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Romance / Re: Having Mixed Feelings About Him Getting This Shell Job Now Because.............. by Lacrissa: 10:14am On Sep 16, 2012 |
Come on, I asked for advice not insult |
Romance / Having Mixed Feelings About Him Getting This Shell Job Now Because.............. by Lacrissa: 9:51am On Sep 16, 2012 |
Am I crazy or what? My boyfriend and I planned to go to the UK for masters together and also know possibly further our relationships, get engaged and married this time frame. I hate long distance relationship, infact I do not want to try it again. He got an interview for Shell, which I am happy for but I now have mixed feelings, that if he gets it, he would not go again or start travelling about and I may be tempted to start another relationship close to me. He said if he gets it, he would engage me or better still continue with the job, i'm presently working with that i detest and he also said he could get a study leave next year for his masters. I don't know if I'm crazy for having mixed feelings about this or what would you advise me? |
Romance / How To Choose The Best And Right One Out Of Three(3) Very Good Men? by Lacrissa: 11:15pm On Jun 06, 2012 |
I have about three very serious and good guys that all want marriage and despite the fact I'm dating and have known one of them deeply, family, nature, character very well and I do care about him, the other guys are still good men. My question here is also for those that are married, what does one do in this case to assure no mistake is made and there would be losses in that it is only one of them I could marry. |
NYSC / Re: Marriage After NYSC: Why Do People Talk About This? by Lacrissa: 8:49pm On May 29, 2012 |
slimyem: which is most def. hypocrisy ...and a lie. You got it all wrong slimyem. I never said I didn't want to get married or don't think of marriage, as a matter of fact, I do. I am only referring to the rate at which people have asked me and has got me thinking maybe, that should be my next phase with my present job. |
NYSC / Marriage After NYSC: Why Do People Talk About This? by Lacrissa: 8:35pm On May 28, 2012 |
I am about passing out this present batch and when people ask me what next, their emphasis is always on marriage. One told me, now I'm passing out, when am I giving them invitation and another talked to me when I plan on settling down. Is that what most people do, after NYSC, plan on getting married? Not like I don't want to get married soon, of course but I was just surprised when both of them at different times after congratulating me talked about marriage being next. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: How Can You Deal With A Very Emotional Boyfriend? by Lacrissa: 3:07pm On Mar 13, 2012 |
@ Idowuogbo u r the dang f0000l @Franklinton He does love me a lot. i was only here asking because I find out even when I try to be mean to him intentionally to see if he would react, he would be overly nice so I hae learnt to accept him that way. I was only concerned that I would also appreciate and want him to not accept being taken for granted. |
Romance / Re: Many views and no repliessss so deleted :-[ by Lacrissa: 9:30pm On Mar 08, 2012 |
Mr, Cork: LOL Mr cork guess I'm gonna delete it then |
Romance / Many views and no repliessss so deleted :-[ by Lacrissa: 2:31pm On Mar 08, 2012 |
Thanks slimyem for ur reply |
Romance / Re: Ladies Can You Deal With A Very Emotional Guy? by Lacrissa: 9:00pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
tellwisdom: I reject it freecocoa: Ooop have I? Sorrryyy then topic deleted |
Romance / Ladies Can You Deal With A Very Emotional Guy? by Lacrissa: 8:22pm On Feb 26, 2012 |
You have this very good guy, kind at heart, financially stable and not bad looking but : 1) He's very emotional 2) Dress/fashion sense needs some improvement 3) Somewhat romantic He has a good body structure but I'm sure would be more confident working out and looking fit, maybe that would boost his confidence but I don't want to keep repeating it so he doesn't think I'm trying to change him. Ladies what's your take? |
Romance / How Can You Deal With A Very Emotional Boyfriend? by Lacrissa: 10:25pm On Feb 17, 2012 |
What are ways to deal with a very emotional boyfriend who loves you way more than you love him and is it really a good thing? |
Romance / Ladies Can You Marry A Very Emotional And Sensitive Guy That Is Very Good? by Lacrissa: 10:32pm On Feb 16, 2012 |
You have a very, very, very good guy who is very emotional and sensitive, is that enough to end the relationship or you would go ahead? |
Romance / Re: If Your Boyfriend Is A Bad Dresser And Doesn't Work Out But A Very Good Guy? by Lacrissa: 2:18pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
