kurupt1:
This Toke Makinwa is a very dumb girl and it's a pity a lot of women take her advice seriously.
In summary ,Snoop Dogg is talking about loyalty and friendship, but you and I know that slay queens like Toke have no moral values,so it's like foreign language to them

AntiBrutus:


She really did. It is never easy defending bullshit. Trust me...

Highest she will get is thumbs up from guys here. In reality, they call women like that fish brain and insult them for being foolish due to big prick or money. They never accept it is because women have this imaginary influence that Gînaz knows of...lol.

Lonelypacifist6:
Wtf are you all saying no guy would stay with a woman like that, and all what about the guys who marry prostitutes? and jail birds etc, Why do People just love talking trash just to push their senseless agenda.

cococandy:
Even you.
Calling a man ‘sis’ because they have ‘f’ in their moniker?
Lol

freshvine:


This rant of yours is old melody to the modern African woman. If I lie ask coco candy and anti brutus

Ariza:
Never seen such a confusing post! God made men crown over women, yet there is women power. Aunty please you are confusing us.

AntiBrutus:


I know him na, but since he decided to stick to his gender change- lets address him by his new gender. Obviously hasn't gotten over you.

freshvine:


Good to know he has imperfections and you're patient to be with him while he becomes a better he but here you and others including your goddess Toke Makinwa are criticizing a woman for doing what she get to do to make her relationship work.

Make una fear God o

moshino:


What exactly is diick and data, and what have they got to do with anything. Responding to some of you is just a total waste of time. If you lack comprehension, or any meaningful response, just move on. Pointing out factual things this lady has done, and admitted to doing, doesn't equate to pronouncing judgment on her, she did that herself. It befuddles the mind that she'll do all she did, and still dares to wear the toga of a wise counselor to young women, its a misnomer, an oxymoron. Any girl/lady/woman that follows her advice, will have a very miserable love life, look at her own history. I don't expect you to get it, cos you obviously are responding with a preconceived belief. My guess is, some guy played 'kalo-kalo' with your fragile heart, so you now see everything through the lens of that hurt.

AntiBrutus:


I know him na, but since he decided to stick to his gender change- lets address him by his new gender. Obviously hasn't gotten over you .

Ginaz:


You’re the one with a black mentality. You women act like victims a lot it is so pathetic. Y’all should maybe channel your black mentality into fixing your self esteem issues and lives.

Lolz, you see a girl whose boyfriend beat the crap out of her yet still clings to him. Is the man at fault ?

A woman knows a guy has a womanizing spirit but still wanna hang in there. Is the man at fault?

She knows he’s married but doesn’t care, is the damn man at fault ?

Victims victims and victims that is what y’all are good at. Pick a dam choice . You walk away or stay behind to fix it. There’s always a choice in how we all want to be treated , nobody gonna kill you if you don’t comply.

Stop acting like some fools ! Get your acts together and men would be forced to respect you. That’s the power of a women . We influence, we scheme, we are builders, we are anything but the head . Take that into your empty head and it shall be well with you.

cococandy:
More like watch them have epileptic convulsions and almost die on the internet cussing out anyone who tells a man to stick with a philandering woman.

It would be amusing if it wasn’t nauseating

Mstick:


Me that isn't a Christian I wonder what's my own crown.

bukatyne:


You haven't answered any of my questions.

See, if you leave the Bible out of it, you can accept been treated like trash, that is for you and the culture.

When you are quoting the Bible, please get it straight.

Stop mixing your cultural beliefs with the Bible.

Thank you.

Ginaz:
I think the mistake women always make is they try to compare themselves in all aspects when it comes to men.

The Bible said women are helpers . We are not equal and can never be equal to men. Until women learn this hard and naked truth they will always be at the receiving end of pain!

Nobody will force you to do what you don’t want to do. If you love a guy but wanna leave cos he hurts you then fine. Don’t leave on the message that men doesn’t take bullshit so you won’t take bullshit .

