tpiander:


90% of Nigerian women meaning what?

are you saying 90% of Nigerian women have been raped or met rapists?

Are you mad?

have 90% of Nigerian men also been raped?

Are you mad yourself? Get close to ladies and hear stories instead of thinking with your anus.

Pidggin:


Yes, i am mad. I think with my anus

no wonder!

3 cases of 'escaped' rape!!!.....heavens!............... this is realy serious....

some women are so full of themselves?

probably thinking she's all that.

Pidggin:


She and almost 90% of Nigerian women that have either been raped or lucky to escape have poor choice in men right?

Holy pulling fantastic unverifiable percentages out of the air.

classicB:
I can actually foot my own bill

Then go alone

Dharniel:
those guys molested you buh they didn't have their way.
to me, when it comes to rape the two parties are guilty but that's not always true cuz at times the lady raped might just be completely innocent.
op, there's something you've gotta always remember which is "NOT ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME", we still have good eggs among us buh nah the bads ones full market, so i put it to the ladies to be watchful and very careful...

Ode!

There is only one guilty party in rape cases.

Get that into your thick skull, pervert!

tpiander:
some women are so full of themselves?

probably thinking she's all that.

Ode! Didn't you read the article?

Brugo:
Girl dresses scantily to visit a guy who is sexually active. They get cuddly and start kissing and touching then she says no when he makes further moves to take off her clothes. Not all guys have the will to stop when the process has been initiated.

Ladies if you don't want to get raped, stop setting yourselves up. Don't get to the point of heavy petting then pull away. You may be dealing with a guy who has little control when aroused. You can't put hot coal on your lap and hope it won't burn you.

In other words, men are animals

vickylala239:



Sometimes I wonder why people don't like saying the truth.

You Whr raped 3 good timez,here u are saying I escape the 1st person,blah blah d 2nd person beg,3 person did dis or Dat.


Nigerian gelz. Wat is hard for u to say Dat u Whr raped After all nobody knows u here.say the truth n shame the devil.

U b witch? 1St pushed Mi dwn n didnt, 2nd person beg n didn't.

Whr on earth will a guy wnt to rape a gel n he will start by touching.Chai dis gel wit lies.rape has to do wit force.


Dem Dey rape wit condom? Whr u wan get tym wear d tin.Chai lies ohh

Person Whr wan rape u Dey romance?. Chai y Nt tell us d truth

Haba na

This one now go think say he get sense, he- idiot

searching4love:



u will be raped before the end of this year in Jesus name. u will never escape rape anymore. useless who.re

Ode! That curse is for you and your entire family

tpiander:
some women are so full of themselves?

probably thinking she's all that.

Thinking she is all that because she said the truth?!

nicerichard05:



All of una na after much struggling den I escaped. Una dey talk!

Mtchewww nobody go gree say after much fvcking nd I enjoyed it den I went back for more.

Anyway I dnt believe rape exist wen a gal is not a virgin cos at some point during d supposed rape d gal will actually get wet, moan and enjoy it. Buh trust naija gals after dem don enjoy am nd d guy don pour dem go con dey cry say wat hav u done, oh my God, I trusted u, u have killed me, I hate you. Lol after 3days dey will come for more

You are sick and you need help

ogundeleai:

Then go alone

Can you live without women, c dis wan

Rape has been treated with kid gloves for a long time that's why some guys actually feel its okay to force themselves on a girl whenever she visits, a guy I was once visited told me that he might not act like a gentleman when next I visit, I took that as a warning and I stopped visiting. When the rapists are seriously dealt with then no guy will even try to molest any lady. Guys should quit the blame game and talk to their fellow guys about this issue.

classicB:

Let assume some girls dress scantily to get raped. What about those underage girls?? What about that innocent housemaid that get raped daily by Oga simply.because Madam isn't available, those men that rapes their own daughters nko??

Wats ur exact message concerning dose dat are house maids n get raped by Dr bosses, or daughters raped by Dr fathers.... Atleast Dey didn't visit...... U C ur point gal is too baised .... D devil dat culd tempt a father to rape daughter is d same devil dat tempts male frnd to rape a female frnd as u put it....it boils down to personality, knowing wats wrong n avoiding it.... Abi a daughter shuld visit her own father in eateries alone..... Atenudenu obirin .... Just hear urself out

Every where is Screaming SEX, why won't rape be evident in our society, u cn just scroll through ur tv station without seein half naked girls, nigerian/yankee music videos has become something else. U look on the street, on campus d rate of indecent dressing is somtin else. Porngraphy is easily accessible.
Actually the truth is a rapist will still rape a girl even if she covers her body.
Another issue is if a girl visits me and I try to touch her to see if she wants sex, If dat is rape then Most 9ja guys r guilty
Another issue, Nigerian girls r d most complex beings, you can't tell wat they want. Dats y d rape tin will continue to increase. Whn ladies begin to let guys knw thr feelings towards them rape will reduce drastically.
Even when a nigerian girl wants sex she would still say No so as nt to be seen as som1 dat likes sex, so hw do 9ja guys tell whn a 9ja babe No, Means No.

