jamie1994:

Thanks for your comments. That's the more reason I n scared. I don't want a pregnancy induced marriage. I already made this mistake (feels so bad). I am ready tto accept the child after birth.. I never promised her marriage from the onset. She just finally Trapped me

what do you mean trapped you ? Who gets trapped by a baby nowadays ? Except t you want to trap yourself ? What this means is you are now her baby daddy ! All you need to do is be present for your child ! Do a DNA test immediately the child is born - if it’s really yours take care of it to the best of your ability . Meanwhile use this opportunity to refocus and drive yourself to improve your financial situation . Goodluck

Hmmn,ds 1 na gobe! y did u allow her trap u,jxt brace up for ur actions dnt b a coward!
sorry but dats my opinion.

EweduAfonja:
Buy cycotech....

Let her insert 3 inside via vjay... deep deep inside

Let her place 3 under her tongue...


Stay with her through out the period cuz she will experience bleeding and some blood lumps...

Thank me later

OP plss don't kill that child. Let her keep it plss.

SenorFax:
Should have had a protected sex to avoid these
But wait,
From the look of things you want her to abort the pregnancy right?
If yes
1. What if she died in the process,
2. What if her womb gets destroyed,
2(b). What are if her womb gets destroyed and you eventually ended up with her.

A word is..... Many words in this case, are enough for the wise.

If you truly love her, brace up and be a daddy.
If you don't, we'll..... Go ahead and kill the innocent baby, and you have 50%" chance of 1,2,2(b)

I hail o. Well summarised .

Emekus92:

Go to a chemist buy abortion pill miss it with hollandia and give it to her

u wnt to kill somebody? Wat kind of advice is this

Dnt u knw thats poisoning

jamie1994:
I am just 24 and she is 26. I can't get married to her. This feeling is burning me down to d marrow...

When you no dey READY, why did you go and REEDY?

jamie1994:
I am so confused at this time. I don't have a job, I just graduated preparing for nysc.. what steps do I take?? Please

guy don't abort a pregnancy, you will later regret your action. Belle or belle, u shall fulfill your destiny in life. Talking from experience.

jamie1994:
I am just 24 and she is 26. I can't get married to her. This feeling is burning me down to d marrow...

Guy, u fvcked up. Don't u know when to use your umbrella b4 becoming a victim of accidental discharge?

It has happened already. Just involve your parent. No parent won't like to cater for their grandchild.
Most importantly, be responsible and hardworking.

jamie1994:
Please help a brother going through a trauma.
There is this lady that has really being on me for long. Eventually, we made out in December. Now she's about 5 weeks pregnant. I am not ready to father a child at this time. I m so confused and depressed. Please what can I do?? She insists on having the child but I m not ready for marriage or anything pertaining to that. Please help!

Shit happens bro. From all indications, she forced you into it and now that the deed is done, both of you will pay for it. Do not blame yourself or feel regretful.

What girls like this fail to understand is that at the end of the day, they remain at the disadvantaged position; the shame, the lack of care and the immorality of unwanted pregnancy stay with them the more. Since she actually lured you into it, brace up and allow her keep the baby, even if you have to go to her parents, maintain your stance that you weren't ready for marriage which you also told her and warned her about it. The worst is that they will blame you for fornication(man body no be wood na).

Don't be surprise if you get a good job soon which is my earnest prayer for you.

jamie1994:

She really did this intentionally..

Can you pls shed more light on this statement , pls?

Seems you guys have a history that is deeper than what you sharing..

And the last but not the least,
How are you sure it's yours?

#justaskingnio

My bros, you don play penalty enter throwing so buckle up and be a father......
On a second thought, maybe she Don do unprotected for outside and she's afraid it will lead to pregnancy dats y she force you to do without protection so wen it turn to preggy, she will force it on you.... My thinking though

That pregnancy is not yours.

Now go and sin no more

jamie1994:

Thanks for your comments. That's the more reason I n scared. I don't want a pregnancy induced marriage. I already made this mistake (feels so bad). I am ready tto accept the child after birth.. I never promised her marriage from the onset. She just finally Trapped me

Scary stuff. Wish you strength and courage at this time bro!

Op, you're naive and she played on your intelligence. Infact this lady insisted on no condoms because she knew what she wanted. Dating a lady older than you has it own too.

She's 26 and you're 24. You guys are adults and gimme an excuse for not using condoms or postpill? I gave out the prices for those yesterday and hypocrites came for my head.

She's looking for marriage and you're obviously not ready, this sharp babe is going to use that baby to hook you. She knows your financial status right?

Like I always say, we're adults responsible for our actions so we should face the consequences.
The question here is what should you do?
Father your child. Be the best father you can be and get a job.

