Mrs, Eve:

Mr brownjay,
Naomi Campbell is suffering from alopecia. That is not a weave damage. It genetic and she need to get better hair treatments or go bald.

Pregnant women get stretch marks and I am sure your mother has them. Just tell her to lift her love handles to the side and you shall see them. I will be getting them soon and I don't give a damn. If my husband complain about them stretch marks of mine THAT HE CAUSED he gon be one Hot mofo!

Mr.Brownjay: the only way for us man to differentiate between real tittays to fake one is by looking at them outside the bras and touching/feeling them. so i am safe to say that by this time, men would have gone too far.

we have all seen how some of these women wearing fake hair look like after a few yrs doing it, its  . look below for reference.

i guess we are different because FIRST of all, there is no comparison with someone i met a few months(even yr) with someone i have known for decades. the same as i can never put ANY of these individuals above the person who gave me life.
SECOND the fact that you believe that just because women give men se.x, children and TLC means that they should be our priorities in life will have you fail miserably times and times again (although it is true for some mumus out there). here is a clue: any woman can give a man that, does that mean we should marry every single one of them we meet?! duh!
it takes a special woman to bring more than that to a mans life, when men find that woman they marry her. when this happens, THE WOMAN herself doesnt come second, its the "family" that does and since that woman is part of it, she unknowingly becomes second too. got it?!

are you trying to compare flaunting stretch marks with getting a hair cut style? are you saying that women who aint got stretch marks are NOT feminine?!

MRbrownJAY:

@viruz007
South America

i wouldnt be surprised if thats what her publicist cook up when these nasty photos came out.
her real hair hasnt seen the sun for the last 20yrs, what do you expect?!
btw: you DO know that braiding ones hair, on and on, can cause Alopecia, right?!

i guess you may have missed my reply on the Stretch marks issue so here it is ONCE more:
of course many people have stretch marks BUT we are talking about people who gladly parade them like its a fashion statement. check pic ABOVE for info. lol

MzD@rkSkin:

Maybe it's my being a woman, but I can tell.   No real bosoms are shaped like round balloons they all slightly droop. So if you are trying to hollar @ a girl who's cleavage is damn near touching her chin, don't complain when her bustier drops it like it's hot when you too are in the mood. It's your lack of observation/common sense.

Ok well some women naturally go bald without provocation, sometimes hair loss can be caused by stress or medication. So what are you going to tell me, that if a woman is losing hair due to either of the above, she is not worth your time? Let's not be shallow. The weave/hair does not make the person.

I think you need to watch the movies "Motives" and "Asunder". Best friends some even 20 plus years, fall out due to disloyalty. Do you not know that is is possible for someone to be amongst you for decades and despise every fiber of your being? Family does not mean loyalty all of the time either, naivety causes people to turn a blinds eye to these facts. Family and close friends have betrayed those who held them on high pedistals. Your partner that you choose to spend the rest of your life with should come first because they represent a new life for you. Your friends will not always bee the "boys" as they too will seek a woman of their own and move on/mature. Only the ones who believe in the "homies over h0s" philosophy end up as the old man who still goes to rum bar and strip clubs. Putting your lover first does not mean love others any less but rather dedicating yourself to someone and investing your time in your partner who you may grow old with.

Never said that. What I am saying is stretch marks are a natural part of femininity. It is a physical representation that our bodies as women used itself as a vessel for another life by stretching and nurturing. To scorn that is to scorn the process of carrying a child, after all that is ultimately what we women are here to do, so you'd be scorning us essentially.

MzD@rkSkin:

Maybe it's my being a woman, but I can tell.   No real bosoms are shaped like round balloons they all slightly droop. So if you are trying to hollar @ a girl who's cleavage is damn near touching her chin, don't complain when her bustier drops it like it's hot when you too are in the mood. It's your lack of observation/common sense.

Ok well some women naturally go bald without provocation, sometimes hair loss can be caused by stress or medication. So what are you going to tell me, that if a woman is losing hair due to either of the above, she is not worth your time? Let's not be shallow. The weave/hair does not make the person.

I think you need to watch the movies "Motives" and "Asunder". Best friends some even 20 plus years, fall out due to disloyalty. Do you not know that is is possible for someone to be amongst you for decades and despise every fiber of your being? Family does not mean loyalty all of the time either, naivety causes people to turn a blinds eye to these facts. Family and close friends have betrayed those who held them on high pedistals.

Your partner that you choose to spend the rest of your life with should come first because they represent a new life for you.

Your friends will not always bee the "boys" as they too will seek a woman of their own and move on/mature. Only the ones who believe in the "homies over h0s" philosophy end up as the old man who still goes to rum bar and strip clubs.

Putting your lover first does not mean love others any less but rather dedicating yourself to someone and investing your time in your partner who you may grow old with.

Never said that. What I am saying is stretch marks are a natural part of femininity. It is a physical representation that our bodies as women used itself as a vessel for another life by stretching and nurturing. To scorn that is to scorn the process of carrying a child, after all that is ultimately what we women are here to do, so you'd be scorning us essentially.

Mrs, Eve:

When men who are ready for a real relationship with a woman.  They will put their friends to the back burner because as you said the friends can't give them pleasure nor belle.

I find men especially grown men to have a crowd of boys to be immature and late in their cognitive thinking.  Some of the men on this site as we call it in America are suffering from Frat Boys Syndrome.

They do everything with their boys even have intimacy while their boys watch.

When you see a group of guys meeting you for the first time ladies.  RUN.

My husband is second next to God then my children and so and on.  My friends will never take place of my husband and my husband's friends will never take my place.  Not everybody ready for marriage.