I touch rape, I don't touch not man enough
She collects dats ok, I wan collect my own it's a sin

Solution for rape
Inaccessibility to pornography
Sanction any music video/movie/advert that has raunchy nd sexual explicit content with heavy fines and imprisonment
Any lady that exposes private parts of her body should be publicly disgraced
Songs that promote sex should be ban
All rapist must be jailed and undergo rehab

ahamonyeka:
Well I used to say that is not possible for just a man to rape a woman because there is no way a man would penetrate when a woman is struggling,she could still yell to draw peoples attention unless the man threaten her with a weapon.

But,why would a man rape a woman?if you ask her for sex and she refuse just let her be don't touch her on that first day of visit have it at the back of your mind that anything that makes her come the first time will always bring her again.

How will you enjoy sex where the woman is not in the mood or giving it to you with anger?

Ode!

dboss444:
Every where is Screaming SEX, why won't rape be evident in our society, u cn just scroll through ur tv station without seein half naked girls, nigerian/yankee music videos has become something else. U look on the street, on campus d rate of indecent dressing is somtin else. Porngraphy is easily accessible.
Actually the truth is a rapist will still rape a girl even if she covers her body.
Another issue is if a girl visits me and I try to touch her to see if she wants sex, If dat is rape then Most 9ja guys r guilty
Another issue, Nigerian girls r d most complex beings, you can't tell wat they want. Dats y d rape tin will continue to increase. Whn ladies begin to let guys knw thr feelings towards them rape will reduce drastically.
Even when a nigerian girl wants sex she would still say No so as nt to be seen as som1 dat likes sex, so hw do 9ja guys tell whn a 9ja babe No, Means No.

I touch rape, I don't touch not man enough
She collects dats ok, I wan collect my own it's a sin

Solution for rape
Inaccessibility to pornography
Sanction any music video/movie/advert that has raunchy nd sexual explicit content with heavy fines and imprisonment
Any lady that exposes private parts of her body should be publicly disgraced
Songs that promote sex should be ban
All rapist must be jailed and undergo rehab

No means no. Whether she wants it or not, you are not to proceed without her affirmative response. If she deemed you not man enough, ignore her. It will be easier if you abstaines from sexual relations or stick to your sexual partner(s).

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

A would-be rap¡st tends to be aggressive as he wants to rapë his victim. If a girl finds herself in a situation where you're in his home, inside a room that's probably been locked at this point, where's there's a vague chance your screaming will ever be heard, other escape attempts look bleak because he can overpower you during a scuffle maybe, then stay calm and don't struggle. A rapist gets forceful as he wants to rapë because he thinks his victim will put up some resistance. So, you calm him down by playing along. Just tell him, calm down, no need for this aggression, i'll have sex with you...etc, that is tell him something reassuring. It will likely make him a bit calmer, tone down his aggression, and then (most importantly) gives you a rare and vital chance to take control of the situation. Tell him you enjoy a bit of romance before sex, or whatever...but the goal is to get him nakëd with his "balls" exposed - this is your target. No matter how strong a man is, those two "balls" are a devastating weakness. Now, this is no joke, if you get it wrong, you will be rapëd for sure; but if you're adept mentally, bold and street smart, getting the idea and flow pattern correctly, then you'll come out unscathed. Anyway, at this point, before you maybe get half nakëd, make sure he's nakëd and his balls are completely exposed - no clothing to shield or lessen the imminent assault. Remember, this will all be happening real quick so your mind has to be focused to get it done right. He's a bit relaxed at this point thinking you have "consented" to sex. Keep your eyes on his eyes (watch his mood that is). Then grab his balls (not d¡ck). Yes, you heard me, grab his balls (preferably the two, but even one is sufficient), squeeze it without pity and I mean this. This is no time to have a stup¡d conscience. Press it like your life depends on it and you want it to break. He will scream, he will shout, he will struggle and might even want to put up a fight...but he'll eventually BEG (and possibly with tears) if you hold on tight long enough, pressing the hell out of his balls and don't let go no matter what. Don't let him go still. While still pressing on it, tell him to open the door; you might release the tension a little bit but don't stop pressing and keep the pressure hard enough to retain control of the situation. If you lose control at this point and his balls haven't been "damaged" enough to shutdown his body with chronic pains, then you're in deep sh¡T if the door's still locked and you don't even know where the key is or it's unreachable. He might want to test you while trying to reach for the keys, increase the pressure again to near balls-breaking point. He'll beg, shout, scream, yell, curse but...eventually, he'll obey you like a little b¡tch. Then you'll walk out of there like a boss - don't forget to pick your clothes. Have him pick them up, not you. Keep your eyes on him throughout, not on his balls (unless you can look at both simultaneously), just in case he tries to hit you with something like his KO fists or a dangerous object. If he tries to, as in you notice any awkward movement of his hands in your direction, squeeze the hell out of his balls, his brain will shutdown his attack and command every sense of his body to comply and beg for his life - yes, a man's life is closer to his balls, and most people aren't aware until they have this kind of experience.

