Well I’d be a fool to be caught in that kinda menace.
For me to come out here, it means she’s really worth it.
She’s a good and mature lady.

Tunex252:
Nigga I must confess that girls between age 18 to 20 knows nothing about marriage and they actually knows about being In a relationship. Girls within this age just want have a taste of it so they actually tell their friends that they have a new bf just to feel among their peeps whilst those friends might lead them astray. All she wants is just a short that relationship. Girls within this age grade don't know anything about relationship and marriage

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Baba have kill me finish oo.
Thanks for the lead on.

friday2011:


If at your age (29yrs), you dont know what you want, it means you lack maturity, the 19yr old is ripe for marriage, and the family members are looking forward to meet you from what you said...

Abi you want make i come follow you go there house?

Thanks for your mature talks..
You are appreciated..

Chuks9000:

Very good.
Love is a phase that exist before children start coming.
A lot of temptations will come to your marriage. If you have a solid start like you have confirmed, then it will be easier to handle the real challenges.
Commitment, tolerance, good communication are few of the key terms upon which the love will be defined as the family gets bigger and older.

Oh bro..
So we are in same situation . It’s well.[quote author=Yomibold post=86833283][/quote]

Well she already did..

Bellotelli:

Do you want her to love dogs too, including everything you love...

THEN MARRY HER. YOU NO GET WAHALA. invite me to the wedding if its in Abuja

GidiRide:
We both want a relationship that ll lead to marriage..
All she wants is My love, support And advice.
All I want from her is love too.
I think we are in same page bro..

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Thanks baba.
Y’all will get the invite at when due..

EndtimeJudge:
THEN MARRY HER. YOU NO GET WAHALA. invite me to the wedding if its in Abuja

wany:

You know all this and yet your marriage failed.@op let that teenager go and go for a lady in your social class.there are ladies of 25yrs that also doing well in there careers and business not a teenager that is just cracking out of her shell and how are you sure is love and not infatuation/fantasies.

You people don't even know this girl. You are judging her by her age.

You think every 25 year old lady is smarter or more experienced than a 19 year old girl?

Before you think she is just cracking out of her shell, know her first. Don't use age as a factor. Age is sometimes just a number.

She has an ND. That is not someone just cracking out of her shell. She may even be more experienced than you, even in love matters

Petyprincess:

She doesn't know what she wants yet!! Mr supporter nd advicer so you can't do all that without dating her? A 19 years old can't give you love!! You should be like a older brother guiding her nd telling her to concentrate on her studies nd leave relationship for nw not hiding under the disguise of relationship to b dicking her!!
Go for someone of your age or wait for her period!!

Why are you angry?

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

You're good to go, that's what I've always wanted.

Toks2008:


[s]Perfect age gap. Infact i tell ladies to ensure they are about at least 8years younger than their guys if they can.[/s]

If I am more than 2 years older than you, then you should be on your own lane o. What the fackery? I don't like who to control. I want people that have equal rights in any relationship abeg

Op follow ur heart.... All teenagers are not the same.....
Dont mind all the evening newspaper ladies...... Dey are frustrated

GidiRide:
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Baba have kill me finish oo.
Thanks for the lead on.

I don't mind following you also but you need to spend alot of time together for you to be able to know her better and teach more of what she need to know.

Toks2008:


Don't you know that one the reasons young ladies cry of heartbreak is because they get involved with men too young to know what they really want?

Yes in some cases it is not about age but the truth is that age gap is a great factor.

A lady can be older than her man don't get me wrong and love is not about age but understanding and connection but nevertheless it is better for a young girl in her adult teens or early 20s to be with a man that is at least 8 or 10years older..
Why?

1. In most cases, the guy will adore her like a kid sis and will cope with her nastiness compared to a younger guy who is just about her age.

2. By the time the lady is in her mid 20s the guy is probably ready to take her home if she proves to be a good lady.

3. A 30 year old guy dating a 20 or 22year old lady will likely be stable enough financially, psychologically...to support the lady.

4. Ladies love to be pampered and they can get that easily from a guy who is quite older and not their peers that are probably still as childish as them.

5. Guys naturally get the kick when they know a girl is very younger than them and this spark will continue for a long time at least I am a testimony to this...

I can go on and on listing the benefits and guess what; the reason why ladies fall for married men easily is because married men are so mature mentally and they sure know how to take care of a woman and unfortunately ladies are wired to love a man that takes good care of them regardless of his marital status but the good thing is that girls experience same care from men who are considerably older than them.

My advise to adult teenage girls and those in their 20s is that they meticulously choose a guy who is at least 7 to 10years older or even more if they truly want to enjoy bliss.

This is my personal opinion and I think lalasticlala should consider this for front page so that young ladies can benefit from this no holds barr expose.
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nice one bro @op if your intrest is genuine... Just go for it.Treat her with due care and deep love

GidiRide:
We both want a relationship that ll lead to marriage..
All she wants is My love, support And advice.
All I want from her is love too.
I think we are in same page bro..

There is nothing to be scared about.

Life is a gamble. You can get hurt even if you are dating an older supposedly more experienced woman. So, why worry about age gap? Marrying someone older or far younger than you is not as important as the person themselves. It is a matter of the person, and not of the age gap. She is 19, and an adult, so you are not doing anything wrong

Don't worry about the age gap. In some years time, she might grow older faster and you people will age the same (looking good/perfect together).

So, work on the relationship. Accidents happen, but has that stopped us from traveling or using cars?

So, instead of worrying that she is far younger than you, why not look at the brighter side of life such as the love you both share. I can tell you that there are some people stuck in loveless relationships even though both partners are about the same age.

