Same reason guys in nigeria are intimidated by women with their own money!!

jmoore:
Because your car produces so much smoke from the exhaust. That's very intimidating.

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Nairalanders and badmouth....

rubey:


Hmmmn, so how will you woo her when next you see her again?

By her, I'm guessing you mean a similar situation with a girl having a bad car, cause I can't even remember what the other girl looked like.

Anyways, as for the approach, I could start up a conversation about her exotic car, since I'm a car fanatic; could ask her about the horsepower, mpg, tech and so on.

As for wooing a girl that has a much "badder" car than mine, long term, I'd have to just be as real as can be, cause it would obviously be futile to try to show off on any material level. Just gotta try to make her laugh and be able to be herself around me.

UchihaMadara:


By her, I'm guessing you mean a similar situation with a girl having a bad car, cause I can't even remember what the other girl looked like.

Anyways, as for the approach, I could start up a conversation about her exotic car, since I'm a car fanatic; could ask her about the horsepower, mpg, tech and so on.

As for wooing a girl that has a much "badder" car than mine, long term, I'd have to just be as real as can be, cause it would obviously be futile to try to show off on any material level. Just gotta try to make her laugh and be able to be herself around me.

What if you are on with a girl who don't know much about cars?
Ok I will confess to that, I don't know stuffs about cars #covers face#

Cutehector4u:
Must every guy approach u wen u r riding a car?

She is telling us that she own a car that was given to her by a guy.

EroticAngelina:
because they feel like u myt insult them bkus u have a car. it bruises their ego.

But that is a wrong guess for guys! I wouldn't insult anybody because of stuffs I posses . Infact most guys in my hostel takes my car to parties and I have never used that fact against them

kachnov:



dude a car is just what it is...a car.I don't own one yet,but intimidation came from your imagination,not factual at all.

I can't even argue against this cause I know it's true, but common dude, be honest. So you're telling me now, you could easily approach a naija girl in a Ferrari, with no second thoughts at all?

I know it's all in the mind, but that still doesn't stop the second guessing sometimes.

Unibenstudent:
ok my bad I meant Gflat,so what did ya do?

Oh him, I gave him my contact. I actually like his courage. What he did was hard and he is a stubborn guy

rubey:


Oh him, I gave him my contact. I actually like his courage. What he did was hard and he is a stubborn guy

so u guys are now #officially dates

rubey:


What if you are on with a girl who don't know much about cars?
Ok I will confess to that, I don't know stuffs about cars #covers face#

Lol, Rubey, your own is just to enter car and drive sha!

Well there are a million ways to steer a conversation, and it's adapted to the situation and not premeditated.

So I really can't say what I'd say, but for instance, if I say "Cool car, what's the horsepower for this beast?" and she's says "I don't even know, I just drive it", I could be like "but I'm sure it's fast enough for you to be zipping through traffic" e.t.c

UchihaMadara:


I can't even argue against this cause I know it's true, but common dude, be honest. So you're telling me now, you could easily approach a naija girl in a Ferrari, with no second thoughts at all?

I know it's all in the mind, but that still doesn't stop the second guessing sometimes.

yea I do get your point,but from experience most ladies are appalled at hesitations.

Now this doesn't include barging into someone out of the blue with your love epistle ,at least she must have given some encouraging green lights.Her reaction before the greenlight is what I can't vouch for.

Unibenstudent:
so u guys are now #officially dates

Lol, no!

rubey:


Lol, no!

awww so what car do u supposedly ride in?

This rubey sha..

kachnov:


yea I do get your point,but from experience most ladies are appalled at hesitations.

Now this doesn't include barging into someone out of the blue with your love epistle ,at least she must have given some encouraging green lights.Her reaction before the greenlight is what I can't vouch for.

Lol, singing in John Legend voice, "Give me the green light".

A reciprocated smile is always cool, but what about when the girl you sight is in front of you walking away with her back turned, as was my case?

I guess that would have to be a yellow light:- Proceed With Caution.

UchihaMadara:


Lol, Rubey, your own is just to enter car and drive sha!

Well there are a million ways to steer a conversation, and it's adapted to the situation and not premeditated.

So I really can't say what I'd say, but for instance, if I say "Cool car, what's the horsepower for this beast?" and she's says "I don't even know, I just drive it", I could be like "but I'm sure it's fast enough for you to be zipping through traffic" e.t.c

Nice try

Unibenstudent:
awww so what car do u supposedly ride in?

Corolla

rubey:


Corolla

ok sha,,boys are not intimidated by that,,if it was a Toyota venza or range rover,Mercedes g wagon ,I for hear,,

UchihaMadara:


Lol, singing in John Legend voice, "Give me the green light".

A reciprocated smile is always cool, but what about when the girl you sight is in front of you walking away with her back turned, as was my case?

I guess that would have to be a yellow light:- Proceed With Caution.

If she's walking away,or too close sh#t that light is inherently Amber, lol an ice breaker could be to pick something from the floor (akey for instance) walk up to her with a calm " hello did you drop this" if she's responsive the mission is a go ,else abort mission soldier .
you could always explain later that you did that to get her attention ,she would appreciate your ingenuity ,that's I f she isn't a sadist.

Unibenstudent:
ok sha,,boys are not intimidated by that,,if it was a Toyota venza or range rover,Mercedes g wagon ,I for hear,,

sorry to disappoint

rubey:


sorry to disappoint

na u Sabi,,u better start resuming to school,,CalebStudent.

Unibenstudent:
na u Sabi,,u better start resuming to school,,CalebStudent.

I am back to school sir

rubey:


I am back to school sir

and u didn't call me to inform moi#disappointed in u.

rubey:


I am back to school sir

No offense ,but there is an air of fakeness around you, might be wrong tho.

Men will aproach you when outa your car or are you expecting any girl to stop your car when its not a taxi

rubey:


Nice try

Thank you, thank you, thank you, you're far too kind.

kachnov:

No offense ,but there is an air of fakeness around you, might be wrong tho.

You have a right to doubts, I don't really care

Unibenstudent:
and u didn't call me to inform moi#disappointed in u.

Call you?

kachnov:


If she's walking away,or too close sh#t that light is inherently Amber, lol an ice breaker could be to pick something from the floor (akey for instance) walk up to her with a calm " hello did you drop this" if she's responsive the mission is a go ,else abort mission soldier .
you could always explain later that you did that to get her attention ,she would appreciate your ingenuity ,that's I f she isn't a sadist.

Hmm, the ol' "is this yours?", or "are you so and so?"

I'm sure girls always laugh at us in their heads when we approach them, cause they've probably heard it all before, but what can we do

rubey:


Call you?

I have a working phone and u have a working phone tooo,so what is the missing connection that u couldn't call to inform moi,hehehe.

Unibenstudent:
I have a working phone and u have a working phone tooo,so what is the missing connection that u couldn't call to inform moi,hehehe.

Errrm, I don't have a working phone