eldee:

Why?? Ego.

I personally don't mind a woman cheating[b] if I've cheated first [/b] . . . it's a 'Aiite, it's 1-1, let's end the relationship'.
Obviously I cannot continue in a relationship if she has cheated, I've got an ego to take care of, it's not my fault that women don't have one.

oyinda.:

to be honest with u, i'm around African guys a lot and they disgust me. very filthy bunch. and i'm sure majority of them will be cheating on their spouse when they get married. to them that's the quality of a "real man"
i don't like the part of african culture that allows men to be spoilt rotten and be irresponsible. i'm not saying all are but majority are.

Pweety4me:

See dis na d tin [b]y-me [/b]dey talk about 'Sexism'. . .gbenu e doti soun jo.

eldee:

I'm not sexist, I just prefer equality.
I don't cheat even in relationships not to talk of marriage, the only reason I'll let you get away with cheating is my guilt.

If I cheat on you, end it . . . it's that easy.

ibkaye:

you know fully well that it isn't that easy

eldee:

I'm not sexist, I just prefer[b] equality.[/b]
I don't cheat even in relationships not to talk of marriage, the only reason I'll let you get away with cheating is my guilt.

If I cheat on you, end it . . . it's that easy.
[/quote]& dat really makes u feel better about urself?or the person ur wif?

Pweety4me:

& dat really makes u feel better about urself?or the person your wif?

eldee:

It does actually . . . knowing that our relationship is based on trust and a deviation from that will end it.
I don't like fooling myself or any other person, life is short.

Pweety4me:

How old r u again?

chi-baby:

^lolz ofcourse av missed yhu ! _{only if}   
am aw'ryt yhu? 

@dayokanu,
of course nigerians don't have high divorce rates. if women divorced their husband for cheating in naija, divorce rate will be worse than USA. lol
naija women are expected to accept male infidelity.
i know a naija woman who put condoms in her husband's suitcase when he was going to visit naija on a trip (so obviously she's not finding it hard that her husband is cheating on her). this are the kinds of things that lead to topics like this.

eldee:

I've been flawless . . .
You know what, I don't you to keep missing me all the time.

I'll give you my YIM.

dayokanu:

The African culture permits Polygamy does not mean that the whites are monogamous by any stretch. We live in their midst and we know what these white men do. Most have mistress outside. The celebrities we hear of are the ones we know like Sandra Bullock, Mel Gibson, John Edwards, Bill Clinton, Kennedy and Al Gore almost all the top men in America have some form of cheating scandal around them but we chose to blame African culture and African men.

Like I said, the day African women start to appreciate their men thats the day the sun would rise in the West

dayokanu:

The African culture permits Polygamy does not mean that the whites are monogamous by any stretch. We live in their midst and we know what these white men do. Most have mistress outside. The celebrities we hear of are the ones we know like Sandra Bullock, Mel Gibson, John Edwards, Bill Clinton, Kennedy and Al Gore almost all the top men in America have some form of cheating scandal around them but we chose to blame African culture and African men.

Like I said, the day African women start to appreciate their men thats the day the sun would rise in the West

oyinda.:

whatever u say i guess

but seriously though why do african guys like to mess around a lot?
even ones that are good from the onset soon fall. to me it's lack of self discipline and irresponsibility. makes u more prone to become a cheat when u get married

oyinda.:

^
those are entertainment celebrities.
they are only comparable to black athletes.

u kind of expect infidelity from them.

deniyor:

^^^^ Basic animal instincts!

oyinda.:

lol
the white guys i know are very responsible compared to the african guys. to me it's very shameful.
maybe it's a new generation thing?

eldee:

This is where we have to draw he line . . . if it 'animal instincts' in the sense I think it is, I'll have to ask, since when did having sex make someone less of a man??
Isn't this the age of pro-choice??
Why should one section impose their opinions of what's right on another set of people??