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Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Ghost01(m): 4:29pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Poverty and the lack of class. It's not all of our girls sha. Some will even offer to pay for your drink, literally and metaphorically. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Oliveronline: 4:32pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Asable: why do guys depend on der gf for sex why dont dey meet there mothers? guys abeg ans dat question then i will tell u y u need to take care of ur babesare guys de only ones dat enjoy de sex...dnt u enjoy it wen ur bf give it to u.we are de ones even loosing simtin hia....our strenght nd sperm. Asable: why do guys depend on der gf for sex why dont dey meet there mothers? guys abeg ans dat question then i will tell u y u need to take care of ur babesare guys de only ones dat enjoy de sex...dnt u enjoy it wen ur bf give it to u.we are de ones even loosing simtin hia....our strenght nd sperm. 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by davida222(m): 4:34pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Some of my frends just change their mind about dating a Nigeerian lady, after reading this. 1 Like |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 4:36pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
obo_man: I think it's more of poverty and less of greed.... I'm gonna put some statistics into perspective.... I quite disagree with you.....it is not poverty though it might be a factor but greed is more of it..........here is an example I visited a friend in UI while I was in Nigeria, during my visit a friend of my friend's room-mate came in and asked the room-mate for a pair of matching earrings to her dress whilst holding her own earrings (another colour that perfectly goes with the dress) . I asked her why she is not using hers and she told me she was about to when she realised her friend has the colour that matches the dress more. N.B: She was just going for lectures o I had to ask my friend who confirmed my suspicion what the friend did was a usual thing among them .....that is why they cannot do without asking in a relationship Personally, I have always been conscious of friends I eventually pick as close ones. Two characteristics they must have are contentment and independence (material stuffs).....I have only found two of them throughout my primary and secondary Thus, not all Nigerian ladies but only those who apparently grew up with parents who also exhibit such...... While growing up it was punishable in my family to borrow (talk-less of asking or receiving) whatsoever from others we have to ask them first; the purchase of that item then depends on the availability of cash and its importance (unimportant items are usually things they think we can do without)......This is the same criteria I use when people ask me for things or when I need something. 8 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by oyomzee4(m): 4:36pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
deeplow: Neither of the two,it is plainly due to wrong orientation and upbringing. I know a girl who is from a wealthy family,and still believes a guy must give her everything. I asked her why,she said that is how it should be,and that's what her mother told her. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 4:43pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
gedtalks: No problem as long as I bring a man along since you are BI.By the way,I wud also like to watch him stick his fingers inside ur as.s.holeeee. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by claremont(m): 4:48pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Nairalanders and insults sha. Chei! |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by dinachi(m): 5:00pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Where are the apostles of Feminism who believe in equality? Why should the man be the one to pay? Why can't the woman pay? 4 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 5:00pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
lynpetra: Lwkmd, good question to funny teacher. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 5:03pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Harbosede02: Op,u are daft#no offence,u knw y i said so?cos of d way u tink,wtf!!how dare u generalise!itz nt all naija babes dat ask their guy 4 tinz,every1 has a different way of thinking some gurls tink wen they are dating a guy d guy sud spend all he has on them,while some tink d orda way round!carry out ur research very well next tym b4 u cum hr and start spitting awt trash!No be fight o, just calm down ehh.. we now know that u are not one of them. You even give to ur boo. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Where do people encounter these kinda girls though? |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Just like op said, girls who believe their bf should shoulder their responsibilities are usually ignorant, of low quality and lazy. Real women think differently. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 5:09pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Leave the babes and blame the guys wey dey fall our hand, abi na gun she dey take collect the pepper. Imagine a student paying his gf fees and feeding while the gal concentrates on buying clothes forself. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by sol2galay: 5:13pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
the truth of it all is that average nigerian girls lack thinking ability,i was just arguing dis with a particiular girl today she said even she is working and earn millions monthly that she cant spend her money even to buy cooking salt.that as long as he remain his husband all expenses will be bore by him.i was trying to put her through..guess what she said "pls change this topic i dont want u to be singing sermon on me".to be flank i am really tired our nigrrian girls. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by T4Tsolomon(m): 5:19pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
The fact is that a girl does not to work in a big company before she should be able to take care of themselves and neither do they need a guy to cater for their needs...all this can change if a guy and a gal are married then the gals soles responsibility bcomes d guys own.....but looking at low self esteem at which ladies nowadays behave,its pure laziness and greediness even though its their parents/guardians responsibility... |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by kullozone(m): 5:19pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
kandiikane: Lol you wan a woman but you nor wan work for am? Foolish men! Go ashawo joint now. It will be cheaper foe you. Nansense. 2 Likes
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Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by adezjamz(m): 5:19pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Harbosede02: Must u guys generalise 4 heaven sake??wtf!! Don't prove a saint joooo. U̶̲̥̅̊ girls had mistaken relationship for a way of living in 9ja. Bring this bring that |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Broschocolata: 5:24pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
weavon and phones are the most expensive things most girls buy for themselves. Blouses and jeans ....*naija girls thank God for Okrika.. So why is OP asking if its poverty. Its obvious naaa!!! |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 5:25pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of. None of the above. It is just wickedness |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Teespice(f): 5:32pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
Honestly, it is a lose lose situation. Most guys believe that to woo a girl, you must have a lot of money to throw about Most girls believe that a guy must foot her bills after all " why are you my BF if you cannot take care of me" Then when the real deal surfaces or when it ends albeit on a painful note, you see guys crying foul Bottom line, women should be independent. Men should stop this mentality of thinking that every woman love can be bought with gifts and money. That way the cards are laid early in the relationship and whosoever is not satisfied has the option of taking a walk. Nuff said. 3 Likes |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Nobody: 5:36pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
u no knw were bank dey ? lynpetra: Abeg I won take loan,who fit borrow me? |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by victor4truth(m): 5:43pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
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Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by captianfreeman(m): 5:46pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
The African notion that the man should be the provider is partly responsible for the over dependent attitude of some nigerian girls. However, poverty and greed among our ladies has taken it to a very ridiculous level.if your babe tells you that she dont need your money, NA WASH. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Tinyemeka(m): 5:47pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
The attitude really gives me depression. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by Emeralddeee: 5:47pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
shutaaaaap we've heard enough already how many thread will broke a** niggas open to rant about how demanding naija girls are to get gf na by force even those guys who can't buy their gf common pure water will stll rant,if u don't do it for her someone else will ok,go advice ur sisters at home to stop being beggers ok,if e pain u dnt date such girls simple,case close. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by captianfreeman(m): 5:48pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
The African notion that the man should be the provider is partly responsible for the over dependent attitude of some nigerian girls. However, poverty and greed among our ladies has taken it to a very ridiculous level.if your babe tells you that she dont need your money, NA WASH. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by pweetixandy: 5:50pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
but Why do u guyS agree to do theSe thns if its Soooo Wrong? |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by jelel6: 5:52pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
you just cant ignore the part guys play in all this mess. Most guys only offer one thing, and one selling point in a relationship.-MONEY. And this dudes are deluded. |
Re: Dependent Attitude Of Nigerian Girls In Relationships: Poverty Or Greed? by thymedcurry(f): 5:59pm On Jan 04, 2014 |
If a guy is bold enough to ask a woman for sex, the woman should be bold enough to ask him for money. |
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