nairalandist:


Point of correction madam. Some guys are meant to be approached. . .

Thank God you said 'some'.

Look beyond your immediate environment. You meet people anywhere and anyhow and you never can tell who will sweep you off your feet. Nairaland isnt an exeption. you can post your BB Pin of the site or give a number. Yes, everyone will call but a 5 minutes conversation with each will let you know if you want to continue with such or otherwise.

Life is fun babe and take the best out of it. By the time you meet the right guy, those around you will see a difference because you will glow and smile with every sense of happiness

Try it and see what happenes. You dont deserve to be lonely.

Look beyond your immediate environment. You meet people anywhere and anyhow and you never can tell who will sweep you off your feet. Nairaland isnt an exeption. you can post your BB Pin of the site or give a number. Yes, everyone will call but a 5 minutes conversation with each will let you know if you want to continue with such or otherwise.

Life is fun babe and take the best out of it. By the time you meet the right guy, those around you will see a difference because you will glow and smile with every sense of happiness

Try it and see what happenes. You dont deserve to be lonely. You might add me up on 534886EC. You never can tell. Your concern might just be off sooner than you expect

May be u appear to be or u r so expensive.
No man will want a lady who appears to be a liability on his finances.
Try ad make every necessary adjustments u need, then go for counselling and deliverance cos its a spiritual issue.
U don't need to keep taking it lightly till u run out of age.

@ OP, try to be more friendly with them and make yourself approachable. Most responsible guys see wooing a lady most especially in their working place as being irresponsible. But OP, most responsible guys are attached.

PunkyOh:


Since when is talking = "sellout" ? Did I tell her to go hump his leg or something as "gross" as that? She sounds like she wants them to approach her, so I was simply giving her some pointers on how to start new relations.

Adios to you too, chucha.

I don't tink she sound like she want dem to approach her initially frm d begininning. Read her story again.

@iamNotAlone.
Even if you're taken isn't an excuse why men would not approach you in your office. So, that isn't an excuse.

It's either you're very rude person or overly very proud of yourself. This are turn-offs to men, which explains why you're not friendly with any of them. Intact, they believe you're not a marriage material or a friendly person (if you were you've already had one or two of them as friend). You're the problem not men.

I for one wouldn't be friend with you based on the deductions I've just made from your post.

Just keeping it real.

Acekidc4:


I don't tink she sound like she want dem to approach her initially frm d begininning. Read her story again.

Ok, when then? When she's an old spinster with a house full of cats?

It beats the purpose of this thread if that's the case.

iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

Number one u need prayer, two acting expensively might b d reason why they admire and applyer. 3 never allow ur beauty Deecieve u. Cultivate a Godly character and reduce ur ego. Every like to see wht Bible say in 1st Corrithians 6 is in dier wife. Also be kind by leading. Let dem knw u are not a boker type, indomie specialist. Every sincere and real humble woman always get wht they wnt. Don't allow d food u can't eat be found around u, meaning when dey see people around u they may think otherwise. Also pray against spiritual husband.

iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

You want a responsible man eeyy!? Start by asking the question: Am I responsible? Responsible men know what they want and go for it! So do a little check on your fashion, lifestyle, mentality and spirituality.

Are you a good thing, that draws favor from God? If not, no man will find you, no matter how seductive you may appear...and since only God is good, then receive God into your heart and mind Heb8:10 and be good...and the men will come running after you!

It happens to me at times but eachtime them come is always a responsible one is just that am not ready for anything like dat now.So please dont lose hope just believe in who you are.

iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

I have a good book...
olawon@outlook.com

Be u, dnt let dat boda u, ah was in same shoe as u, bt i stopd tinkn abt gals cos ah no dy wil come soon. Time wil tel. Ok. 52f42b8e. Lets talk beta

iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

Tanks 4 dat

farano:
Always be yourself and nothing more.

Shes a gal lyk u, hope u knw.

sinaj:
by wearing a necklace with a tag 'I have not bin taken'

ideal men exist only in fantasies bae

um...u can also approach d men in ya workplace na.

