kadas-01:
Both (greed and poverty)! I still believe the average Nigerian girl needs to be empowered so as to help erase this retrogressive mentality that many of them posses presently! If this can be achieved, our society would be a better place!

kingjooo: I hate complain,guyz Cut ur cloth accordin to ur size,the level of ur income should determine d type of gal u go out with.

brightnelly:
SMH4U

2scorehigh: Guys, I actually understand how it feels, most especially when girls want to make the man believe they are looking good only just for him (which is a true lie, of course), but let's not throw the baby out with the bathwater.
Having women depending upon us is NOT a wrong idea in its entirety as there are some positives in there that can be exploited.
It keeps guys on their feet, up and doing, and hustling all the time because there is a woman to impress at the end of the day!
But that's not all.
This financial dependency also gives guys so much power to choose, if you know what I mean.
To tell you the truth, I'd rather have a woman dependent on me because that way I am sure I will always be in control.

~PreciousBro~:


You are correct.

A nation where you have people bathed with insecurity traits from a fundamental state to its roof stage, mentality such as I must have the best out of nothing(that includes no hard work input and lack of mental development), surely you don't expect the weaker vessel in that said failed society to belong to the pedestal of providers,they would rather feast/pest from the actual providers(male). In any slightest opportunity and manipulate whatever jargons to term it right.

A Nation where you have majority of its females striving on this mentality and mind-set for survival than the minority that know what being Independent is in actuality, my dear its safe to generalize that Nigerian women are gold-digging money-leeching prostitutes in this contemporary era.

You even see them on here defending it,trying so hard to make it a norm rather than eradicating the pest-like mind-set.

Shameful to say the least,I tell you.

kingjooo: what do u mean by dat n**ga?

Harbosede02: Op,u are daft#no offence,u knw y i said so?cos of d way u tink,wtf!!how dare u generalise!itz nt all naija babes dat ask their guy 4 tinz,every1 has a different way of thinking some gurls tink wen they are dating a guy d guy sud spend all he has on them,while some tink d orda way round!carry out ur research very well next tym b4 u cum hr and start spitting awt trash!
#compliments

silverspring4ev: . U might be right here buh lemme quickly remind u dat dis is Nigeria nd some tinz dnt jst work out here...I remember wen my sis wanted 2 buy a car with her hard earned money buh my mum protested saying dat men dnt like it wen a young girl live big. D fact is dat a typical 9ja guy finds it threatning wen a young girl is living comfortable. They re comfortable wif d ones ey can manipulate nd dat I'd d ones u called pest. So,if u re talking of eradicating any norm,it shud start from d guys,dat way,pple will learn nd move on

~PreciousBro~:
Ladies don't get the whole thing wrong, Men are to entice you with whatever they deem fit to lure you to their wooing nest its tradition, even a civilized one at that.

However, your notion of disregarding the potentials of goodness in his gesture is what cracks the gallantry bowl. Taking advantage of it by singling out a material of the enticement such as Money is what differs you from good/bad, money is not the paramount item to entice you, his words, his undying and promising affection,love, care, attention, often times, even gifts.

Now how you respond to this is the determining factor of his opinion towards you, whether he'd take you serious or not, some men have money and all to entice you, you fall cheap to this and eventually fall in love and he doesn't see you fit to be wifely,you then nag,cry..lol,curse and all ,saying men are this ,men are that..

Wise girls get the ring, wise girls are mannerly upright. They were trained well , they are mentally free and independent not enslaved and dependent. Use your head Nigerian Girls. Smh

deeplow: Neither of the two,it is plainly due to wrong orientation and upbringing. I know a girl who is from a wealthy family,and still believes a guy must give her everything. I asked her why,she said that is how it should be,and that's what her mother told her.

At the same time,you'll see girls who are from families where they barely can afford 3 square meals, that still believe a boyfriend isn't their saviour from poverty.

Would we say greed and poverty is responsible for Armed robbery? If so,80% of Nigerians would be thieves.

sexylogan: I agree with all the men in the house
Babes, una no go defend urselves?

princessayesha: And it is a man that's asking this.....men are born to treat women right, infact a woman's job is suppose to b taing care of u, the house n the children. Stop being eurocentric.

Jaerymes:

But 80% of Nigerians are thieves one way or another, big thief and small thief.

squaddy: It is what it is brothers and complaining about it won't solve anything...nobody likes spending recklessy even bill gates himself...once in a while guys may show off and squander huge sums of cash but believe me they don't like it...now since this mentality of the BF automatically becoming the parents of the girl(totally disregarding the amount of effort we put into satifying them sexually), my advice to you brothers is to be the nigga by the side having a bite of the cherry once in a while...I mean we all know that no matter the amount of love you show a lady she will always seek an extra d.I.c.k to experiment on...now allow them have their BF(since she is still going to cheat on you if you are the BF) and let him do all the spending while you be the nigga by the side who comes in as a substitute to score the winning goal for little or no charge...works for me

dzeeny: Dependz on d girl sha,not all naija babɛs reason dat way,,,,,

sexylogan:

I never said all but most. No man alive wants to be with a leech.