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Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by dechandel(f): 2:40pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
safarigirl: females are seen as liabilities passed on from fathers to husbands. Your dad trains you till Secondary/tertiary graduation and then your husband can continue from where dad stops if he so desires. It's okay to want to go for your masters, you should however make a point by funding your masters yourself even if you live at home with the parentsYea I've always had the funding part in mind But anyhow it goes.. When i get to that bridge.. I will definitely cross over 2 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by dechandel(f): 2:42pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Logicalmindy:There is no way he is gonna be the landlord forever But for now.. He is the one sailing the boat |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Nobody: 2:42pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
i have always wanted to own a school, right from my primary school days. i graduated with a 2:1 in education management. i already have a land i intend to use, by 2015 my creche starts. 2020? BluePearls School must happen. many of us get sidetracked by situations. we get bored and loose track of that thing we really want. there is nothing wrong in trying several, but when we dont arrive at a certian end that justifies the amount of time spent, then that is where the issh is. i have trained to be several things: fashion illustrator event planner event decorator beaded jewelry maker tailor sef, even now, shoemaking is ongoing... but one thing remains... i love kids and i love teaching. that is what i want to do, be an educationist. that is where i arrived at!! it is what i am GOING to do eventually. 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Nobody: 2:57pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
dechandel: lol. Okay |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by safarigirl(f): 3:32pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
shoefreak: i have always wanted to own a school, right from my primary school days. i graduated with a 2:1 in education management.I love your spirit. There's one thing about having a passion, if you never make it a reality, you'll feel incomplete. Best of luck with your school, and it has a nice name. 4 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Nobody: 3:39pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Thank you. safarigirl: I love your spirit. There's one thing about having a passion, if you never make it a reality, you'll feel incomplete. Best of luck with your school, and it has a nice name. |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Nobody: 4:15pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
safarigirl: I love your spirit. There's one thing about having a passion, if you [b]never make it a reality, you'll feel incomplete[b]. Best of luck with your school, and it has a nice name.So true. Passion alone can drive you to achieve your dreams. 3 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by samsolite(m): 6:41pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
OP, the answer to your observation lies in this thread. How many ladies have contributed already to this discussion compared to the guys? I've observed on this forum that the ladies take exception to such topics offering valuable advice, most especially when its from a lady; but if it were a topic about the most handsome dude on Nairaland or such trivialities you see them flock in their numbers and the thread count going to the 21st page in a day! 28 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Nobody: 7:26pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
only few nigerian girls strive to be successful , all others just wish one dude that looks like jesus with plenty money should just drop from heaven so they can marry. The annoying thing is some shallow thinking post some call humor on NL. we need more of this awareness. And to the guys ,they wanna be like davido , psquare so they can have plenty chics to themselves. sadly, they havent even got the skills. our youths have got to face reality . 8 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by jmoore(m): 8:01pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
samsolite: OP, the answer to your observation lies in this thread. How many ladies have contributed already to this discussion compared to the guys? The undiluted truth. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by ayusco85(m): 8:19pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Well don't blame the girls o, blame the society they found themselves in. They made marriage seem like the ultimate goal for every lady. That has beclouded lots of girls who don't even know what they can achieve because they are only looking forward to finish schl and get married. 3 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by lightheart(m): 8:20pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
