oyinda.:

tope, how do you know? she said she wasn't cheating. she was chilling. lol
don't twist her words now.

Lol . . . if i remember correctly, u also said she cheated . . no?

davidylan:

you've been doing that all night  

How do you expect the bf to understand the meaning of "chilling" when she claimed to be at work?

she didn't claim to be at work  
she claimed to be at her friend's house.
Her boyfriend calls her every morning to ask her where she is. seeing that she's at her friend's house, he asked the friend's gender (wow lol) but she couldn't tell him if the friend was male or female because she didn't want to piss bf off. bf already has history of being pissed of at male friends.

tope5000:

Its because she is cheating

.amebo no1:

then i take d cheating part,

Well she has said she has not cheated on him before even with any of those guys, but WHAT SHE HAS NOT SAID IS THAT SHE IS SCARED, HENCE THE REASON I AM RIGHT. Two down, how many more to go

The girl is scared of the man, shikena

Let me go and dig out where she said she has never cheated on him to rub it in

I don't think I'll take it easy with a bf that leaves work to "chill" with a girl. And you even failed to pick up his calls after that? Personally, the bf is finished.

From the post, you already had trust issues, why pour kerosene in the fire?

You asked for advice, well you just have to beg, that's all.

OMG So true.

tope5000:

Lol . . . if i remember correctly, u also said she cheated . . no?

I think we talked about this earlier. go back one more page for a refresher miss.
like I said you are the most sensible person on this forum. of course you remember correctly   why would an einstein like you not remember correctly.

C2H5OH:

OMG So true.

I thought you were a guy

tope5000:

Lol . . . if i remember correctly, u also said she cheated . . no?

LMAO Yeah she did.  And then she boinked on it.  She said the devil made her say it.  

oyinda.:

she didn't claim to be at work  
she claimed to be at her friend's house.
Her boyfriend calls her every morning to ask her where she is. seeing that she's at her friend's house, he asked the friend's gender (wow lol) but she couldn't tell him if the friend was male or female because she didn't want to piss bf off. bf already has history of being pissed of at male friends.

another lie . . . where did you see this? transcript pls.  

oyinda.:

I thought you were a guy

Hey, stop trying to change topics now. You got cornered. Keep waiting for the knockout.

davidylan:

another lie . . . where did you see this? transcript pls.

LMAOOOOOO

The girl dey see double.

I guess she was trying to be daring . . . but it backfired.

big_bumper:



Well she has said she has not cheated on him before even with any of those guys, but WHAT SHE HAS NOT SAID IS THAT SHE IS SCARED, HENCE THE REASON I AM RIGHT. Two down, how many more to go

The girl is scared of the man, shikena

Let me go and dig out where she said she has never cheated on him to rub it in

Not scared. Probably thought him a nuisance with her nonchalant attitude. You don't do such to people you claim you love.

oyinda.:

tope, how do you know? she said she wasn't cheating. she was chilling. lol
don't twist her words now.

Are you minding Tope2000, its the girl's three threads, that is confusing her

tope5000:

True but my own agrument is still . . . the girl must have caused that insecurities

OK, so we are going with Tope2000's words that the OP caused the guy's insecurity, i.e. [size=16pt]TOPE HAS FINALLY AGREED THAT THE GUY IS INSECURE[/size] AND I AM SURE IT IS NOT BECAUSE OF HER FEAR OF LOOSING SHARON TO SISTER AMEBO NO 1


Phew, another one bites the dust

C2H5OH:

LMAO Yeah she did.  And then she boinked on it.  She said the devil made her say it.  

here was where she said it

what do you suggest the girl should do? If she's not cheating on him anymore how can she gain enough of his trust to be able to visit her male friends w/o the bf casting shadows of doubt?
Should the bf also be more forgiving towards her? etc

be careful of wat u cuz it wud be used against on NL's court of law

big_bumper:

OK, so we are going with Tope2000's words that the OP caused the guy's insecurity, i.e. TOPE HAS FINALLY AGREED THAT THE GUY IS INSECURE AND I AM SURE IT IS NOT BECAUSE OF HER FEAR OF LOOSING SHARON TO SISTER AMEBO NO 1
Phew, another one bites the dust

I aint convinced yet
lol. . . .the man wasnt a control freak though

tope5000:

here was where she said it

be careful of wat u cuz it wud be used against on NL's court of law

and the smart award goes to Tope200. how much effort did it take to dig up that hidden bit of post. Such excellent research  
you are hereby appointed the supreme judge on NL's court of law  

big_bumper:


OK, so we are going with Tope2000's words that the OP caused the guy's insecurity, i.e. [size=16pt]TOPE HAS FINALLY AGREED THAT THE GUY IS INSECURE[/size]

We are not going with tope's words.  We are going with logic and with the girl's words.

