Mwanamume:
Sex outside marriage is a sin.Hence, sexual favours for pecuniary gains is also out of the equation and is 'manipulative' as much as d word in inverted comma connotes.Bro, leave the gal,count ur loses though painful,truth is I are in a situationship not a relationship,to attract the right kind of people u need to be or toe that line of life..
Don't follow d counsel of Ahitophel's ... Remain blessed...Mwanamume!!!

keep quiet.

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

I knw say na female go talk dis kind thing

Sex sex sex

Nawa ooo

Mtcheww

ATM MACHINE

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

You are giving her, her own request but she isn't coming through for you..Lol

You be her client na...Probably she doesn't find you sexually attractive.

Their is no fixed time as to when sex can come in, it can happen that day you started dating or anytime..As long as there is mental and physical attractions...These things happen like bond.

She is manipulating you.

Don't wait, if you love her, propose to her if she accepts, then meet her parents, introduce yourself to them and declare your intention to marry her before them and the girl as quick as is possible before the other suitors do. If she is yours, you will know, if she is already taken, they will tell you.
Christmas is by the corner, if you don't like spending on a girl without getting anything back, then do as I advised you else, you will spend more on her and she may still not be yours.

2 month is too long sef are you guys kids niii 1 week is enough weytin be 2 months GOD forbid bad thing

Leave am na mumu boy him be in this age and era 2 freaking months and u dey do the boy is good she dey knack steady outside while she dey use am as ATM and run too wen she's broke I hope u get sense before 2022 because I don't understand how a lady will tell u she ain't ready and u are spending so much on her she and her ex dey knack steady all that story na to make Op feel I'm in love and I have nothing to hide ogun Kee I'm not ready me I will knack after 48 hours of saying yes weytin concern agbero with overload nonsense abeg skool the mumu lover boy

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram OP NA people like u de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my KALA 4 free. WAITING DE WORRY U... Woman never give u KUNTUS, Una don de go SHOPPING. Na Jah know how much RUBBERZ wey u don spend on top dat BANI head. WAITING DE WORRY U. U NO GO WISE UP. WTF MAN

That gal na first daughter of sapa

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

Don't listen to this advice.Dont give that girl a dime anymore.When she is ready to av sex she can come and get a phone.Let her go to where she gives love and sex to get whatever she needs.You don't work for UBA and expect GTbank to pay you.

FutureIsFemale:
Men and sex. God punish every man who goes into a relationship with the mindset of having sex.

You know, this might shock you to know, you are a product of one.

Look at this gentle man now, follow all instructions, the patient dog and all.

Once she get the phone, enough money, she will cut him loose, come up with a strange story of how she's now a born again or one prophet told her, the relationship wiil not work.

Sometimes, a guy goes in with pure intentions, after a series of dumping, his brain will reset, by which time, everyone begins to call all manner of unprintable words.

Continue, you be father Christmas

Boogyman557:
Holly Gram OP NA people like u de make me BLAST pesin left leg wit my KALA 4 free. WAITING DE WORRY U... Woman never give u KUNTUS, Una don de go SHOPPING. Na Jah know how much RUBBERZ wey u don spend on top dat BANI head. WAITING DE WORRY U. U NO GO WISE UP. WTF MAN

Haha

Mehn guy you would be one the most patient guys have ever known, I can wait for 2 months only if I'm dating a ghost. Guy follow the next turn cos her attribute speaks volume already, my guy it's not a do or die affair. I presume she's not a virgin according to your context, nd if she's always demanding nd has nothing good to offer even aside from sex. My nigga JAPA cos she might get on your nerves someday soon nd to avoid a case of rape which I totally against.

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

O! boy your mumu no get part 2.

aimmoney9:
People sex the same day they meet you are here talking about 2 whole months you can wait for a year mine is same week no time....

I tire for the OP

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

Sorry bro.

