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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by abayo4luv: 10:22pm On Jul 20, 2015
**Xteddy**
Concerning your recent advice about a girl I said I met In my Church last year February that we've been boning each other for a while. After about 6 months of boning each other, I wish to inform you that when I adopted your tactics. After i initiated conversation with her again she felt happy. I've been applying humor and she has been reciprocating positively, a bit of flirty moves by touching was also included. But right now, I don't want to screw everything up. I don't want to appear too desperate or being aloof. We've now met twice, we only meet on Sundays Though, I've not been calling her for nw because I don't want to bombard her with too much calls because I fear that might scare her off.
In this scenario, I wish to seek your advice on how I can maintain balance while displaying my affection for her without being desperate by formatting her brain towards discovering the key to her emotions floodgates . Thanks xtedy
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by rapcy(m): 10:26pm On Jul 20, 2015
Hello Bros. I am bck again. So everything went well, untill recently 4 days ago. We was suppose to go to town for the salah brake(both of us to our family house). She wanted to leave early cause she wants to watch telemundo. I left her room to mine, so that i can dress but unfortunately i decided to check for my material that i will read during the brake. She finished preparing her stuffs walked into my room but I wasn't dressed. She got angry and started complaining that i am too lazy and she hates guys that are like that. I apologized to her and told her I was checking for somethin. To cut the story short we later left for town together but she didn't say a word to me in the car. She got to her destination 10 mins pass 5 for the pprogram which starts by 5pm to 6pm. I called her to ask if she got home safely she said yes. Since that day she has not called nor text me. I also did not call nor text her. This is the 4th day. What do you think? Should i call her or continue to shun her too. And less i forget i applied ur strategy of getting hawt girls to call me while we are together, she is sooo jealous and even warned me to stop chatting with them. Pls i need your advice. Cause i am going back to school 2mrw and so will she also. And her money is in my account cause she feels she will be spending it uselessly when its in her possession. So she will definitely have to call or come to my room.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by JhyMedex: 10:53pm On Jul 20, 2015
tr3y:

