IGBO-PRESIDENT:
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Should I forgiver her?

Joseph Cudjoe: Honestly most women r 4cked.I just wish God can remove anoda rib from me nd create a diff specie from woman for me.OP u a strong man.if it was me I wud b on my way 2 kirikiri by now.

IGBO-PRESIDENT:



Nawaoo. That was harsh. Why I'm still relenting is because I don't want to act before thinking. You know it's only a fool that acts before he thinks. Thoughts should precede action. I'm thinking of what to do now, that's why I'm seeking your opinion on this matter.
I don't want to take a rash decision because it's a very delicate matter.

brosss:

Yes, by all means do forgive her, as a matter of fact, you must find it in you to forgive her and your friend.

But I believe the question you meant to ask is, should you get back together with her..... Now that my friend is the million dollar question.

IGBO-PRESIDENT:



Nawaoo. That was harsh. Why I'm still relenting is because I don't want to act before thinking. You know it's only a fool that acts before he thinks. Thoughts should precede action. I'm thinking of what to do now, that's why I'm seeking your opinion on this matter.
I don't want to take a rash decision because it's a very delicate matter.

La Rochelle: Na wa oo. It's only one person that realised he smoked SK. I don't know what that means but from its context, it should be a hard drug. The OP needs TWO kinds of help.

hotmolo: Am speechless. Is it too much to ask 4 a faithful girl? Where shld 1 go jst to find a dcent grl

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
I helped wake her up. When she regained consciousness,she didn't just know what to do or where to start confessing or how to start pleading for forgiveness.
I categorically told her it was over between us. I collected the dubai necklace I gave her(which was a symbol of our engagement). She pleaded with me but I told her it was over btw us. I left.

The following day, she came to my house with Veron my best friend who betrayed me. They said they came to beg for my forgiveness.

She said it was me she loved, and that it was a mistake what happened btw her and Veron. Veron was speechless.
I told them to go and never come back because I don't ever want to see their faces. I left there.
My girl kept coming. I neglected her. She kept calling me. She called me again yesterday which is why I'm writing this.
Should I forgiver her?

martronilla: there is nothing like betrayal. His friend even helped him expose the girl. He deserves an award. He knows his frnd is dating a slut and proved it by sleeping with her. She wasnt a gud gf frm d start because if she was, she wuld av been faithful... Op, dnt mind this guy's post o. Go and give ur frnd a hand shake. He tried jare. Girls tho....

IGBO-PRESIDENT:
I helped wake her up. When she regained consciousness,she didn't just know what to do or where to start confessing or how to start pleading for forgiveness.
I categorically told her it was over between us. I collected the dubai necklace I gave her(which was a symbol of our engagement). She pleaded with me but I told her it was over btw us. I left.

The following day, she came to my house with Veron my best friend who betrayed me. They said they came to beg for my forgiveness.

She said it was me she loved, and that it was a mistake what happened btw her and Veron. Veron was speechless.
I told them to go and never come back because I don't ever want to see their faces. I left there.
My girl kept coming. I neglected her. She kept calling me. She called me again yesterday which is why I'm writing this.
Should I forgiver her?

lalyiva: and so?? sh**t happens
move on
this case no carry water,it happens everyday. pleeease gv a gurl something worth being faithful for

hotwax: Mine happened few years ago. I thought I was gonna die but now, I have forgotten her.

This lady can kill with her love wantintin. She will do as if she is gonna die if I leave her (na lie).

There is this my classmate that was disturbing her. She told me about him. How he has being disturbing her. Blah blah.

She said the guy called her one day and was crying. She said she felt pity for him.

One day she was with me and she received one silent phone call. All she was saying was "yes, hmmn, No" throughout the call. After the call, she suddenly said she's leaving. I became suspicious. I thought of setting up a trap.

I took her to the boss stop where she was suppose to join Berger Bus. Normally, when she joins a bus, I will keep her company till the bus fills up (at times wait for the bus to depart). But this day, I set her up, I left immediately she entered the bus and went hiding somewhere close to that garage.

Lo and behold, after some minutes, I saw my girl walked out of the bus to join Ikeja bus (The guy stays in Ikeja).

I quickly came out of my hiding and approached her, so you are going to meet Leke in Ikeja. She was shocked, her mouth was ajar, looking dumbfounded.

I left and she rushed after me. I told her, "I knew he was the one that called you".

She started giving me excuses. She said she want to go and meet Leke and talk to him. That he should leave her alone. She said she feel pity for him. He is always crying on phone blah blah. She said she wants to go and put an end to the whole sh**t. But she is afraid to tell me because she does'nt want me to get hurt. I told her I am not granting permission, but she should do her will (even if her force her not to go, she will still go, so why bothering myself).

She went to Ikeja. In the evening she called and narrated how it went. How they met in a park close to Allen avenue. She said she didnt go to his house. She said she told him plainly, she is not interested, she is engaged to another man blah blah. But, I didnt believe her though. I just played along. Mehn! Girls wicked o

One day, I went to her house, she was in her bathroom, she left her BB on her bed.

As I was waiting for her to finish, So was pings dropping on her BBM. I was suspecting her before, therefore nothing stopped me from spying on her.

This same Leke guy caught my attention. I saw his pings "I am missing you right now", "I am hard and I need to ride you", "I love the way you rode me yesterday, you are so sweet" nasty things. I also saw my girl chat history like "You mean the world to me", "you are the best thing that has ever happened to me".

"You mean the world to me"
"you are the best thing that has ever happened to me"

She always tells me these words. I was shocked, she came out and saw me reading her chat. I dropped her phone and left.

This is the same girl I took to my mother then. Now I feel men should not be emotionally attached to women. They will always cheat no matter what you do.

Let me open a thread for this.

GeneralShepherd:
Have you ever imagined what she and your friend must have said about you in the moment of pleasure?

hotmolo: Am speechless. Is it too much to ask 4 a faithful girl? Where shld 1 go jst to find a dcent grl

IGBO-PRESIDENT:



Nawaoo. That was harsh. Why I'm still relenting is because I don't want to act before thinking. You know it's only a fool that acts before he thinks. Thoughts should precede action. I'm thinking of what to do now, that's why I'm seeking your opinion on this matter.
I don't want to take a rash decision because it's a very delicate matter.

Booty4me: all u guyz saying let her go just like dat op this is wat u ll do.. just forgive and accept her back(not frm ur mind sha) jus play along wit her.. then ffucck her like der is no tomorow.. as in fffuck her sanity away... then u can dump her..

cloudstar:

Nice, that is a good approach. The only true freedom you have are the independent choices you make. Some women are terrible just as some men are terrible as well. If you ask me now, give the whole dating thing another thought after some time. Focus on something else that is positive and that will build your person. Forgive them because hating takes too much energy and is never good for your health.