Jamie1994, there is no provision in law that made it mandatory for someone to marry a girl whom he got pregnant. Don't allow the girl's people to pressure you into doing something you don't want to do. Since you don't want marriage, tell her people.

Don't allow them to force you into marriage with their daughter. She should live with the consequences of her actions. You should support her during the term of the pregnancy but don't allow her or her family to hold you to ransom. Do what you can afford, leave the ones you can't afford.

Nobody will arrest you for getting a girl pregnant.

jamie1994:
Please help a brother going through a trauma.
There is this lady that has really being on me for long. Eventually, we made out in December. Now she's about 5 weeks pregnant. I am not ready to father a child at this time. I m so confused and depressed. Please what can I do?? She insists on having the child but I m not ready for marriage or anything pertaining to that. Please help!

BWHAHAHA NA devil ROMANCE YOUR PLANS. EXPECTANT FATHER CONGRATS I PRAY SAY NA QUADRUPLETS DEY COME

cc: Ishilove

jamie1994:
Please help a brother going through a trauma.
There is this lady that has really being on me for long. Eventually, we made out in December. Now she's about 5 weeks pregnant. I am not ready to father a child at this time. I m so confused and depressed. Please what can I do?? She insists on having the child but I m not ready for marriage or anything pertaining to that. Please help!

Please keep baby.Seven years back same thing happen to a friend of my,he decided to keep the pregnancy. He is now a proud father of a beautiful girl.

jamie1994:

Thanks for your comments. That's the more reason I n scared. I don't want a pregnancy induced marriage. I already made this mistake (feels so bad). I am ready tto accept the child after birth.. I never promised her marriage from the onset. She just finally Trapped me

You don't have to marry her! There is no law that says u must marry a person u gave unwanted pregnancy.

klenton:
i dont think that baby is urs

i think the lady was already pregnant before meeting u
the whole thing was just premeditated thats why she is insisted on u going in without protection and promising that she wont get pregnant

very good point.

let me just reserve my comment.

but why are you crying up n down nah. when the thing dey sweet you, you no know?

when una see Bleep, una brain no dey gree work well again.

let me tell you one str8 fact and i dont need to show any form of pity in this regard.

either way, you life is headed for some serious turnaround. you better brace up.

i still reserve my full comment

when you are driving at 200km/h using tubeless you no know say kasala go happen abi? man up and take responsibility. and dont even think of abortion, because it is murder.

idoit.(!!!!!!).
Condom=#50 or postinor 1, 2 etc =#50, #150. so u don't no u shud av been vigilant before doing DAT.?
ONE WORD FOR U !!''olodo''!!

jamie1994:
I am feeling a bit relieved that people still show care.
Please don't leave me..
Thanks as more helpful comments are made

But if somebody do this to your daughter will you like it. Why is the girl good enough for sex but not for marriage. Stick with her and marry her

Are you a learner? She obviously trapped you She proved to you she is more experienced in the game.how could you have unprotected sex with her. From what you wrote " she has been on your case" and she got you. You don't have to marry her if you don't love her, but accept responsibility for the child.

Lol, when you were hiting her from all corners. You didn't remember that you are not man enough

and they r even giving him advice. mstcwwww

Emekus92:

Go to a chemist buy abortion pill miss it with hollandia and give it to her

. If the same drug you recommended was administered on you when you were just a foetus in your mums stomach, would you be alive typing this trash

jamie1994:
Please help a brother going through a trauma.
There is this lady that has really being on me for long. Eventually, we made out in December. Now she's about 5 weeks pregnant. I am not ready to father a child at this time. I m so confused and depressed. Please what can I do?? She insists on having the child but I m not ready for marriage or anything pertaining to that. Please help!

Call her bluff joor! No one on this earth, can force u to marry her!


Tell her, u accept d pregnancy, but marriage is out of d question! Shikena!


Make she go carry police come! Should u change ur mind, still hold on any marriage. Marriages to schemers, never end well.


Bit*h!

jamie1994:

Thanks for your comments. That's the more reason I n scared. I don't want a pregnancy induced marriage. I already made this mistake (feels so bad). I am ready tto accept the child after birth.. I never promised her marriage from the onset. She just finally Trapped me

but hw do pple sleep wit girls raw at ds modern time?50naira cd wld av removed all worries

pvssy is not for boys

u don't want to be a father but u want to do.

jamie1994:

No sir. But she insisted on unprotected sex saying she wouldn't get pregnant

she insisted on unprotected sex and that she wouldn't get pregnant and now what? Is it not obvious that this girl was up to sth from the beginning. Let her have the baby but don't marry her. She had it all planned out from the onset to get u trapped. Buh learn how not to release inside ur woman. I dated a gurl for 3yrs, all through we had unprotected sex buh I never for once released inside her and she never got pregnant. Make it clear to her that u are not getting married to her buh u will take the baby.