Yhemit: Anyebook# n teddy # nah texting since moday she no pick my calls at all........what do u think I shd do again........M don tayd of texting a girl as if am testn a ghost.

Ease off for a while..free her for 3-5days...
Den call..her..am sure she is gona pick.

ifex370: in a hurry cos i'm running outta topics ooo... now,i'm js copying Nairaland stories for her... she even likes dem sef buh i know what to do... i leave for like a week n popup b4 xmas...let her miss me small... den strike @ new year ....


















thats the GAME PLAN

Nice...set up a date so u guys can meet up. U need to strike wen she is attracted.

ifex370: op... its cheese balls ooo... its time for me to ask her out ooo... xmas dn dey reach... we don rapport tire...gimme pick up lines to ask her out... tho we ve'nt met yet... d'u advice i shld chill or sth... its been 1week since we started communicating officially...

I wil advice u don't rush it..but..let her know its been fun geting to know n her n stuff, and dat it wud be cool to meet up wit her sometime. Den listen to her reply..and know wen she is gona be free. Don't fix a day in ur initial request.

Yhemit: Xup bro.......I want to ask abt some,I jam a girl for my area in wch we talk n greet each well that particular day.also askd for her 2go acct and she gv it to me.the journey started few months ago,in wch we chat n discuss like really close fwd..toq I neva open to her that I loved her thru all our discussion(months) I even askd for her number in wch she still gv me without no problem or begging at all.....she is some how free n open to me those period ...in wch i also call her some times just to say HI (friendzone tnz) and ask abt her day,but she like asking me to gist he or bring up topics for us to (both) discuss abt,in wch am not good for that area.....but she tell me almost everytn abt herslef to me ....so I always hide for her on 2go,in wch I may ask her to meet me online ard 10'o'clock and I will not be online.....Nutshell she did sometime that pain me by giving her fwd her fone to fellow me talk,wch she disguise as if am talking to her on fone that day,so I suspend my everyday call for like 2weeks nowto now make things worse she as already blocked me on her blocked me her 2go acct ,she did't picks my call again..........am only sending text msg,shd I continue . Toq I lv her bt don't wnt to jump by opening up to her,bc nah gentle (not forget dt am a shy dude my heart always beat like clock) guy I dey do for my side...........NEED HELP

The whole stuffs still boils down to u. Getting up topics or tins to talk wit girls it easy..as far as u make dem d main topic. Just pick up stuffs and little hints from what dey r saying and use It to frame ur next conversation. Its not dat hard.

U were doin well.but the girl later got bored. Dats y she acted like dat.

U will need to try lots of approaches and chats to boost ur confidence and conversation skills.

olatunji21: Gud day bro...
dere is dis grl & I..we had issues sometime dis Year and dere waz brk in communication for abt 5mnth...bt we met on whatsapp lately, i ignored her @ first bt she later greeted na so we start to dy chat wella..and i notice she's changed a lot...so d koko b say i dn dy fall in love wit her bk bt dnt knw aw to tell her...
fanks in advance

. Don't tell her yet. U shud only tell her u love her wen both of u are in a mutual relationship. Just relax and try keeping up to her wit calls, teasing, and oda attraction signals..tell her ow it wud be cool to go on a date wit her,then den set up.a date..and meet wit her real.. One - on - one. Just act like her bf.

xxxtedyxxx:

Thanx for d support..I appreciate... And nice sense of humour too.

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Av bin a gud chicker 2 sha....in help pipz solving dere probs.. Bou find a lil difficulty doin dat 2 mine..
Hv got dis Gf.....love her much..
Shez dis kinna person dat dnt like chatin..wen we met @1st...it waznt dis way...bou sinc dis strike...she z bin actin unromantic!#lol...do onli mornin and evenin call..nd wen I complain..she tell me..datz aw she is..she dnt like chatin...en shez sayin itz cos of d strike.. Av tried evri possible way..stil..no way...no matter aw hard I try 2 bring up sumtin...na "yh yh".."Ok"...en she dei bbm 24/7 oo..stil she no go chat..I cun dei wonda oo.. Pls aw do I step up my rel and get 2 make her always chat wit me........#mehn d babe case taya mi oo#..pls help me abeg!........thnx.....en kip up d ud work down here!...kudos!

kilo234: oga teddy, getting a girl to invest is one of my major problems i knw u av talked about how to solve dat but i would appreciate if u could list things to do and things not to do to get a girl to invest. thanks alot

Ok

#i talked abt dat investment stuff on page 12. you need to know dat, once a girl is behaving well and keeping up wit u, u shud reward her efforts, compliment her and keep up wit her too, if she is not behaving well or snubbing u, den u shud reduce ur efforts too.

