na2day?:




i am only pointing to how stupid her arguments are, so i made that attack. read her previous post and mine, u will understand where i am coming from.

0thello:

Nene1 you're only half Nigerian by blood and most of all completely Americanized. I could be using that as the reason for your stupidity however I'm not going to stoop to your level. You're not defending Nigerian women because NOBODY is insulting NIGERIAN women.

ONLY YOU have insulted Nigerian MEN by exclaiming that the ones who decide to date, marry, or have children with foreigners are some sort of "sell outs, or "garbage". Quite ironic because if I were to use that logic your own mother is a sell-out and piece of garbage. You think your daddies black foreign ass is enough to avoid the label? Simply put anybody can set ridiculous bars like you have. Luckily the world isn't based on how some Americanized tramp feels.

Nobody is here cursing black women, Nigerian women or even African women. However there are a list of morons with you as their leader who disgrace Nigerians. I suggest you all seek therapy or at least get hysterectomys.

You keep saying what I'm saying is like "reading a book" and yet all it does is testify to how weak your own arguments are and own inability to retaliate without stupid statements like that. You absolutely have nothing “helpful” to say, all you do is sling insults at mixed-race people like your ugly moronic, militant ass was crafted by God himself. You really do not to get the f**k off that pedestal because lowly Americanized bitches like you really aren't that high up on the list of social incompetence. I have no idea what kind of short books you've been reading but I know they supply those books to kids who ride on the "short yellow bus" to school.

I'll repeat: NOBODY on this thread has insulted Nigerian women. he only person who has insulted Nigerian women is your mother, because she felt the need to have a retard like you disgrace Nigerian women's names and honour due to lack of education, intelligence and logic. You are the only disgrace I see to Nigerian women, the only person I am ashamed of being linked to.

tpiah:

true.

I just didnt understand the hairsplitting about who is and isnt Nigerian, thats all.

na2day?:

where should i start, just read her post and some others here

tpiah:

well, I've never seen you get angry on NL, so it was surprising to discover what riles you.

0thello:

Please don't join nene1's team of retards. I suggest you read the topic thoroughly before striking again. You completely missed na2days point. I'll summarize it for you because I promote literacy so please also go do so for yourself (thoroughly) before you retort again.

The irony is that nene1 has set up several STRAWMEN arguments,

1) Nobody has insulted Nigerian women. The topic was about one Nigerian professing his like for white women, come on, who cares right?

2) Then nene1 comes in here and accuses those that do not share her sense of paranoia and stupidity as being sell outs when in fact she's just making very fallacious, pathetic arguments.

3) She starts to make it seem like we're some kind of "whitey" lovers because we don't want to curse at white people like she does. Well I'm sorry nene1 but I'm a little too mature to be slinging insults at a group of people I don't really know.

4) She's accusing the mixed race people of not being Nigerian enough and yet she's only half NIGERIAN herself and completely Americanized unlike SOME of the mixed race people she's insulting.

5) Some other idiots are acting like being with a white person is selling out, when in fact there are more factors that come into it than that.

6) She makes the fallacious assumption that mixed-race people have "less" intelligence and "pride" in their people than she does, when in fact all she's managed to do is drag every Nigerian woman down to a level (via association). I suggest the smart women distance themselves from her. She really is an idiot.

na2day?:

such massive ignorance is a good way to get me started

tpiah:

well, your soulmate obviously lives abroad and isnt black.

Badriyyah:

Nene1 what have you done for Africa?

nene1:

ummm let me see, i will graduate from college at the end of this month to go to med school so that one i will go back to practice in africa. that's something we need. doctors, not people who will make half-caste children.

by the way, what does this have to do with the topic? it's not as if you are doing anything meaningful for africa. but then you're not african, you're a half-caste.

nene1:

ummm let me see,  i will graduate from college at the end of this month to go to med school so that one i will go back to practice in africa. that's something we need. doctors, not people who will make half-caste children.

by the way, what does this have to do with the topic? it's not as if you are doing anything meaningful for africa. but then you're not african, you're a half-caste.

We are all Nigerian women and last time I checked, people are allowed to have differences of opinion.

So generalizing that all Nigerian women share nene1's views is completely off point.

nene1:

how do you know i am americanized? now you are the one ASSUMING. i could easily say you are white-washed since you like white women. i know more about my african cultures just as much as those living in africa. i am proud of who i am. no matter how long i live in america, i will never forget who i am. besides i know my mom's culture better than some of those whose parents are both nigerian. there are some kids living in africa who love to copy america as they see it on tv.

0thello:

We are indeed allowed to have different opinions however those opinions can also be challenged. Even if we were playing by the rules you suggest nene1 has already decided to break them by hurling abuse at all mixed race people and all "black men" who decide to date, marry or have children with non-blacks.


I never did that, if you read all of my posts you'll know that I have not accused or generalized that all Nigerian women share nene1's views, stupidity, paranoia etc. I said that she is a rare exception and a cancer to our 21st civilization. She's just some Americanized slowpoke throwing out Americanisms like "Crabs in a bucket", "whitey lover", "colonial mentality" etc. She doesn't know any of us, she only knows that most of us do not agree with her rancid, pathetic, primitive opinions.

Trust me: she does not deserve you to be on her side, her side is an outdated, narcissistic, prejudice, miserable side, full of miserable people whom are hypocrites.

nene1:

ummm let me see,  i will graduate from college at the end of this month to go to med school so that one i will go back to practice in africa. that's something we need. doctors, not people who will make half-caste children.

by the way, what does this have to do with the topic? it's not as if you are doing anything meaningful for africa. but then you're not african, you're a half-caste.

tpiah:

I'm not on anyone's side here- I'm simply trying to clarify the definition of Nigerianness as outlined in this thread.

Having one Nigerian parent doesnt make someone less Nigerian.



There are other threads where Nigerians and AAs are having a go at it, with various people giving their views on each other. Difference of opinion is nothing new especially on NL.

ummm let me see,  i will graduate from college at the end of this month to go to med school so that one i will go back to practice in africa. that's something we need. doctors, not people who will make half-caste children.

by the way, what does this have to do with the topic? it's not as if you are doing anything meaningful for africa. but then you're not african, you're a half-caste.

I'm not on anyone's side here- I'm simply trying to clarify the definition of Nigerianness as outlined in this thread.

There are other threads where Nigerians and AAs are having a go at it, with various people giving their views on each other. Difference of opinion is nothing new especially on NL.

Leilah:

whatever floats your boat, there is beauty in all races! my ex husband divorced me cos he thought I was an ugly white woman. Pitty this was after we had a child though!!!!!

roraima:

i am a white woman and i find this topic really interesting, actually SURPRISING ME!!!! MY idea has always been that black men dont like white women, they just look for money or whatever, when they think a woman is beatiful SHE IS BLACK

na2day?:

wow, u must have been hanging around with the wrong crowd girl i have plenty of white girls that are beautiful and that i like

SeanT21:

But U will never marry them nor take them to your village!!

na2day?:

sure i can, a lot of my family members did, those b4 me and right in my generation, so nobody will say jack

SeanT21:

Okay oo.