Mrs, Eve:

That not surprising to me that you would assume every woman a man bleep is a skank.  Not one time I mentioned skanks in any of my above post.  I said a guy that is suffering from Frat Boy Syndrome would do that and a girlfriend or a fiance can't be a skank.  According to the pimps of Nairaland, you can't turn no ho into a housewife.

Mommy's boys would chose their mother over Jesus.  That is nothing new. 

A real man do not need his family nor friends for approval regardless if he is Nigerian or not.

If that was the case then why don't these "men" ask their families can they go to strip clubs or should they fornicate with the stripper name Diamond Starr.  If they do not need the families permission to go to a strip club and to fornicate then they do not need permission from the family to marry the girl.   That is bullshit and you know it.

MRbrownJAY:

@Mrs Eve
you are the one who compared the two and i was just trying to make you understand that what we do with skanks has nothing to do with what we do with future wifeys. why should you bring this to the subject?! men do a lot of crazy thing while maturing-up. the same boys that does these things are the ones that would grow up someday to be great men and marry y'all great women.

as for strip clubs:
- some guys go there to get the needed relaxation that they dont get when going home straight from work.
[size=20pt]- some go there to watch sexy nak.ed women dance because their wifey turned into a whale[/size]
- some go there to get some needed "excitement" to go home and sleep with their wife (they will be thinking about Diamond while doing the wifey)
- some go there for the fun factor of being around nak.ed women.

whatever the reason, nobody goes to a strip club to have se.x with strippers, although some gals may give a quick hand job in the "champagne room". lmao!

busygirl:

Big deal if a woman wears padded bra
iT is high time people stopped focusing on trivial things .

190:

I so bet one Hoompa Loompa's Husband is in that strip club rite now while his wife is Nairalandering and looking for how to have intimacy with furrie;s

MRbrownJAY:

@Mrs Eve
you are the one who compared the two and i was just trying to make you understand that what we do with skanks has nothing to do with what we do with future wifeys. why should you bring this to the subject?! men do a lot of crazy thing while maturing-up. the same boys that does these things are the ones that would grow up someday to be great men and marry y'all great women.

as for strip clubs:
- some guys go there to get the needed relaxation that they dont get when going home straight from work.
- some go there to watch sexy nak.ed women dance because their wifey turned into a whale
- some go there to get some needed "excitement" to go home and sleep with their wife (they will be thinking about Diamond while doing the wifey)
- some go there for the fun factor of being around nak.ed women.

whatever the reason, nobody goes to a strip club to have se.x with strippers, although some gals may give a quick hand job in the "champagne room". lmao!

its all about standing for what you are! if a women goes bald and decides to hide it under weaves and starts dating then she should keep the CHARADE forever or come clean straight up. as i said, MEN just dont want to have the chock of their lives every night meeting the REAL you while hanging out with y'all "representative" all day long.

and who said family and friends cant betray you?! i didnt. just because family and friend "could" betray you doesnt mean that we should put someone we barely know above them, duh!. . .so are you saying that this new life with wifey voids whatever life you had in the past?! your parents arent your loving parents any longer, your friends are not what they use to be and are now void?! come on girl!!!

i guess you have no idea what a 20+yrs friendship are so let me fill you in. when you get to that stage, they are like brothers and we spend holidays, family gathering/picnics/vacations together. when these guys each get their own women, they bring them within our circle and when/if these girls leave or bare them children, we continue gathering in these circles. you do not change a winning formula.

MzD@rkSkin:

You mean shallow men Real men know that a hair weave goes out as it goes in. They also realize that while she is looking good be it for herself, to compete with other women or to attract men, that at the end of the day IF SHE IS NOT JUST A FCK he will see the true her and if successful relationship wise, that he will love her regardless. Shallow men make outer appearance an issue. period.

I am not talking about a booty call, I am referring to a woman a man has genuine interest in. If that man cannot see the umbilical cord has long been cut and that there is a time and season for the "boys" he has no business being on the "prow". These grown ADOLESCENTS are the reason for their women nagging about "spending more time" with them because they are unable to man up and grow up.

My not being old enough to have a 20 plus yr friendship is beside the point. Common sense is my ally. Again "grown boys" need to cut the umbilical cord, disassemble the crib and take a few shots of testosterone.

The purpose of family is to teach us the fundamental lessons of life such as bonding and experiencing what it is like to love and be loved. True friends can be held in the same esteem, as "distant family". All is well however, once we learn the necessary lessons in life, there comes a time when we mature and seek to procreate and grow our own branch in the family and human tree. Get spouse, share vows and have children. Your boys cannot give you children and God forbid your mother  ,

so the manly thing to do is reserve time for the boys like on the weekends, talk to the mom and visit her but go home to your lady and love her.

Bottom line. Hanging out with the boys and going from club to club and girl to girl is boy/child like. Grow up time for those types of men is over due and they are so stubborn they would even accuse their boys as "sell outs" for becoming and acting the part of MEN. This is the story of the lonely/miserable old player in the club whose friends have long married, raised kids and are spoiling grands. . .you see where I am going?

Odunnu:

Too long an epistle MrBrown.
In the midst of your very busy schedule, take a look at this thread.
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-560483.0.html

queensmith:

goodness mbj still hasnt changed!

MzD@rkSkin:

^^lmfao. no point trying to get him too either. 

@Mr.BrownJay *sighs* I give up! I see we are going around in circles.
I respect your view points tho. honestly however I see that
we have different values.  

queensmith:

^^ lol i actually once had alot of respect for him actually, were similar. . . . . once u remove the arrogance sha!

2kurupt:

To Ladies



1- When guys ask you out on a relationship say gf, please we are not indirectly requesting that you substitute us to your 'father'  coz we aint


2- The world will be alot safer if from the onset you did not lead us on, only to say 'no' when we pop the question. Make up your mind already.