Well, PM me or drop your mail here.
Mail here bruh :Stuffyjb@yahoo.com Tanx in advance.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by blackdream: 1:44am On Jul 21, 2015
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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 5:25am On Jul 23, 2015
xxxtedyxxx:
Stage 1 2 3..is so easy to follow. Try it out. It works wella. Stage 1..meet her/introduce or open, use humour and teasing to spike the attraction, stage 2, get to know her, compliment her @ dis stage, stage 3...go for ur goal. Maybe her nbr, xxxx, etc. Flirt with her, be confident, tell her " babe I like d way u lick ur lips wen u talk...its sexy..."...she will laf, say how...or sth..den explain..." I mean d way u lick d words out of ur lips wen u talk..+ plus d way u smile..its realy cute...(Den give her a nick name)...am gona call u...lipsie...mzcute..or any oda blah blah. What u r doing is flirting, and she will love it. She knows u already..u av done stage 1 and 2. So she won't act weird. Stage 2..is where u make her free n open wif u. By asking deep stuffs about her, u can transition from family stuffs, to her most embarassing moment...etc....eg...so r u like d first born or last babe...am thinking u r d last tho..u r too cute to be a first born..(smiley.)...she will laf blah blah, den tell u, u den recap her reply, den relate it to sth else.." Oh dts nice...so u r d last born..mummy's girl..no wonder, am d first tho...how many r u guys..like 10 abi?......... If u just ask "how many ar u guys" it will get her feeling like she is being interviewd. Dts wen convos go boring n stuff.
wao its rili dà bomb. dis is first meeting abi?
can we get 1 on 1 plz?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 5:27am On Jul 23, 2015
xxxtedyxxx:
Stage 1 2 3..is so easy to follow. Try it out. It works wella. Stage 1..meet her/introduce or open, use humour and teasing to spike the attraction, stage 2, get to know her, compliment her @ dis stage, stage 3...go for ur goal. Maybe her nbr, xxxx, etc. Flirt with her, be confident, tell her " babe I like d way u lick ur lips wen u talk...its sexy..."...she will laf, say how...or sth..den explain..." I mean d way u lick d words out of ur lips wen u talk..+ plus d way u smile..its realy cute...(Den give her a nick name)...am gona call u...lipsie...mzcute..or any oda blah blah. What u r doing is flirting, and she will love it. She knows u already..u av done stage 1 and 2. So she won't act weird. Stage 2..is where u make her free n open wif u. By asking deep stuffs about her, u can transition from family stuffs, to her most embarassing moment...etc....eg...so r u like d first born or last babe...am thinking u r d last tho..u r too cute to be a first born..(smiley.)...she will laf blah blah, den tell u, u den recap her reply, den relate it to sth else.." Oh dts nice...so u r d last born..mummy's girl..no wonder, am d first tho...how many r u guys..like 10 abi?......... If u just ask "how many ar u guys" it will get her feeling like she is being interviewd. Dts wen convos go boring n stuff.
can we get 1 on 1 plz?
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 5:49am On Jul 23, 2015
xxxtedyxxx:
nice one..don't delay...organise a hookup..for u guys to meet....it should be a venue close to ur place. Tho I prefer u meet @ ur place, den u move over to d venue later, d second venue could be eatery or sth. Don't take her to eatery first or any place related. Since she is invested...tell her " hi babe, wud be cool to hangout sometime, av a good time togeda, just u and me...make sure u put on dat ur sexy black dress"...u r already dictating the path d date will follow. Anyting she is gona be drinking/eating, make sure dey r available in ur house..if its hotel game..take her to a bar, den from dere, use d above line to switch to room.
wots d above line2
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Nobody: 6:00am On Jul 23, 2015
xxxtedyxxx:
wow. U r really in a very good position to get d chicks. Some guys r even beggin n pleading to av dis kind of potential u got. Its a personality thing. Its on d inside. Ur game is tight n dey can see it. What u need is bring ur sef reality so u can pull through with dem. its all about practice and pushing ur confort zones.doing what yu can't do. Rapport is just getting to know her better, u don't need much work in stage one since d game is already on. Ur next port of call should be rapport, so she knows more about u, girls don't just fu____ck anyow guys. Some girls do tho...ashis n hoes. But dats not what we need here. Ur stage two involves..her favrt colour, favrt food, what she likes best, her most embarassing moment, what she does for fun,hobbies, what song makes her happy(den wen u guys meet, play it for her), her family background, her position in the family...etc...u grab...don't be anxious..just freestyle..stop holding ur sef back.
wont tinz be lyk interview here? coz I cum across a lot of babes at my work place.
is it proper for me to start calling girls dt cum to do financial trxn in my offiz lyk dt, bcuz of d professionalism of d environment I dunno ow to meet dem. buh dia phone numbers I av access to all da tym.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by authecosta911(m): 6:28pm On Jul 23, 2015
@op can you explain further what you meant by approaching bae from the Adjacent...
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by WHIZKIDEFE(m): 7:07pm On Jul 23, 2015
tr3y:


If you still need it, I got it.
I stil need it bro.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 9:07pm On Jul 23, 2015
WHIZKIDEFE
JhyMedex

I will upload it and provide the link here as I'm having issues with mail.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tr3y(m): 9:25pm On Jul 23, 2015
WHIZKIDEFE
JhyMedex
blackdream

Here goes

https://app.box.com/s/eoix8102rbw8l3clnrctxmv2tmlmd5x4

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by NLjona(m): 2:34am On Jul 24, 2015
xxxtedyxxx:
. Nice one bro, but u don't av to be confused, sad, or feel angry becos of a girl. I av plied dat road before, I only ended being f^ked up n desperate. First thing u need to do is...free dis babe for a while...get ur act today. U r a bit desperate, I know u want things to work out, man, dts cool...but u need to apply some new techniques.

Its gud to av pics of oda girls and u doing stuff, or even if its just d pics of girls, but u need to hide some...sometimes u need to lie to make a relationship/convo work. And don't take stuffs girls do too serious, she saw d pics, got angry n left..lol.. U could av txted her



"...lols..mummy...u didn't need to get dat angry...u know ur my nbr 1...missing u alredy sweets..will call u later.



And don't be angry to reply her texts, a girl texting u is a form of investment, feed on it bro.


I must commend u cos u av really tried, I'd like u to make dis work, go for anoda date, set it up...don't be too logical dis time, like talking tins out, and talking abt d past. Just be romantic. Show her anoda side of u. Kiss her, play, laf, don't talk about things dat has caused a drift between u guys, if she wants to, tell her, its all in d past now, and u just wana make dis relationship work, cos she ur special to me, follow up with a hug, caress, etc, anything beyond d normal...trust me...dis girl needs a FXXXXk.....asap..u don't need to be angry or confused cos of her. Just know she is urs, and act accordingly. And don't over-react or react wen she does weird stuffs, just smile n continue, it so so hard to do...but I av learnt to master it.

