kandiikane:
You still don't get the point.

If you get a woman easy, you complain, call her a slut ho etc
If she makes you work hard for her, you called her a prostitute.
I am certain many would rather be a prostitute that a slut.

sakaguchi: It depends on the type of girl you're in relationship with.
A girl working in NNPC (not the filling station oo, company executive) still looking up @ you to make her hair definitely need #JESUS. So I'll call the. ones who do this paupers.
That's your answer OP. Poverty!



This nig__gar ahead of me, what did you use the FTC to buy? Some people cef!

Harbosede02: Op,u are daft#no offence,u knw y i said so?cos of d way u tink,wtf!!how dare u generalise!itz nt all naija babes dat ask their guy 4 tinz,every1 has a different way of thinking some gurls tink wen they are dating a guy d guy sud spend all he has on them,while some tink d orda way round!carry out ur research very well next tym b4 u cum hr and start spitting awt trash!
#compliments

Adaeze003:

I'm just now knowing that there is a difference between a slut and a prostitute

hollandis:
your mother is a brat .Your sisters are brats .All living and dead female members of your households are brats ONYOSHI

Adaeze003:

I'm just now knowing that there is a difference between a slut and a prostitute

justplainpaul: A girl like u, i don't mind giving u 5Million naira cash. Go figure.

monie: I have lived in 2 continents, lived in nigeria for 20 something years before living for canada abt 3yrs ago. The difference is clear, first of all there is contentment here, u dnt see poverty steering at u in d face, u dnt see ppl unemployed for months, I live in calgary where there is 2% unemployment, if u loose ur job u file for unemployment benefit where half of your former salary is given to u monthly until u can get another job.
Now let me come to topic, is plain prostitution, when I see my friends who do not work and havnt worked since they left school uploading pics of cars and BlackBerry and bags and shoes, it just breaks my heart. They call it runs, what is runs? I went last year for 3mnts (needed the long vacation) and kinda knew why it is this bad.
It is poverty, orientation from day one, peer pressure, environment. When I was in school in nigeria I had to look good everyday, my mum spent money on my clothes and I had sisters(4) so I dressed well. When I came here to school I saw that some of my classmates wore one shirt for a week, they dnt have that time. And they performed so well I had to ditch the gaging mentality and face my studies squarely. I mean if I am dressing well and having B+ and someone doesn't and is having A+ who wld look at me?
Sadly it wnt end, sometime later someone will raise this topic again,as long as there is unemployment in Nigeria and I better pass u mentality and poverty and no middle class this(runs) will be the order of the day.
That's what I think

sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of

-paying for their new hair-do

-buying them new fones

-sending them airtime regularly

-giving them monetry allowances

-buying them clothes and shoes....etc

The list is endless.

Most even argued that if he (their bf) wants them to look good, he must be ready to spend.

In my mind i was like "WTF!" isnt that their father's responsibilty?

The only exceptions i came across were some of the ladies who were raised abroad and a few who were born in upper class families.

Those ones have a very different mentality. They believed that it was after getting a gud education and subsequently a gud job wud they be able to take care of themselves and buy watever they need.

The scenario got me thinking...

Is Poverty to blame for the general attitude of our naija babes or are they just Greedy?

#front-page-tingz

incometrader: Wen i see a beautiful girl pass by and that voice says 'go and toast her, u got all d skills'... another voice reminds me 'if she agrees, u'll be d one to pay for her next hair do.' You know wat i do? I keep my f**king skills to myself. @OP, i suggest u do d same and u wont have a problem wit 9ja babes.

Dubemkelly: Misplaced priority,not knowing wat dey want,lack of contentment,poverty,self value loss n foolishness

sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of

-paying for their new hair-do

-buying them new fones

-sending them airtime regularly

-giving them monetry allowances

-buying them clothes and shoes....etc

The list is endless.

Most even argued that if he (their bf) wants them to look good, he must be ready to spend.

In my mind i was like "WTF!" isnt that their father's responsibilty?

The only exceptions i came across were some of the ladies who were raised abroad and a few who were born in upper class families.

Those ones have a very different mentality. They believed that it was after getting a gud education and subsequently a gud job wud they be able to take care of themselves and buy watever they need.

The scenario got me thinking...

Is Poverty to blame for the general attitude of our naija babes or are they just Greedy?

#front-page-tingz

kandiikane:
So what the point of being in a premarital relationship. If you see a woman you like hit her on the head with a club and drag her to your house to be your wife.

deeplow: Neither of the two,it is plainly due to wrong orientation and upbringing. I know a girl who is from a wealthy family,and still believes a guy must give her everything. I asked her why,she said that is how it should be,and that's what her mother told her.

At the same time,you'll see girls who are from families where they barely can afford 3 square meals, that still believe a boyfriend isn't their saviour from poverty.

Would we say greed and poverty is responsible for Armed robbery? If so,80% of Nigerians would be thieves.

kandiikane:

Yea, a slut nyashes for free and a prostitute gets paid.

Have you been a slut lately?

Ify Awazie: To me, Its neither Poverty nor Greed. They lack DIGNITY.

feeekey: Sorry wats today's date?

STENON: Av bin followin dis topic for a yl....Let go to d academics part.....Tis so rare n scarce seein a Lady to b leadin d department interms of CGPA.......@times...I ask myself som questns...is dis struglin of bin successful meant for guys alone? Cant We as a Lady contribute our quota 2b sombody?..Pls i'm nt against dis topic bt let combine d two words....Greed plus Poverty...to our academics/our Educational lyf....n let us tink of Avin somtin tangible for our life rada dan dependin on Guys.....Is it a must for u to make expensive hairs....Y nt make ur own natural Hair n luk simple n Respectful?...Must u colect frm Guys in orda to look Big....I beg....To hell wit all D Guys wit deir Money...Ow much can a guy giv to a Workin class lady dat'l b enof.....LADIES ...pls let work harder n change dis nairaland stories to a good one.........We wil all get to our Destined Land.......Ladies...Pls Our Brain is dere....tis nt meant for sign post....Pls let make use of it for a reasonable thought for our Future.....

silverspring4ev: My frnd stop bn stingy nd do what u re suppose to do as a man. Be realistic,this is 9ja wr guys always want 2 act like d king..."To be a man isn't a day job"(flavour)lolz...buh like serzly I feel loved wen a man spend on me even though I can afford to buy myself anyfin I want... So 4 me,is not a question of greed or poverty.

sexylogan: I have had discussions with several of my female acquaintances and work colleagues over the issue of the "Responsibilities" of a boyfriend in a relationship and to my dismay, almost all had the same beliefs. Most of them believed that their boyfriends wer the ones saddled with the responsibilities of

-paying for their new hair-do

-buying them new fones

-sending them airtime regularly

-giving them monetry allowances

-buying them clothes and shoes....etc

The list is endless.

Most even argued that if he (their bf) wants them to look good, he must be ready to spend.

In my mind i was like "WTF!" isnt that their father's responsibilty?

The only exceptions i came across were some of the ladies who were raised abroad and a few who were born in upper class families.

Those ones have a very different mentality. They believed that it was after getting a gud education and subsequently a gud job wud they be able to take care of themselves and buy watever they need.

The scenario got me thinking...

Is Poverty to blame for the general attitude of our naija babes or are they just Greedy?

#front-page-tingz