If you have been squeezing his balls as hard as you should, by the time you release it, he'll be thanking you profusely and be nursing his pains (and wounds if the balls so happens to have further nearly divided into two). He will never be able to attack as you're leaving, he might be cussing you like crazy though - who cares!!! But he'll certainly have respect for you and even give you a prestigious title of The Craziest B¡tch I ever met. He'll definitely never want to fück with you again, and don't be sooo stupïd to ever be connected to him ever again. And as you're walking out of there, you might want to yell, this Mofo (his name) tried to rapë me but I showed him hell. Tell people, don't keep silent about it, put a rapist stigma on his head; that's one of the surest ways to further disarm such lowlife no-good bastärds who should have a bullet hole put through their heads

classicB:

I can actually foot my own bill

YOU CAN BUT HAVE YOU DONE IT BEFORE? BE SINCERE PLS

classicB:

I met the wrong guy, like that that 18year old girl met the wrong man, just like those kids that get raped daily met the wrong guy

Don't you get it.....you dated the wrong guy and you want to slave other girls with your story.

Don't worry, when you are 30+ you ll start visiting them in their bedroom

Brugo:


Reason with your brain then quote me.

BROS you dey make me vex for this thread
E be like say you be rapist. Una plenty for here, I know that one. No dey talk anyhow.

[quote author=sonofananimal post=36756418]

WOMEN AND FISH BRAIN, GOING BY HER SUPER STORY,

I BET SHE ENJOY THE RAPE


NONSENSE! COMING HERE AND BE FORMING LIES [/quote

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Are you not the same dude that questioned my "shamelessness "the other day?

Even the way they lust after ladies here in NL you will know that it is in them.

searching4love:



u will be raped before the end of this year in Jesus name. u will never escape rape anymore. useless who.re

Hmmm. You again? You still dey search for oyibo love ?

classicB:

I.do have a boyfriend and we've been together for a long time now. He's the only guy I trust with myself

if you have to trusted boyfriend why visit another one privately?

DeeMain:


You just have head knowledge without wisdom and Emotional Intelligence. Blatantly displaying your ignorance publicly and without compunction is the hallmark of a fool.

There is something called boundary and territory. A woman's (or man's) body belongs to her completely, moreso her privates. She is the owner. Landlady. The moment she says NO, stop!

Lack of self-control or restraint is a punishable weakness.

Many in developed countries are languishing in jail because of the warped intelligence you are unashamedly exhibiting here. Many have died or have been harmed for raping a girl as relatives come for revenge.

Rape is mental and psychological trauma. Rape is evil. Many girls are maimed for life. Many re-experience the torture forever.

Your entire argument on this thread is what we call Beautiful Nonsense. Pray for sense pls.

God bless you, your parents really train you well.God bless your mother more and more.


Truth is, there are many rapists a d potential rapists here on NL.Those who spent so much time defending rapists here have actually molested or try to molest a woman/women before.

Dear Nigerian boys,


The easiest way to have the woman of your dreams is to become the man of her dreams.

SAY NO TO RAP.E!!!

tpiander:


90% of Nigerian women meaning what?

are you saying 90% of Nigerian women have been raped or met rapists?

Are you mad?

have 90% of Nigerian men also been raped?

Madam tpia, old age suppose to make person wise o . Truly, madam your case is quite different. Who do you this thing?

classicB:

I do,. Like I said in a previous thread am currently working with guys and the way they talk about girls is insane. It's like they believe a female frnd coming for visitation is coming for sex, that's insane! How dare you rape your innocent female visitor
I so have male frnds, but when it.comes to visiting you alone?? Abeg count me out.

You actually like the idea of having sex with guys but not in the way and manner guys go about it..am I correct?

classicB:

Let assume some girls dress scantily to get raped. What about those underage girls?? What about that innocent housemaid that get raped daily by Oga simply.because Madam isn't available, those men that rapes their own daughters nko??

What about the innocent man that gets accused of rape by a perfidious female just to ruin is career or the occasion were other women get raped by men?