They make you think marriage is the nu cool. |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by naturally: 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Lol 1 Like |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by charles316: 8:21pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Attention seeking! Lowlife 1 Like |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by alaladakosta(f): 8:22pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Hrhehhehee 1 Like |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Emmalot121(m): 8:22pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Safarigirl ,it has always being like that, I met one of my female (well fed) friends, sometime last week, she was telling a guy(another friend of mine) to buy her credit, later, I told her I was going to come back but only for me to hear her(in somewhat commanding tone, with so much confidence ) to buy her something.I decided not to return to her shop. Men have become 'target species.'Not that I don't know being a man comes with a lot of responsibilities,but its too much.I heard a lady say to her pals that with all her education, she is going to end in kitchen.Her female friend rebuked her, but I was the only one who understood her. She meant that as a 'lady' ,life is too difficult to say you wanna compete with a man, just read for degree, get out and marry a 'rich' guy,who will 'take care' of you and 'sponsor' you,'establish' a business for you and the only thing he demands is for you to 'cook' and take care of 'kids'. What a huge burden for her husband! I wanted to open a thread on how to avoid spending money on Nigerian girl, but changed my mind cos I love smart people.You have a point.You are very intelligent but those ladies are very smart. Afterall,life actually is not worth all the struggle. 4 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Nobody: 8:24pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
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Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Luvdmx(m): 8:25pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
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Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Orikinla(m): 8:30pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
OP, 1000 Likes for your post. 1 Like |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by alaladakosta(f): 8:30pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
shoefreak: i have always wanted to own a school, right from my primary school days. i graduated with a 2:1 in education management. My dear u know your onions , n u went for tomato.lol, many of us is still waiting on paddy adenuga. Heheh 4 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by OkikiOluwa1(m): 8:30pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
safarigirl: If you're one who has stayed within the female hostel of any Nigerian University, you'll find that most of it's occupants share similar hopes and dreams- and no, it's not to excel in their chosen career paths.Safari baby, you are so on-point. Wish all young ladies can quickly realise this truth. Last Bullet Meanwhile, your recents threads are damm on point. What's the secret? You do medulla upgrade? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by niggereyez(f): 8:30pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
OP... sorry but I don't totally agree wit u. if u keep the right company (no offence intended), u'll know that there are many more visionary women in our society today.. truelly, gone are those days when women are satisfied being just housewives. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by alaladakosta(f): 8:31pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Luvdmx: So much for dick sucking 2 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Nobody: 8:34pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
safarigirl: If you're one who has stayed within the female hostel of any Nigerian University, you'll find that most of it's occupants share similar hopes and dreams- and no, it's not to excel in their chosen career paths.safariiii safariiiii chai chai live our naija gehls and women alone nah |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by melissa429(f): 8:34pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Thank u for wakin me up,actualy nid 2 retink afta my so cald fiance pregnanted anoda gal,nid to get bizi makin moni,men ar jus a waste of tym nd resourseful tinkin 4 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by sheniqua: 8:34pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
safarigirl: If you're one who has stayed within the female hostel of any Nigerian University, you'll find that most of it's occupants share similar hopes and dreams- and no, it's not to excel in their chosen career paths. Rubbish! The number of wealthy men in Nigeria is negligible and for the few wealthy ones, no be woman go marry them? Will they marry themselves? Most Nigerian women work even after marriage so I have no clue what this is about 5 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by lepasharon(f): 8:34pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
Preach sister ! I'm far from what you listed. Infact ,I am not even sure I want to marry and have kids. Why must my life be so predictable? 9 Likes |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by 2mNaira: 8:35pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
alexx187: .....eloquence homie.....spellcheck..... Eloquent is correct.It is an adjective.The adjectives 'eloquent' and 'good' both modify d noun 'command'. |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Kassidy90(m): 8:35pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
God bless u @Op for this piece....... |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by Nobody: 8:35pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
alaladakosta:lols ... tall , handsome, broadshoulders,polish english , rich,havard university graduate..... oh the dream man.it wasn't easy .his mum is a reason behind his father's success.... that's what the nigeria ladies should envisage.... thanks for this. 1 Like |
Re: On Nigerian Women And (lack Of) Future Ambition by pansophist(m): 8:36pm On Sep 22, 2014 |
This thread makes me wonder if it the same safarigirl that opened a thread yesterday about why 'Nigerian ladies should not settle for less'' You fail to see that they have nothing to offer, wonder if you did a brain ugrade, because this your topic make so much sense compare to the latter. 1 Like |
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