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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Kenneth4u205(m): 4:04pm On Mar 11, 2015
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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Kenneth4u205(m): 4:07pm On Mar 11, 2015
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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 4:08pm On Mar 11, 2015
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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by farano(f): 4:08pm On Mar 11, 2015
Acekidc4:


Hey Farano I ve sinned against U, 4give me. Now dat's wat I call a good Advice!!
cool
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by adewumiopeyemi(m): 4:09pm On Mar 11, 2015
are u realy sure abt what dis dear smiley was thinking this is nt true
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Acekidc4(m): 4:10pm On Mar 11, 2015
farano:
cool

Why the Face Na??
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by coolfredo(m): 4:10pm On Mar 11, 2015
iamNotAlone:
The secretary, who always listen to office gossips told me
And u who always belve office gossips beleav wat ur secretary told u.
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 4:12pm On Mar 11, 2015
iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

I like the write up on ur profile pic @Op.
Its normal that guys say "oh men, this babe make maximum brian".
These are ur colleagues? Maybe there are like me... I dont do colleagues things. I see u like a sister.
Maybe u have to work no ur attitude to people.
Maybe u also need to make urself available to outside walls of ur work place.
Finally, babe, things are hard in naija. Guys are scared of commitment

Am on the verge of proposing to a babe I meet 3months ago. Its her luck.
Wedding to follow immediately
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by 400billionman: 4:16pm On Mar 11, 2015
iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

Make sure you are ready for this.

I am here on Nairaland.
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by eudycandy: 4:18pm On Mar 11, 2015
sinaj:
by wearing a necklace with a tag 'I have not bin taken' grin

ideal men exist only in fantasies bae wink

um...u can also approach d men in ya workplace na.
angry cool shocked
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 4:26pm On Mar 11, 2015
Hmmmmmmm!


Dear Nairalanders/Advisers,


blah blah blah have been coming from your mouths. I actually took my time to read each of what u all commented. Una try! but nobody gree ask the chick that pasted this post about her attitude/behaviour, if she has mouth odour or body odour, how hairy she is because that too can be scary! Does she have bear bear?



If a guy is not approaching u, I think you should watch yourself. You are the best person to know why those dudes are not coming to for u.!

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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by wisejoe: 4:31pm On Mar 11, 2015
Hmmm,guessed u can't hurt a fly.
iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by PunkyOh(f): 4:36pm On Mar 11, 2015
Acekidc4:


This more like a Sellout!! Are u actually advising her to sell out her Ego? Cmon datz Gross!! She should just be herself Finish, d right guy will come by sooner dan she expected!! Adios sister!!!

Since when is talking = "sellout" ? Did I tell her to go hump his leg or something as "gross" as that? She sounds like she wants them to approach her, so I was simply giving her some pointers on how to start new relations.

Adios to you too, chucha.
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Ladybluecash(f): 4:43pm On Mar 11, 2015
If u try all ds advise nd notin happen ehhhhh babe... Ur uncle in d village is responsible lol
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 4:51pm On Mar 11, 2015
How do you dress by the way? Do you dress like 'Olosho' or 'Classy chic'? There is a difference between the two. And are you the 'Notice me or i die type'? You go around constantly seeking male attention, Push yansh and chest outside, with relationship and marriage constantly in your brain? because some of you girls can be sooooo dumb and do not have anything upstairs to carry very good enlightening conversations bordering on general issues around the world. sad sad I dont blame you girls sha. Una obsession with marriage too much and na our messed up society cause am.

If you are in this category, you better change. Learn to have lots of enlightening issues in your mind other than marriage marriage marriage! urrrrrrgggggghhhhh. Learn to preccupy your thoughts with other important issues. Just be yourself and live your life. Guys approach ladies that are original not fake. Guys approach ladies who really dnt give a damn and live like no one is watching. Guys can see right through you when you are the type that is constantly seeking male attention. That scares them away too. I can sense that in you. Change o.
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 4:55pm On Mar 11, 2015
when it comes to finding a man you just cant sit down and expect things to change for you, your destiny is in your hands so you have to take ACTION! action includes:
1.having a cheerful disposition,
2. being friendly to everyone even the stranger that sits next to you,
3.going out more often and looking attractive
4. be alert when out you never know someone might be looking at u and if u see him looking say hi and smile
5. if he isn't close enough maintain eye contact and smile
6. if u have a nice gym around your area u can join who knows u might get yourself a nice fellow with six packs wink lol.
7. carry yourself with elegance and poise, speak like a lady and have a good posture.
8.wear lovely feminine dresses with bright colors eg guys love red seriously.
9. when out avoid shouting at cashiers, waiters or anyone because u don't know who is watching u and this might be a turn off.
10. pray hard and belief God would do it for u.
As for the guys in your office be friendly and smile with them, if they dont say anything then maybe they arent interested. goodluck.