Gift a girl a gif of missing u is anoda tin dat can make her invest more. After aving a gud time wit her, bone her for a while, den resume convo, u will notice ow happy she will be, if she calls or checks on u during dat space of time, and tells u she misses u, u can tell her too,..or just tease her some more .

#hey..are u sure u missed me, or missed dat ur sugar daddy...#said in a joking manner

Sth like dt spikes up her up.


You can also used minor commands to make her invest..."Ok..call me later dear" "tell me one of the tins u av never told anyone or sth no one knows abt u" "wake me up wit a morning text babe"...and stuffs like dat.



#dats y its import to call a girl baby,babe..weda u r dating her or not. It keeps u out of d friend zone.

I miss u sweets,...sup wit u today"

U look so sweet babe..in dat pics"



Stuffs like dat

Baba Prof Ted!...chooi....ur teachin dei work die oo...
I used it last nite 2 chik 1 babe 4 my area...I b 1 kin bad boi sha...d tin work die.. We got 2 talk yestadae I den texted her en call again yestadae...b4 goin 2 bed!....bros... I nid get dis babe ASAP.....aw do I step up d game!....called e texted her dis mornin tho sha..I nid 2 step her up...en get her quickly.!..
I salute u o!..my senior prof!

Joshcripsy: Op there's dis girl am chyking and she's giving me tough tym... right nw its lyk she don't give a damn abt me...she doesn't pick my calls or reply my text...nd to me she's lyk a trophy I hv to win to move to a next stage...I've tried all I can bt it seems she's nt moved,I've even ignored her for 2 mths still nutin... Wat shuld I do...I so confused right nw.

Oga teddy am still waiting to hear frm u...I need it badly

Joshcripsy:
Oga teddy am still waiting to hear frm u...I need it badly

Wow...u r pushing to hard on her. Dats y..she is acting like dat. Stop calling n texting her. No girl is a prize dat u av to win like u said. Wen u act like dis. U belittle ur sef and make the girl higher dan u.

Here is what u need to do, u av to first of all..free her for a while now..and game/toast oda girls.

its obvious she is forming or sth...so u don't need to be pushing her hard.

Ignore her for a while. There r so many hot girls ow there,if u r goin wit dis mentality..and dis girl keeps treating u like dis..it won't help u in d long run.

And not saying u shud free her. But u shudnt let her be the one in control.

Reduce the rate of ur calls and texts.

U can send" hi..ignoring ma calls and txts aint d best tin, I just tot u were worth all d efforts."

Or

U can preselect ur sef..and let her know she aint d only girl in ur life.

I once had a girl like dat, she was forming n blah blah..I dated 3 oda chicks, had gud n nice dates wit dem, posted d pictures on fbook and she saw dem, she was like..."Ehen, so u av fashi my side now".

Dts d scope. Just play it cool and don't be dependent on d babe.

I will be posting some important stuffs soon, if there is any questions so far, u can ask.

xxxtedyxxx: I will be posting some important stuffs soon, if there is any questions so far, u can ask.

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Oga ted..OP u ve nt given me answers o..I reali nid help...2 keep up my rel....abeg!

xxxtedyxxx: I will be posting some important stuffs soon, if there is any questions so far, u can ask.

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Oga ted..OP u ve nt given me answers o..I reali nid help...2 keep up my rel....abeg!

xxxtedyxxx: I will be posting some important stuffs soon, if there is any questions so far, u can ask.

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Oga ted..OP u ve nt given me answers o..I reali nid help...2 keep up my rel....abeg!