tnks bro... pls can you teach me skills i can also use on her to keep her nd make her stay 100 percent..like u knw wat i mean.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by NLjona(m): 2:36am On Jul 24, 2015
iwatch:
dude... Fork that girl and fork her reall good. Thank me later.

lolss..how do u mean, please tell me more
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by JhyMedex: 7:47am On Jul 24, 2015
tr3y:
WHIZKIDEFE JhyMedex blackdream
Here goes
https://app.box.com/s/eoix8102rbw8l3clnrctxmv2tmlmd5x4
Tanx bruh... Big time...
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by WHIZKIDEFE(m): 8:57am On Jul 24, 2015
tr3y:
WHIZKIDEFE
JhyMedex
blackdream

Here goes

https://app.box.com/s/eoix8102rbw8l3clnrctxmv2tmlmd5x4
thanks bro..
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Onifari(m): 8:37pm On Jul 24, 2015
Bro xxxtedy i saw one babe today, i walked up to her and we chatted, she agreed to be my friend and even gave me her number. I realy want to date the babe. Please how can i go on am make her love me?? Please i need answer.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:43am On Jul 25, 2015
eden2015:

wont tinz be lyk interview here? coz I cum across a lot of babes at my work place.
is it proper for me to start calling girls dt cum to do financial trxn in my offiz lyk dt, bcuz of d professionalism of d environment I dunno ow to meet dem. buh dia phone numbers I av access to all da tym.
. Things won't be like interview because u r also involved in the convo. She let's u in, u let her in too. Its a two-prong conversation, if for example. U ask abt if she is d lastborn n stuff, wen she tells u, u don't just jump to d next question..u rephrase what she said, den tell her about ur own position in the family too..before switching to sth else. That way she won't act like she is been interviewed.

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 11:58am On Jul 25, 2015
Onifari:
Bro xxxtedy i saw one babe today, i walked up to her and we chatted, she agreed to be my friend and even gave me her number. I realy want to date the babe. Please how can i go on am make her love me?? Please i need answer.
nice one. But don't be desperate. Don't rush from friendship to dating too fast. It will only make u appear the same way as every other guy that has approached her. U need to spike attraction n make her invest. Its all in pages 5-12
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:02pm On Jul 25, 2015
rapcy:
Hello Bros. I am bck again. So everything went well, untill recently 4 days ago. We was suppose to go to town for the salah brake(both of us to our family house). She wanted to leave early cause she wants to watch telemundo. I left her room to mine, so that i can dress but unfortunately i decided to check for my material that i will read during the brake. She finished preparing her stuffs walked into my room but I wasn't dressed. She got angry and started complaining that i am too lazy and she hates guys that are like that. I apologized to her and told her I was checking for somethin. To cut the story short we later left for town together but she didn't say a word to me in the car. She got to her destination 10 mins pass 5 for the pprogram which starts by 5pm to 6pm. I called her to ask if she got home safely she said yes. Since that day she has not called nor text me. I also did not call nor text her. This is the 4th day. What do you think? Should i call her or continue to shun her too. And less i forget i applied ur strategy of getting hawt girls to call me while we are together, she is sooo jealous and even warned me to stop chatting with them. Pls i need your advice. Cause i am going back to school 2mrw and so will she also. And her money is in my account cause she feels she will be spending it uselessly when its in her possession. So she will definitely have to call or come to my room.
. Keep doing what u r doing. Hope this is not late tho. Don't worry abt her much, wen u game oda girls, ur desperation for her won't be much. Just be relaxed. When she comes arnd..game her, act different, tell her she looks sexy n all dat, comment her outfit or sth. U just need to start being different, and not wanting her much if u wana b,,,ng her.
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by tomzee2(f): 12:09pm On Jul 25, 2015
xxxtedyxxx:
. Keep doing what u r doing. Hope this is not late tho. Don't worry abt her much, wen u game oda girls, ur desperation for her won't be much. Just be relaxed. When she comes arnd..game her, act different, tell her she looks sexy n all dat, comment her outfit or sth. U just need to start being different, and not wanting her much if u wana b,,,ng her.
bros tombs up I like what u re doing here even doh me no dey post my problem here I use others own to learn, tuwale for you
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by NLjona(m): 12:10pm On Jul 25, 2015
xxxtedyxxx:
. Nice one bro, but u don't av to be confused, sad, or feel angry becos of a girl. I av plied dat road before, I only ended being f^ked up n desperate. First thing u need to do is...free dis babe for a while...get ur act today. U r a bit desperate, I know u want things to work out, man, dts cool...but u need to apply some new techniques.

