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Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by kandiikane(m): 12:40pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
All these chics here playing ajebo sef. If you meet them in person and you are well to do they will encroach you faster than Bolt can finish 100 meters, They are all weak just like most guys are, nothing like playing hard to get. I will chop your money wella and then on to the next one. . . |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by pharrell14: 12:47pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
people are different. there are naija girls in UK who don't ask you for anything, in some cases they will be spending for you . I noticed people have a misconception that white girls don't like money. Forget, some white girls will chop all your money to the extent that she will only leave bus pass money for you. just saying people are different. it is not a nigerian thing. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by chmod777: 12:48pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
when it comes to getting a woman, u first identify what u want yourself , the environment (place). these determine how to approach it. If u want to get a lady to play around with, first u must take a rough evaluation to know whcich lady the fits into such If u want a relationship (truly), then ur approach and swag must speak such. I leave in Sweden but let us forget the Europe factors and system cos it is totally different., For naija ladies just apply power play principles 1. reflect some respect in ur looks , speech and attribute 2. have some security (money). every one needs feel secure. U must not be super rich 3. Show some friendly, simple but YET CLASSY way of relating with ladies u meet 4. Do not rush into knowing the ladies but put up a friendly attribute 5. show some respect and value for them(u can feign this if u like) 6. Be bold (everyone admires the bold including men, it creates an aura of power around u and makes u seem larger than u are), but do not be braggart or smug about issues 7. pretend not to be interested in the lady yet try to first say high and leave more (HI) to be desired I am sure u would not need to TOAST any woman. I must confess I do not know when last I started telling a woman trash(toast). Once u become friends , it starts like a movie most times faster than u could imagine. BUT EU is a different thing, disprove me ladies |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by Princek12(m): 1:31pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
Maybe the poster means that Nigerian girls play hard to get because of the initial shakara and yanga they normally when a guy approaches them. Fine, Naija girls will open their legs ayakata within a heart's beat when they know you are a rich guy, but the problem with Naija girls is that when you are a stranger they normally play shakara and yanga. But when they know your levels, they are dirt cheap like a recharge card or a bottle of Guinness. Most of Naija girls' problem is their attitude towards strangers who have not flashed any money--all the shakara and forming. That stranger may be rich as hell, too, and have his poo together. But when you flash that money, chei, see as Naija chikalas will start chasing after you like police and thief. 1 Like |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 1:31pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
@Russianlane: Are you sure of that? When I finally scored the goals, the feeling was like: "She nkan ti mo nshe wahala nitori e re?" Meaning: And because of this I have gone through all these troubles? So in my case, when I did the deed, I moved to the next. So it really did not make me appreciate her at all. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by 190smh: 1:35pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
toyemz: POINT OF CORRECTION I DONT DO NIGERIAN GIRLS - DUH! WHAT HAPPENED WAS TO A FRIEND AND THE GIRL IN QUESTION WAS LATER RUSHED TO THE HOSPITAL FOR COLD RELATED INFECTION NIGERIAN GIRLS ARE SO FAUTLESSLY STINGY TO A FAULT THAT ALL THEY NEED IS A MAN TO COME AND SPEND FOR THEM WHILE THEY FOLD THEIR HANDS AND WATCH TOYMEZ - I HOPE YOU READ BOUT A DUDE WANTING TO BUY BB TORCH FOR HIS GF WHILE HE CANT PAY HIS TUITON FEES IN THE US OF A THATS A TYPICAL NIGERIAN GIRL FOR YOU |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by sleekch1c(f): 1:37pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
190smh:OH SHUT UP THAT CESSPIT WHAT IS THE BEST THAT YOU HAVE EVER DONE FOR A WOMAN U DATED? HOW MUCH WAS IT THAT U SPENT ON THAT VILLAGE CHIC THAT YOU WERE DATING WHILE IN NIGERIA? HOW MUCH DOES YOUR OBESE BRITISH SORRY,JAMAICAN GF GIVE U THAT WILL MAKE U COME HERE AND SPEW TRASH? AND WHAT IN HEAVEN'S NAME DO U HAVE TO OFFER ANY WOMAN?ONE ADVICE FOR U MASTER GIGOLO,STOP YAKKING CRAP ABOUT NIGERIAN WOMEN JUST TO JUSTIFY THE FACT THAT U PREFER WOMEN THAT U CAN LEECH ON, JUST BECAUSE UR 9JA GF WNT LET U BORROW FROM HER DOESNT MAKE HER EVIL KEEP LICKING WHITE BOOTS AND WHILE U RE AT IT,STOP SHOWING UR YELLOW TEETH HERE @OP,go and step up ur game.its isnt the girls' fault,its u |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 1:38pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
Princek12: Omoba, ori e pe! Exactly what I meant. The moderator modified my question actually. If the original statement had not be so starkly modified, my message would probably have been clearer. The moderator may have done that to avoid trouble, because I was particular about the Yorubas' female yabbing attitude especially. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by sleekch1c(f): 1:43pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
okooyinbo:you moved to the next?very smart indeed, am sure ur mother is proud of u.ppl like u are the reason why HIV will never be eradicated soon u will come back here and ask us why girls are cheap, anu mpama |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 1:47pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
sleekch1c: If I want to have your first lady, I know the trick I can employ to get her. I do not like pursuing these young spoilt college girls. They are too young for me. I would really be ashamed to go out with a college girl, because she would look like my daughter now. LOL! Na "big" fish me I dey catch now jare. Ehm abeg, when I say "big", na MATURE I mean o. I no dey ta si THICK MADAMs like Mrs Firstlady anyway sha. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by 190smh: 1:49pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
DIARY OF AN ANGRY STUPID ROTTEN INFECTED WOMAN THATS WHAT THEY ALWAYS DO THATS WHY THEY ARE ALWAYS SINGLE ANGRY AND FRUSTRATED |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 1:50pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
sleekch1c: Sleek, are you cheap? Abeg stop your aanu ponmo rant o jare. I am not a boy of yesterday! When I used to do guy guy, HIV was a non issue in Nigeria. And if I should start fornicating all over again, there are precautions one can easily take to avoid being AIDED. LOL |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by kandiikane(m): 1:53pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