Hey Teddy..! I sugest u list the tip stage by stage so dat we can knw the next stage to leap to after finished one stage wen u are chating wit a babe for the first tym..!

Op please I need help with the attraction and closing part.. E no easy here for abj where all the girls just dey front.. Money talks.. N meeting n getting contacts too easy.. Na this attraction n closing be the koko o!! So how do we attract and close with the 10/10 fronting babes wey dey give one word or no answer replies ??!!!
E dey frustrate me ooo

xxxtedyxxx: For those who myt av questions concerning investment.

It is not enuf to call a girl ur gf..or enuf for a girl to be attracted to you. She must become invested in the interaction. Asin..she must be doing some work too..no be only u go dey do work.dats what am saying

Once a babe is invested, she calling u, sending u cash, credit, n***d pics**, caring abt u, telling u more abt her sef, opening up to u..she will be forced to get a return on dat investment.


Sex is the greatest investment.

Y do u think after s****xin a girl she suddenly becomes loyal to u?...investment bro.

I used to be ignorant of dis concept..chai..I suffer tire.


The more she is invested, the more she is likely to get sexual wit u...or be involved in a relationship wit u.

Y do u think guys lament after months or even years of dating a babe and d babe finally leave dem..?..bro.na d guy invest pass dats y.


Always check on ur investment level wit any babe u r involved with..even if its just normal chatting. Investment sef dey inside bro.

Here r some forms of investment..

Emotional investment... She is always attracted to u, or she feels happy wen she sees u or hears from u.

Physical investment. Kissing is a form of physical investment..I hope u guys can name d rest sha...heheh..physical tins..una grab

Time investment- time is a form of investment too. More time she spends wit u, the more times she chats wit u, gets her invested... If a girl is seeing a guy with bf potential 4times a week..in her head..dat guy is automatically her bf.

Energy investment..what energy is she putting on the relationship?..is she serious wit u?...is she calling, asking u y u didn't call?...


Dats all friends.. Dats investment.. And its very Important.


Wen she is investing, u shud invest too..don't just sit back.


#cheers

Seriosli...my relationshp..I invest more..she hardli chat up with me..evn on bbm..claims..she dun like chating.. Monetarili...I no evn dei complain..
All I wnt 4rm her..is her investment in communication..en time..she claims she alwais busy...bou am d 1 hu z so busy..stil I spare out tym...I av complained bro...am tayad..
Op ted!...pls help me...
I seriosli love dis gal....HELP a broda plsssss.....
#no ignore dis 1 oo OP make I no vex 4 u oo#..tanx

Na since morning I don dey read this thread and d comments.... Abeg na only dis rapport I no understand wella!!! Maybe u shld jst do as drlUV abi mrLUV says..... Abt posting dis shit stage by stage!! Its jst damn useful
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@teddy#thumpsup

Mrluv: Hey Teddy..! I sugest u list the tip stage by stage so dat we can knw the next stage to leap to after finished one stage wen u are chating wit a babe for the first tym..!

Ok...this is how the process is. In any convo or interaction u r doing, its important to av an endpoint or outcome..asin..what you are aiming at. Without this in mind, we tend to make mistakes. Over the years, I have noticed that whenever am talking to girls, or gaming without a difinite achieveable goal in mind, I always Flop. Whether your end point is getting her nbr, getting her turned on, avin s***x with her...etc..just an outcome.

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After knowing ur outcome, u can den focus on the processes or tins dat u will do , dat will take u to ur Promise Land.

To cut to the chase:

Stage 1 > Stage 2 > Stage 3

Stage one is like ur intro, my favourite line ever dat I use all d time "hi there, I av seen u a few times, but we avent met, I am teddy, and u?..." Den I take tins from there.

Make first contact or intro, @ dis stage, cud be anytin. Just to get d attention. The basic aim of the stage is to get u guys talking. It cud be a girl u have known before, someone on ur bbm, whatsapp etc. It cud be starting a chat, buzzing her, just anytin.

Once the convo or chat starts, u can den spike her attraction..using teasing,giving her a nick name... And stuff.

Assuming its a chick u r meeting for the first time, don't ask for her name, there is a stage for dat, don't tell her ur name too...u can easily step into dat stage..wit a simple word.


