I'm seeking your opinion on this matter.
I don't want to take a rash decision because it's a very delicate matter.

GustavoFring: I've got a similar story too.

Around 6/7 years ago, I was in a relationship with a tall, fair model-type girl.

She was(and still is) very beautiful.

She always refused to get intimate as she was a virgin. I loved her so much I was prepared to wait however long it took.

One day I was visiting a friend of mine, and he had some of his friends over as well. One of them was bragging about how he just finished nacking one babe badly and infact had recorded one of their sessions on his phone.

The phone was being passed round, and as soon as my friend saw the video, he refused to let me watch.

Eventually I was able to get hold of the phone, and watched my 'virgin' girlfriend taking another man's D like a pro.

I just burst into hysterical laughter. It was too much to take in.

I text her to say it was over straight away. The next day, I was at her house to collect the ipod and watch that I bought for her.


These days, I explicitly try to nack on the first day. If I aint getting coochie in 3 days max, I'm gone.

berem: you're still wondering what she saw in Veron? Are you a learner? Isn't it obvious she was sucking and riding something? Maybe your friend's c0ck is bigger than yours. Has she ever complained about your inability to satisfy her? Abeg tell us the truth make we know where the problem take start.

adexsimply: OP, reconcile with your friend...revenge is a dish best served cold. As for the girl, keep her for co!tus' sake and look elsewhere for a better girl

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
She happens to be my girlfriend since second year. I wooed this girl for 4 months before she yielded to me. We have dated for a year and 6 months now, and happily too. But now the story has changed and a lot is about to go awry.

I observed that lately my girl was liking my best friend. Whenever we were together, drinking or chatting during pastime, she laughed @ whatever he said whether it is something funny or not. She found him very funny. Sometimes, when I visited her in her place without my friend, she would ask "what about your friend? He didn't come with you? That guy is so funny!" I couldn't help but wonder. Anger and jealousy welling up in my pregnant mind. I didn't want to ask her then if she was beginning to like my friend more than me because I felt it was nothing. I trusted her because what we shared together was more than love. I loved her so much and I was convinced she loved me too.

However, I was drinking in a bar with my friend one day when he got a sudden call. After speaking with the voice at the other end of the receiver, he hurried off on the pretext that he had something to catch up with.

The following day, I went to his house around 8am in the morning because I left some documents in his house the previous day which I was supposed to use for my clearance. I walked up to his door and knocked. His voice came from within enquiring who it was. I told him it was me.
"Ah, guy!" He yelled. "Why you no tell me say you dey come?" He queried.
"Do I now have to take permission to come to your house?" I retorted. It took him about five minutes to open the door. His sound system was playing RnB on a very high decibel. He slightly opened the door and brought out his head from the little space.
"Baba, I get visitor oo. Babe dey inside" he said.
"So? Na today? Do I not enter your room before even when you have a babe inside. Nawaoo!" I rebuked him for his meanness. But he wouldn't allow me in. I had to stand outside. I told him to get me my file and he brought it quickly and I left.
"I'll catch up with u later," he said, shortly before he shut the door again. No sooner had I reached the Senior Staff club than I reasoned that something wasn't right somewhere. It was quite unusual of Veron, my best friend on campus to refuse me entering his room because there was a girl in the room. I mean, I know most if not all his female friends and I enter his room even when they are inside except they want to get busy with each other. You know what I mean. Veron visits me too even in the company of my girl. Why did he do that? I reasoned. A voice within told me to ignore him but another persistent voice asked me to go back and find out. I decided to obey the latter voice. I went back. Lo and behold, before I could reach the street where his house is situated, I sighted my girl coming out his room, trying to wear her flat canvas. I was shocked! OMG! I couldn't believe my eyes! My heartbeat increased rapidly and my head tottered on the verge of madness. I managed to control myself. I didn't go for the clearance again. I just went back home. I went to the dope seller's, bought SK, went back and smoked shit. I felt relaxed after crying and smoking. Then I slept off.
To be continued..... Just wait

berem: you're still wondering what she saw in Veron? Are you a learner? Isn't it obvious she was sucking and riding something? Maybe your friend's c0ck is bigger than yours. Has she ever complained about your inability to satisfy her? Abeg tell us the truth make we know where the problem take start.

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
I helped wake her up. When she regained consciousness,she didn't just know what to do or where to start confessing or how to start pleading for forgiveness.
I categorically told her it was over between us. I collected the dubai necklace I gave her(which was a symbol of our engagement). She pleaded with me but I told her it was over btw us. I left.

The following day, she came to my house with Veron my best friend who betrayed me. They said they came to beg for my forgiveness.

She said it was me she loved, and that it was a mistake what happened btw her and Veron. Veron was speechless.
I told them to go and never come back because I don't ever want to see their faces. I left there.
My girl kept coming. I neglected her. She kept calling me. She called me again yesterday which is why I'm writing this.
Should I forgiver her?

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
I helped wake her up. When she regained consciousness,she didn't just know what to do or where to start confessing or how to start pleading for forgiveness.
I categorically told her it was over between us. I collected the dubai necklace I gave her(which was a symbol of our engagement). She pleaded with me but I told her it was over btw us. I left.

The following day, she came to my house with Veron my best friend who betrayed me. They said they came to beg for my forgiveness.

She said it was me she loved, and that it was a mistake what happened btw her and Veron. Veron was speechless.
I told them to go and never come back because I don't ever want to see their faces. I left there.
My girl kept coming. I neglected her. She kept calling me. She called me again yesterday which is why I'm writing this.
Should I forgiver her?

brosss: Well, my friend, suck it up, hold your head high. I empathize with you. Seee, I have once had a cheating girl. It took a lot to break free from her. What was her reason, she couldn't give. I forgave her a couuple of times until the camels back broke.... She visited one afternoon, I had already made up my mind. She sat unsuspecting and I took my box guilter and played her a goodbye song. By the time I was done, she was in uncontrolled tears. It was a sponteneous song emmanating from a broken heart(wished I recorded it), seee in the song, I made her understand that I wasn't reaking her heart, I was breaking mine. I gave her one last peck on the chick and walked out. Didn't bother, I knew by the time I am back, she'd have left... Today , I am better off. And will never regret my decision.
So move on, she and ur friend can go ahead and seee how far they can go. You true girl is out there, find her and when you do, give her everything. I found mine and she is my completion...

All the best bro

Okija_juju: The story is too long... Here is a summary;

lalyiva: and so?? sh**t happens
move on
this case no carry water,it happens everyday. pleeease gv a gurl something worth being faithful for