scottN: That sucks. I'm not here complaining but asking how to go about it without hurting his feelings ~Killz~: The previous was just about the distance, that's all and this, I'm not complaining but simply asking how to go about it without making him feel bad |
Romance / Re: If Your Boyfriend Is A Bad Dresser And Doesn't Work Out But A Very Good Guy? by Lacrissa: 1:55pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
~Killz~: Lol ldr bf and I have broken up since Dyt: How? |
Romance / If Your Boyfriend Is A Bad Dresser And Doesn't Work Out But A Very Good Guy? by Lacrissa: 1:41pm On Feb 09, 2012 |
Ladies what would you do? |
Romance / Re: I Am In Love With A Young Woman From Mbaise! Is It Safe? by Lacrissa: 11:13pm On Feb 07, 2012 |
[quote][/quote]How old are you? You sound so pitiably lopsided & discombobulated! Is it safe? WTF! What's the distance between Enugu and Imo state? And why is it so hard for you to go to Mbaise and make your research, or better still send someone more "matured" to go? Is it safe for a lady from Mbaise to marry a dumb guy from Enugu? Sexkillz, you used to be one of the best posters alongside Mrbrownjay and a few others but now There is absolutely nothing wrong with the question this poster has asked. I have also heard that too and people always talk about Mbaise people. Instead of insulting him or making people look like fools, try and reason and understand sometimes and offer advice if you have to. |
Romance / Re: How Many Times Have You Had Ur Heart Truly Broken Before Finding The One? by Lacrissa: 9:59am On Jan 19, 2012 |
freecocoa: Well it's both sides, a relief but I'm also hurt. And as for the one, I mean, husband/wife. sexkillz: I'm not inferring it's a must but it's nature. You would naturally feel hurt/broken or is there any remedy/solution you have not to? |
Romance / Re: How Many Times Have You Had Ur Heart Truly Broken Before Finding The One? by Lacrissa: 9:56am On Jan 19, 2012 |
claremont: I agree with you but he was the one who insisted on it since I was going to come back after a year. I wanted to end it initially but he kept insisting and then few months, he chose to walk the path of common sense? I see |
Romance / Re: How Many Times Have You Had Ur Heart Truly Broken Before Finding The One? by Lacrissa: 9:51am On Jan 19, 2012 |
sexkillz: Then I guess it meant they NEVER LOVED genuinely. r231: And you are still breathing? bekay911: Are you or have you been in relationship(s)? Dyt: Yeah finally though it hurts but it will be fine, I believe. |
Romance / How Many Times Have You Had Ur Heart Truly Broken Before Finding The One? by Lacrissa: 9:26am On Jan 19, 2012 |
I have just broken up with my long distance boyfriend. I guess he wasn't too strong enough to deal with the distance as I have been dealing with it especially since we agreed on a year but the bottom line is I genuinely give love and still end up getting heartbroken. Not like there are no guys at all but I try to be very careful by selecting the good ones. My question here for those that have finally seen the one, as in engaged/getting married, how many times did you get your heart TRULY broken before finally finding the final one? |
Romance / Re: Advice Needed! by Lacrissa: 10:42am On Jan 11, 2012 |
jay bee: Why now? it's a serious question. |
Romance / Advice Needed! by Lacrissa: 10:37am On Jan 11, 2012 |
There is this guy I met and told him about my distant relationship and all but he still agreed to date me that he really likes me and then asked me to be his girl. I felt it was too fast but agreed because he is really a good guy. On my bb display pic, I had put a picture of myself in a flowy dress above my knee and my legs were showing not all the way to the top, innocently and then he sent me a message that there are some pictures to be shown between lovers and the outside world. If I was really dating him and would someday be his wife, this is not the kind of pic to display that it would attract boys. He now said maybe we should just date since he feels he doesn't know me too well because of the picture. I told my friends who said he was right and I should do all not to lose him so nairalanders, am i in the wrong here and what can I do. Thanks |
Romance / I Feel Evil And Bad In This Particular Matter by Lacrissa: 1:22am On Jan 08, 2012 |
