Leemao

Not every relationship you enter you go ask for sex o. Give freely without expecting sex, it will come naturally. Beside is it a crime to help the needy ?

The rule is simple.

If she wants husband responsibility from you, then she must deliver wife responsibility to you. If she doesn't want sex, then don't buy a phone. I'm trying hard not to yab you, but I would if you had bought her the phone.

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we go so close and have always spend on her,going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel..she do make demand from me and have always responded..but I l suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that a should wait but she keep requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all.. so I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something

mmmmmh did I just read two months. Op for me ooo that very day I ask her out if she mistakenly come my house I will collect unless she say no.

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

can she be serious with him without him spending a dime on her, can she stay a month without demanding money from him ?

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we go so close and have always spend on her,going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel..she do make demand from me and have always responded..but I l suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that a should wait but she keep requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all.. so I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something

I don't think you should ask for sex

What you are supposed to do is to make her want you..

Try to get her aroused by touching some body parts.
For example try massaging her hands. It may sound awkward but maybe that is what you need to wet her pants

PS.Learn to say no to her excessive demands

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

Relationship is supposed to benefit both parties

What else does she have to offer other than sex





Parasitism is the relationship between two people.
in which one benefits at the expense of the other,

So according to my observation the girl is a parasite..


This I have seen...

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

Guys don't listen to girls like these oh.... These are the type that want you to be a SIMple mo.ron while one redpillar dey drill their hole for free...

She is already scamming you.

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we go so close and have always spend on her,going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel..she do make demand from me and have always responded..but I l suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that a should wait but she keep requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all.. so I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something

Believe me she's already getting it from someone else....
You fall my hand. Sex supposed to dey una convo from day one so that her mind go dey.
No woman will tell you she wants sex. Only you need to make that move.

Must u have sex

Geniemoi01:
She is already scamming you.

what a pity!
men are born a simp while women are born redpillers.

since OP is already doing her bidings, hence she see no reason dating him again.

women's nature is very cruel

what a world!

we need to go back to the garden of eden to know who really manipulated who between the serpent and the woman.

Debbe:
Must u have sex

No because he is a monk and you are a virgin.

Athemisia:

Guys don't listen to girls like these oh.... These are the type that want you to be a SIMple mo.ron while one redpillar dey drill their hole for free...

lol! association of gold diggers

Yet another mumu Nigerian man

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we go so close and have always spend on her,going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel..she do make demand from me and have always responded..but I l suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that a should wait but she keep requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all.. so I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something

I don’t think people attach seriousness to relationship again. Sex and shopping should not be yardsticks for a relationship. Why would she double date? Kai, this world has turned to another thing!
My brother, no girl should coerce or expect you to spend money on her but you can assist if you want because giving is part of things that sustain a relationship and you are not expected to taste her apple too.

Don’t you have plans for each other ni?
You are to spell out your expectations in the relationship. Sex and shopping are not determinants at all. Success o

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we go so close and have always spend on her,going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel..she do make demand from me and have always responded..but I l suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that a should wait but she keep requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all.. so I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something

N baba move as e be na your money the girl want till her ex wins her back. Be wise

Gerrard59:


Yet another episode on why love does not exist in the world's poverty capital.

I will forever die on that hill!

Going through the comments, is it not better you did/do hook-up whenever you feel the urge to have ejaculate? Relationships in Nigeria that do not lead to marriage comes across as a scam to me.

If it's not too early for her to ask for help, it's not early for you to ask for shag.

You no be her papa.

OP no make me vex Bayern just burst my ticket.
One minute relationship is due for sex. No allow any girl stress you.

Are you a stupid person?

So you don't know she has a husband already who maybe doesn't live in town and you are washing a car for Someone else to drive power steering?

This your Holly gram so una don dey compete with Slawormirrr.. Okay o but true true, Op never shine Congo and he dey do like this He suppose chop Kala for leg

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram OP NA people like u de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my KALA 4 free. WAITING DE WORRY U... Woman never give u KUNTUS, Una don de go SHOPPING. Na Jah know how much RUBBERZ wey u don spend on top dat BANI head. WAITING DE WORRY U. U NO GO WISE UP. WTF MAN

Which kind question be this?

Avi which kind play dog dey play with lion?

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

Two months is like forever na

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

U already know what's up na, no dey whine us. Do the needful

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

I have 2 questions;
1st. Why do 99.9 % of Nigerian LADIES have spoilt phones, yet I see them chatting & making calls.
I just hope my DAUGHTERS won't have spoilt phones too. Please, How?

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

Men and sex. God punish every man who goes into a relationship with the mindset of having sex.

Just take things easy.