U can also show bf potential..@ this stage...
U can start a chat wit,

"hi babe,ow ya doing today"

"hi babe, u look great in ur profile pics..what hair style is dat"

Its important u relax, and make sure u r enjoying ur sef.

Forget abt rejection, its part of d game, d same way getting a red card is part of football.

Switch to stage 2....with...." So what's ur name babe"

Dats assuming its smone u r meeting for d first time.

Stage 2

This stage is basically abt Rapport. I always spend enuf time here. In short..if u can do a gud job here, the third stage will be easy.

Rapport is just abt both of u knowing each oda. Notice I said each oda. Not only her. That's important so she doesn't tell u "y.r u asking me all dese questions". A girl will ask u dat question if she feels as if u r interviewing her. No girl wants to just drop stufs abt hersef easily like that.

So stage is Rapport.

"Nice name..so where u from...am tinking u wud be a calabar chick"..smiles

Ofcus u know she aint calabar, dts just to spread d rang of ur convo, to prepare ursef to av stufs to talk abt.

She will tell u she aint calabar, jokes n laf, den she tells u where she is from, ..

"Oh, cool,interesting, u are an isoko chick..well..am delta ibo...hmm..isoko girls..am thinking ur gona av a funny native name..

Oya..tell..me..Oghene..what" lol


She will definitely laf,tease u..or sth, den tell u her native name, u tell her urs...

Pls Note. Am assuming Bothe scenarios. One-On-One convo and online chat convo...the same Logic works for all instances...even if na spiritual convo.lol.don't mind me.

From..names..u can switch to cooking, favrt food,...den bounce to her family...school gist, funny moments in her life., most embarassing day,her favrt color...all these r rapport stuffs, and dey r mainly for stage 2. Don't forget too act and show romantic potentials,

Note. This stage Is just to make her free and open wit u. Sometimes dis stage can be short, maybe u met d babe on the road, bus, molue,party.anywhere @ all..this stage is very important.

Wen u skip this stage, and jump to stage 3..dat is y u hear tins like

"sorry I can give u my nbr"

"Sorry do I Know U?"

"Sorry I am not ready to date for now, may be later"

"Am sorry I cudnt make it, I forget abt our date"

"Sorry I can't kiss u"

The basic point is dat. No girl wants to be considered easy or cheap. Excluding ashewo girls and allen avenue road side girls..and am sure dats not d kind of girl we all wana game/marry or date. Ashewo wey don s***x like 12 guys, anoda guy sef go meet am for road, pay n xxxx her, em go begin shout say em get game. " Dats not game.

Let's continue.

Stage 3...this is d final stage.

After doing a nice job in stage 2...round it off in stage 3.

If its her nbr u want.

" U r such an interesting girl <insert her name>..I can't help but see u again smtime... Mz oghene..let me av ur nbr..#hand her ur fone"

Dts assuming mz oghene is d nickname u gave her earlier. It cud be anytin.

If its s***x make sure u r in the right environment whr dat can take place.

Its a kiss..same tin applies too.

In dis stage, u sure maturity, and reduce the humour u used in stage 2, reduce it, don't eliminate it completely, u don't wana sound too serious.

U can use future convo..." Hey..u r so sweet, I mean..there r so many tins u can do..I just can't stop thinking ow closer and deeper we wud av gotten..6months from now."

Dats to instill trust. I use dat stuff all d time.

If u r talking to her one on one.. @ dis stage ur voice shud be calm..n gentle...relax ur sef, enjoy d time wit her. Everytin u r gona be saying she be abt her. No flattery pls.

A girl will tell u " stop flattery me jhor" if she feels d compliments u r giving her..she doesn't deserve it too early, #pls don't ever forget dat.

If u av done a good job in stage 2..combined wit all d teasing, humour, and bf potential stuff, if u eventually tell her in stage 3..dat

"" wow..u r even cuter dan I tot, I love it wen u smile..pls smile again"....wen she smiles..."Ohh.baby..just like dat..."


She will complimently appreciate it, y becos, she now knows she deserves it.


