Toks2008:


Guy or lady please cut the chase.Im not down with your historical,rethorical and ecclesiastical mambo jumbo.

To start with please tell me exactly what is your issue with this write up?

But for the fact that you just want to practise your collections of grammertical terms which ofcourse does not impress me,i see no reason why you should be making a fuss about this.

I dont care what you believe or whether you are from earth or mars..my candid advice to you..stop reasoning like a jerk..YES its your opinion but where men talk,boys like you should learn.

Men and women can never ever be on the same level as far as sexuali chastity is concerned...Quote me in heaven.

Oga Toks ordinary intellectual argument your bp don dey rise above sea level? Oga gidi gan ooo .

Why on God's green earth would ronald4lif want to impress you? Are you Obama? Or Cameron? .

He dropped his opinion like every rational person would on a thread created on a public forum and you decided to be insulting. Now the heat is up and you are now a cry baby?

Then you finally had to end your tittle-tattle above with pure conjecture asking to be quoted in heaven....Oga Toks you better start cracking jokes..

No offienseeee.

joshuamoses101:
wat re u talking abt

Bhella5:
freedom after speech is not a guarantee

KingCheezyPuff:
That's just the thing......there's always someone.
There a lotta dudes in this world I'll be good.

VibrationsZ:
yet another thread demeaning the women folks

joshuamoses101:
Whichever girl/lady disagrees with the op its obvious she has already had up 16 ex's who have all had there fair share of her punny nd she isnt still close to finding mr perfect (i have said my peace)(leaves tread)

KingCheezyPuff:
Nothin'.Bye.

kinglekan:


Oga Toks ordinary intellectual argument your bp don dey rise above sea level? Oga gidi gan ooo .

Why on God's green earth would ronald4lif want to impress you? Are you Obama? Or Cameron? .

He dropped his opinion like every rational person would on a thread created on a public forum and you decided to be insulting. Now the heat is up and you are now a cry baby?

Then you finally had to end your tittle-tattle above with pure conjecture asking to be quoted you in heaven....Oga Toks you better start cracking jokes..

No offienseeee.

ronald4lif:


You're not making sense bruv, no need to get emotional when faced with an antithesis opinion. Please quote me when you're ready to be receptive for intellectual jostling. For now, it's bye from me. Cheers.

ronald4lif:
Mr. Toks never disappoints in brandishing his misogynistic views. Dude, a woman doesn't have to stay in a relationship that's not working just so she doesn't appear to have many exes. If it's not working, she move on. Likewise the guys.

You talked about women being 'ransacked' but never spare a thought for men who are also being ransacked. Why must your opinion be laced with male chauvinism, female belittling and condescending to the women folk. You can do better mate. We already know you're a chauvinist but easy with flaunting it on our faces.

Oliviaarims:


Right...

But still,the post makes a lot of sense...in that ladies should be really careful and slow to dating. For most ladies,once they get out of one relationship, they are already looking at starting a new one, consciously or unconsciously. And most times,too... they don't realize they are on the rebound until it's too late.


In summary...always do ur best to make ur relationship work, but if doesnt, take a good time to cool off and reflect on what u really want. U can socialize quite alright,but don't sleep around.

Talking from experience.

Experience?

Hmmm...hope it's not what i'm thinking.

naijaboiy:

Experience?

Hmmm...hope it's not what i'm thinking.

kinglekan:


Oga Toks ordinary intellectual argument your bp don dey rise above sea level? Oga gidi gan ooo .

Why on God's green earth would ronald 4lif want to impress you? Are you Obama? Or Cameron? .

He dropped his opinion like every rational person would on a thread created on a public forum and you decided to be insulting. Now the heat is up and you are now a cry baby?

Then you finally had to end your tittle-tattle above with pure conjecture asking to be quoted in heaven....Oga Toks you better start cracking jokes..

No offienseeee.

Oliviaarims:


Right...

But still,the post makes a lot of sense...in that ladies should be really careful and slow to dating. For most ladies,once they get out of one relationship, they are already looking at starting a new one, consciously or unconsciously. And most times,too... they don't realize they are on the rebound until it's too late.


In summary...always do ur best to make ur relationship work, but if doesnt, take a good time to cool off and reflect on what u really want. U can socialize quite alright,but don't sleep around.

ronald4lif:


Lol. No be say hin get kitty-cat o wey person go wan run things. Chai!

Hehehehehe...

Youngpo413:
I like this kind of threads, those b!tches lik emy mother deserves it.