You even tried ramming it up the girl's throat that the guy is insecure, but she flat out basically disagreed with you and gave her reason.

stillwater:



Not scared. Probably thought him a nuisance with her nonchalant attitude. You don't do such to people you claim you love.

Right, how can someone with a nonchalant attitude be UNCOMFORTABLE?

oyinda.:

and the smart award goes to Tope200. how much effort did it take to dig up that hidden bit of post. Such excellent research  
you are hereby appointed the supreme judge on NL's court of law  

I gladly accept it  . . . u r hearby sentence to 1mnt ban for posting before reading

Girl said

I dont really think he is insecure cos he is those kinda guys that can really get most girls they want,I see the way he distances himself from them,I didnt really take note,now that we just talk I see he aint putting any efforts to stay off anyone again

OMG!! 10 pages!!!   power to the people. lol

the girl must have caused that insecurities  

@Tope, yeah she did cause the insecurity. That's  why I put partial blame on her. maybe 75% of the blame is for her and 25% for the guy
she didn't cause it by cheating though (That was what I thought because of what I was reading by all of you guys claiming that she was cheating. her post is misleading at times too). She was "careless" in her own words. ex she deleted her bf's comments on her facebook site. etc (I read this is another post she made. If you go on her profile and read all her comments, you can fit the pieces of the puzzle together).

they both seem sweet but sometimes things turn sour. unfortunately

C2H5OH:

We are not going with tope's words.  We are going with logic and with the girl's words.

You even tried ramming it up the girl's throat that the guy is insecure, but she flat out basically disagreed with you and gave her reason.

Tope has finally seen the light, Olorun a je ki iwo na b'oko, lol

Like I said, she is scared she has lost him to another girl hence is prepared to cover up his bad side and highlight her own fault instead, hence the title of the thread about needing to win him back at all cost

I can see a bit of top-up in the OP, getting defensive and whatnot

big_bumper:


I can see a bit of top-up in the OP, getting defensive and whatnot

pLOL . I seriously hope you are not a psychologist.

which kain light did i see

why does oyinda avoid instances where her lies are exposed?

C2H5OH:

Girl said

C2H5OH:

I dont really think he is insecure cos he is those kinda guys that can really get most girls they want,I see the way he distances himself from them,I didnt really take note,now that we just talk I see he aint putting any efforts to stay off anyone again

Did she really think he'd do any of that infront of her before

Anyways, the OP has admitted to being a bit wet behind the ears when it comes to relationship issues, but so iIcan't really blame her for falling hook, line and sinker about the distancing himself , not putting effort blah blah blah BS

big_bumper:


Tope has finally seen the light, Olorun a je ki iwo na b'oko, lol

Like I said, she is scared she has lost him to another girl hence is prepared to cover up his bad side and highlight her own fault instead, hence the title of the thread about needing to win him back at all cost

I can see a bit of top-up in the OP, getting defensive and whatnot

yeah I agree with you.  the reason she's asking for help now is because her bf is getting really close to some other girl etc and she's scared she's going to lose him.

she seems so sweet and innocent. she reminds me of allison in ANTM for some reason. The bf seem cute too (MY ROCK. lol).  They need to work things out asap  
now that I've borrowed some of your telepathy skills I can see more clearly now. I know ya secret.  

Can't blame him.  He is playing the field. Just like she did.

tope5000:

lol. . . .the man wasnt a control freak though

tope5000:


I aint convinced yet
lol. . . .the man wasnt a control freak though

You have seen the light jooo, its just that I hope it was not too much to blind you hence the reason you changed that post from the first to the second

And don't worry, as long as I have your word that the dude is INSECURE, thats all I need I will gladly go and burn the posts where I said he was a control freak

C2H5OH


are you a guy or girl?  "OMG so trueee" lol I could picture you squealing at that comment. lol

oyinda.:

C2H5OH


are you a guy or girl? "OMG so trueee" lol I could picture you squealing at that comment. lol

Back off, he is mine I would not say you are in my camp, and will woze ya face

Is that a humbling deafening silence I detect from the other camp aka Camp Dafidi and co