Please I seriously seek opinions and advice in this particular matter. Aside having a relationship far/near and even those that are very serious and want commitment, why do I find it out to help my friends get men of their own. For example, I have a lot of men in my life, not men as in random men but those that want commitment, maybe three of them even though they know of my long distance, yet when friends I have that are single tell me to hook them up, I always pretend like I would but would never do so. There is an atom of jealousy, that the guy I would give them would be better than mine. A friend of mine was telling me how a guy that was trying to woo me but I was talking to others asked her out and she is already in love, instead of me to be happy, I started feeling jealous even though I have others. I kept telling myself it's bad, you cannot have them all to yourself. Please how do I get to stop this negative feeling? I know it's not good. |
Family / How Do You Deal With Very Annoying Parent(s)? by Lacrissa: 10:53pm On Jan 03, 2012 |
How does one deal with annoying parents or rather an annoying parent especially the mum? They say honor your father and mother so you live long but how do you do it when this is beyond correction or wanting the best but rather it is done in a way where there is comparison, always being brought down, false accusations and lack of appreciation almost everyday even when you try to avoid them or change for the better. How would you deal with these? |
Romance / Re: My Situation Seems So Complicated And I'm Feeling Helpless by Lacrissa: 11:24pm On Dec 19, 2011 |
Cuddlemii: I'm still on the same level only because of the distance at the moment. And then I cannot keep rejecting the good guys I've seen so far all because I'm trying to depend on my ldr bf, that's why it seems complicated. I want to or I'm actually focusing on me but I also know time waits for no one so now they are coming and rushing for me, don't want to make the mistake of shutting the door |
Romance / My Situation Seems So Complicated And I'm Feeling Helpless by Lacrissa: 11:02pm On Dec 19, 2011 |
I know I am somewhat young but I do have friends that already have stable relationships. I'm dealing with my long distance relationship in which he is indeed a good guy and focused but I have also come across other guys here, though I've been able to pick about 2 I've gotten to know (don't want to put all my eggs in one basket before I get disappointed) and they seem so far like very good men. How can one be able to choose the right one to settle with if they are all good and you seem to like them all? |
Romance / Re: How Can You Differentiate B/t A Stingy Boyfriend & One That Simply Doesn't Have by Lacrissa: 8:41am On Dec 04, 2011 |
iice: The reason why I am asking is that my long distance boyfriend who I'm beginning to lose feelings for is working two (2) jobs but still saying the money has not started coming in well, that he is struggling, that's why he even got a second job and that is the reason why he has not been able to spoil me or give me nice things which he wishes he would be doing. I'm not complaining but every now and then I think about it, 2 jobs and yet, you don't have enough money to even at least send me a small gift or what? I don;t want to believe he is stingy, that's why I'm trying to differentiate as soon as possible. |
Romance / How Can You Differentiate B/t A Stingy Boyfriend & One That Simply Doesn't Have by Lacrissa: 8:17pm On Dec 03, 2011 |
If I have for example 1000 naira and you as my lover needs like 200, just because I don't really have a lot, it would stop me from giving like 150 @ least so my question is how can you really differentiate between a boyfriend that is just plain stingy and one that perhaps does not really have money to give to you at times? |
Romance / Re: I'm Feeling Bad That I'm Losing Feelings Daily For My Long Distance Boyfriend by Lacrissa: 3:25pm On Dec 02, 2011 |
Dyt: No word for u jay bee: Are you abroad too at the moment? |
Romance / I'm Feeling Bad That I'm Losing Feelings Daily For My Long Distance Boyfriend by Lacrissa: 2:53pm On Dec 02, 2011 |
It's been more than 6 months and he is still showing me love over the phone, skype etc but I'm beginning to lose feelings and sometimes feel like just ending the relationship and start a new one but my fear of not finding another or a good one keeps me in. I don't know if this is bad I'm feeling this way. |
Romance / Re: Ladies How Patient Can You Be In This Instance? by Lacrissa: 4:04pm On Nov 26, 2011 |
sexkillz: Yawns go and sleep abeg You know what is funny, people like you that come on the internet portraying mr perfect and all that, in reality most times, you have the worst type of relationship or not really who you are. |
Romance / Re: Ladies How Patient Can You Be In This Instance? by Lacrissa: 3:15pm On Nov 26, 2011 |
claremont: It all depends but this instance being talked about here is you dating the person for quite a while and then circumstance arises and one of you has to move far away. |
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