Oliviaarims:


Right...

But still,the post makes a lot of sense...in that ladies should be really careful and slow to dating. For most ladies,once they get out of one relationship, they are already looking at starting a new one, consciously or unconsciously. And most times,too... they don't realize they are on the rebound until it's too late.


In summary...always do ur best to make ur relationship work, but if doesnt, take a good time to cool off and reflect on what u really want. U can socialize quite alright,but don't sleep around.

ronald4lif:


I'm not sure you got what he's really saying. He never advised women not to rush into dating after their relationship packs up but rather telling them not to leave an (unhappy) relationship just so they don't keep having numerous exes or body counts as the case may be. The both aren't same. To Mr. Toks a woman shouldn't quit a relationship or worse marriage under any circumstance.

Surprisingly, all his articles are solemnising women to work out a relationship/marriage, regardless of how sour it is, and he has never considered advising guys too.

Did you read the last line of his post about a woman should never divorce or stay single forever if they must. What do you make of that?

Suigeneris93:




I used to like your line of reasoning but this is just disappointing. Don't try to make excuses for the op or make what he wrote any sweeter with diplomacy, what he wrote up there is double standards pure and simple! And I can never see the sense in it, its pure thrash as far as I'm concerned. So its guys that don't do rebounds abi? When you give a man the same advice you're giving ladies then we can talk, inugo?

Oliviaarims:


Maybe this was how I chose to intepret it.

ronald4lif:


Abeg make we forget Toks matter, make man flirt small. It's not everyday that I have the luxury to dally with damsels lol. How you dey jare? See as you just troway me since.

Oliviaarims:


I'm not making any excuses for the OP... I've got absolutely no reason to do that. As a matter of fact,I find most of his threads quite infuriating. But perhaps,this was just how I chose to interpret it in order to put my own msg across.

And yea,we aren't talking about guys and girls here...just about the girls. But this is not to be taken to mean that guys are free to run wild and explore as they wish, just because the discourse isn't centred on them.

Suigeneris93:




That's exactly what it means @bolded. If I date a guy and decide to sleep with him thinking he's the one for me and tomorrow I find out he's a cheat and a liar, I'll dump his good for nothing ass and move on without blinking. Sleeping with him does not diminish my worth as a person in any way, he was just dumb to not see I'm the best thing to ever happen to him, same with the next guy who feels the same. I can never stay on in a bad relationship because I'm afraid of leaving with a loose punny, dats what I understand this thread is saying, kapisce!

Oliviaarims:



Well,yeah...that's how it does seem. But I chose to take a part of it and interpret the msg differently.

But just imagine,u sleep with 3 more consecutive guys and u discover them to be "unworthy?”

Suigeneris93:



Yep, shii happens. The day I choose a man who stays with me for how tight my punny is then my village witches have finally got me

Oliviaarims:


That's not the point. Funny enough,u may not have much of a choice. If he doesn't live up to expectations, whether or not he likes ur tight punny, u may just have to move on.

But that may be the point where u start regretting all the ones before...wishing u had seen through their facades and known early enough that they weren't worth ur time and body and whatever else.

And if really,realization dawns on u,u'd sit back and be more scrutinizing before starting off on another relationship or sleeping with any other guy.

So,the point here is that,the what ifs/regrets would be avoided in the first place if we'd all be introspective before jumping out of one relationship and into another.

Suieneris93:

Yep, shii happens. The day I choose a man who stays with me for how tight my punny is then my village witches have finally got me

naijaboiy:
i've realized that women and men cannot and never be on the same pedestal sexually; therefore, championing for their support will do me no good than worsen what is already on ground.

Whether we like it or not, the society does not look at a philanderer the same way it looks at a multiple dick fùcking woman.

I'm inclined to go with oga toks2008 on this one.

Take it or leave it!

Suigeneris93:




Yea I get, but sometimes personal experience is the best teacher, I was being sarcarstic when this



Sometimes being introspective doesn't stop ladies from falling for jerks and realizing a while later they goofed big time. As a person I'm quite optimistic abt relationships because finally nothing is ever certain, so I try to take things one step at a time. However, there are deal breakers for me, as there should be for everyone. So in a case where I feel the deal's been compromised one way or the other, I have the choice to walk away or live with it. If I walk away I'm not going to allow one bad relationship experience ruin the prospect of every other guy I come across. I learnt a lot from my past experiences and I won't trade that knowledge for anything. Fine, some of the 'mistakes' could have been avoided but dearie, life is meant to be lived