Its gud to av pics of oda girls and u doing stuff, or even if its just d pics of girls, but u need to hide some...sometimes u need to lie to make a relationship/convo work. And don't take stuffs girls do too serious, she saw d pics, got angry n left..lol.. U could av txted her



"...lols..mummy...u didn't need to get dat angry...u know ur my nbr 1...missing u alredy sweets..will call u later.



And don't be angry to reply her texts, a girl texting u is a form of investment, feed on it bro.


I must commend u cos u av really tried, I'd like u to make dis work, go for anoda date, set it up...don't be too logical dis time, like talking tins out, and talking abt d past. Just be romantic. Show her anoda side of u. Kiss her, play, laf, don't talk about things dat has caused a drift between u guys, if she wants to, tell her, its all in d past now, and u just wana make dis relationship work, cos she ur special to me, follow up with a hug, caress, etc, anything beyond d normal...trust me...dis girl needs a FXXXXk.....asap..u don't need to be angry or confused cos of her. Just know she is urs, and act accordingly. And don't over-react or react wen she does weird stuffs, just smile n continue, it so so hard to do...but I av learnt to master it.

but ive tried calling her severally she no dey pick.... what should i do? i also tried goin to her place last week when she told me shes sick..buh she said i shldnt come dah she ll b fine
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:22pm On Jul 25, 2015
tomzee2:
bros tombs up I like what u re doing here even doh me no dey post my problem here I use others own to learn, tuwale for you
. Thanx bro...
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by xxxtedyxxx(m): 12:26pm On Jul 25, 2015
NLjona:


but ive tried calling her severally she no dey pick.... what should i do? i also tried goin to her place last week when she told me shes sick..buh she said i shldnt come dah she ll b fine
stop calling her. U r being desperate about d whole matter. Calm down. If u continue like dis u will only end up being a disturbance to her. If she is not picking ur call..don't call her again. Focus on oda girls u av. And come bk to her later. If she is d same way..free her bro. Some girls aint worth d sweat. U can't kill ur sef man. Girls yapa

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Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by NLjona(m): 12:45pm On Jul 25, 2015
xxxtedyxxx:
stop calling her. U r being desperate about d whole matter. Calm down. If u continue like dis u will only end up being a disturbance to her. If she is not picking ur call..don't call her again. Focus on oda girls u av. And come bk to her later. If she is d same way..free her bro. Some girls aint worth d sweat. U can't kill ur sef man. Girls yapa

true talk bro...... thanks alot....ive promised myself tthat ill never enter any long distance relationship agggggaaaaiiinnnn
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by abayo4luv: 1:41pm On Jul 25, 2015
**Xteddy** Concerning your recent advice about a girl I said I met In my Church last year February that we've been boning each other for a while. After about 6 months of boning each other, I wish to inform you that when I adopted your tactics. After i initiated conversation with her again she felt happy. I've been applying humor and she has been reciprocating positively, a bit of flirty moves by touching was also included. But right now, I don't want to screw everything up. I don't want to appear too desperate or being aloof. We've now met twice, we only meet on Sundays Though, I've not been calling her for nw because I don't want to bombard her with too much calls because I fear that might scare her off. In this scenario, I wish to seek your advice on how I can maintain balance while displaying my affection for her without being desperate by formatting her brain towards discovering the key to her emotions floodgates . Thanks xtedy
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Sovet: 2:26pm On Jul 25, 2015
Guy need your r help how do I make a reserved girl:fall 4me;...she very wise,go 4 a date once,just on Thursday,she didn't ask me any correct question to know about me "saying she has no question " I initiated all the questions to stay d conversation:help me o...I dey die 4 her die
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Eleniyan15: 7:16pm On Jul 25, 2015
Sovet:
Guy need your r help how do I make a reserved girl:fall 4me;...she very wise,go 4 a date once,just on Thursday,she didn't ask me any correct question to know about me "saying she has no question " I initiated all the questions to stay d conversation:help me o...I dey die 4 her die
if you die I go chop yur akara
she go even cum yur candle night *winks
#loveinDaAir
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by authecosta911(m): 8:02pm On Jul 25, 2015
authecosta911:
@op can you explain further what you meant by approaching bae from the Adjacent...
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Sovet: 8:10pm On Jul 25, 2015
Eleniyan15:

if you die I go chop yur akara
she go even cum yur candle night *winks
#loveinDaAir
Guy help me
Re: Improve Your Dating Game Here.! See Inside. by Sovet: 8:11pm On Jul 25, 2015
How do u knock a reserved guy down

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