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

Stop all further spending on her immediately. Don't even send 100 naira recharge card any more. When she asks why, tell her you just invested heavily in a business and can barely feed. She will go by herself. Further spending on her will tell her you're a simp because some people are having sex with her without spending 1 Naira. Go spend small on your mama this period. Wise up o

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

She can be serious with him without demanding for a new phone. He's not her father

For this generation the only purpose of any relationship is SEX.

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

Exactly bro.
Two months is too short to start demanding sex in the relationship that's if it is a serious committed one that will lead somewhere.
Except the relationship is one based on physical desires gratification for both parties.

Na ur type Fvck pass...

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

wfjimmytobby:
I meet this girl around September we got so close and have always spent on her, going shopping and all that and always tell her how I feel.

She do make demand from me and have always responded..but I suspected that she has lots of suitors trying to get her and even her ex..cos she told me he is trying to get back so I decided to demand for sex so we can get serious but she refuse and said she is not ready and that I should wait but she keeps requesting for assistance and even wants me to get her a new phone cos her previous phone got spoilt and all..

So I need your advice should I wait for her to be ready to give me her body and keep on assisting her or should I just give up on the relationship cos she might actually be trying to scam me or something?

You probably give her so soo much attention. Free her and she will come after you.

By the way, are you are parents? If she wants benefits, then it should be both ways shikena.

Havesomesense:


Mumu

Gbam. The babe is milking him using the advantage that he is asking for sex,but most likely she would dump him after sucking him dry like a succubus.

The op is also in need she should give him too... Girls always feels they need help more.. lol.

kingPhidel:
Not every relationship you enter you go ask for sex o. Give freely without expecting sex, it will come naturally. Beside is it a crime to help the needy ?

Onyiiobi7735:

Exactly bro.
Two months is too short to start demanding sex in the relationship that's if it is a serious committed one that will lead somewhere.
Except the relationship is one based on physical desires gratification for both parties.

You are funny?

Why are Nigerian girls like this . you'll spend on them tire but they'll not give you even a peck on the chick. But na one useless broke guy go dey smash am back to back. kai God bless your boy with money make I try marry oyinbo

Daceline:





Stop all further spending on her immediately. Don't even send 100 naira recharge card any more. When she asks why, tell her you just invested heavily in a business and can barely feed. She will go by herself. Further spending on her will tell her you're a simp because some people are having sex with her without spending 1 Naira. Go spend small on your mama this period. Wise up o

True talk. People should learn to apply wisdom in all they do these days.
Women are manipulative in nature and when they discover your weakness is sex,they will utilize it to their fullest advantage to finish you.
Ask Samson and Delilah.

InTheCloudySky:

You can be serious with her without sex. Or since when is sex used to gauge seriousness in a relationship?

the only time you ladies take a relationship serious is when sex occurs, This is a true fact.

Deborah98:
So na because of sex keep you for that relationship and because of material gain made her stay. She's obviously manipulating you into thinking she's with you,the moment she's satisfied from ripping you off your money na den your eyes go clear. Well I'm not a party to sex before marriage but I'll advice you as a good friend, if you guys aren't in the same page please let her go. Don't be coerced or manipulated to do things for her simply because you wanna take advantage of her based on the help. It's okay to help but don't be used.

Three gbosa for you

NoToPile:
Sex sex sex

Nawa ooo

Mtcheww

Nnam you are not alone.
That's what our youths are only good at,when Chinese youths,South African youths,European youths are engaging in innovative and creative activities to better their nations.
Sex is what gives Naija youths sleepless nights.
Do I blame Bubu for calling us Lazy?

aimmoney9:
People sex the same day they meet you are here talking about 2 whole months you can wait for a year mine is same week no time....

That's what naija youths are good at. Sex,sex sex,but our fellow youths in China,US,Mexico, Japan,South Africa are designing,creating things to uplift their nations.
An average Nigerian youth's problem is sex.
China didn't develop into a superpower through sex. South Africa didn't became Africa's most industrialized nation through sex.
In twenty years time,Nigeria can never get up to South Africa's level.