obiorathesubtle:



One day, you would understand it's not about showing strength and kicking him in the balls or storming out of the house because he cheated..


If you're strong and have a high self worth, as you have chosen to see it.. You're more likely to land a faithful partner..


But when you let your greed and what you think you know, block your eyes when accepting the marriage proposal, all that tendency to land a faithful partner has been thrown out the window..

tosyne2much:
And the argument continues...

Well, it's hard to tolerate a cheating spouse and it's harder to opt for divorce.. There are ups and downs in marriages and these ups and downs can come in various forms

The way these Nairaland ladies talk about divorce at any slight provocation ehn, I tire ooooo

AfroSamurai:
What about you working if he's jobless and you giving him the respect he deserve?

You should know who you prefer. I'm not the one to tell you. Like I said, it's easy to talk but very hard to take action. This I know.

Cutehector:
lol soon u go geh belle

professorfal:
SPECIAL APPEARANCE obiorathesubtle

kimbra:
Have seen the movie like twice. That's a one woman's marital issue. Our problems are different so they require different approach. You don't subject all marriages to one person's experience.

EmperorLee:



We do, however, speak a message of wisdom among the mature, but not the wisdom of this age or of the rulers of this age, who are coming to nothing.

Lawlahdey:
Na you go gimme?

Aderola15:


Meet us in church tonight, you'll understand big head.

Ahbi Emperor lee, kilo feel?

Mizk:
you're contradicting yourself, go back and read what i wrote slowly, and save the imbecilic advise for yourself

Mizk:
thats all I've been trying to force into their blocked heads

Cutehector:
lol just pray that you don't marry any of their kind... Always test the extent at which a lady can act in anger before you say I do

kimbra:
That was savage!.

Aderola15:


Meet us in church tonight, you'll understand big head.

Ahbi Emperorlee, kilo feel?

obiorathesubtle:



Odogwu

Cutehector:
yes, with all pleasure ..

Aderola15:
Iyamm seeing it on his behalf

tosyne2much:
They're only suffering from childishness and the spirit of aggradizememt

EmperorLee:




I was glad when they said to me, “Let us go to the house of the LORD ! ... I will say, “Peace be within you!”

sirusX:

Cheating in a relationship was the initial talk...my reason for the reference

But I do understand your motive behind "different approach", but that's where personality comes in.

So, how do you handle issues??

While some people might be open to communication and willing to forgive, other take the high road and veer off marriage bond

It takes a person knowing their limits to issues/problems in a relationship, and solving it in their own way

EmperorLee:



We do, however, speak a message of wisdom among the mature, but not the wisdom of this age or of the rulers of this age, who are coming to nothing.

Laveda:


Imagine what they want us to tolerate..

he didn't even get it.

professorfal:


alhaji soft money, I hail thee.

make you dey form relationship expert, marry you no gree, give woman belle you no do

My brother..


There's a time for everything under the sun, and to everything there's a season..

I don marry oh.. I get 5 wives now.. But I never dy impregnate them..

I still dy on fertility booster meds..


So that.. Once I start to dy plant my seed into my numerous wives.. Na quadruplets dem go dy born at once..


I'm a blessed man.. I need to have many children.


For I am Alhaji soft money..

Lawlahdey:
Church isn't for me.

Shortyy:

As you fine laidis u come name yourself efulefu? chai

Nogodye:



So you gon' give her out to omo ibadan...

Lawlahdey:
Don't try going offensive with me, Missy.
I am not contradicting myself, you only have zero comprehension capability.

Cutehector:
its very obvious.. They are not exposed to real life worse case scenarios.. Scenarios where men have dumped 7yrs of rship or more.. Where men will love and cherish their wives to a fault and she says he isn't good in bed and cheats on him, where women have left their men due to financial constraints..

These small girls just come in here to showcase their inexperience . well I wish them well in life

Yes you're very much on point.. Most of them are living in the europhia of fairytales and the Nollywood/ Phillipines movies they watch

The truth is, marriage is not as smooth as these Nairaland ladies watch in movies.. Ladies who are able to tolerate poo and endure are actually the ones enjoying their marriages. . If you're a lady and you still exhibit the character "I don't take nonsense from any man", you're not yet matured for marriage because you will only end up in miserable marriages and will keep changing husbands like bathroom slippers.

That was how a lady was telling me last month that she wouldn't take poo from her mother-in-law nor sisters-in-law when she marries, and that she will give them hot any time any day they provoke her.. I just looked at her and shook my head at her ignorance


This keep me wondering the mentality ladies carry into their marriages

Aderola15:
Have given her out to him already na

tosyne2much:
Yes you're very much on point.. Most of them are living in their europhia of fairytales and Nollywood movies

The truth is, marriage is not as smooth as these Nairaland ladies think.. Ladies who are able to tolerate poo are actually the ones enjoying their marriage.. All these ones shouting "I don't take nonsense from any man" will only end up in miserable marriages

That was how a lady was telling me last month that she wouldn't take poo from her mother-in-law and sisters-in-law when she marries.. I just looked at her and shook my head at her ignorance

lefulefu:

dont mind dem kimbra and co wey give me d name .dem say the name is sexy for me .anyway i like the way u dey shoot dem ur missiles .slaying them all the way