So dats just abt d 3 stages...u can bounce up n down, between d stages, but don't forget stage 2.



#enjoy friends

boi_xplicit:
Seriosli...my relationshp..I invest more..she hardli chat up with me..evn on bbm..claims..she dun like chating.. Monetarili...I no evn dei complain..
All I wnt 4rm her..is her investment in communication..en time..she claims she alwais busy...bou am d 1 hu z so busy..stil I spare out tym...I av complained bro...am tayad..
Op ted!...pls help me...
I seriosli love dis gal....HELP a broda plsssss.....
#no ignore dis 1 oo OP make I no vex 4 u oo#..tanx

Ok...if u r in a relationship with her ...and u love her, and she is acting like dis and not investing..it means sth is wrong somewhere.

So...u need to think abt the things u were doing before wen tins were ok between u guys. Av u changed?. Was there sth u stopped doing? Did u guys av a quarrel or anytin like dat?

### don't complain to her again.

Just remind her of the times wen tins where ok and everytin was fine. U cud use a message or call. U can also be dominant..but not rude.

Don't push it, get busy too, and only start a chat once in a while..Go off n On.

Since its a relationship...am assuming she said yes to u, and u guys r dating. So u guys r bonded somehow. I don't wana think she is no longer interested or sth.

Mickheal: Na since morning I don dey read this thread and d comments.... Abeg na only dis rapport I no understand wella!!! Maybe u shld jst do as drlUV abi mrLUV says..... Abt posting dis shit stage by stage!! Its jst damn useful
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@teddy#thumpsup

Thanx for stopping buy..I appreciate the comment. I just did what u asked. The stages stuff.thanx baba

Dee_Ae: Op please I need help with the attraction and closing part.. E no easy here for abj where all the girls just dey front.. Money talks.. N meeting n getting contacts too easy.. Na this attraction n closing be the koko o!! So how do we attract and close with the 10/10 fronting babes wey dey give one word or no answer replies ??!!!
E dey frustrate me ooo

Thanx for stopping By. Respect.


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Money won't do everyting. Personality and Ur Game still tops the List. Cos the best tin we can all give a girl is our personality. Yes money dey important, bt not 1OO percent important.thumbs Up.

U gain attraction with teasing,humour, ur self confidence..etc.

Closing is the x**x part. Considering u av rapport ready. U won't av problem in this stage. I av explained it..in my stages 1 stage 2 stage 3 post.

Oga tedy, I second de bill of creating a chat room/group on whatsapp. this will enable fast n efficient communications n also ensuring dat these tips doesn't get leaked by gals viewing dem

boi_xplicit: Baba Prof Ted!...chooi....ur teachin dei work die oo...
I used it last nite 2 chik 1 babe 4 my area...I b 1 kin bad boi sha...d tin work die.. We got 2 talk yestadae I den texted her en call again yestadae...b4 goin 2 bed!....bros... I nid get dis babe ASAP.....aw do I step up d game!....called e texted her dis mornin tho sha..I nid 2 step her up...en get her quickly.!..
I salute u o!..my senior prof!

Don't rush..the game. U are already doing fine. Nice Job.

Focos on u guys knowing abt each oda..den u can move ahead from there. Get to know deep tins abt her. Den move to stage 3 like I explained above.

Congrats baba

boi_xplicit: .
Av bin a gud chicker 2 sha....in help pipz solving dere probs.. Bou find a lil difficulty doin dat 2 mine..
Hv got dis Gf.....love her much..
Shez dis kinna person dat dnt like chatin..wen we met @1st...it waznt dis way...bou sinc dis strike...she z bin actin unromantic!#lol...do onli mornin and evenin call..nd wen I complain..she tell me..datz aw she is..she dnt like chatin...en shez sayin itz cos of d strike.. Av tried evri possible way..stil..no way...no matter aw hard I try 2 bring up sumtin...na "yh yh".."Ok"...en she dei bbm 24/7 oo..stil she no go chat..I cun dei wonda oo.. Pls aw do I step up my rel and get 2 make her always chat wit me........#mehn d babe case taya mi oo#..pls help me abeg!........thnx.....en kip up d ud work down here!...kudos!