Women have a lot of influences over men, if they could focus their energy in trying to better their lives and instill a good influence over their men, they will be better off than becoming a bitter , over sabi, I know my right deranged psycho.

Be careful of the type of advise you take as a woman. Physical violence of any kind should not be taken though. In that area I suggest you walk away.

AntiBrutus:


If you read my first post, you will see I specifically said "such issues". We talking drugs, jail time, cheating...etc.

These are serious issues and I wouldn't try to fix such. Marriage is not a rehab home for broken people. These ones would pull you under.

Tiwa tried it, how did it end? He was using all her money to take drugs and drink in Lagos.

Churchill tried it with Tonto? How far?

There are issues you leave to the cosmos.

Mstick:
You keep poking holes in your own argument.
You claim women and men are not equal according to your Bible, same bible that says everyone is equal and you're here ranting about black mentality.

Now reread your original comments and this crap you've just written and ask yourself am I bipolar?

You said and I quote
"Women have a lot of influences over men, if they could focus their energy in trying to better their lives and instill a good influence over their men, they will be better off than becoming a bitter , over sabi, I know my right deranged psycho"

And you wonder why women in abusive relationship stay? After all they believe they can influence a FULL GROWN ADULT.


You're the FOOL because at the end of the day you ended up talking from both sides of your mouth.

Ginaz:


You’re the one foolish here. Both times I have said if you don’t wanna stay then walk away. Nobody held you at a gun point for God’s sake.

some women , they are the architect of their own bitterness . They play the victim card at all times.

If it’s too much then walk away . If you wanna stay STAY!!! If you wanna walk away WALK!! If you’re not so blind you would have seen where I said physical violence should not be condoned.

What I’m saying is, we should stop trying to say men can’t take bullshit so we can’t . It’s like we are trying to equalized instead of putting to good use what our woman power could do .

Stop looking for holes cos you want to argue for the sake of it . You crying black mentality, how many women have your white mentality helped ?

12inchess:
We should be taking advice with people with successful marriages and not those with broken down ones. Let someone with 20 years of marriage experience give us advice then we may listen. Experience is the best teacher

freshvine:



True love is tested in the time of trials. Jesus died for our sins so that we may be redeemed. The bible says all have sinned and come short of his glory and we are made imperfect so that his words should be justified.

Jesus showing example gave a golden commandment saying "love your neighbor as you love your self " and let me remind you, when God wants to deliver or redeem a sinner he sends a Human being who will carry out the assignment and in this case, he sent a woman to the Gucci guy and she did a perfect job. There's no way to show LOVE than commitment and selfless approach. Stop hating on a woman who got back a lost soul and made him a husband.

freshvine:


Babe, don't go down this route with them, they'll drag you down to their level and beat you with stupidity. No cussing plz, your self esteem is priceless.

Ginaz:


You’re the one foolish here. Both times I have said if you don’t wanna stay then walk away. Nobody held you at a gun point for God’s sake.

some women , they are the architect of their own bitterness . They play the victim card at all times.

If it’s too much then walk away . If you wanna stay STAY!!! If you wanna walk away WALK!! If you’re not so blind you would have seen where I said physical violence should not be condoned.

What I’m saying is, we should stop trying to say men can’t take bullshit so we can’t . It’s like we are trying to equalized instead of putting to good use what our woman power could do .

Stop looking for holes cos you want to argue for the sake of it . You crying black mentality, how many women have your white mentality helped ?

Niccoloimhotep:
hey ma'am, you just earned my respect. It's not easily earned. God bless you!

Mstick:
You're a just FISH BRAINED pick me. You can't even defend your own argument.


What is this magical women power you've been talking about, can you please name one?

You were asked to bring up bible verses that supported your initial comment about men and women not being equal and you pulled up verses about husband and wives.


You trying to trivialize real life issues women in Africa go through every day and calling it "victim card" shows how stupid and weak you're.


