freshvine:


Did you know that Barack Obama was a chain smoker and drug addict?

Did you know that Bill Clinton was a cheat?

Did you know that many of our politicians today have been jailed for one reason or the other?

So you know, they all have wives who stood by them to see them become the better person.

Don't mind that Americana wannabe, she's just a local mbaise girl

Ginaz:
I think the mistake women always make is they try to compare themselves in all aspects when it comes to men.

The Bible said women are helpers . We are not equal and can never be equal to men. Until women learn this hard and naked truth they will always be at the receiving end of pain!

Nobody will force you to do what you don’t want to do. If you love a guy but wanna leave cos he hurts you then fine. Don’t leave on the message that men doesn’t take bullshit so you won’t take bullshit .

Women have a lot of influences over men, if they could focus their energy in trying to better their lives and instill a good influence over their men, they will be better off than becoming a bitter , over sabi, I know my right deranged psycho.

Be careful of the type of advise you take as a woman. Physical violence of any kind should not be taken though. In that area I suggest you walk away.

freshvine:


The time is fast approaching when marriage will be no more. We'll become too wise and independent men will automatically stop marrying and only uses us for making babies. A lady will have kids from different fathers, less pressure on the men to shoulder responsibility.

The time we pray for to assert our independence is almost here. Religion has really kept us women subjugated since the creation of the world, it's time to scatter and redefine that order.

freshvine:


The time is fast approaching when marriage will be no more. We'll become too wise and independent men will automatically stop marrying and only uses us for making babies. A lady will have kids from different fathers, less pressure on the men to shoulder responsibility.

The time we pray for to assert our independence is almost here. Religion has really kept us women subjugated since the creation of the world, it's time to scatter and redefine that order.

Ariza:
Oil dey her head because she talk say woman no equal men. Sha tell her make she pass me small oil, I wan take am fry akara. Yeye dey smell.

mhizsuzzy:


Did you miss the verse that we are all equal in the sight of God
No one seek equality does not mean one should be treated as trash or any how because they are female...
Need I tell you we are to complement each other and not one-sided complement
You were also deceived with that "women have hidden powers"

You are too high...interact with women (married) and also those in rural areas you will understand that a lot a suffering because they are women..Did they create themselves?

Even when Mary Magdalene was caught fornicating, she was about to be stoned... Do only one person fornicate..where was the man she was fornicating with??

We will fight for a better tomorrow not for us but for our daughters

freshvine:


My dear, in the western world women have multiple kids from different fathers. A particularly man will move in with a lady who already has 3 kids from previous relationships, the both have a baby and trouble set in, she chases him out and the cycle continues. If I lie ask cococandy what's goes on in the USA

Ariza:
Aunty! this is where I have issues with women that I don't really approve everything they do. You lots tend to go overboard with things! Nigeria is different from USA. Those things happen their because their law/ system approves/promote it. Nigeria is different! Will you pursue a man out of his house? will your family support having children for different fathers? Will you as a sensible Nigerian lady pray to be a baby mama? No! why? because we are different! Our culture, norms, upbringings and values are different!. Don't go about thinking what happens in the US will be the norms here too someday. That baby making idea is even ridiculous to think of.

And , Liberation isn't a western thing, no one is fighting to be treated like human because it is done in the states but because it is the supposed way of life. How things should be. Treat every being right.

Ginaz:


We are all equals in the sight of God? Yet he made men to take the crown over us? Listen to me, I’ve seen what married women get to passed through ,I’m not a baby.

Please try to read good insightful books and get to understand the unshakable power women have . We undermine our power a lot . See let me tell you, a man won’t do shit to you if you don’t allow it.

All these internet cries are from women who have low self esteem issues to deal with on their own. Haven’t even fixed their lives yet, can’t pinpoint how they want to be addressed ,some have their own issues . How can you in a right sense be in a relationship with a guy and he respects you, how can they use their woman power for good? If your man is not setting standards than help him. TALK to HIM or walk away for the sake of your DIGNITY not for the sake of men don’t talk crap so I won’t .

Women wants respect, they should go all out for it! Some women can’t even respect their men but they want to be respected.

We love to play the victim card all the time . All those negative feelings should be channeled to a good use . If you are tired of your man and you wanna walk away do so but not on the basis of men get away with lots of things . Nobody held you at gun point .

Ginaz:
I think the mistake women always make is they try to compare themselves in all aspects when it comes to men.

The Bible said women are helpers . We are not equal and can never be equal to men. Until women learn this hard and naked truth they will always be at the receiving end of pain!

Nobody will force you to do what you don’t want to do. If you love a guy but wanna leave cos he hurts you then fine. Don’t leave on the message that men doesn’t take bullshit so you won’t take bullshit .

Women have a lot of influences over men, if they could focus their energy in trying to better their lives and instill a good influence over their men, they will be better off than becoming a bitter , over sabi, I know my right deranged psycho.

Be careful of the type of advise you take as a woman. Physical violence of any kind should not be taken though. In that area I suggest you walk away.

Ariza:
Aunty! this is where I have issues with women that I don't really approve everything they do. You lots tend to go overboard with things! Nigeria is different from USA. Those things happen their because their law/ system approves/promote it. Nigeria is different! Will you pursue a man out of his house? will your family support having children for different fathers? Will you as a sensible Nigerian lady pray to be a baby mama? No! why? because we are different! Our culture, norms, upbringings and values are different!. Don't go about thinking what happens in the US will be the norms here too someday. That baby making idea is even ridiculous to think of.