190smh:Did nigerian girl take a dump on your heart? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by 190smh: 1:55pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
kandiikane: Nah - shes my wife not my GF my wife dey kampe do you need her BB pin Thank God shes not like the rest of una (minus you) |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 1:58pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
chmod777: Good points for those who need it. My appearance alone is enough to get them. Prince has really summed up what I meant to say with my orignal post. The moderator just modified somewhere along the line. I have put somethings back into that original message, but is not like I originally wrote. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by sleekch1c(f): 2:00pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
190smh:if deluding urself makes u feel better, who am i to rouse u from that stupor? okooyinbo:oh really?goodluck with it then but quit asking why 9ja women play hard to get since only the likes of u re available in high percentage |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by 190smh: 2:01pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
**spits** |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by Princek12(m): 2:04pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
okooyinbo: ose gan. Yoruba girls are insanely guilty of making shakara when a stranger approaches them, absent any flashing of money by that stranger. Yoruba girls especially feel that it is necessary to make shakara or sometimes have an attitude for no logical or justifiable reason that is comprehensible to a rational human being; I guess they feel not displaying an attitude makes them feel less of a woman (ori won ti daru). Another game that especially Yoruba girls play is beyond me. Say Kunle, who is a stranger who has not flashed any money, approaches Bisi in a neutral environment, Bisi will most likely play shakara and yanga, even though in Bisi's heart, she is attracted to Kunle and Kunle meets all the initial criteria in a partner she is seeking. Same facts above, but this time around, say Bisi's friend introduces Kunle to Bisi, and says that Kunle is a Doctor who is loaded, you will see how Bisi will now open her nyansh ayakata for Kunle to tear, and how she will want to marry Kunle within the second week of meeting him. The problem with especially Yoruba girls is that they do not have one ounce of rationality in their brain. Had they did, a girl like Bisi above will take time to talk to Kunle, even though he is a stranger who has not flashed money, and find out what he is about without the attitude, yanga, and shakara. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 2:09pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
sleekch1c: Sleek, I no cheap o. If to say I cheap, I for don marry women old enough to be my mother back in 1995 here in Germany. I was just like reminiscing on my encouters with Nigerian women, especially the Yoruba ones, who like to yab you first before they agree. If I should come around any time to talk about how cheap Nigerian women are, use TPIAH to arrest me. The girl dey very allergic to people like me in their forties, non church goer, non believing etc. LOL |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by merge(f): 2:11pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
Most Nigerian men don't fit the bill. Simple as that. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 2:17pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
merge: You could be right. However, if most Nigerian men dont fit the bill, who then pays the bill? Mind you, both male and female are all in the same messy boat called Nigeria. Could it be that the women are getting the bills paid by the few who fit? Please expansiate on your assertion. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by merge(f): 2:24pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
Most Nigerian men don't have what I'm looking for. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by coogar: 2:26pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
merge: touche. . . . |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by 190smh: 2:27pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
merge: ^You dont have what most NIGERIAN MEN are looking for |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by merge(f): 2:32pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
190smh: I don't care to have what most are looking for. I only need one man. I know for a fact most don't have what I'm looking for. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by coogar: 2:33pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
190smh: you don't know for certain. i know a lot of ugly girls with a very high standard. . . they can only date quality men but they themselves are worwor. . . . it's all about class. . . . . . |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by merge(f): 2:38pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
coogar: Its not just about class. Its more than that. Its not about standards. Most African men have a gay-got mentality. |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 2:39pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
coogar: Most Nigerian men don't have what I'm looking for. And whats that special requisite ye seek that could not be met by over 40 million men (conservative figure, could be more. It is hovever 25 % of Nigerian population and 50% of the Nigerian male population, assuming the male and female are in Nigerian equitably spread)? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 2:42pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
merge: @Merge! We are getting somewhere. Now, mind enumerating what you mean by that phrase in bold? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by coogar: 2:42pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
merge: but most nigerian men don't. matter of fact, 90% nigerian males are straight. . . majority of the dodgy ones are in northern nigeria! okooyinbo: are you sure i should have been quoted? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by okooyinbo(m): 2:46pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
coogar:Quoting you was " ein Versehen". I corrected it. Cougar, o ng wa oran iwo omo yi. Hausa/Fulani are not DODGY, as a matter of fact, they are really direct, because they live acording to the constitution of their religion, which is "higher" than the constitution of Nigeria anyway. Or are you talking about the Nupe, Igala, Tiv, Idoma, Kanuri etc. men? |
Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Like To Play Hard To Get? by merge(f): 2:48pm On Aug 26, 2011 |
coogar: They run from Africa to other Continents. Africa is blessed. What you running from? Allow other race and culture to change their culture. A Coward Mentality. |
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