wristbangle:

"The marital journey is for men not boys bro".

I almost read and past by till I saw this ,oga don't worry boys are not struggling this particular privilege with the men,from what I am reading here our lives are much more less complicated when our age obviously indicates to them that marriage Is not possible for us in the nearest feature ,at least all we have to worry and hope for now are mostly four things. 1 hope she is pretty. 2 hope she is not a control freak. 3 hope she does not like money too much. 4 hope she dresses hot. BONUS. 1 she knows a bit abt guy stuff e.g football ,video games,international politics and local , weapons e.t.c.

wristbangle:


Shey make we pray say make thunder strike her butt?

Lol

Kachisbarbie:
Lols.
Funny you.
Lalastic.lala and I kwa? Nawa o... una fit put people for trouble o.

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The problem now is, I have done all the listed. I even stopped wearing makeup, yet husband is not coming.
I want to change formation to 4-4-2.

What do you think?

If I hear

sonofananimal2:
WHY DID YOU PAINT YOUR FACE LIKE A CLAY POT

Ask Bing.

toksbisola:
@Op; kudos for this; very sensible points. I remember your last thread where I did mention for you to give some credit to the ladies and you eventually did with this write-up. Take this, you nailed it; well done.

@tosyne2much; well done too; you’ve made some valuable points as well. It’s refreshing to see credit given to the ladies for a change.

Although some might assume that it might be impossible for one person to posses all these qualities; I’ll slightly disagree and say that it's feasible as I don’t see these qualities as an impossible task to achieve/have.

No one was born with any quality; but as we grow as individuals, one starts to equip ones self with different qualities to complement ones personality. This in-turn, aids one to posses a personality that would be irresistible; hence, that'll bring admiration to oneself.

Anyway, if you find a lady that has 80% of the traits you’ve mentioned in your write-up; be rest assured that indeed, she’s a good catch. The good thing would be to HOLD ON TIGHT TO HER AND DON'T LET GO.

Remember though; that when we look for certain qualities in a partner; we should also strive hard to possess those similar qualities as well; in theory, to avoid it being one-sided. The saying comes to mind “You are what you attract”.

One more thing; a lady who is able to combine her career with looking after a home should be well commended.



PS: @ Orikinla; at least there are still 5% of ladies (better than 0%) out there with these traits and that's a starting point. The % can be improved further as time goes on. Remember the saying; “Half bread is better than none”.


I rest my case

Bro, thanks for your indispensable advice on my last article. I took your advice and made diplomatic option by writing an article that appreciate the positive side of our ladies.

LOL funny thing I can see joy in their heart giving view they possess all these characters but in real life by their seed we shall spot them.

pbs4real:
Hahaha. . .nyc one tosyn,e2much and wrist,bangle. . . . . .i love the combo. . .

Baba, thanks jawe

Mhizkel:

Ask Bing.

He is joking na midehi

anigbajumo:
Welldone tosyne nd wrist,bangle

Baba, I throway salute oooo

Midehi:
which animal now ooo...

I'm still trying to confirm which he belongs

Front page abi, there is God

Empress2014:
I have all these qualities and am still searching

Maybe it's because I have not come across u

Aisha95:
Truth is that Men also love girls that are fun to be with. Not the boring types that can't easily keep a nice covo. Or is it the type that replies with abbreviations when chatting?
Heck, that is a big turn off to the guys.
Then adding to it, men loved being appreciated for even the least of things they do. Doing that will propel them to do more - it kind of cheer up their spirit.
Lastly, when a lady is committed to a religious belief, she is considered responsible to some extent so that as well is a factor that draws the attention of men to such ladies.

You're ready

Midehi:

...really?...not aware o..lol

jbichene:
I almost read and past by till I saw this ,oga don't worry boys are not struggling this particular privilege with the men,from what I am reading here our lives are much more less complicated when our age obviously indicates to them that marriage Is not possible for us in the nearest feature ,at least all we have to worry and hope for now are mostly four things. 1 hope she is pretty. 2 hope she is not a control freak. 3 hope she does not like money too much. 4 hope she dresses hot. BONUS. 1 she knows a bit abt guy stuff e.g football ,video games,international politics and local , weapons e.t.c.

Bros mi, u have spoken well. We worry too much about ladies when wooing them but if her attitude doesn't matter what we want, then it's better we move on to the next lady.

Midehi:
they have arrived!

nice one! but am guilty of just one.

Why are you using style to advertise yourself for us to ask your hand in marriage?

wristbangle:


He is joking na midehi

We are also joking.

The coomment about the log of wood got me cracking.............

It is well dear D, u keep been good, nothing compares with it, you are only sowing seeds,they will sure germinate soon, some one is watching from afar,they will sure come,keep at it dr, when the cloud be full of rain....cast your bread upon the waters and...your mate shall surely show up.God bless you dr.

dalynch:
By the grace of God posses d mentioned qualities but am still single approaching 30. What could be the cause. God pls help me. or may be its not my time.

Midehi:
they have arrived!
nice one! but am guilty of just one.

Do you care to mention?

Where is mhizdeedy?

Daresh:


So ladies should respect all men? Pray tell do men respect all ladies? It takes 2 to tango.

Anyway I no blame una. Na women dey disgrace me like say man na their everything

Wetin happen na ?


Me and you get beef b4 ni ?

lakesidepapa:


Stay there and look for a lady rounded with these qualities and before u knw it, ur juniors ones don get married with kids.

I'll rather go for that Bashira Omo iya alaso that's giving me green light than to wait till i see a lady rounded with these qualities.