And , Liberation isn't a western thing, no one is fighting to be treated like human because it is done in the states but because it is the supposed way of life. How things should be. Treat every being right.

Mstick:
Not with the type of black women in this country, did you see ginaz comment?

It will take a century for that to happen but we shouldn't stop speaking out.

You're not better than me just because you have a penis.

AntiBrutus:


Lol. Sis, speak for yourself and stop making it look like all men behave like people stuck in the Stone age. I personally have never dated a man who thinks a woman have to tolerate bullshit to get the ring, I am also not into religious dogmas. Did away with that long time ago. So, I won't need to scatter and redefine anything- it is already the life we live.

bukatyne:


Is there any place in the Bible that suggests women and men are not equal?

Is there any place in the Bible that allows for men's misbehavior under the guise of this inequality?

freshvine:


Where do you ladies find these special men your type date? A perfect man that doesn't cheat, respect you, cook for you, doesn't have the African mentality and above board. We women are fighting hard to change the narrative yet some brothers had been tamed and I don't know yet?

Funny enough we women gave birth to these men. Did we train them to be men or we trained them to disrespect women in the future or was it our husbands that toughen their kind while we looked away? Maybe we should start killing husbands as soon as he gives us a Male child so we don't allow them influence the next generation of men

Mstick:
The Gucci Mane wife that they're using as an example of superwoman do you know she has THREE KIDS for other men?

She abandoned them in Jamaica to chase Gucci Mane all around now we are expected to emulate.

Ginaz:


We are all sons of God but God’s arrangement still remains the same. Christ is the head of man, man is the head of a woman. Simple !!!

Ariza:
But you are in moral position to play judge and jury because you have a diick and data, right?
One question: would you stay by a woman who cheats, disrespect you, offers nothing aside sex and demands a lot? would you?

Ariza:
Aunty! this is where I have issues with women that I don't really approve everything they do. You lots tend to go overboard with things! Nigeria is different from USA. Those things happen their because their law/ system approves/promote it. Nigeria is different! Will you pursue a man out of his house? will your family support having children for different fathers? Will you as a sensible Nigerian lady pray to be a baby mama? No! why? because we are different! Our culture, norms, upbringings and values are different!. Don't go about thinking what happens in the US will be the norms here too someday. That baby making idea is even ridiculous to think of.

And , Liberation isn't a western thing, no one is fighting to be treated like human because it is done in the states but because it is the supposed way of life. How things should be. Treat every being right.

AntiBrutus:

If you want to get the truth out of a Nigerian man, make a man the victim. They give themselves the most rational advice. Most don't do same when advising women, they give her the best advice that indulges one of their own.


Make this same post about a man sticking by such a woman and watch them change mouth . Wicked people them

Ginaz:
I think the mistake women always make is they try to compare themselves in all aspects when it comes to men.

The Bible said women are helpers . We are not equal and can never be equal to men. Until women learn this hard and naked truth they will always be at the receiving end of pain!

Nobody will force you to do what you don’t want to do. If you love a guy but wanna leave cos he hurts you then fine. Don’t leave on the message that men doesn’t take bullshit so you won’t take bullshit .

Women have a lot of influences over men, if they could focus their energy in trying to better their lives and instill a good influence over their men, they will be better off than becoming a bitter , over sabi, I know my right deranged psycho.

Be careful of the type of advise you take as a woman. Physical violence of any kind should not be taken though. In that area I suggest you walk away.

AntiBrutus:


You should learn to pick a stand and not deflect from it. This isn't the premise of your first post.

Thank you.

Ginaz:


You’re the one with a black mentality. You women act like victims a lot it is so pathetic. Y’all should maybe channel your black mentality into fixing your self esteem issues and lives.

Lolz, you see a girl whose boyfriend beat the crap out of her yet still clings to him. Is the man at fault ?

A woman knows a guy has a womanizing spirit but still wanna hang in there. Is the man at fault?

She knows he’s married but doesn’t care, is the damn man at fault ?

Victims victims and victims that is what y’all are good at. Pick a dam choice . You walk away or stay behind to fix it. There’s always a choice in how we all want to be treated , nobody gonna kill you if you don’t comply.

Stop acting like some fools ! Get your acts together and men would be forced to respect you. That’s the power of a women . We influence, we scheme, we are builders, we are anything but the head . Take that into your empty head and it shall be well with you.

AntiBrutus:


You are very wise. Only on NL do I see them tag it feminism and a western ideology that would come back to hunt women.

Oh well, it is the usual threats. I bet blacks were told worse by their colonial masters back in the days...

Magnoliaa:



They don't want to have opinions, but they want to enjoy what feminism fought for abi?

AntiBrutus:


Lol. Sis, speak for yourself and stop making it look like all men behave like people stuck in the Stone age. I personally have never dated a man who thinks a woman have to tolerate bullshit to get the ring, I am also not into religious dogmas. Did away with that long time ago. So, I won't need to scatter and redefine anything- it is already the life we live.

AntiBrutus:


I never called him perfect. You threw that in to defend your stand. He, just like every other human being- has his imperfections. I have mine too. But he doesn't bask in them as his God given male right and he works towards being a better man. That is the difference between him and so many male posters I read online.

You are beginning to veer off course, as I don't know how you arrived at killing of men.