Meringe:
Condom might be used for so many reasons. So you don't just conclude.

Moreover, he's a man. Though I don't support cheating but sincerely I think a man is polygamous in nature, but what matter is that the man in question respects you as a woman.



For your own good, stop sniffing around. If you leave him, how sure are you that your next man wouldn't be worst.

You can confront him in a matured way but have it at the back of your mind that many men cheat even though their wife might be more beautiful than their cheating partner.

Though it takes courage for a man to remain faithful.

Sunshinelady:
useless comment. Wonder where d 'likes' are coming from & why. So in dis era, in dis day & age of so much exposure, not to talk of so many deadly veneral diseases u want women to open their arms to promiscuous men, u are actually encouraging men to keep being dogs, dat there's nothing wrong wit it. Wat a useless post! How will u feel if its ur woman sleeping arund? Nonsense

DjAndroid:


What you said is cool but you have not adviced the OP.

cococandy:


What does being a man mean?
Inability to control oneself?
Sleeping around like a dog?

When a man insults himself, He shouldn't be offended when others insult him by repeating his own words back to him.

You're talking as yourself. Not talking as a man Since all men don't share the same perspective as you.

Jackeeh:
hmmmmmmm reading through comments uploaded before mine I can't help but wonder: everyone now feel cheating is cool. Men are polygamous in nature, condoms might be used for other reasons( like fetching water), quit snooping around,we are mortals, it must have been used by his friend, don't get him angry when confronting him etc. Why can't men and women strive to be faithful to their partners and quit justifying their evil acts? Being faithful is not impossible. it may be difficult but its attainable. And should you slip and cheat, please don't be smart about it. being defensive and cooking up reasons for cheating ain't cool. when you cheat on your partner, you destroy him or her. if you are caught and instead of being sorry, u feel on top of the world, you reduce your partner to nothing. cheating isn't cool in anyway. be with a partner who makes ur heart beat fast each time u set eyes on him or her. don't settle for less, or money, sex, good looks etc

bolafez:

u must b a unaabite and u must have attended Dr. Adebambo class ...ABG501
op I'm right

ULSHERLAN:
U cant be so sure. What if a friend used it in his place and didn't dispose it properly. U shud be api ur bf is even using condoms. What if he was doing raw?

Jackeeh:
hmmmmmmm reading through comments uploaded before mine I can't help but wonder: everyone now feel cheating is cool. Men are polygamous in nature, condoms might be used for other reasons( like fetching water), quit snooping around,we are mortals, it must have been used by his friend, don't get him angry when confronting him etc. Why can't men and women strive to be faithful to their partners and quit justifying their evil acts? Being faithful is not impossible. it may be difficult but its attainable. And should you slip and cheat, please don't be smart about it. being defensive and cooking up reasons for cheating ain't cool. when you cheat on your partner, you destroy him or her. if you are caught and instead of being sorry, u feel on top of the world, you reduce your partner to nothing. cheating isn't cool in anyway. be with a partner who makes ur heart beat fast each time u set eyes on him or her. don't settle for less, or money, sex, good looks etc

famousguy01:
what if he did it on purpose, trying to put his woman to test. He might actually want to see the level of ur perseverance, talking from experience cos my gf did somtin like this to me also even worst things. Don't lose what u av freely without a good reasoning, there aren't no angels out their we are all humans at the end. just my little advice

Jackeeh:
hmmmmmmm reading through comments uploaded before mine I can't help but wonder: everyone now feel cheating is cool. Men are polygamous in nature, condoms might be used for other reasons( like fetching water), quit snooping around,we are mortals, it must have been used by his friend, don't get him angry when confronting him etc. Why can't men and women strive to be faithful to their partners and quit justifying their evil acts? Being faithful is not impossible. it may be difficult but its attainable. And should you slip and cheat, please don't be smart about it. being defensive and cooking up reasons for cheating ain't cool. when you cheat on your partner, you destroy him or her. if you are caught and instead of being sorry, u feel on top of the world, you reduce your partner to nothing. cheating isn't cool in anyway. be with a partner who makes ur heart beat fast each time u set eyes on him or her. don't settle for less, or money, sex, good looks etc

speed99:


Hahaha. nice one man. You made me remember so many Tinz.

Well, @ OP. You can use the situation to your advantage. Dispose the package from the kitchen. Bring up a lil talk on something like ...wrapped in a nylon. Though you left it sha. watch his reaction, don't discuss it further. if you can wait a couple of weeks, wake him up gently at night, tell him of the content. you have him by his balls. and don't push the discussion further.

Jonathan:

Marriage is over hyped.
Na by force to marry?
What trophy will she get from marrying a serial cheat?

Meringe:

I don't exchange words here.

Peace!!!

NemzySeries:

which kind setup b dat?....so hin no kw d lady hin dey stay wit 4 hauz? Last time i checked, such set up are d devils handwork so y is he takeova?

Bitojoe:


he might want to test your reaction.even if a guy want to cheat on his partner,he will never drop used condom in is kitchen.no matter how foolish he is.

Sunshinelady:
useless comment. Wonder where d 'likes' are coming from & why. So in dis era, in dis day & age of so much exposure, not to talk of so many deadly veneral diseases u want women to open their arms to promiscuous men, u are actually encouraging men to keep being dogs, dat there's nothing wrong wit it. Wat a useless post! How will u feel if its ur woman sleeping around? Nonsense

Olutola88:
A friend used is place? Chai! Dis guy don teach us another convincing LIE. *Cheats be dancing shoki*

pbs4real:
my fwend wah re u waiting 4? Go and marry

Misblah:
But why would he put a used condom in the kitchen na, he would have at least put it in a tissue before tying it with a nylon bag. Some men sef.

ireneidiva:

Please do not follow this advise. There are a lot of wonderful men that are not polygamous out there.

MissSlimbody:


God bless you brother...May your days be long.

I'm very sure if it was in a Lady's room that condom was found,those guys saying, "men are polygamus in nature" "condom have others uses" "quit snooping" will be singing an entirely different tone.

Let's call a spade a spade. Cheating is not right for anyone and its nobody's nature.

@Op,don't just walk away, please confront him.

Melahou:
He respected you enough not to do it in your presence...
Allow the guy jare...

When you get married and he does it then bring his case here...

For now go back for your prog joor

cococandy:
who's exchanging words with you?

Those are simply questions you should be able to answer yes to if you really believe men have no self control.
But then you can't because it will just show you how undeniably you're portraying manhood in a bad light if that's what you think all men are like.