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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by bewildered: 4:56pm On Mar 11, 2015
Babe check d way u talk. Mostly we put people from our words or responses.
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by bewildered: 4:56pm On Mar 11, 2015
Babe check d way u talk. Mostly we put people away from our words or responses.
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Allureoftheseas(m): 5:01pm On Mar 11, 2015
iamNotAlone:
Holy Ghost fire 70×

told you the truth only for you to say shit to me, it's cool no p.
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 5:05pm On Mar 11, 2015
The ones u really love in your olvis walk up 2 your most likeable and ask him out!

If mountains ref 2 come to muhammed.........

And if only you can do that you shall give testimony!

I wana blv you ain't fake things!? If yes how come your user name is AMNOTALONE when you are actually all alone!
Cheeeeeers

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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 5:08pm On Mar 11, 2015
Nori:
when it comes to finding a man you just cant sit down and expect things to change for you, your destiny is in your hands so you have to take ACTION! action includes:
1.having a cheerful disposition,
2. being friendly to everyone even the stranger that sits next to you,
3.going out more often and looking attractive
4. be alert when out you never know someone might be looking at u and if u see him looking say hi and smile
5. if he isn't close enough maintain eye contact and smile
6. if u have a nice gym around your area u can join who knows u might get yourself a nice fellow with six packs wink lol.
7. carry yourself with elegance and poise, speak like a lady and have a good posture.
8.wear lovely feminine dresses with bright colors eg guys love red seriously.
9. when out avoid shouting at cashiers, waiters or anyone because u don't know who is watching u and this might be a turn off.
10. pray hard and belief God would do it for u.
As for the guys in your office be friendly and smile with them, if they dont say anything then maybe they arent interested. goodluck.

11 . Ask the most likeable in your office out

12 . Ask him out again

13 . Ask him out



Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by iamord(m): 5:11pm On Mar 11, 2015
Eluwilussit:


You don't think so? Ask Hilary Clinton or all the other top celebs. Everybody, men and women, can do irresponsible stuff at one point or the other. The degree and frequency of irresponsibility is what separates one from another.

Nobody is 100% irresponsible and no one is 100% responsible in every aspect of life. Life is a mixture of everything. My opinion.
this is much better. If u didn't generalise in your first post I would not have put that
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by papaskino(m): 5:22pm On Mar 11, 2015
Start by changing ur display name "iamnotalone"

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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by naijaboiy: 5:27pm On Mar 11, 2015
Quick question!

Abeg how many guys for here don add up the Op for BBM?

Because she don sharpalay advertise Pin for her siggy o cheesy

I nor know say fine babes dey dey desperate too grin
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by Nobody: 5:34pm On Mar 11, 2015
contact me privately through Watsap or Facebook 07061246614
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by wealthygem(f): 5:49pm On Mar 11, 2015
Thinkr:
*views pics** lol you wey no fine na hin dey hash join. I pity you grin
.
Y evils! Rotfl
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by NifemiOlu(m): 6:01pm On Mar 11, 2015
Everyone seems to have offered advice I could offer but I won't carry last...


Stop listening to Cynthia Morgan's 'I'm Taken'.


Just kidding.
Keep calm and have faith.
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by igweGC(m): 6:02pm On Mar 11, 2015
Have u tried being nice, thoughtful & Lowering your standard a little? If ur definition of an 'Ideal man' is solely based on class, wealth status & not personality, u my dear, are on a wrong path!

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Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by freddaboh(m): 6:09pm On Mar 11, 2015
iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

I am interested in getting to know you. I'm light-skinned, ambitious, calm, sincere and adventurous guy. I love the good things of life and I am never afraid to go for what I want. I have a job but I'm yet to be rich, I'm comfortable though. I think I like your disposition about life. What do you look out for in a man? I hope it does not include being a dangote's son? Lol.
Whether I'm handsome? Atleast, I look better than GEJ. Lol
Contact me on my BB PIN 33164981. Thanks
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by fairygeh(f): 6:13pm On Mar 11, 2015
Thinkr:
*views pics** lol you wey no fine na hin dey hash join. I pity you grin
shocked shocked
Re: She Wants To Know How To Attract And Keep A Responsible Man? by rhames(m): 6:14pm On Mar 11, 2015
iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

Chances that if you are a brainiac, the men in and out of your office may run away from you. You have got to get out of the box and do some little socialising and church or mosque going. But that option has been abused by many " Brothers and Sisters" of late. Well the final one is you have to be very prayerful for a lot of men will want to date you for what you have and not for love. A better option is move out of your environment sometimes and make friends.

Nigerian guys are well known for running away from dating an independent woman. But good luck in your hunt.


Cheers.

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