Using your religion as a back up further shows how useless you're because am sure you wouldn't appreciate if a Muslim lady uses the Quran same way.

I have every right to say I wouldn't take bullshît from any man because I am not going to do the same. Relationship is about partnership and respect and once respect is lost love follows.

Ginaz:


We are all equals in the sight of God? Yet he made men to take the crown over us? Listen to me, I’ve seen what married women get to passed through ,I’m not a baby.

Please try to read good insightful books and get to understand the unshakable power women have . We undermine our power a lot . See let me tell you, a man won’t do shit to you if you don’t allow it.

All these internet cries are from women who have low self esteem issues to deal with on their own. Haven’t even fixed their lives yet, can’t pinpoint how they want to be addressed ,some have their own issues . How can you in a right sense be in a relationship with a guy and he respects you, how can they use their woman power for good? If your man is not setting standards than help him. TALK to HIM or walk away for the sake of your DIGNITY not for the sake of men don’t talk crap so I won’t .

Women wants respect, they should go all out for it! Some women can’t even respect their men but they want to be respected.

We love to play the victim card all the time . All those negative feelings should be channeled to a good use . If you are tired of your man and you wanna walk away do so but not on the basis of men get away with lots of things . Nobody held you at gun point .

Ginaz:


I have 2 words for you. “YOU ARE VERY FOOLISH and you “LACK INSIGHTS.

If you wanna argue be my guest. When you’re done acting like an empty brain devoid of sense but think you do have sense , THEN YOU CAN GO TO BED!

Magnoliaa:

color=#550000]Do you know history? Through all civilizations? How women have been treated?

If women had 'unshakable' power --- why aren't they allowed to put in to use? Why were they not at helm of institutions and things in the society?

I mean, it only makes sense for someone with supposed power, intuition, an ability to build and fix things, and all special characteristics to be at the front, be the first and driving change. [/color]

AntiBrutus:


While I gree with your subsequent posts, your first post isn't in agreement. I am also of the opinion that is her choice to stay.

1. You brought in the bible. Our God is not an author of confusion. When he told men to lead and women be the helper (like you rightly said), he didn't send women to go help broken men because she has some "powers". Why she isn't using that power on a man who has his life figured out is story for another day.

2. As much as we are not in a competition with men, there is nothing wrong in calling out double standards. We are all humans after all and every class of human desires to be treated fairly and justly across every line. Racial, gender, social class...whatever.

Nothing wrong with equalizing. As far as some of us are concerned, all humans are equal. Would you think you are trivializing your African power if I tell you that you are equal to the White man and shouldn't be handled like a terrorist at various POEs? I bet not.

We appreciate our "feminine power", but we should use it for better things na.

Toke's argument is that men shouldn't make suffer head the standard for a woman earning love and commitment from her man. I like to think she is right- irrespective of gender too.

Nnemuka:
Shes right, how many men can come out to say, she slept with multiple men, had different baby daddies, smokes, a prostitute, done time and here I am... we are still going stronger?

Majority of men love to brag about how they married virgins and a girl from a rich home.
Well those of you who take relationship advice from African Americans are doomed already.

Suffering with a d1ckhead? Chukwuaju

Mstick:
You're a just FISH BRAINED pick me. You can't even defend your own argument.


What is this magical women power you've been talking about, can you please name one?

You were asked to bring up bible verses that supported your initial comment about men and women not being equal and you pulled up verses about husband and wives.


You trying to trivialize real life issues women in Africa go through every day and calling it "victim card" shows how stupid and weak you're.


Using your religion as a back up further shows how useless you're because am sure you wouldn't appreciate if a Muslim lady uses the Quran same way.

I have every right to say I wouldn't take bullshît from any man because I am not going to do the same. Relationship is about partnership and respect and once respect is lost love follows.

Mstick:


Don't mind the IDIOT! How can you claim women are not equal to men then in the same post claim women have power? What power?

If not for women that decided that enough is enough would madam unshakable power have gotten an education?