Thinkr:
*views pics** lol you wey no fine na hin dey hash join. I pity you

lafff wan kill me...abeg guy leave dat jamaican looking babe alone

liminister:
always be good, caring, respectful, and a litle bit quiet an clean. this'll attract me as a guy.

I'm with you on this bro

rokiatu:
P.S the hairy thing is that a turn on?

@op, the men are not coming because you are hairy.

Eluwilussit:


I know what you mean. Unfortunately, at the state of nature, we are all like that. That's why we made laws and rules to guide us. We are perpetually striving to achieve goodness. Life on its own, is full of crap. Crappier than you would imagine.

Man is not a finished product. Ours is a life of struggle. Struggle between what's right and what's wrong. That's what separates us from all other animals. Sometimes, some people get it right, while others fail. But be rest assured, nobody, and I mean nobody, has it all together.

We only assume from a distance, that the other person is better or cooler. All we need to do is to appreciate what we have and who we are. Be tolerant of others. Don't judge harshly. People have the right to make mistakes. Some learn from them, others don't. As per Bleep up, even the bible says that the righteous falls 7 times and yet he will rise each time. If the bible recognizes that even the righteous will fall, then we need to forgive people of their stupidity.

I am not endorsing irresponsible acts, but there's no man or woman alive, that doesn't do something irresponsible once in a while. It is beyond man to be perfect. Yet, we must strive towards perfection daily.

Now you are talking bro i had to delve into this analysis cos i presently work in the midst of people who are deeply enmeshed in stuffs like what we've just analysed...

iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

Get a clay and mould the one that will toast u as a bread, shikina.

And you think we can make good assessment of you without pix

Jok3r:
Shes a gal lyk u, hope u knw.

me I dnt knw o!... coz i dnt knw if itz a guy bearing a female moniker...
beside ow does dat concern me if she iz a gel?

Mmmmm.

sinaj:
me I dnt knw o!... coz i dnt knw if itz a guy bearing a female moniker...
beside ow does dat concern me if she iz a gel?

profstar:


stop sugaring it, SHE DEFINATELY HAS PRIDE, i am 100% sure of it.

don't talk like that, we need encourage her so she don't ge to blame herself. All she needs is correction

Jok3r:
Mmmmm.

wot

debolly:

Thank God you said 'some'.

Okay o beautiful alhaja

richidinho:

[b][/b]Prophet Iginla: there is a lady in this church, a gentleman proposed to him last week, but she threw the ring away and advise the guy to try next door come out let me talk to u

The lady cam out

Lady: am the one sir

Prophet Iginla: what happened?

Lady: I don't just like the guy for anything, he can't take care of me

Prophet Iginla: that was a very big mistake u made there, u need to call him and apologize immediately u get home bc he is not only ur perfect man, his future is very bright, in fact I see him in a convoy

Lady: (rolling on the floor with tears) thank you sir

. Na champion you dey go?

Girl na 2 way problem this be ooh, either u Get Spirit husband, STRONG ONE that is threathning men away , scaring them.
2)it may be a sort of Bondage,curse or Family problem thing,pls check ooh
3)do u have any common attitude dat inflames u and scares men away? Eg,anger,pride, despisement,provocation, Snubbing or shyness!
4)parental,tribal,family idols abeg check ooh.dat family idol de pursue people anywhere they go hindering Good things.
5)dont change to attract or seduce men,please be who u are nd the right person would come.but if u change cos u want to attract,d suitor would never love u,he would only be attracted to ur body than loving u for who u really are!!

sorry oh you said u are curvy and don't have a guy?? no fear we no day suck our mama breast just say u are skinny and have a flat ass. even they babes that are like that have guys. baby your condition is critical maybe they send am from village

iamNotAlone:
I am beautiful, curvy and hairy. Chocolate skinned but it bothers me that I can't get and keep a man of my own.
Yes, I have admirers and stalkers but they don't fit into my picture of an ideal man.
The ideal men I have at my workplace, all they do is to admire and tell themselves " this bae make brain o". But none of them could approach me for a serious relationship because they often think I am taken.

Pls, my beloved #landers, how do I get them to toast me?.
Its kind of frustrating when your are lonely, no passionate calls, no sweet talkings. And u feel u have all it takes but the men ain't just coming

Can we chat ? If yes -28A371A6