Atleast she is still calling U....omo..appreciate am..an commend her efforts. Wen a girl is doing sth, u don't like and u complain abt it and she stil doesn't change, ur persistence becomes opposite to her own. Omo..make u try agree wit d babe, commend am and appreciate her efforts, u can also ginger her memory, I know u ve done dat, and she said its d strike. Do it again.. Now strike don over, and hoping she changes, dont complain abt her again as far as she still dey behave well small small

teddy...there's this gal am gamin have been using all these but the prob is...I don't she appreciate the pet names and bf potentials am showing... she had only started d conversation once others is weneva she wants to ask me questions... I even send her message... I guess she's not the fun type..what's your suggestion

xxxtedyxxx:

Don't rush..the game. U are already doing fine. Nice Job.

Focos on u guys knowing abt each oda..den u can move ahead from there. Get to know deep tins abt her. Den move to stage 3 like I explained above.

Congrats baba

Uncle Teddy I have a feeling you got tutored in the game by Doc Love of askmen. Any which way what you are sharing here are tips that are tested and trusted. Keep up the good work you are really a great guy.

xxxtedyxxx:

Atleast she is still calling U....omo..appreciate am..an commend her efforts. Wen a girl is doing sth, u don't like and u complain abt it and she stil doesn't change, ur persistence becomes opposite to her own. Omo..make u try agree wit d babe, commend am and appreciate her efforts, u can also ginger her memory, I know u ve done dat, and she said its d strike. Do it again.. Now strike don over, and hoping she changes, dont complain abt her again as far as she still dey behave well small small

Bro!...tanx a million...en dat waz my plan sha!...b like say..u b my senior colleague 4 chykin mata oo!!..I grit u baba OP!

xxxtedyxxx:

Don't rush..the game. U are already doing fine. Nice Job.

Focos on u guys knowing abt each oda..den u can move ahead from there. Get to know deep tins abt her. Den move to stage 3 like I explained above.

Congrats baba

I called her dis nyt...2 call me wen shez less busy.. She said she has no airtym...can I snd her airtym 2 call me..or mk I lata call her...nid ya advice asap....#btw we nt gottn d tym 4 much rapport sha...cos of busy schedule...nid ASAP advice bro!

GeneralShepherd:

Uncle Teddy I have a feeling you got tutored in the game by Doc Love of askmen. Any which way what you are sharing here are tips that are tested and trusted. Keep up the good work you are really a great guy.

Thanx for stopping buy. No...
I learnt from my mistakes, over d years and finding a pattern to all social interaction. I used damn shy..and I lost lots of viable opportunities cos of dat. I just woke up one day and decided to get dis part of my life fixed. I started writing notes, and making sure I remembered what worked and what didn't work.

And today am so glad I fixed dis area of ma life.

So its all abt practice

boi_xplicit:
I called her dis nyt...2 call me wen shez less busy.. She said she has no airtym...can I snd her airtym 2 call me..or mk I lata call her...nid ya advice asap....#btw we nt gottn d tym 4 much rapport sha...cos of busy schedule...nid ASAP advice bro!

Bait her wit the airtime. Send her a token tho..like 2OO. And watch.

lord_falcao: teddy...there's this gal am gamin have been using all these but the prob is...I don't she appreciate the pet names and bf potentials am showing... she had only started d conversation once others is weneva she wants to ask me questions... I even send her message... I guess she's not the fun type..what's your suggestion

Ok..
#may be she is d shy type .or sth.
Den u need to make ur sef to be like her.act relaxed, and only push d convo,once in a while.

I like like to know what stage u are wit her now....do u guys talk on fone?..or ow does she act wen she talks on fone?..is she like open to U

Hello bro nid ur help, dia is dis girl am into, and am sure she z into me. We haf gud communication wen we see physically buh not on d social media nd we hardly see physically. Aldo she always replies my chat buh she doesn't inquire further about me. She has a way of killin my moral wen chattin wit her. Our chat is just so boring. U gat tips 4 me on how to up my chat wit her and bring her to inquire more about me. She just has dis way of killin my chat. Tanks xpectin ur reply in advance bro