Petyprincess:
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Trash!!! Will you advice your teenager sister to date a man almost at his thirty? You guys will just be giving advice that you can't give to your sisters!!
Y'all like younger women because they are easy to manipulate nd exploit at the same time! What is stopping him from waiting for her for three more years by that time she will definitely know what she wants if She's truly interested in this age gap shit! A girl at that age have no mind of her own!!

bingo my dear, bingo.

Randy100:
My brother, there is nothing wrong with that. This is ur time to mould her into what you want her to be.

Mould..... gini

Is she clay?

Toks2008:


Perfect age gap. Infact i tell ladies to ensure they are about at least 8years younger than their guys if they can.

GidiRide:
YOu think so?

Older than my wife by 8 years! It has never been an issue or impediment. Although, she was 24 when we got married

Let her get admission and go to school. After one semester the love go clear for her eyes

GidiRide:
I’m 10 years older than her.

She’s an Nd holder but still want to get her Bachelor degree. We met in my eglise, she liked me and we started talking.

In few days we were already close, and it felt like we met in months ago.

She really loves me, She’s has shown traits of a good girl, well behaved, intelligent and loving. She’s from a good home, her siblings look forward to seeing me on Sunday.

As I’m typing she’s on WhatsApp call with me eulogizing ourselves with our sweet names.

I really do like her a lot, infact I love her truly but but I’m scared.

Pls note that I’m also a great guy, an entrepreneur, a dog lover, a. CEO etc but I’m SCARED.

I don’t want to jeopardize this relationship and sometimes I feel she’s smaller looking at the age gap.

What do you guys think?

Don't fall in love with her yet, I give you one year at most and you will come back here to open another thread on how your girlfriend dumped you after spending so much for her.

Petyprincess:

She doesn't know what she wants yet!! Mr supporter nd advicer so you can't do all that without dating her? A 19 years old can't give you love!! You should be like a older brother guiding her nd telling her to concentrate on her studies nd leave relationship for nw not hiding under the disguise of relationship to b dicking her!!
Go for someone of your age or wait for her period!!

you don't say dicking her but rather say fvcking her or banging her

It's a trap ma niggi

OlawaleBammie:


Sorry, assistant Jesus, we lives long in my lineage

why dis nonsense talk dis early momo sef

bro ignore them and focus on your God for evil shall never befall thee and your household..... Trust me

Almost got into the same situation.
Parents reminded me that if I marry her too quickly, I would be the one to pay all her school fees since she would be under my care, and not her father anymore.

Thanks for spilling it out for them.
You are blessed jawe.

BluntBoy:


You people don't even know this girl. You are judging her by her age.

You think every 25 year old lady is smarter or more experienced than a 19 year old girl?

Before you think she is just cracking out of her shell, know her first. Don't use age as a factor. Age is sometimes just a number.

She has an ND. That is not someone just cracking out of her shell. She may even be more experienced than you, even in love matters

Petyprincess:

She doesn't know what she wants yet!! Mr supporter nd advicer so you can't do all that without dating her? A 19 years old can't give you love!! You should be like a older brother guiding her nd telling her to concentrate on her studies nd leave relationship for nw not hiding under the disguise of relationship to b dicking her!!
Go for someone of your age or wait for her period!!

Are you close to 40? The way you dey rant, e be like say you dor clock 40 o!

I am 36yrs and 9 yrs older than my wife
Those that answer your Q

Oh wow..
Thanks Mister.
Jah bless..

BluntBoy:


There is nothing to be scared about.

Life is a gamble. You can get hurt even if you are dating an older supposedly more experienced woman. So, why worry about age gap? Marrying someone older or far younger than you is not as important as the person themselves. It is a matter of the person, and not of the age gap. She is 19, and an adult, so you are not doing anything wrong

Don't worry about the age gap. In some years time, she might grow older faster and you people will age the same (looking good/perfect together).

So, work on the relationship. Accidents happen, but has that stopped us from traveling or using cars?

So, instead of worrying that she is far younger than you, why not look at the brighter side of life such as the love you both share. I can tell you that there are some people stuck in loveless relationships even though both partners are about the same age.

Petyprincess:
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Trash!!! Will you advice your teenager sister to date a man almost at his thirty? You guys will just be giving advice that you can't give to your sisters!!
Y'all like younger women because they are easy to manipulate nd exploit at the same time! What is stopping him from waiting for her for three more years by that time she will definitely know what she wants if She's truly interested in this age gap shit! A girl at that age have no mind of her own!!

I'm confused here. Are you saying that he should move on because of the age gap? Or, the guy should wait for the girl to at least turn 22 so that she can decide if she really wants to be in that relationship?

Again, you talked about manipulation and exploit. Why would anyone looking for a serious relationship be after after manipulating and exploiting the other party just because she's younger.

The last time I checked, papa Kanu and possibly Joseph Yobo married girls who were far younger than them

ecstasy357:


Is that what you understood from what he wrote

Sometimes is not our universities that are bad, some peeps just cant comprehend simple things

nairaland peeps are just funny ..lol...

rexandyke:


If I am more than 2 years older than you, then you should be on your own lane o. What the fackery? I don't like who to control. I want people that have equal rights in any relationship abeg

How does age translate to equal right in marriage? Seems like you don't know women much. A wide age gap doesn't mean that your wife has no right or equal right in in the relationship now. Unless you are telling us that you are looking for someone who will be standing up to you, antagonising you in every decision you are about making for the family. In that case, it has nothing to do with age gap but nature