Baba na those omo alata and paraga sure pass oooo

ideatoprince18:
.....best prayer I av read since dis evening.........and I say a big AMEN to it...For bless u bro

God bless

toksbisola:
@Op; kudos for this; very sensible points. I remember your last thread where I did mention for you to give some credit to the ladies and you eventually did with this write-up. Take this, you nailed it; well done.

@tosyne2much; well done too; you’ve made some valuable points as well. It’s refreshing to see credit given to the ladies for a change.

Although some might assume that it might be impossible for one person to posses all these qualities; I’ll slightly disagree and say that it's feasible as I don’t see these qualities as an impossible task to achieve/have.

No one was born with any quality; but as we grow as individuals, one starts to equip oneself with different qualities to complement ones personality. This in-turn, aids one to posses a personality that would be irresistible; hence, that'll bring admiration to the individual.

Anyway, if you find a lady that has 80% of the traits you’ve mentioned in your write-up; be rest assured that indeed, she’s a good catch. The good thing would be to HOLD ON TIGHT TO HER AND DON'T LET GO.

Remember though; that when we look for certain qualities in a partner; we should also strive hard to possess those similar qualities as well; in theory, to avoid it being one-sided. The saying comes to mind “You are what you attract”.

One more thing; a lady who is able to combine her career with looking after a home should be well commended.



PS: @ Orikinla; at least there are still 5% of ladies (better than 0%) out there with these traits and that's a starting point. The % can be improved further as time goes on. Remember the saying; “Half bread is better than none”.


I rest my case

Bros thank you so much.. Thanks for your encouragement

gidjah:
God knows, my weakness is an intelligent lady, she can get me bnding up for her anytime,any day, really love to b around intellignt and brilliantly smart ladies, use to admire one over this forum, she is a practicing nurse ,..she participated in our miss NLD few months ago(God knows i cant even recall her name o!)she is a combo of beauty with brains o,but...any time i get into conversation with a lady,d first thing i wanna notice is her compotment,maturity with words and her level of analysis,this is because i do not just talk for talking sake,rather i like engaging in intellectual discuss whenever it is important for me to talk. I have even bin combing my place of work thinking all this ladies with colorful ranks will be averagely intlligent in this field they r into,.. But i noticed their parents just push them into this profession coz of power and fame , no wonder they call thm zombies.once again its only an intlligent lady,wether pretty or ugly will win my hrt any day any time. I use to date or not too pretty lady(igbo lady)she is so so brilliant and smart o, i took my likeness for her and fell for her ASAP and even started telling her about future o, na so her mother come take tell me that i have to go build her a house in their village as one of the marriage rits condition!.i refused to confer with flesh and blood ,na so i borrow my self legs out of that familly.she ranks about 4th out of all the ladies i have ever evaluated, intlligent-wise.

Build house for dia village as one of the marriage requirements


Baba, na to tear speed sure pass oooooo

Midehi:

chai...this boy don spoil finish o...right, left, centre.

All for the satisfaction of kitty cat

kossyablaze:
Itz a pity dah LADIES of nowdays hardly possess all these!Is it CR77 or LadyF or Introvert?Even tho I perceive them to be she_males.

GOD PLEASE GIVE ME AND MY NAIRALAND NIGGAZ A LADY THAT POSSESS ALL LISTED ABOVE.

Guys the ultimate test is financial stability, as long as there is money women are ready to make sacrifices... Inadequate financial stability is why most marriages crash. Make sure you test ur future wife or husband (meek mills type lol) before u commit o! And and food too unless u want to be eating out or indomie!

mecuzee:
Franca you're right. Keep being awesome!

Wow! , mecuzee, thanks...

Honesly i love d lady, so so brilliant and smart. But her familly na advance tettiary consumers, so so gredy a pple

tosyne2much:
Build house for dia village as one of the marriage requirements


Baba, na to tear speed sure pass oooooo

ColeworldMD:


Guys the ultimate test is financial stability, as long as there is money women are ready to make sacrifices... Inadequate financial stability is why most marriages crash. Make sure you test ur future wife or husband (meek mills type lol) before u commit o! And and food too unless u want to be eating out or indomie!

Lol true talk!

tosyne2much:
Maybe it's because I have not come across u

@wristbangle and tosyne2much
You’re welcome Dudes and no worries, you both are cool. BTW, I note you keep referring to me as a Bro; I'm about to drop a bomb shell as I'm actually a Sis.

@dalynch
Gurl; I feel your pain. Ever heard the saying "Hope only stops when life ceases to exist". No doubt a woman’s biological clock ticks fast; but don’t allow desperation push you to the wrong hands and land yourself in trouble.

I hope you don't mind me asking you a few questions;

Do you go out to meet people or are you the shy type that doesn’t?

Are you the type waiting for the well to do man or would you consider a man who both of you can struggle together and make it along the way?

Have you told a few people that you are looking; in case a man is looking as well and you can be recommended to them.

Don’t limit yourself to only seeing people on the street as you can also meet your partner via the online avenue as well. Even here on NL is not left out as a few people have met their partners on here too. At least, I have seen a few of such threads testifying to that effect.

You can also use other other social media such as facebook, whatsapp, instigma etc are also other avenues in which you can meet someone.

If you also like someone, you can give the green light to him. Some guys are quite shy to even toast a lady and if you give them the green light, it becomes a bit easier for them to approach you.

Also keep these qualities that @wristbangle and tosyne2much mentioned above and it would stand you in a good/better light.

Finally, never give up in trying to gain/get whatever it is you are looking to achieve; and pray for direction as well. All the best gurl


I rest my case